I appreciate that rolo called out obese men at the end. If your looks game is not maximized as much as possible then you really.need to work on that aspect of your life. Not just for aesthetic reasons but health reasons, primarily.
Logic: "These are the answers to the questions you just asked for." Her: "..yeaahh but your shoes don't match your shirt at all, so whatever you just said doesn't matter, byeeee"
I don't know the relationship you've been in, but generally having a budget and having a balanced mental load in terms of work and maintaining the house comes down to communication If one or neither of you can communicate in a way conducive to being in an adult relationship, you aren't ready. If you are getting your advice PURELY from alpha male podcasts, you aren't ready
@@techboi_420you act like we care about your opinion. Here's a secret, we dont. You've made it clear in multiple comments on other threads you don't like "alpha podcasts." Perhaps "The View" is more your speed.
@@techboi_420 What the hell are you talking about? OP was talking about money yet you were going on about communication. PERHAPS you were trying to say if the man feels the relationship is costing him too much, that he should communicate his feelings? But the problem with that is 1) women needing to be told, instead of caring about her man and avoiding costing him too much 2) when the man does have to communicate this it turns into an argument.
That's because men spend on necessities and women spend on luxuries. Guess which one is more expensive? On top of that, a topic that isn't discussed enough is how women view money, and I don't mean the your money is our money and my money is my money argument. I mean the my money is for my needs and I must be frugal while everyone else money is treated like a VISA Black Card! Send your gf or wife to the store to spend her $200 vs your $200 and you will get two VASTLY different shopping interests, items, and price caps. You'll even have money "missing"! The things she gets with her money is things she KNOWS she wants and likes, your money is a test run for things she's had her eye on.
Key thing to being a successful investor is having an eye for people/companies/concepts that are small and unimpressive NOW, but have the potential, preferably even likelyhood, to grow big LATER.
@@eurosalamander when your guiding doctrine is feminism, You simply do not see people as human beings. Feminism is communism applied to gender roles. Just like people with Different lifestyles, different gender blocs have different doctrines outside of sexual expression... Therefore to simplify it all as power dynamics the way communism does will bring ruin to all.
She's the kind of person who will say, _"I don't like how you said it..."_ and she tunes out the message. Yes, he's purposely condescending but he does it for a reason.
The irony is lost on her. Speaking in a flat tone everyone can under stand while someone else speaks in a tone no one cares about as its just verbal diarrhea
"His voice is sooo annoying" because you don't like that he's exposing your dual mating strategy. 500k subscribers don't seem to have a real problem with Hoe Math's voice.
Yeah thats not gonna happen organically until they experience extreme hardship on a universal scale. Think economic collapse, civil war, etc. something that causes them to stop taking survival, and men, for granted.
His voice annoys you because he’s being condescending, which is what you deserve at this point. That’s part of why we love him. He explains it reeeeal slow so even a woman can understand.
Men also raise daughters to be traumatize by men and fearful that all men just want to hurt her just like he did because most men just flat out hate women just for being born female, like how dare we even exist. Many men can also be raising boys to stay boys because that greatly depends on the character of the father so not all fathers are really all that important. The good ones are, however many do exist. Yes there are horrible mothers like that mother of that boy Jazz from that show. Why does your comment only refer to women and not the word mother, only father can get any respect from you? Do you hate your own mother? Because how dare she be a female the only person who can be a mother. Though yes fathers can be very important but without the mother you have no son. Chew on that you hater.
We need to understand one thing When women say that they are high value women, it actually means that they are overpriced It is not that men cannot afford It is just that us men don't think women are worth paying the price because we don't get in return what is promised Why should I buy the cheap product at a premium price from a company that has the worst track record of customer satisfaction
honestly, amercan men asked for this result. Even Rollo says that men should pay on a date, should be the bread winners. Well if you ask for golddiggers, you get golddiggers. This is not that common in western europe
Yep. It's just like companies saying no one wants to work, when really itls just that the pay isn't worth what they're asking. Or sometimes they just suck at hiring
@@etopsch369Uh, no? It wasn't the common man who wanted women out in the factories and eventually offices. It was the wealthy business owners that swindled the women into this
I don't mind paying for something even if its a bit overpriced as long as it comes with the bells and whistles that i want. Unfortunately majority of women today provide no bells nor whistles they come equipped to give you one giant a$$ headache over and over again!
Im a man.... my ex wife divorced me because I didn't have enough money for her.... she ended up marrying a guy who makes less than me because she is crazy and nobody wants her.... I can now save a lot of money... a lot... the biggest benefit is I have peace.... its not worth losing your peace just to get laid.
A point that must be interjected: Women did not demand equal pay. They demanded atypically high pay for easier work. They did not demand equal salaries to dig ditches or put up dry wall. They demanded the workplace capitulate to their wants (and schedules) after some work became possible in air-conditioned offices. They also demanded that the men in those offices not make any jokes or comments that offended them and created other high paying positions to police and manage men whose words made them "uncomfortable".
Relationships are ridiculously expensive for men. I worked it out and a guy will spend 5000-10000 a year on a relationship. Yes that's how much you cost ladies. Edit: this is a breakdown from you buying groceries, renting a place and utilities (we all know as men, we can live in a shoe box and be happy but we get the nicer place for them), dates, gifts, trips, etc.
I get your point, and it's realistically true. Simp comments aside, women in your life always hurt your wallet (better stated as opportunity costs). You always pay in some way, emotionally, financially, physically or emotionally. It's very difficult to balance work life and family life when you have a fee fail in your life. Money Energy Attention Time, guard your MEAT guys!
Saying "it's easy for all men to climb the financial wealth ladder to be a part of the top 15%" is absolutely wrong. Not all of us are wired that way and motivated by materialistic values or money. For example, I was brainwashed to believe becoming a millionaire was the best route up until I turned 25 when I realized my genuine fulfillment is derived in living a simplistic rustic lifestyle off-grid and, financially speaking, living at the poverty line or just above it. There is a way to live where you instill real values that you cannot put a price on while learning to enjoy the sweat you put into the chores and any DIY creativity. However, I do respect those who are blessed with being able to strive for a higher income and live in luxury in a big city.
@@davidbigd9047 it’s the same as when he says “it’s never been easier to be in the top 20%”. First of all, the top 20% thing is a myth. Second of all, if everyone tries to get in The top 20%, only one in 5 will succeed (hence, that’s why it’s the top 20% he’s talking about, because statistically only 1 in 5 can be in that top 20% to begin with). This content is designed to sucker you into his program and system so you can funnel him clicks and money. Don’t fall for it
Honestly, if you start young enough, becoming a millionaire is incredibly easy. Just not in a short time frame. The trick is to make you believe you can make it happen now.
@@bigollie006 it’s the same as when he says “it’s never been easier to be in the top 20%”. First of all, the top 20% thing is a myth. Second of all, if everyone tries to get in The top 20%, only one in 5 will succeed (hence, that’s why it’s the top 20% he’s talking about, because statistically only 1 in 5 can be in that top 20% to begin with). This content is designed to sucker you into his program and system so you can funnel him clicks and money. Don’t fall for it
@@bigollie006 it’s the same as when he says “it’s never been easier to be in the top 20%”. First of all, the top 20% thing is a myth. Second of all, if everyone tries to get in The top 20%, only one in 5 will succeed (hence, that’s why it’s the top 20% he’s talking about, because statistically only 1 in 5 can be in that top 20% to begin with). This content is designed to lure you into his program and system so you can funnel him clicks and money. Don’t fall for it
Wow, that woman's reply to who she would invest time in between a friend and a boyfriend.. she might leave a friend on read, but a boyfriend, she would be willing to argue with. That is the investment? The boyfriend earns the right to have her take the time to argue with him? Wow. Very impressive. That sounds just great.
It's the Jezebel Spirit Signs: Argues over dumb stuff constantly Laughs like the stereotype witch laugh Excessive jewellery and make-up She's mostly attractive because of eyes and lips No sex before Marriage Marriage is a union of God with a Man and a Woman Jesus Christ is God in the flesh
I was wondering if anyone else caught that. So your two choices when dealing with her are: she argues with you until midnight, or she ghosts you. Heck of a catch she is.
I've explained this time and again with women I've lived with. Utilities are twice as much with two people. They didn't understand, nor did they want to!
If they are you're figuring it wrong. It's much less expensive for two people to live in the same domicile than it is for them to live in separate domiciles. The problem for the man of course is that often none of that savings accrues to you, and you're paying the extras that two people do incur on top. Similar errors are made in child support awards. Dad has to pay half of mom's rent because of the kid. The problem with that is an extra bedroom for children is often more like an additional $200, because a bedroom doesn't double your rent. It's an implicit subsidy for mom. Utilities are often no increase at all, or a very small one, from one to two bedrooms, yet again dad is stuck paying half of that too.
@@headlibrarian1996 Better to live alone, because in either situation, the man pays in one way or another. Might as well enjoy peace and freedom if you're paying. Why pay to be belittled, cucked, etc.
@9:58 “Do men get taught to be thoughtful instead of looking at it materially?” That question was so stupid even the guys misunderstood it. She was asking if men are taught (ostensibly by society) to be thoughtful instead of being materialistic about gaining access to women. The problem with that question is, it is stupid as hell on its face. >Women themselves < teach men through their actions every day that if you’re NOT the top 4-1/2 percent, how much money you make is the most critical component. The thoughtful guys get friend zoned. The thoughtful guys get told “I wish I had a man like you.”. The thoughtful guys get chosen last as a buzzer beater and then divorce graped 10 years later. The thoughtful guys are the ones who expire alone as virgins. This is what men get taught about thoughtfulness versus resources… …and its WOMEN that are the teachers.
Your goal as a man should be financial stability based on *YOUR* level of comfort and then find a woman that is also comfortable at that level. You will NEVER satisfy a woman by making more money. If you can truly say you are financially stable, again, at whatever level YOU deem to be comfortable than any woman that complains about finances DOES. NOT LOVE YOU, SHE LOVES MONEY.
@@comancheclub3449 With most women you will never satisfy them at all unless they can take everything you own. Equality when it suits them, chivalry when it is in their favor. They want all of the power in a relationship with none of the accountability.
Some women go after the "bad boys" criminals and the like. They look for violent, dominant, and dangerous males, and whine when that goes badly. Other women want a Chad with the body of a Chippendale's dancer and the bank account of Bill Gates, and wonder why few men will actually stay with them when they only pursue the top 5% of males.
It's not about money they say. All you need to do fun things with them and entertain them all the time. What? That takes money? No, all you need to do is take them on trips. Her last boyfriend was bad because he never took her on any trips. She likes trips. Oh, and she likes good food. Oh, and she likes a new G Wagon every few years. But it's not the money. Doesn't take any money at all, she but she does want those things and if she doesn't get them from you then probably some other guy will offer them to her and that makes him a better boyfriend. But it's not about the money. And to be honest, if you spend too much time at work trying to earn money, that also will make you a bad boyfriend, because then you aren't spending time going on trips with her and entertaining her. So the trick is, make sure you can devote most of your time to her, but she also wants all those things.... Good luck.
The more men that make equal/less than the women, the more options the men who make a more than average start having. Women often simplistically consider anyone who makes more (or significantly more) than them to be ”the top”.
To drive this point home more, recently Tom Brady's ex who cheated on him tried to go after half his stuff in the divorce even though she is worth twice as much as he is. Women are the issue.
I'm reminded of an very old musical called, "Paint your wagon" about a cowboy era mining town that had no women. One day a man comes into town with 2 wives, and at some point, decides to sell one of them to the highest bidder. The white knight in the town cries out, "You can't buy a woman for money!", another man claps back, "You just try and get one without it!"
They look for a man with money so they can buy materialistic things to nest. Yes ive legit seen them do this even in my own relationships. The moment they have a guy who can supply them with the tools to nest (protection, provision husband qualities) they start asking for a baby. I can't even count how many times I've had to refuse my ex gfs that request.
@@FelipeEscobar86 yeah, once they get it, they become crazy. I had to deny my last ex on a daily basis. She would try to behave like my wife but never did the wifey duties like caring for me, steal a ring a made years ago to wear on her ring finger like we were engaged and then on top of that be there gunning for me to, her words not mine, "breed" her. She was down bad with wanting my child but I made sure she was on birth control so she could get what she wanted without getting what she wanted
@@solarydays I dated those low maintenance girls and they are the same once they get the baby rabies. They want things to surround themselves for nesting. This is why this applies to all women. Also what is a high maintenance girl and what is a low maintenance girl? Tell me the difference when both want a guy with a house, to be earning money and to pay for the bills? The only difference is the one wants fancy outfits and makeup so she can dress up like a doll
@@solarydays oh I'm well aware. I have six siblings. I know that when you are pregnant and nursing you have to rely on a man but also because I have six siblings I know just to what extent that relying on goes too. I also know to what extent shaming tactics are used to get the providing and protection you need in that "vulnerable" state. As a man, I've been on the opposite side of that spectrum. Because of that I have learned I have to be very selective of the woman I choose as my wife. I have every right to be selective as I actually don't need a woman to complete my life. I can cook, I can clean, I can build and make my own home. You saying my attitude is the problem is of no concern to me because I know it's just shaming tactics and I would not be interested in choosing a woman with your attitude either. The thing I have learned is that the thing a woman sees as the most dangerous thing to her is a man who doesn't need her and knows how she thinks because he can't be manipulated. I want a woman but I don't need a woman
@@solarydays actually I'm very good around children seeing as I have six siblings I helped teach and guide into better people. In all my friends groups I was always called the medic or the father of the group. I have already also got given the husband title in all my relationships particularly after they saw how I interacted with some of my friends kids saying I would make a great dad. Even though they gave me that title and were gunning for me to marry them they never showed any wifey level qualifications. I don't do manipulation and hate when others do it. "Be the real you or get out the door" is my mentality. I treated all my ex gfs really well(I'm a generous man with a good sense of money, who doesn't mind dropping 50-100 euro on my woman because I can, that's 5 new outfits, 3 full sets of underwear and 6 pairs of stocking where i live) to the point it made other women hit on me when my ex's weren't around but I have an iron clad loyalty system. I refuse to cheat because it's a reflection of my character. So shaming tactics don't work on me due to the abuse I got from women wanting me to cheat on my ex gfs. I'm not anti women, I'm anti double standards. I believe in true equality, aka men and women are equal in opposite directions. We are not equal on the same playing field. But you didn't read my original comment women want men who can provide so they can nest but there are also plenty who just want a man's seed(to many single moms to disprove this one) because he is a good specimen not a good provider. I am a man who works on objective logic not subjective reasoning so I can come off quite rude at times because I prefer the truth over lies.
Look, women know what they did. they're not stupid. And they did it with joy. They are just worried because men are either not engaging with them or just checking out in one way or the other. All this questioning and trying to apologize for other women is simply another way to manipulate us. Just remember, as long as they can get what they want, they won't change.
The day I said F$$K the world and F$$K what other people think was the day my life changed... I went from a below average man to a High value man and it only took me about 5 years... I changed my mindset, my habits and started looking after myself, I eliminated friends, most women, and worked my ass off.... Now I'm living the life I was meant to live, Ive found my happiness, found out who I really am, an above all Im happy and at peace!
@@rayzerot I commented because I see men struggle, as I was one of them... you would be amazed at how many men fear change and get stuck in the rut of a daily routine.... I simply wanted to state that it is possible and worth the risk.
Rollo answers his own question - his wife saw potential in him. Women are looking for security, part of that physical security, part of it financial. You don't need to spend hours at the gym to make a girl feel protected, you do need to put money in the bank for long term financial security.
I had a crush on a girl in my church. I bought her gifts. She was polite and accepted it. Her little brother wasn’t mean but he said she’s never going to like you. I stopped from then on. She was always popular with guys but she chased the one dude who didn’t want her back 😂
There are decent girls. There are decent Men. No sex before Marriage Marriage is a union of God with a Man and a Woman Jesus Christ is God in the flesh
Michael Bay once brought Sean Connery with him to an executive meeting and Sean Connery yelled at them saying “We need more fucking money!” That’s how I feel.
Men can never be "Friends" with women in the same way that they are friends with men. We would NEVER talk about the same things around women that we would talk about with men. Not in a million years. Talking to women feels like you're talking to an enemy or something. They always turn everything you say against you eventually. I think only maybe your mother won't do this behavior, but even then you still can't be completely honest around her because you will hurt her feelings or embarrass her.
Good friends are good friends no matter their sex. We also treat women that are our friends more like one of the boys. As the saying goes everything we build was build by a man and everyone was birthed by a women. Different but not better or worse.
Women are different when they are friends. They are definitely more pragmatic and logical. They also make really good friends that will have your back. Once you get in relationships it changes lol.
@@leonfa259completely wrong. And no, noone treats their female friends like their male friends. That's just doesn't happen. The sexual tension will always be there. You will always talk differently, treat differently and act different towards your female friends. This is quite obvious for almost all people except those who lie to themselves and they to convince themselves men and women are the same.
I know a few dudes basically trapped in Peru because of you have a kid with a local woman you then need their permission to ever take your child out of the country and they can refuse so yeah, getting married and having kids with a foreigner in her country could be a prison sentence if you want access to your children. Take them back to the west and have a family there.m under your countries' laws.
@@Hatunrumioc right, so she can put in 10 years, and then go back home with half your stuff, where she can live like royalty. You guys with the third world dating strategy are completely blind to reality just like the chippies are.
I started dating foreign women exclusively 10 years ago. You have to move the foreign country and not leave to have a chance of saving money. More than likely, the earnings and savings disparity is so great that you'll end up paying for nearly everything. That still could be cheaper than dating in the US. I didn't mind at first because the cost of living is so low in other countries, the women are appreciative, they didn't have the opportunities I had, it was fun, etc. Fast forward. I spent a fortune on air travel. I've run out of places to travel to and am now hitting my bucket list of expensive places. I just left an island where my girlfriend's food and drinks cost me $200 per day. I'm tired of paying.
Men and women can be friends if there is ZERO SEXUAL INTEREST with both parties, and they have common interests. Men should NEVER put themselves in the friendzone. If she isn’t sexually interested men should just leave.
@@jrd33 You clearly don’t understand what the friendzone is. There is no problem having friends of the opposite sex if there is no interest in a romantic relationship.
@@davedsilvai dont think thats necessarily the case. More like people who are unattractive to them are put in the friend zone, not actually ugly people.
To the girl asking "what happens with dating now?": that ya'll need to chill if you want "equality", you should not expect any of his money to be for you unless you're willing to reciprocate.
Man, since I called off dating, I’ve been able to live very comfortably with a single roommate and well below poverty line wages. Gives me time to focus on school and when I get out of this field and into the new one, I’m not changing a thing.
Actually the necessary adjustment is in female standards. They should be accepting looks and money match on a percentile way. Then there would be someone for everyone. Also not confusing SMV with RMV.
Guarantee if you have a decent girlfriend, it will cost you money. How much depends on the woman you date. I have known women who have cost men money for dental bills, tuition for university, car repairs, plane tickets, eyeglasses, prescription drugs, and rent.
You are the exception to the rule, which proves the rule.....I noticed your comment only applies to you.....why didn't you leave your opinion on the video subject? If you didn't catch the subject of the video, it says women want the same pay as men (school teachers who work in a comfortable setting want to make what skyscraper welders make) but women also want a guy that makes more money than they do?.......so they want to make as much money as men make, but they want a man that makes more money than they do.....how does that work?
I used to be friends with a girl. The cost of her friendship was a tea and a 3 minute long car ride to town to hang out with other friends. The cost of a relationship with her was so high I couldnt afford it. Her legs stayed shut (to me) but she was slamming chad down the street for free. MY price of admission was everything i have.
14:04 One thing not being mentioned is that time back then are much different. Women are much more materialistic and looking to greatly increase their status in the hierarchy than those in the past. And both these things takes lots of money. Also it isn’t easier to become a high value man. The bar keeps increasing, so it’s always the top 5-10% that are deemed high value. If every man started making $1million a year or more, to be considered high value, all of a sudden a guy needs to make $5 million a year
yup, when I was 14 I had lots of girlfriends even though I was literally broke. 0 dollars every day for many many years. But I still went out and drank for free, rollerbladed, worked out, did sports etc. Nowadays if I meet a new woman and say 1 "bad thing" (anything can be a red flag, they have a list of 500 things) then it's over. hoeflation is real
Making 40k+ per year puts you in the top 10% worldwide. These women want the 0.01% guy which is mathematically so far out of their reach they can’t even conceive of it.
I learned in the first grade women cost money. Girls like candy. Candy cost money. Even penny candy gets expensive when a man only makes a dollar per week. Funny thing about that- when girls get in senior high they cost even more money. Penny candy dosnt impress them.
Yes I have been berated by them when I stated "I cant afford a woman I'm saving for a house so I can be safe when I'm old and can't work no more or get hired"
Exactly... Just because some men make it up into the top 15% does NOT make room for more people there... some other guys will fall down! And even if the invisible bottom 80% would vanish in a Thanos snip... woemean would immediately regroup and go for the top 15% of the remaining 20%😂 Which means the former top 3%🎉 Have you figured that out, ladies?❤
You just try 5% harder than everyone around you. 90% of people are lazy A / F. The top 15% are just guys that learned how to outperform. Try to get better every day, be a better man tomorrow, try to grow your knowledge every day.
@@pizza0451 not how this works. 5% more effort won't get you anywhere if you want to be the top 15% you are gonna need to put in a lot more effort than that! Either you're born rich or you are in for a struggle.
His voice is “annoying” to you when you don’t like what he says and it hurts deep down inside because men are starting to figure women out. 😛 If she heard his voice defending women’s bad behavior she’d say his voice was cute or relaxing..even charming.
Because they think the guy's joking but he's spitting real facts which women who haven't earned anything themselves in life just gotten free stuff from SIMPS, f!ck boys and men with money can't understand. Deer staring at the headlights of a car ring a bell ?
Because they'd rather be in a harem with one chad than with an average dude. It's really no skin off their nose...unless there is a violent backlash to the current social order that restores historical roles.
10:11 men actually dont think of it when they buy gifts, for us its an act of love or kindness, we dont see it in material sense. We are considerate and thoughtful in how we act.
Make money to have hobbies, happiness must come from the life you live by yourself, if you search someone to make you happy, you put your happiness in their hands and they will use you. When you get at a level that you are happy wait for the right person to come , this waiting means that you go and have fun and expose yourself for someone to find you . Don’t run after . Girls are hard to satisfy, if they pick you not other way around you have the power as a man must have
His voice is annoying because he is speaking truth and they hate anyone who speaks truth on their bs. He talks like that because that’s how you talk to children which you all are.
Rollo the key to your point is “at that time” we live in a different time and you cannot tell anyone that these women aren’t solely focused on how much a man makes. These women today are not the generation of women your wife came from. Then you guys say it’s not that hard since the average is like 35k. At just under $90k a year, I cannot tell you how many times I’ve been called broke and told I don’t make enough to date by women. I’m also not obese, 14.1% body fat, 151lbs @5’10”. And truth be told, $90k isnt enough for a man to fully provide for a woman these days with how much women cost, let alone a family. Most of my money goes to everyday expenses and my mortgage. You truly need to be rich in order to date in this era of modern dating.
My girl and I had an argument yesterday..she called me selfish & lazy cause I don’t help her clean the house..yet I pay for every bill in the house & groceries plus work longer hours 😂 I told her from the beginning I’m not washing plates..if I gotta work a full time job outside and pay all bills myself and still have to clean my own crib while my money is our money and her money is hers..then I might as welll be a single bachelor. I’d save more money then & prob clean better..told her if she’s looking for that 50/50 shi where her dude helps fold clothes and wash dishes and asks for her half on the rent on a monthly basis she can go ahead..I’m not him
@12:08 this is where I have to respectfully disagree with Rollo. He can only say money doesn't matter because he's white. If you're from the hood money is everything. The hood is filled with broke alphas and females are tired of it. In the hood guys take being alpha to such an extreme that many are in jail because of it. You don't want to try to play that game. In the hood you get your money up and you're the man. Trust me i recently got my money up and all the pretty girls want me now. The temptation i deal with now is crazy. Just don't be stupid and don't give them the money. Just give her the opportunity to be around it as long as she acts right.
@@johannesswillery7855 why? I have sexual capital here. In the hood I'm a high value man. Why would I leave this just to be a regular guy in the suburbs?
6:06 I hated that I was a "white belt" for a long time. And it wasn't that I wasn't physically attractive. I wasn't a stud, but I was in shape, in the military, and was building my life, but I was, as you say, an emotional tampon. And when I learned to salt my field of f***s, suddenly I was getting more attention. It is what it is.
When I was 15, my Father and I were in the garden, he was a really good gardener, he fed the family out of the yard, vegetables, fruit, chickens and we hunted. He was contemplative and said “Let me put you on the right track, never, ever, ever, buy anything that: flys, floats, fucks or eats. Rent It”
I'll get her $1.89 McDonald's coffee on my end., while I drink a la Croix sparkling water. Over time I cheapen the bang by making her a coffee at my apartment at about 29 cents. While I drink a .19 cent bottle of water.. Chad life is good.