Big Girl REFUSES To Be Rejected | THE BUTTON 

Even Aba forgets people in this Cut/Jubilee cinematic universe

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@@AbaNPreach 🤦🏾‍♂️ he’s human after all

@@AbaNPreach It's the blue pill dummies!

Don't blame you

YES! I don't even know this exists!!!

So true I tried to watch this without the commentary and it don’t hit the same

Facts.

That goes for all jubilee type content they react to for me at least.

facts

Always has been *points gun*

@@ResidentReveler lol

It's like musical chairs!

Thank you!

Fr

I'm out too. Dating just isn't worth.

Count me in. There's so much to discover in life other than finding a partner.

Arranged marriages are better

@@gasserhegazy1267 Lol. "I can't figure this shit out on my own so I'll have Mommy and Daddy purchase me a bride."

@@AllMyGabens yesssssir. It's like I'm shaking a dice. But it's not like they forcing me to be with that specific someone. Or they forcing the girl. So I think it's ok. If both parties wanted this

DAM right

The guy that hit the button so hard he broke it is my new spirit animal…

Part of it is that the show makes it so that you're disqualified immediately

What about if you get rejected by every single person.

​@Rainbow_Bea, then the problem is you. If you get rejected 10 times by 10 different people. Than the issued isn't those 10 people. It's you

But that's only until only hope is left keeping them going........ you'll see people cling to it as it's their lifeline.

Religion is responsible for heinous BS. But a majority of faiths warn against this. This is why I am honestly a misanthrope. "My pain. My fears. My insecurities. My narcissism. My pleasure. My prejudices. My this. My that." People are too batshit insane to resort to reason. Facts. Progress. I have been in...COUNTLESS arguments. Countless situations. Where I was like... WHY??? Ofcourse I know why. But it still feels like a dick punch to the brain. Only a matter of time. We deserve extinction. Our hubris is going to end us. And I can't personally wait. Ttash. Just.. trash.

@@malomemadman wth are u talking about?

Big facts

exactly.

HIT THE NAIL ON THE FUCKING HEAD!!!

@@uk9383 good point. We need to love those who value us, not value the ones we wish we could have. My hope is that all of us learn that lesson. Sadly some will never understand.

wasting time is even worse, nobody you meet on the button is ultimately worth anything

@@uk9383 wow... that is deep... so true...

@@xelloskaczor5051 more than likely but you never know. Asian chic looked aight to me 🤷‍♂️

Shit had me dying 😂

KING CARLOS

I saw that 😂

He speed ran through it

Something about this game brings out something primal in us. Its like why go through the structure of the game to meet someone. If 1 of the cast was feeling somebody, screw the game, go talk to them when filming is over with. Why do you feel the game is the only way your gonna meet someone?

It's just cringe

Successful dating shows don’t the clicks. Have to admit, the cringe this show provides is much more entertainment worthy.

They're Soo afraid of rejection , it's very eye opening

Stupidest show of all show

🤣

Most people are like that even Arabs and Africans. Dating out is taboo

@@redacted461 True but there's something about Asian women compared to other women when it comes to black men. Example i can walk up and talk to women from any race and more than likely they will be cool about it but when it comes to Asian women.... most of them get easily intimidated. And this is not even in a pickup way! This has been my general experience for years in the UK. I find it so weird because when I talk to Asian guys our cultures are so similar and we get along so well.

@@reke9942 think it depends on what you do. If your a lawyer, doctor, banker, professor etc then you'll have no problems

@@redacted461 Africans are waaaaaay more open to dating out in my experience than a lot of other races

@@RedDevilStudioI run by own creative business and teach at a university, so I dont see my proffesional background as that big of an issue. It just seems for the majority of Asian women black men are last on the list in terms of potential matches. I know Abba was joking when he talked about "levels of disappointing parents". But this bias is true from my experience. Also this isn't me complaining. It's just my general observation on the matter.

"I rejected him because he knows what he wants" Like what? You rejected him because he planned out what we wants in life? 💀

​@@jcgamer1650 like what... you reject other people because they know how to plan there future. If you still don't know what you want at 27. Than you have some issues. At 27 you should have a general idea of what you want. At 20 I know what I wanna be doing by 25

It was 🧢🧢🧢. She didn't want to say the truth.

​@sonderexpeditions if he was a white guy shed be down. I live in San Diego. Asian and hispanic are our biggest minority groups here yet youll never see them coupling up. Im mixed, moms black father is white but i look Mexican. I learned the hard way why I could never land an Asian girl. She didnt hit the buzzer early because it would have been a bad look. If he buzzed her, she had an out, she at least looked like she was game but when it got real she showed what everyone already knew. Shes trained well but actions will always speak louder than words.

Jeffrey Dahmer: when he sees Black people *video on my channel*...

They need to go on that show

@@av4781 I don’t think Aba can handle the cringe 😂

Category

I'm 666 like have a good first of October

💯

Pretty much sums up today's dating culture.

@@CoachMacho954 just said this to myself. Its a damn shame

Goes to show you how much physical attraction is the main factor at play

All those wman were: tattoed, fat and even if they were not those 2 things i only saw 2, 3 and 4 on looks the 4 is for the Asian but with the tatto is a 3.7.

That's smart. But I'd say separate girls and guys sitting with each other before going in as well. Otherwise it's easy to figure out which gender is getting rejected more.

Or… or… the person that presses the button leaves? They are incentivized to push the button right now. It’s stupid. If you find someone you like, you win. It’s like they are encouraging losing.

Reminds me of the quote "The best defence is a good offense"

More so People are full of shit...... They know the sec they see someone its Yes or No...but theyll go along for the ride...

Soft ass shit. Rejection don’t feel good, let’s be real, but I’d rather be rejected, than someone lie/pretend to like me. Or lead me on. Low self esteem & low self worth is real out here.

Quit acting like you’ve never had impossibly high standards.

I feel sad for the big girl. You can see she's not living it easy. Hurt people hurt people ig.

Soon brother, hopefully soon

If there are not watching ads you are not a customer.

They are not trying to make you turn off the vid, stand up, and go out to purchase their product. The more times you see the add, the more their product is placed in your mind. So when it comes to buying something, you would have forgotten the add, but remembered the name, and you will go "ohhh I've heard about this company/product before, it must be ok then". Try next time you go to a store, and pretend you are there to pick up something you would never need, for example tampons. Go to them, and see which name your brain tells you to buy. We hate ads, but they do work. Source: 3 years of Business College with a Higher Commerce Degree (HHX in Denmark)

@@TomaszDK this right here. It’s the same tactic dictators use, except in a very different way. Keep telling the same lie over and over and eventually people will come to accept it, even if they know it’s a lie.

Hate to break it to you but the youtube- servers aren't run by air and love. Go buy youtube premium. If not , you should be glad companies are willing to subsidise your free video streaming I guess...

Well when you say ppl you men because women generally don't hold back.

Word

**Moto Moto Theme starts dropping...**

A lot of people are just shameless cowards

@@av4781 because we don't date obese lard balls? Ok I'm a coward. Lol silly wamun

And im all for it

Remember the game shows back in the day? This is pretty much the new form of them lmfao.

@@tengoodquestions facts 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@@GIO77ification lmao

Not to mention majority of these people are criminally insane.

Or people are afraid to be seen as a dick by immediately rejecting a heifer

Thier spiteful. Like preemptively.

Afraid of rejection and exercise and salads and soap.

It's usually the rejectees outside the experiment that try to hog the buzzer! They have that desperation the whole time , pretty sure they wear it everyday!

​@Dylan-yh3yk what is a heifer?

Hey don’t blame her, she just knows her worth! Obvious sarcasm just in case you weren’t able to tell

She’s the reason why.

We know the answer why she never had one.

I mean idk what you want from people I haven’t had a boyfriend only crushes and interest but I would reject others bc they didn’t seem the right to me

@@iwillgowiththatcat8667 Sure.

Thats how it should be

If you’re fat, I don’t want to date you. Millions of men would agree because it’s unattractive. That’s biological and I honestly don’t care if that’s offensive. Telling people “it’s 100% their personality” is pathetic gaslighting.

Don't pretend like you're any different my guy. We all do that, you, me, everyone. It's only natural

that's what I thought 🤣

Well they’d have trouble moving her off stage XD

idk, they made her do more exercise by leaving than she does in a week🤣

She couldn't get her fat ass off the chair lol

Same lol

Damn, I like that comparison!

@@Fulgrim_The_PhoenicianThough a heretic, you are correct

I think this video in particular also highlights how ridiculous some of the questions/remarks can be. Like what were they thinking when asking that guy to talk dirty to a stranger in front of a camera for the whole internet to see???? Tf???

They are all the ugly!

"The Good, the Bad & the Button". You can thank me later.

Yeah if she held her hands anything further than 10 inches away, she'd be out after she rejected the dude who was into her.

Obviously she deserves it

Well yeah, fat people are really good at figuring out ways to exert the least amount of physical effort, the closer her hands are, the less work she needs to do!

Says a lot about how she handles rejection in every day situations..

Good luck

I hope you and your mom are okay.

Godspeed to you and your mom!

Wishing your mom a good recovery 😊

Much love to you

im in my teens and yeah, same problem

Do you think the years of training also helped in that realisation? Most times people know this advice, but it is hard to get out of that state without action being taken. Maybe the years of proving yourself to YOURSELF, through training accumulated into what you saw as a eureka moment?

I wouldn't consider myself shy but I am probably picky...not really into many girls...based on character. Really am fine being to myself but never shot many shots. I am no good at small talk. Like a divine comedy, there is a gorgeous gal at a place I eat often... I am trying to crash course but most likely I will look like a blithering idiot but I plan to chit chat next opportunity.

@@joshuaiyanuloluwa2256 I believe I added "worth" by learning new skills(I started playing rugby and training dogs) and these new skills gace me confidence as I gained more experience from them and as a person I just found myself. Like I said it just flicked... I just cried from pure relief when Saterday when one of my friends just hugged and she told me she has seen me change over the years and its impacted her. So I really believe it was a gradual change there was no instant transformation, I merely just noticed after some time.

Man I just started shooting my shot more and getting used to rejection is whats been helping me.

So true in my experience a lot of my female friends say I have all the right qualities to be in a good relationship and yet I’m so overlooked. I bet it’s the same for many many men out there, youre practically invisible.

I recommend trying to find someone through mutual interests. That's how my bf and I found each other. I know it's a lot harder on the male side, but if you meet women through mutual interests instead of bars, clubs, and dating aps, you will have more chance of connecting with someone. I wish you guys luck.

@@ANPC-pi9vu Annoyingly, none of my friends want to put me on 😑😑😑😑 gatekeeping mfs, but that sounds like great advice tho. I feel like that would def work. I appreciate it.

The best relationships are when both partners improve each other.

Facts

I saw a comment about how this game would be better if pressing the button meant you leave, not them. That way rather than people being encouraged to reject each other as quickly as possible they would be encouraged to finid things to like about each other. Thought that was not a bad idea (but def less entertaining).

@@Sophie-dd7rx Show would be cancelled within a month, no drama = no clicks = no $$$ from ads. It would need to have a double blind variable, otherwise people would just game the system even more and lie to keep themselves in "the game" longer. It's not about finding love, it's all about inflating one's ego, but yes the person who presses the button should be the one to leave; especially if they press the button more than once.

Why?

The honesty is respectable. It pretty much serves as an admission that she thought she was gonna get rejected. But she was honest instead of trying to save face.

is carlie the fat cow? im just skipping around to the good parts

She is smart. Smarter than pushup bro for sure. Not smart enough to lose some weight though.

@@Joshpower57 Because most of them would dance around the truth acting like they're too good for the options for why they keep buzzing the button, but she at least says why she kept reaching for it.

Underrated comment

I actually fw this idea

I like this

I like that~ currently it just seems more like a competition of who can hit it first

Oh man, awesome idea!! The would change the whole dynamic of the show for the better!!!! Maybe email the creators and tell them to hire you lol. Seriously good idea

And she rejected them for no reason other than she didn't want to be rejected first. She rehearsed her lines and used her customer service voice-- and neither of those things are terribly effective when you're trying to make yourself attractive.

I think she actually liked him but she made distance Incase he didn't like her.

Fat chicks have to be witty. Honestly I really don’t have too much sympathy for her. She has a pretty face, she isn’t cursed as being unfixable. And this show is like tinder... I'm certain that she has an easier time getting dates than I do despise my healthy body type. Goes for the average guy overall, she has an easier time. She shouldn’t be expecting to have a chance with a dude who also isn’t obese OR a guy who is a chubby chaser. She could cop a guy from a chubby dating sight who is well built.

@@ferrisbueller9991 Ngl, she'd prob be traditionally a real looker if she lost weight.

@@ferrisbueller9991 yeah reminds me of this girl Kayla that went to my high school. She was the fat one that hung out with nothing but 8 or better popular girls. She was the one nobody ever took a swing for in the group Then one summer, prob started actually a couple months before hte summer the previous school year, but she came back from summer break a total knockout. Once she had a good body you really noticed her face was gorgeous. Def was a lot of guys upset they didnt put in good ground work before the change lol

@@yingyang7448 that’s like most fat people out there lol

Exactly that would make more sense, if you not interested move out. This is just a competition of hitting a button.

Yes yes

Great Idea

Bc then people are gonna act terrible to get the other person to leave first

Then would be less awkward to escape the situation, and way more cringe to the people who stays watching everybody leaving (LIKE THE POOR GIRL WHO GOT A FURRY)

You are smarter than most of the people here.

Word how did this show go on for so long

This is just reality, stop being soft

I mean... they have to be paying these people to do this right? I just can't imagine volunteering for this punishment.

@@veryshortclips9039 It's called courtesy and respect.

Bro I didn’t expect it. When she did at the very last second I was like 😯

Bruh.

Honestly, I’m just here to laugh at all of it. But that made me pause and go, “That bi+ch”. Bro she is 27!!! And the words outta her mouth is, “I don’t know what I want”…..WHAT!? Isn’t that why you date? See if that’s what you want? Idiot cat lady.

@@silentmeklar1783 bruh she smiled the whole way too lmfao

@@Arcangel2992 Facts She was Treacherous!

True.. Very True...You hit the crux of the matter. 👍

"Flesh and blood did not reveal this unto you."

Big facts

Introspection is a skill many people lack it seems.

I think girls do that moreso than guys

True

1 Oh wow girl you lol look good in that dress 2 Gurrrllll thank you know it b1tch 3 i know right slay b1tch slay Sounds so fake asf Me thinking too myself okay So is that a date

Fake, or polite?

@@AdaHazard If you’re giving compliments to cause a person to relax so that you can reject them before they reject you, would that be considered polite? How would you perceive it?

@@timboslice9905 I get what you're saying but I don't think they're doing it to make the other person relax (if that's what you meant). I think it's just because of not having anything better to say or anything else that you like about the person so I think it is just being polite because you want to say something nice as opposed to just sitting there and showing that you have zero interest or initial attraction to the person. Of course nobody wants to be rejected first but I don't think it's linked to the compliments given and it doesn't mean the compliments are fake.

Why she even say that second date nonsense 😂

And the fact she got pressed just goes to show the answer to that question💯💯💯 nobody can be honest with themselves anymore tho, always have to have an excuse for themselves

Forrealllllll💯💯💯💯😭

Deadass lol

That's how you detach a rib

LMFAOOOO 😂😂😂 💀 these two had me ROLLING at 11:42-11:59. I replayed that part FIVE TIMES and i kept laughing harder & harder. They are too much hahahahahahah

The only thing more sore thank my belly would be my jaw lmao

That's surprising usually Asian parents love when they bring home a white boy

@@100navat *Grandparents* and they don't speak English. That's too big of a generational leap. She may have been pushing her luck. But maybe the parents didn't have any issue tho.

@@hado.uken_ you are correct, the parents were completely fine, the only one with the problem was the grandfather specifically - awkward situation to say the least.

You should’ve shat on his front door to exert dominance

Yup, I feel for you brother.

lol Exactly! Where’s Steve Harvey at?

Hahahahaha😂😊

The laugh was a bit much

It’s gets so deep, because I feel like we all have had an experience where we didn’t like someone at first but we grew to love them, But perhaps the opposite is worst. Loving them at first and finding out they suck.

@@steffondotart7424 loving and finding out she sucks is worse. Denial is a bitch. Imo

They need to do a blindfolded episode

Humans are visual creatures. I’m not saying the person has to be your version of a 10, but there has to be some physical attraction there. For both you and your partner. It’s nice to be desired by your partner and for you to desire them. I, personally, don’t want to force myself to try to get aroused by an ugo.

Yup, they build up this whole scenario in their head of who/how the person & relationship *could* be, then when that doesn't happen, they get upset about it. This is the real world, not a Disney movie or some stupid rom-com.

Great idea...

Nah I’d rather them tell me straight up

You should be limited to 1 button press

I’m a good looking woman (so I’ve been told by lots of people) but am mildly autistic and have also faced much rejection and abuse (once they talk to me and realise I’m a bit off it is like the enthusiasm completely drains out their faces) I will not let it defeat me. Although at time it has definitely weakened me. I will always get back up again. We can do this ❤

@@blondie9422 w femcel

​@@blondie9422100% Great attitude!

@@simppolice944 Nah not really. I have had long term relationships (it’s just been a bit harder for me to find other ND people) I think my previous relationships have been ADHD of some sort. I also don’t dislike people when they do reject me as long as they aren’t really nasty about it. I’m not everyone’s cup of tea and that is absolutely fine. I’m just saying that people shouldn’t internalise self hatred if they’re a bit different and not for everyone.

@@marcusanark2541 Thanks 😃😃❤️

Let each person have a button below the table so the other person can't see

Or a person who already pushed it once cannot push it again. Or you push it to eliminate yourself.

@@cheesesteakphilly naa

Or they both press a Button in front of them and whoever presses their own first wins

Just give each of them a clicker to hold.

she was honest, unlike everyone else in the video

@@remssa She has a small pool to draw from, so I think shes insecure.

@@remssa I don't think she's honest. She seemed fake and looked uncomfortable. It's like she was trying her best to make the guys to like her but she's very afraid of rejection, and that's why she rejected them first

No, her size is also a problem. Fat women and dudes are nasty lmao

Size is the problem here as well, it indicates at least issues with managing healthy habits and diet too

Yes! Thank you. I was questioning those prompters as well. Almost like they WANT to embarrass people.. 🤔

Wrong. A real woman is fine with gettin real down n dirty after just meeting

@@maxhatush5918 are you ok in the brain?

@@samsonthewyrm9396 excuse me?? Pls elaborate…

@@maxhatush5918 no

When people say racism isnt real just show them this lol. If colorism and racism wasnt a thing then there would be no obvious expectation for a certain group of people to reject you if you have black in you. Black is seen as tainted its ingrained in alot of cultures minds. Yet we cant admit racism still exist.

@@lelelew2735 ... Was this comment meant for me?

@@PaddyMcMe yea

@@lelelew2735 What Does Race Have To Do With Her Hitting The Button? She's 27 And Doesn't Know What She Wants So Instead Of Getting Into Something Without Solving Her Personal Situation First And Potentially Ruin Things She Decided To Hang Back Remember If You Love Something Let It Go If It Comes Back It's Meant To Be

@@IcE-_-Kidd she pressed the button because she wants a husband she dont see her family accepting a black man lets not be naive thats why most asians dont date black

She's ASIAN. It's in their DNA to hate dark skin while worshiping our whiteness 🤷‍♂️