Not at all eye opening, it’s been quietly on display for years. Check your Social media during Mother’s Day and Father’s Day. You will RARELY see men say things like “Father’s Day is 365”, but is something many women love to say.
It's actually a repellent. We need to find a way to create the chemical compound of accountability into a male fragrance. When you wear it a shield is created to keep thots away.
That's so True. As a woman I had to learn about accountability....these women these days Need that mirror to their face reality. Most these women are in denial and dont want to be had accountable for the things They do.
I dont have to know you in regarding to know common sense. Awwww really? It sounds like someone's feelings are hurt because someone was talking about common sense. OMG!! GET OVER YOURSELF!! And take these advice like a man!!
That is women's nature, this is why Men must be the leaders, when I was younger didn't understand why older men were concerned about female leadership, when i was younger I was confused about the Apostles Paul views on women leaders, the older I get the more I understand . Women naturally reject logic and accountability.
And now, as a group, champion emotionality as higher value/priority. Emotional intelligence should be coupled with logic for a whole picture instead of putting just emotions on a pedestal
*they **_'ALL'_** call in to argue. none of them want to **_'LEARN',_** that's why they get so upset as he gets them to agree **_'WITH EVERY SINGLE THING HE SAYS.'_*
Yep. Especially in this modern American society: women have access to all sorts of birth control if they decide to "hook up" with the worst men they can find (who are incapable of being fathers). Number one: they can use a morning after pill after a night of wild sex with Pookie or Ray Ray. Number two: abortion is still legal and they don't need to get permission from the baby daddy. Besides that, if being a single mother is too expensive and will put their careers on hold, they can drop the baby off at the nearest fire station with no penalties. Being a single mother isn't forced on any of these women, so their victimhood narrative is invalid and self-imposed.
It surely is, there are dozens of birth control methods and you can always keep your legs closed to men who would not be suitable fathers. That's what I've always been taught.
She can't accept it. It's not she doesn't know, it's a want to be right and to die on that hill trying to be correct. It's like half of population is eating cabige and other half meat,so let's make sarma(it's a dish made with this 2 ingredients plus more simply putten) and its not how it works. There is no sarma when you can't agree on how to prepare it and with out other ingredients.
It's ingrained in their nature: they don't even recognize they do it. Their "logic" is that if you lie enough (to other people or to themselves) then eventually the reality will change. This is predominantly a female behaviour but not exclusive to them. There are men who engage in this nonsense, instead of facing the facts and most importantly change their behaviour to obtain different results.
Much of the argument goes his way because it's HIS show, and he controls the mic. When he goes into enemy territory, the outcome isn't the same. Note the original comment she posted was not clearly answered and everyone focused on the detour argument where she was clearly wrong. You think he put this clip up accidentally?
If mama raises her son to be Lebron James, YEP! Mama did that! But if she raises him to be a house burglar, oh his daddy wasn’t in his life. 🤨 🤷🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️
Lmfao, I really felt sorry for the young lady because you can that the lady was sincere and coming from a good place but just immature for that conversation!
@@antoniotula262 Or she's clearly settling for the guy she's actually marrying that she more than likely runs over and doesn't respect. THe caliber of man she really wants as a husband she no longer is eligible for and she's bitter about it.
I don’t often put my personal business online, but I didn’t realize that my wife of 18 years had some of the tendencies that Kevin talks about. The point that he made here about credit for success or failure was one of them. I didn’t realize how much that messed up my own personal growth when I felt like I was crazy for feeling upset, but media, family and friends all pointed to her being a good wife which meant that I was probably the problem. Now, mind you, I do have issues, but those were mine alone and her issues were OUR problem. Now, nearing our 19th year I’ve spoken to her and held up the mirror to let her see herself and let her know that I don’t plan on leaving, but I also don’t plan on continuing on like I am the root of all of our issues. And that I won’t be taking on all of our failures alone while she tells me that I’m not measuring up. It was a freeing experience. Thank you, Kevin.
Thank you for sharing your experience bruh, we have to start talking and come out of our silos. Hoping for improved conditions in your marriage. @Timbo Slice
@Marc Alexander And it’s those types of things that I believed. I was truly trying to be what society told men they should be. That’s my fault. And it lead to where I am and I have to own that. But now that I’m here, I’m confronting the one-sidedness of those expectations. I hope that you all do better with this than I did at first. Stay on purpose.
@R Wash We’ve been in couple’s counseling for a while but I’m just putting all of this together. It took channels like this one to help me to see that my inward feelings had validity. I held everything in for years.
@@KB-ns4sn I even have some female family members, who listen to 15 second clips on instagram and immediately start with the insults, deflections, moving the goalpost, and the need to be right. A lot of them sound just like the women who call into the podcast and it's not a good look. It's sad. No accountability.
This is typical female thought. The complete lack of any accountability. She raises a son alone, he's drafted to the NFL, she praises herself as a single mother who needed no man. She raises a son alone, he becomes a 10 time felon or serial killer, it's his fathers fault, and she did the best that she could.
@@PricelessBinkey1337 Actually, while there is some truth to what you’re saying..single motherhood is the most rampant among black women. I’m a black man, and the truth must be said.
@@waylaidbyfate.5312 What’s your argument? I won’t stand up for ignorant behavior just because my race is responsible. Nonsense is nonsense regardless of who’s involved. 🤷🏽♂️
Whenever Black women say “Ninjas ain’t ish” my reply is always...”And who’s raising these ain’t ish Ninjas? Because the last I checked up to 75% of black children are being raised in fatherless households.”
@Michael Walters, spot on; these women who claim they have a hard time finding "good men" when in reality, good men wouldn't put up with any of that nonsense, so it's the soft or ghetto ones that are left...
She's not tryin to have a conversation......she's tryin to argue......she's a 🤡, and she 4 the streets...... Women go to school to get a degree....they dont go to become "men".......that's 🐂💩........ Now, what HVM, or any man, in his right mind, wants to come home to THAT??????🤔 She's nuts......🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
God told us long ago to 'marry before we carry'. Maybe not those words, but he did teach us marry before sex. The world did not listen and this is the result.
I hate that I've been on this Earth as long as I have and never once thought of this bar myself. All I got from my daddy was "It's cheaper to keep her."
@Matt Joseph wrong lol, read up historian Amity Shlaes book "Great Society" Lyndon B. Johnson MAY have done more than JFK but they weren't far in idealogical viewpoint though.
Some of the woman that called Kevin show, sounds more masculine and rougher than even the toughest guys I know. Women will go out of their way to nitpick something, in order to have a disagreement. Time after time, Kevin clarified his statement, but the woman insisted on disagreeing with something. She just kept finding some other smaller part of this statement to disagree with. There's no way that the man can be happy with a woman like that. It's impossible.
@@chrisb1906 please she lied about being engaged, does this woman sound like she’s ready to share anything with anyone, she probably pees standing up!!
This happens with any demographic. When a demographic with low integrity or self-awareness has a get out of jail free card its GUARANTEED certain individuals from the group will abuse and misuse that card Rich ppl, women, black ppl, children, boss employers, lawyers. It's a universal issue some subsets within a group of ppl do
@Richard Knoggin As a woman, this is true and like Kevin said, a child does not come into this world unless the mother choose for the child to come into the world, so deal with the consequences if you decide to keep it or not give it up to adoption. It is what it is.
🙄 blue air.... Probably a liberal feminist trying to saying these women need to listen more.... Let me guess you think you're pandering is gonna snag a hv black man 🙄😂😂😂😂
@@lefty206 it's sad to see. If you've ever been in a room of women talking amongst each other, you'll see first hand how they enable each other. No accountability, deflections, and the need to be right.
Most people don’t enjoy it, nor choose to be accountable voluntarily. The problem today is, we tear ourselves up to keep from holding people accountable, and tear ourselves up even more so when depending upon their race and sex. When you fail to make people answer for their wrongs, you silently encourage the behavior. When you subsidize their mistakes and wrongs, you promote the behaviors.
She was quick to take credit for the success of the relationship. But couldn't fathom taking responsibility for the bad. Her fiance is gonna be miserable
*Someone will be marrying this in May? May his soul rest in peace.* *Redpill:Brother if you're reading this comment ABORT MISSION! ABORT MISSION TODAY!*
I agree with that statement. However, it always doesn’t turn out like that. I never been proposed to marriage. I do have one child out wed lock. She is 21 now. I’m not complaining. I’m content. I’m glad I got my daughter.
Yea but then when we wait and get in our thirties you all are telling us to HURRY UP YOURE IN THE DANGER ZONE. From 18-29 I’ve been told “you’re doing good you don’t have any kids “ and now I am being told “well you’re eggs are getting old “ . I’m sorry i always feared being a baby momma but now I’m feeling like dang is being a baby momma better ? Lol
@@laurenlocd3180 No. It's better to be alone than to be tied to someone who makes you miserable for 18+ years. You can always adopt if you don't meet anyone. Try to bite your tongue when they start asking if you're a lesbian lol.
@@laurenlocd3180 helllll no girl don’t ever think a baby momma is better. You’re doing great....and nobody other than God and a doctor can tell you about your eggs. However don’t just wait and sit around. Get active and intentional in dating for marriage !
I’m in my 20s and is trying to built a platform like this for men around my age and younger. Turn our experiences into knowledge. I’ll gladly be a catalyst for this well needed change
When she asks Kevin to repeat his statement for clarification, it sounds like she's commanding a dog to do tricks. Am I the only one who got that impression?
And assuming that kid came from consensual sex, no one forced her to have sex. And if she lived in a state with legal abortion, no one forced her to carry it to term.
@Temi Onifade a lot of women who call into the show think they can pull a fast one and skip over the lack of accountability. But, he doesn't get angry, he only points it out to them
The entire concept of personal responsibility had her flabbergasted and she almost lost her life when Kevin actually made her THINK.What he just gave her for free was worth more than any degree she was so quick to take credit for. Her mans in trouble.
She came in with pure emotion and when logic was thrown at her she couldn’t back up the fire she had in her tone. KS did better than the average guy would have in this situation
We need to abnormalize having children out of wedlock. The "baby mama" epidemic is the single greatest detriment to the black community and should be discouraged. MARRY BEFORE YOU CARRY!
@Mark Harris BM have now taken this same behavior in other communities. Those children have overloaded the Foster Care systems. Many others are being dropped off with the BLACK grandmothers. Many of the children have identity crisis.
Buckwheat.....Most of the BM are in the homes with their children. The problem is they are not marrying the women they are with. You are right. If they do not marry, then don't carry. Also, If BM refuse to marry, BW should not shack up with them either. That is also an epidemic in our communities. No babies and no shacking up. They want the benefits of marriage, but not the full responsibilities that come with it.
Yeah that's common sense. I guess common sense these days isn't so common after all. Did you see how combative and toxic she was right out the gate when speaking to Kevin??
Wow. That took some mental gymnastics to get her to understand basic concepts of accountability. I guess they don't get taught these concepts in their quest for a PHD. "I'm a PhD!"
PHD doesn't mean anything. Day one in college saw me forging my Dean's signature so I could take double the load of a full time student. The easiest way to pull this off was to take 500 and 600 level classes as the work load was near zero. All of these guys working on their PHD's did was sit around and bullshit with the professor. Sure, you'd have to write a paper or give a presentation or something but after military service, standing around and bullshitting was easy - super easy. College was the easiest thing I ever did and this was back before the internet.
Big and bossy don't mix. The end of her marriage depends on how whipped and weak he is. That always fades, and reality sets in. She has limited communication skills, is quick to anger, and uses shaming tactics. These traits don't help.
I love all these videos, and those that are similar for a couple of reasons; 1) It's about time men (especially articulate, successful and respected) started exposing how some women think and act, based on a failed feminist ideology that continued to spew, "A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle". 2) Unfortunately, it needed to come from a person of color. Society has decided to disqualified me and my opinions due to my 'privilege'', there by cutting me off at the knees before I can speak. That's a good trick for the offense. 3) The family has been under attack by the Left now for years. Women have been under the delusion that being equal means that we are the same. In fact, to really bring home this point, the Left has decided to erase genders. How can I show the difference between the sexes, if there isn't any? I am so glad I found these videos. God speed Mr. Samuels.
All the pseudo male energy , none of the male logic that birthed Timbukutu , ancient Egyptian mystery schools , the Dogon tribe ancient astrology , greek mathematics, chinese medicine & European sciences.
Let's give it up for that man that's marrying her and taking her off the market. Taking one for the team like that. That's who you need to have your six.
Kevin needs an applause machine when he breaks down their BS. They are so inconsistent and have double standards. This is straight out of Hollywood. BW specifically, women in general never ever want to be wrong.
@Stefluva62 the sad part is that it's not just the women who call into Kevin's show. When you start to pay attention, a lot of these women in real life have the same type of mentality as her. Especially if you've ever sat in a room full of women and see first-hand how they enable each other. No accountability.
In most cases, they haven't even mastered English grammar or pronunciation, yet we're to believe they've got a Master's degree, at least. What's worse is, that due to AA, it's probably true.
I am a 62 year old black man living in England. And I have encountered some many sisters like this angry caller. They just want to fight all the time. There energy is so manish and hyper masculine its nearly unbelievable. There great grandmothers must be constantly turning in there graves.
I agree with your comment and yes, we can safely assume she had no point- I will also say: objectively, she never allowed to actually make a point IF she actually had one. Also- ironically, the ONE point she was in the process of making, was cut off and misunderstood by Kevin directly after he chastised her for misunderstanding his point. THEN, because she wasn’t making a genuine point, but a talking point, she didn’t even catch the fact he was misconstruing her point after cutting her off and the rest of the back and forth from there was just a scatter brained shit show. The point i am referencing is @3:47 where she’s answering Kevin’s question about only 1 in 4 black women being married, and she responds with being raised by a single mother and having no father as a male figure- (her point going to be that modern black women are getting degrees/careers trying to fill the shoes of a male provider they never had”) BUT-KEVIN CUTS HER OFF, misunderstanding her point to be that “modern black women are getting degrees/careers BECAUSE they are single mothers that have no male figure around to provide for them”.. THEN!- she doesn’t respond by calling him out for cutting her off and now HE is the one misunderstanding.. INSTEAD, she responds to his questioning like that WAS the point she was making!.. wtf seriously retarded Lmfao!!!
@@chilipepper9938 thank you and yes it seems like a bachelors degree, masters, or PhD (plus debt) is more socially acceptable and praised than going to wife’s school and graduating with a High Value Man who protects and provides fully.
Lance McGowan it appears the Manosphere is growing against this gender narrative warfare- and it’s about time. It will get way worse before it gets better- more like a population collapse. Birth rate is so low. More Covid deaths now than babies being born.
@ZayTooWoke the problem isn’t family/marriage or having a career/bachelor life, the issue is that the modern woman has unrealistic expectations because they overvalue their sexual marketplace value, undervalue men, and don’t know how to cater to a man long term as a cooperative, fit, and feminine wife
