Damn Aba, throwing shade at the whole poly community based off of anecdotal experience? You’re exposure isn’t big enough, I’m a guy who is poly, the girls I’m with are really good looking, not weird teeth, or any of that shit lol. I am also good looking to be fair but there is plentyyy of hot girls in polyamory. Also the chick in this video ain’t hot at all, terrible representation of poly and a human..
🧢post pics or you lying breh Aba: MOST poly people I seen are ugly You: We’ll thats bullshit anecdotal nonsense. Most poly people I dated are hot. … anecdote vs anecdote.
I blame men. Y’all have no one to blame but yourselves for worshipping boobs and/or butts. A woman could look like Shrek in the face but if she has boobs y’all would worship her over a flat girl with a pretty face🤦🏾♀️ And before anyone calls me jealous, I’m not cause I have all that but with a pretty face so
Yoooooo i heard that insult since back in the day from my mom!!!! She has a million of those old time insults, "rode hard and put away wet" all that stuff.
When someone looks at sex as a primary source of healing, it tells me they’re full of trauma and haven’t found an effective way to cope/recover. Everyone she rejected dodged a bullet.
Her behavior is actually very telling -- she is relishing the opportunity to reject everybody because she herself has been repeatedly rejected all her life, she is actually making a statement about her life of rejection.
Anyone 30 years old and saying: “ i find a lot of healing in sex and some people find that shameful” its a walking atomic bomb of a red flag. POLY, 30, and devoid of priorities means she will be unable to have a meaningful relationship for the rest of her life.
Forget all the extra, anyone who’s poly, in their 30s, and STILL single is a walking atomic bomb of a red flag. You are open to soooo many options, yet you’re still going on an internet speed dating show to find someone?
Messed around with a girl like this once (one date, one night stand). She drove me around, paid for everything, and heavily insinuated she wanted a long term relationship. The first red flag was when we ran into some guy at a bar that she had planned a date with but had stood him up to go out with me. Poor guy looked crushed, and she just laughed at him and followed me outside where I was smoking a shame cigarette. After we did the deed she stayed up for hours swiping through dating apps right next to me in bed. She was leading dozens of guys on and saying some of the worst things to them that I'd ever seen. I asked her what she even saw in me since she was being vicious with far better men than me. Her repy? "You look dangerous." She dropped me off at my place in the morning and I immediately deleted every app she could find me on.
Sometimes I wonder how women like this don't understand that dudes have dude friends, attractive, unattractive, doesn't matter to us. You shit on one of my home boys, I'll get even for them. I usually assume that the most horrible way you treat one of my friends is possibly only half as bad as how you'd treat your man at the lowest point of a relationship.
That person's behavior sounds like a sociopath. However you shouldn't delete YOUR apps to get away from her. Either find her and block her on all of the platforms, or wait till she finds you on a platform, and if/when she messages, do not reply and immediately block her. Don't let her be a reason you can't get out there and find decent people on an app. If her s**t escalates to crazy-town, you can try to get a restraining order. Also make sure all your (trustworthy) friends know about her existience and her bad behavior, so that you're not just alone in dealing with this. Again, it is not right for one bad apple to force someone off dating apps entirely.
the way you phrased this makes it look like you're saying she rejected everyone who looked like a foot you should probably rephrase it, "The woman who looked like a foot and rejected everyone deserves to remain single"
and she had the nerve to ask the one dude about philosophers like she really sat there and said "I'm attracted to tall" and yet wants him to give her the meaning of life before she gives him a chance
What Kanye said about Jewish people = considered unacceptable by the media Lil uzi, Playboi carti, yeat, madonna, etc etc... using anti-Christian, and satanic imagery = media does not care Minorities outnumber whites by 2 to 1 in the Catholic Church, while 95% of Jewish are WHITE. This is how racism is disguised in the modern world, it's an attack on Christianity because JESUS is the truth.
With the speed and aggression with which she attacks that reject button, that’s not a woman who has high standards; that’s a woman who’s afraid of rejection. Forever (meaningfully) alone.
Agreed people need to start being content with themselves before they even go out there otherwise it’s gonna end up like this diabolical shitshow we’ve just witnessed
Being in the show for as much watchtime as possible is not only an ego boost, but I’m pretty sure they pay you more too. That’s why this concept is so flawed
I hate to say it but I know her type. She's going to end up with some dude who looks homeless and only goes to festivals. Notice how I'm not saying that there's something wrong with festivals I distinctly mean the guy who only goes to festivals! No job no nothing. And she's going to take care of him. But hey! If she likes it I love it! Lol
“I feel like you have to have something more embarrassing” people be rejecting people for bs, they lying she just wasn’t attracted and doesn’t want to say it
The funny thing is that mirroring is a method used to gain trust. Whether she copies their mannerisms intentionally or not, she’s trying to get people to like her while also rejecting them because she’s afraid of being rejected first. What a miserable existence.
So she’s a *polyamorous, 30 year old aspiring “sex coach”, less chopped Jacqueline Kennedy regen, fake interest mastermind, & narcissist with unrealistic standards.* Gonna go out on a limb here and say I don’t think any of the dudes(or girls) she buzzed are missing out 🤷🏾♂️
Of course. There will never be anyone in her life more important than herself, and that's great because she pre-dodges the bullet for them by excluding them. Honestly, in some bizarre way, she is actually doing the community a service by not subjecting people to her toxicity... X D
Her personality gives me 'I was ugly, insecure and unaccepted. When I started to have sex I finally felt desired, wanted, accepted so It was easier for me to accept myself. Now I reallyyy like myself so much so that I'm not gonna bend over,they have to be what I want cause is what I deserve!'
@@hershey5790 her chest grew in/ she started show it off and people gave her attention because of it, and sexually desired her body. she’s still not that attractive but people will bang her cause of her body😂
Nailed it. With her kind of personality and that face she learned that showing her chest was the only asset she has to get attenttion. She just wanted to be the one to hit the button before the other person. She knows deep down she just isn't that attractive.
Guaranteed she has a personality disorder: - she adapts to each individuals personality and bounces it back - she is feeding off the attention and energy - she is ‘poly’ aka can’t commit - she is getting a kick out of rejecting people
@@YoureRightIThink narcissism yes, added with being on the spectrum. I had a girl who had the exact same facial features but she was still pretty like her. However, Even tho she was smart and communicative, her mannerisms and actions seemed unfocused.
Omg as soon as she was like "im into people, im into energy" with that little shoulder shake weird thing, id be competing with her to hit that button first
This girl just screams 3 things: 1. Unresolved trauma: Promiscous and trying to glorify it. Also can't commit. Talks about sex as 'healing'. 2. Low self-esteem: Rejects everyone, and is so fast about it that it was for sure pre-meditated. Either she's afraid of being rejected, or gets a kick out of rejecting others. 3. Tiddies.
To me she just seems a character, like if April May from Ace Attorney got more promiscous. Her gestures seem so dramatic... Dunno if she was paid or is just that way. Maybe I'm speculing nonsence.
She called him out on his sunglasses and the producers thought “girl, don’t think you’re better than him after ripping your own bootyhole because you were scared to poop in public” They checked her like they were in the back wearing shades inside too 😂
I knew these two poly girls who are both really nice, realistic about their relationship, down to earth people (they were coworkers so I never met any of their thirds.) Both of them expressed interest in me over the course of me being there, and when I explained to them I only want one partner they were really understanding and respecful about it. However, despite them being seemingly normal in all of those ways, they did both look very funky. Just goes to prove it.
@@SW-zb6bf Idk about that, she is one of these types... you don't need to be red pilled to tell. Always thinking that she's the most amazing princess just because a lot of men paid attention to her tits, trying to bag a man she can't, and then ends up manipulating a man that she is able to get and shitting on all men because she didn't get her way. She's not a normal woman.
With that behavior, I'd pull all of the guys who she rejected and let them have their own say in rejection. Unfiltered, no restrictions, no running away, face the music.
She is not attractive, but super charismatic. She matches everybody's energy and behaves like she is the one who needs to be pleased. And then rejects them. A true narcissist.
Yes I agree she isn't attractive imo. She somehow manages to look frumpy and low effort even though she has cleavage. Her image is not giving premium even though she thinks she has premium standards.
Let’s be honest, no one who acts this way is satisfied with themselves. It’s always the dissatisfied ones that go into extremes like these. She’s most likely buzzing everyone because she wants to be in a position where she can finally be the one rejecting people instead of the other way around.
I agree. And you can tell she just wants to be in that position by how fast she was reaching to buzz everyone. She gave no one a chance at all and as soon as the button turned red she reacted
She just enjoys being in a position of power. She'll reject everyone then run to tiktok and say that the dating scene is "trash" when she ends up alone. No of these people can accept thr fact that THEY are the problem
This. Some people cant see anything through anything but a political lens, and a lot of left ideology is obsessed with "power". So she applies power over others every chance she can get, not realizing it's just f@cking petty. Like, yeah, congrats queen, you can reject people... Never give anyone a chance though, and I hope you enjoy dying alone. It's ok to keep pressing that button, but dont be that f@cking moron who says "well that sounds controversial" when the button says "we out of dudes to reject your heinous". Like... What the fuck is controversial about that, you really think they got an infinite line of partners back there? Hell no. This show's basically an allegory for life at this point, you wanna be choosy as f@ck, go right ahead, but if youre too choosy, dont be surprised when that line of potential partners just ENDS one day.
That blonde girl is the literal example of a girl who is mid at best but has a giant chest having an over inflated sense of her worth on the dating market because she knows having a big chest makes up for other flaws.
Every poly person I have seen/met have some mixture of usually vegan, don’t believe in shaving, all natural deoderant, hippy style choices, uncommon hair styles, and almost always very self-righteous, usually judgey while trying to portray themselves as open and receptive to everyone emotuonally and mentally.
She's exhibit A in why I tell guys to stick to younger women. More compliant, less baggage, less saggy, less wrinkles, and more fertile. Literally zero benefits to an older women once you stop chugging the feminist modernist nonsense.
@@georgerafa5041 More compliant to deal with your bs because she won’t fully understand what’s going on? 😂 I wish the age of consent was higher, old men shouldn’t be hitting on teenagers.
Its not just the fact she buzzed everyone, its the fact she buzzed them all without hesitation right away the first time it turned red. Lady didn't even want to give someone a chance to get to know them and see if she likes them or not. Just a shallow dumby.
deathly afraid of rejection so she covers it up with fake confidence. i know dudes that act the same way. they try to talk to a girl, and when they get rejected, they call her a skank. its just fear.
@@crosstudio yeah, we all have a fear of rejection to some degree, but certain people like her and the guys you're talking about just express it in a really toxic way, which ironically and sadly will only lead them to more rejection.
A huuuuuge reason people hit the button - especially women - is because this is a game about rejection and they are so afraid of being rejected themselves, they are AUTOMATICALLY READY to hit the button even if they HALFWAY like the person. So whereas blondy was still trash...the whole game itself is set for a trash experience.
id rather be single for life than give that girl any remote chance of entertaining an idea that anyone is ever interested in her. life is too meaningful for me to stoop to her level and her values
Sure there's plenty of people interested in her boobs, I'm sure she gets no lack of attention. But she'll have a really hard time getting what she really wants and that is respect
My colleagues initially hated my 'I can't stand all of the fake niceness and bullshit from all of you" attitude. Now, the real ones appreciate it. Everyone knows where they stand, no one's playing workplace politics, and everyone seems happier. I'm sure there is still some talking behind backs, but I genuinely feel like I changed that place for the better with nothing more than my attitude.
@munky342 Fake nice are usually psychopaths trying to hide it. They're comfortable so long as everyone's playing along. When someone comes in and disrupts the flow, they hyperfixate on it. When you encounter a truly nice community, there's a better attempt to understand you rather than shun you.
@@munky342 i had to leave sioux city, iowa because it seemed that over 90% of the population were two faced lying backstabbing scumfucks and i was about to snap and lose.my.shit
100% this can be a reason the US South and posh Brits suck....many are fake and full of shit Personally, I'd rather you make it known you have a problem with me or leave me alone. I'm not interested in talking about the weather or hearing about your dog if you don't give af about me ....
That rejection button gives her a sense of power, as if it's a competition to reject the people first before she gets rejected. She was never taking it seriously to begin with
You'd be surprised to know how common this mindset is btw... I go out a lot in different parts of Los Angeles (Santa Monica, Hermosa Beach, Hollywood, downtown LA, ect). So many people would rather flex the power of rejection and judgment, instead of having fun and enjoying good company on a night out. It's sad bro.
No one sane would spend longer than a week worth her. U know shes been a booty call and it's probably the relationship shes had the most. That's why she has to rationalize being poly.
What's funny is also she didn't find the first guy sexually attracted but at the end when she does feel some attraction to that woman she just got a friendly vibe from her. Like wow !
Un less ur poly too.if someone doesnt mind their partner seeing other people thats their choice. Many monogamous people dating or are maried to poly n get cheated on cuz the person doesnt just admit they are poly
@@murdahmammiez I mean a lot of the times, from the stories I've heard, "coming out" as poly is usually just an excuse to cheat with the naive partner's permission. Whenever their partner gets more action, they instantly get jealous and then try to close off the relationship again. They get so caught up in the newness that they neglect their partner's mental and emotional wellbeing.
@@blacklight1104 Just got to ask, did this come from personal experience or stories? This hit nail in the coffin on what our partners mental state was with our last and final poly that her partner went out of there way to get with me. They slowly started neglecting us both, treating us both like crap, eventually had multiple breakdowns that ended up with the two of us cutting the relationship off, and then after a physical altercation with my now fiancée that ended with me kicking them out of the apartment. Neither of us have trouble sleeping they were a big neglectful asshole that only got worse after I never gave them what they wanted from me and I was growing closer to my fiancée. We both shared some very bad history with our now ex and chose to just keep distancing our selves because they refused to improve themselves at all and would just sit on the computer all day being noisy with online friends while neglecting their own 2 partners. I say personal experience from you because the comment was way to descriptive so here's another story to add
I have a knee jerk reaction to individuals who open with talk about being a "kind, accepting person" and "safe spaces" because those are the most uncaring and ruthless people. If you ever get on their "good" side you'll see just how damaged and fucked they truly are on the inside. I personally avoid these people at any costs because they're also backstabbers and will try to poke holes into your self-esteem to drag you down with them. This chick is definitely one of them and I hope she finds help because she really needs it.
Good eye on you for knowing who to avoid, the more self righteous someone is, the more they talk about how tolerant they are, the more likely they are to be the things they accuse others of. A real person doesn't need to prove what they are, they just are.
@@Andy-xx3ttSame with serial killers pretending to be nice and harmless. Whenever someone utters those words I immediately become suspicious. I'm in the business where you need to judge your customers if they are able to pay or run off with my wares so being able to read people is essential.
She's 30?!? Bad start. She looks 45. And I agree with Aba, don't know why poly people look a little funky. I think it's people starving for love. Just like an actual starving person that finally gets food. They over eat and become sick.
That’s a very observant catch. You can see how she engages with people she attempts to draw them in. People probably feel drained whenever they interact with her
She definitely has deep rooted insecurities. Her enjoyment she takes from rejecting others, truly reveals the scars of how many rejections she has received, so I’m sure she feels good on the opposite end.
The speed with which they went to smack that button before anyone could do it first, was fairly telling. I don’t buy any of their self perceived notions about themselves. It’s almost as of they are pretending to be who they think they are. There’s a difference between confidence and arrogance and the fact that they think they are so far above others is vaporizing off of them, in my opinion.
-ran through -prematurely aging -they/them -dentally challenged -passive aggressive -horrible DIY hair I would say these people dodged a bullet but I really don’t see a sane person taking her serious anyway.
Poly is a defense mechanism for people who are so deeply afraid of rejection that they don't actually commit seriously to anyone. Relationships are only ever as painful as how much you value and are invested in them. The less you commit, the less pain when it goes wrong.
@@ethosterros9430 I know a beautiful 5ft8 140 something black woman that does yoga, like advanced advanced yoga (and shares it on youtube sometimes {has classes}), and she's poly. But yeah, a lot of the public poly **men** and women are busted looking for some reason. The one's that don't openly talk about being poly on the other hand though....
I swear some of the women who sign up for these videos go into it with a mission to reject everyone no matter what. I'm sure some of them just want to be the one to reject the other first out of fear they will themselves be rejected, but I swear some of these women go into it with a mission to just clown the other in bad faith. You can tell by how fast they hit the button after it turns red. They're just waiting, arm tensed up, to smash it as fast as possible.
