Worst date experiences, relationship red flags & exposing our ICKS about our spouse | Ep. 21

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We asked you about the worst dates you've ever been on!
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Chapters/Stories:
00:00 - Episode 21
5:35 - Our Worst Date
9:44 - Don't kiss on the first date
12:11 - He texted someone else during our date
12:52 - He peed on the street
17:19 - He messaged me on HIS WEDDING
18:57 - He was a silverware thief
19:54 - He french kissed on the Ferris wheel
21:27 - His toilet stopped working
23:58 - He brought his mother on the date
25:49 - He dined and dashed leaving me with the bill
27:05 - He conspired with his friends to kiss me
30:17 - He hit on me in front of my partner
32:09 - He realized he was attracted to another girl
33:36 - My breastmilk showered over him while having sex
35:53 - He ghosted me
37:28 - He brought his girlfriend to our date
39:28 - He accused me of being posh
41:28 - HE PICKED HIS NOSE AND ATE IT IN FRONT OF ME
43:07 - He was convicted of assault
44:14 - I got my period blood on his family's dining chairs
47:30 - Having the sex talk with our kids
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@katebruce8742 Год назад

I really prefer the episodes of just the two of you talking to each other. I like them all but I love the ones where you just talk about life.

@aaariguadalupe1 Год назад

Same here tbh! Love them.

@carmensamone Год назад

Same! I agree! I like the ones with the guests, but I loveee the ones with just them because I feel like I'm learning more about them.

@kp782 Год назад

I agree - it feels so much more relaxing to listen

@shyannfries1122 10 месяцев назад

❤

@peaseofmind68 10 месяцев назад

Agreed

@thenorriestory Год назад

Sexual education with your children can start right from babyhood. Teaching them the proper names for their body parts is the perfect place to start. Start early and always keep the conversation going. This will help avoid an awkward “birds and the bees” conversation when they are preteens and educate them along the way.

@janidriggs6275 Год назад

This is what we did and we feel like it was very effective. We never had “the talk” but rather an on going conversation (age appropriate) from baby until the day before they were married.

@LivDB Год назад

I wish I did this! I had my son at 18 years old & didn’t ever think about any of this & he’s 9.5 now & I’m like how do I even start this conversation 😩

@moderator7169 Год назад

teaching proper body part names isn't sexual education do you even know what Sexual education is

@moderator7169 Год назад

@@LivDB its part of life there's nothing awkward Its either you educate them based on their age and curiosity NOW....or peers and social media will do it

@kellieh5184 Год назад

The guest podcasts are great but just you two are my favorite episodes. Y’all just flow so well together

@KKIvy Год назад

Yesssss!!

@natashaschroeder5146 Год назад

Agree!!!

@godsgirl1031 Год назад

Agree

@realtaravlogs7223 Год назад

Yes agree

@allitopete Год назад

Abby talking about “cheating on current-me with pre-pregnancy me” is SO REAL 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@elf259 Год назад

4:46 What Matt says is parallel to Ross saying, "I grew up with Monica. If you didn't eat fast, YOU DIDNT EAT"

@jodil1209 Год назад

I was thinking the same thing!!

@MicLilly Год назад

I was waiting to find this!! Yessss!

@Amy-oc2ui Год назад

I love your podcast! Married for 21 years here and my husband had to wipe me after I dislocated my left shoulder and it was in a sling, and my right wrist had just had surgery and had metal pins in it. Marriage is not for the faint of heart. Real life is not always pretty but boy is it a blessing to have someone who loves you enough to go through it with you.

@AnnouschkaMs Год назад

Love the episodes where it is just Matt&Abby together❤ such good chemistry!

@olivialayla6916 Год назад

Yep! Aside from Matt asking for podcast reviews every minute. I counted 4 in this podcast alone 😭 ppl will review and know that if you’re in the charts sponsors will give more $ but you could be more lowkey about your greed Matt. ppl are more likely to do it without the excessive asks! actually makes me want to do it less lol you interrupting the actual content to remind me how to rate the podcast like your fans are dumb and have forgotten since you last begged them for a review a couple of minutes ago is embarrassing🥱Just be self aware

@jennifermcnutt0530 Год назад

Yes, these are my favorite as well

@anna-mariamartinovic2272 Год назад

Abby is glowing lately!

@tashaax1993xanimalloverx Год назад

Pregnancy definitely suits some more than others! She looks amazing 👏 ❤

@Jamie-ry5ei Год назад

Abby is glowing lately ❤❤❤❤❤pregnancy definitely suits some more than others she looks amazing 👏🏻❤ 3:17

@danbeedell1104 Год назад

I know

@nicoleonscreen Год назад

@@Jamie-ry5ei You merged both of their comments into one 🤣

@defnoturmom1 Год назад

she’s always glowing, pregnant or not 🫶🏻

@arianad5690 Год назад

Definitely always tell ur kids at an age appropriate level that no one should touch you in certain areas, often when kids are to young to understand they don't know how to protect themselves or even think to tell someone. Never to early to teach them safety

@maddiebroadstone Год назад

With how society is these days it’s such a breath of fresh air to watch these two have such a healthy marriage; thank you guys ♥️

@MrsCarrieSnyder 5 месяцев назад

That’s exactly how I feel! 🥹 Brings me joy

@amyhoward9865 Год назад

My 6 month old and I are finally catching up! Your voices soothe him so much because I watched so many of your TikToks while pregnant with him! We are huge fans!

@madelienebreeding6740 Год назад

5 stars! Matt and Abby are truly such a real life, go with the flow couple. Your podcast is my favorite part of the week, and I always feel like the topics you guys cover are so relevant to what’s happening in the world! Love this podcast, and so happy that you guys decided to start making these episodes!❤

@CourtneyZoeysMommy Год назад

I love how you guys can talk about anything and everything and still look back on the funny and embarrassing moments. I seriously enjoy watching you guys. I don't even skip ahead because every part of your videos is worth watching and relatible and so fun to watch. You two are such an amazing couple, seriously my fave.❤

@johannaehrensvard5755 Год назад

One of my favorite episodes yet! You guys are the best! Keep on being yourselves and share your life openly and authentically. Sending love from Sweden!

@dianacooper-havlik4115 Год назад

Y’all are completely honest with each other…very admirable!

@UnplannedPodcast Год назад

Honesty is the best policy!

@shaynbausch7959 Год назад

Watching the latest episode! Love seeing you guys do life together, the ups downs and in betweens. Keep it up, the juice is worth the squeeze!

@rashaa2166 Год назад

i NEVER miss your podcasts!! all of them are great, but personally my fav podcasts are the ones where it's just you two!

@mikawilliams7403 Год назад

thanks for the reminder to like the video! it’s so easy to get caught up in the good conversation points that i forget! 🙌🏼😄 much appreciated

@beckyklepper315 Год назад

I went on a first date...where we met at the restaurant. There was a long wait, so in conversation I asked him when his last date was. (We had been talking for about 6 weeks.) Turns out, he just broke up with his FIANCE 3 weeks before our date. I asked if he was really ready to date...he assured me he was. He was checking out the waitress's behind every time she walked past. It wasn't even close to covert. He had two sleeve tattoos on his arms so I asked what they were for. He rolls his arms over, and they were covered in swastikas!! He said he got them in prison for attempting to murder a friend after getting drunk. 😮 Needless to say, I left. I even drove to a whole other side of town in vase he tried to follow me home. Lol

@keepcalmanddanceon9128 Год назад

Omg 😮 glad you got away!

@beckyklepper315 Год назад

@@keepcalmanddanceon9128 I had already called a friend to check on me in 10 minutes if I didn't call her back. Lol

@coreytillman3237 Год назад

Another thing with forbidding any exposure at all to social media is that it creates a strong and potentially dangerous curiosity. Now the kid is going to be wandering why it's so bad and what he isn't allowed to see. So when he inevitably gets access somehow (whether through friends, devices at school, etc...) he will be more inclined to look at bad stuff on the web. Kind of like a forbidden fruit kind of deal. I have no experience raising children of my own, but that's how I was as a kid.

@jennifermcnutt0530 Год назад

Exactly! Just because you don’t want them to have something doesn’t mean they won’t find a way. They can create accounts using computers or friends devices & you’d never know.

@sylviareimers7075 Год назад

One thing though, they say that not having a smartphone until 18 is wrong because no exposure for the kid to the internet BUUUUT as a 17 year old who only got a flip phone when I turned 16 and I’ll get a smart phone in a few months… I still am on the internet! ( obviously lol ) and just because I don’t have a smart phone doesn’t mean I can’t have social media! Like I have instagram and RU-vid on my computer and it works fantastic! I think it was perfect for my siblings and I! Also I do understand that every family is different but I am so glad my parents implemented this. I mean, I’m scared that once I get a smartphone, I’m going to be addicted to it like a lot of other teens 😬 but I do have awareness of that so hopefully I’m ok 😂😂 alrighty thanks for letting me rant 😂😂😂😂

@lindseylewis6144 Год назад

I've been with you guys since the small apartment pre- Hawaii and hearing you talk about the gourmet restaurant was amazing 😂 Hearing Abby describe spitting out the food into the fireplace is totally you and hilarious. You are the best and so authentic. Great episode! Eating pretzels on my couch with the episode on my TV. It's like I'm with my homie Midwest folk

@lindacooley9043 Год назад

I really enjoy listening to you guys. I love that Abby;s parents are moving in to help with the kids. Great family!

@g.isa5263 Год назад

always loving the podcasts! i know this probably won’t be seen, but it would be SO awesome if the entire video has subtitles like the beginning segments. this may just be a personal preference, but it is just more helpful to follow along. very glad you’re both doing well :)

@lifeviz28568 Год назад

It's so funny and the stories crack me up thinking do weird people like this even exist when going on a date?! And its also nice to hear embarrassing dates that went well !! Great video Abby and Matt !! ❤❤❤

@km2927 Год назад

LOVED the episode with Shawn and Andrew! Love the East fam and y’all! Keep up the good work! Praying for y’all for a safe delivery and smooth transition to 2!

@allisonzeagler6568 Год назад

I really prefer the episodes when it’s just the two of y’all! The flow is better & so much more entertaining

@chyeahh1098 Год назад

Saaaame

@diannabrutsman5271 Год назад

Consent does not always have to be vocal, it's also given or not given through body language. For instance, when you start to lean in for a kiss and start to pucker your lips, keep your eyes open to see if the other person also leans in and does the same, that's giving consent. If the other person pulls away or doesn't lean in, then they are clearly saying no and not giving consent to a kiss. Body language is everything, you don't always have to ask, "may I kiss you?" You are welcome to ask to kiss someone if you are not sure

@Amy-vo9rb Год назад

I love the conversations that emerge with you guys!!

@jaelynlister4915 Год назад

love y’all so much!! y’all’s videos always bring me some comfort at the ends of my days. thank you for being you! i pray everything goes smoothly with the parents moving in and with baby boy #2 being on the way!♥️

@UnplannedPodcast Год назад

Thank you so much!! Appreciate it!

@erinbuyske2051 Год назад

Love the Matt & Abby only episodes!

@matthewandnicolesawatzky7297 Год назад

I'm a young stay at home Mom of two little boys ages 2 and 4 and I just wanted to say how much I have loved your podcasts. I listen to guys while cleaning, making meals or while out walking solo when my husband gets off of work. My husband and I got married young and had kiddos early as well so It's nice to have something so wholesome and real to listen to that I can relate to. Thank you very much for sharing your lives with us. You're a bright light in today's world and make such a difference in my life. 🩷 Keeping you guys in my prayers as Abby's delivery date gets closer. 🙏🏼 P.s. Abby's due date is on my birthday 🥳

@marissamarie6531 Год назад

Happy to see you guys back in your normal podcast setting!

@flaviaazvdo9333 Год назад

It's hard to find lighthearted but interesting content like yours! Thanks for all the cool videos 💙

@nicolel4439 Год назад

I LIVE FOR YALLS PODCAST!!! I have an 18 and 15 year old and JUST HAD A BABY...my 3 month old and I watch these together now!!

@kimberly25christinesmith72 Год назад

My favorite episodes are just with u too. Then the ones with ur family or friends we've seen in vlogs and are invested in. Just because ppl are famous doesn't really mean ppl care about then especially ur fans. We wanna see u guys

@msbethxo 11 месяцев назад

My absolute favorite podcast! I love u guys! I listen in the car usually & it helps to pass the time & feels like u guys are right here with me. I love the episodes where it's just you two but I do also enjoy when you have guest! Keep doing what you love & making great content for us to enjoy ❤

@teeandkids937 Год назад

Guys this one was amazing I could listen to you two talk to each other all day haha

@JakeWebbersWife13 Год назад

I love this podcast 😭 I literally listen to it EVERY DAY! Y'all are amazing. And Griffin is literally the cutest!🫶🏻 Love y'all so much 🫶🏻🫶🏻

@katiemayo1223 Год назад

I love hearing about how y’all already, and will, parent and monitor social media for your kids, especially because that is yalls job!!

@ellamina23 Год назад

What Matt said about hand sanitizer is true! Most sanitizers also have harmful chemicals in them. They’re meant to be a back up for “in need” situations. Not daily use. When you’re in an area with water and soap it’s always best to wash your hands. Friction goes a long way. And we do have helpful bacteria on our skin 😊

@kp782 Год назад

Yes this very true. Good bacteria is very healthy and helps your immunsystem. Also you are less likely to get any allergies or autoimmunes diseases

@Casadek_ Год назад

YOOOOO NEVER BEEN THIS EARLY! Love these videos! 20 weeks today we are so excited!

@emilyn0820 Год назад

I love watching/listening to you guys is my favorite thing to do on Wednesdays!! I wish Spotify's comment section was longer because I could comment all day! You guys are so true and genuine. You always brighten my day. So funny 😂 love yall❤

@BriannaNorum 10 месяцев назад

Almost halfway through and y’all got me cracking up in this episode🤣 So glad I decided to watch y’all’s channel! God bless you and your sweet little fam!🤍🕊️

@gracegrandclair4506 Год назад

Matt and Abby I absolutely love your podcast and can’t wait to watch it every Wednesday when I get off of work! ❤

@UnplannedPodcast Год назад

Yay! Thank you!

@haileybender3649 Год назад

This episode was hilarious! Thank you for making this so funny! 😂❤

@fantasyfiend12 Год назад

I only like the podcasts of the two of them together. With guests, its always just them complimenting each other and talking about the same exact topics.

@natashaschroeder5146 Год назад

I love your podcast!! It‘s the only podcast I hear and I enjoy it very much!!🥰🥳🙌🏽

@giamarrr Год назад

It would be amazing to have the Bucketlist Family on here! Been loving the episodes

@carolcarter-fe4ij Год назад

Your pod cast is always great.

@nicolebryant2419 Год назад

Absolutely my favorite podcast/ show, you two remind me of my husband and I, high school sweethearts and married my best friend ❤.

@cristinamerlini Год назад

I love this podcast!! ❤

@christinegrugios1631 Год назад

Love you're podcast , You both make me laugh ❤ Thanks for you're time !!

@vickycorey8195 10 месяцев назад

I love it both ways. I love hearing directly from you and you interviewing others. ❤

@MaciTrammell87 Год назад

I love you guys so much you guys are just very comforting and make me feel like I’m not alone because my parents both have a full-time job I’m 10 and I stay home and I’ll listen to everyone of your podcasts and you guys are just so positive and I just love how you guys are!

@estherlouise924 Год назад

You guys should have Connor and Liana on a podcast episode in the future!

@yvonne8786 Год назад

Yes! I love them!!

@bellis7772 Год назад

Great episode, guys!

@annlumanog2305 Год назад

Always fun watching you guys!

@julianak28 Год назад

I just realized this morning watching this podcast on our TV my 4 month old reacts to you both it's the sweetest thing 🥰 Keep doing what you guys do best No longer a silent follower 😂

@jordankapral Год назад

My husband and I have agreed that our children will not have social media until they're adults, and probably won't have their own phone until they have a job to pay for it. There's so much danger on the internet and kids don't need to be anywhere around it.

@MegaQueenSerenity Год назад

We’re in the same boat.. social media is so predatory for kids and teens

@jennifermcnutt0530 Год назад

Just realize if they have friends with devices they will have access & their friends will let them use their devices. Also schools are very device heavy now & they can use those devices as well. Kids are also buying phones off of each other at school & just using them with internet access so be mindful of that as well. These are just things I’ve seen as a teacher & parent so wanted to throw it out there.

@jordankapral Год назад

@@jennifermcnutt0530 I appreciate the input! We're homeschooling so that takes a big worry out of it for us, and we hope to find like minded friends. But certainly a good word of warning for those who won't homeschool.

@jennifermcnutt0530 Год назад

@@jordankapral I honestly feel like that’s the best way to protect your kids.

@camillebusco9863 Год назад

I absolutely love this podcast!!!

@ayden7625 Год назад

I barely started watching you guys a few months and I ready I love your RU-vid channel and u too

@alexandramonaco5499 6 месяцев назад

I am super excited I found your channel. I haven't found many videos keeping my attention lately until... RU-vid recommended your channel. What a breath of fresh air. You guys are the sweetest couple and Abby is such a great mommy/human. I relate to the crying over every thing. 😂😢 I love the videos with just the two of you. Yall make the perfect duo and are unstoppable. Excited to see everything to come.☀️

@dianamuuru6350 Год назад

I honestly like your solo episodes better!

@harlanite24 Год назад

Absolutely love you guys look forward every week for you podcast ❤️❤️❤️

@UnplannedPodcast Год назад

Wow, thank you!

@elizabethbarea Год назад

Love you guys! And loved this episode!

@Delaney0927 Год назад

I love the podcasts! Keep up the good work! ❤

@UnplannedPodcast Год назад

Yay, thank you!

@Call-me-Tiff-Tiff Год назад

I usually don't listen to podcast, but I really enjoy listen to yours. Thank you guys.

@christyleezilka5592 8 месяцев назад

Y’all seem to have a really healthy and uplifting relationship, so I just love “hanging out” with y’all as I work. It’s a good influence as a parent and wife 🥰🙏🏼☺️ Keep doing what your doing.

@ava.noelle Год назад

Love this! ❤

@reneepalkendo4237 Год назад

Oh my gosh! The guy bringing his mom is like the guy who had his mom call me to ask me out for him 🤣!! I felt so much sympathy for that situation

@strawberrykatnz Год назад

Loved this podcast! I always love the conversation ones between you guys and love that it included stories from other people. Maybe you could do pregnancy and family topics with stories from others or even gym/workout or travel type topics too? One thing I was thinking about recently was how cool would it be if you did an episode with Gabe and Jess!? Would be awesome - my two fav RU-vid couples in this age bracket :-)

@jennS9311 Год назад

My husband and I have both had talks with our girls. Both together, and separately. I want all of our kids, boys, and girls, to be able to visit with either of us about anything. Starting talking with them about periods and intimacy at an appropriate age is the best decision I feel like.

@dreamcrazy36 Год назад

Love episodes like this

@user-bv5kf7zr4i Год назад

I really excited for the new podcast episode

@user-gr8zl6cy2v Год назад

I loved this episode!

@user-wc1rr5uu2y Год назад

Love the podcast keep doing it

@marypagebradley9703 Год назад

I laughed listening to the story about the period blood on her boyfriend’s parents’ dining chair (so sorry to her because I can imagine she was mortified!) I laughed because I also spent the night with my boyfriend for the first time at 15 years old. I didn’t have a good home life and even though other people close to me were totally unaware, his mom sensed it and provided a safe space for me. It actually changed my life in ways I’ll never be able to put into words. Almost 12 years later and I’m still with my high school sweet heart - we have two dogs, own two properties and are working towards building our family ❤

@brookjessop7177 Год назад

Love these episode i sit there laughing out loud they are so funny and full of energy not like any other podcast 😂😂🎉🎉

@Tuckernelson-qj7me Год назад

Mat and Abby are the best podcast people in the world

@MrsCarrieSnyder 5 месяцев назад

This episode make me so thankful I didn’t date a bunch, and I found my hubby so young 🙏 We just celebrated 20 years together ❤️

@valeriyaneshkova9499 Год назад

I love you guys sooooo much. Keep it up ❤

@alysefazlic4009 Год назад

I LOVE your videos! Your the best couples ever!!!

@landryedwards1861 Год назад

so early and so excited to watch my comfort podcast

@sarahmulqueen6079 Год назад

I've only got one child, but during her ultrasounds she was kicking and wiggling the whole time. Nearing the end of the pregnancy she was doing summersaults you could literally see it 😅. And yep she came out rearing to go, crawling before 6 months and walking before a year 😂. Not a lot has changed and she's just over 5

@alexischarest378 Год назад

My girl crawled before then and walked before 1 too! My nephew was walking at literally 7 months old it blows my mind lnao

@ambermoore7866 Год назад

All 3 of my boys were crazy during their ultrasounds. And all 3 of them.. have been very early with their milestones. One of my boys was running around at 9 months old 😱😂

@karinafifita24 Год назад

I love your podcast so much!!!!❤❤❤

@unapologeticallyromel7096 Год назад

Love the podcast 💗

@SolsticeBeautyByJessica Год назад

I love your podcast.

@hummingbirdenthusiast1481 Год назад

Matt I agree with you about the learning aspect. My daughter is an artist and she has been learning and building things. She made her own claw machine by an idea. She got off RU-vid when she was seven or eight and it completely worked and looked totally real. Gave prices and everything. She also had her own variety of slime and slime business lol. There are good things but also bad you just have to find balance and also Supervision my daughter was very inquisitive and she still is and like you she love to learn and build things. She used it more in an artistic way, but I would not want to take that away from her in any way she loved her iPad in those ways and luckily we never had any problems.

@Ihatelucyyy 11 месяцев назад

Love you guys!!💗

@jadedilorenzo8136 Год назад

“I’m regular “ Lol, you guys are so cute! Love the podcast.

@kendiburrus Год назад

I loved this kind of podcast! Thanks for the great video. It feels like we are just hanging out and I love it!!

@UnplannedPodcast Год назад

YAY! Glad you enjoyed it!

@alliejones7034 Год назад

Eeeeee love you guys!!!! Y’all are so funny!!!!😂❤️

@lorraineswack6256 Год назад

Love you guys!!!😊

@joyleeth9961 Год назад

Love this episode …..so interesting .

@theresabingham2601 Год назад

I was in a relationship for over a year and honestly didn't feel comfortable kissing the guy until he got down on one knee and proposed. I have known the guy for years, we were friends. Physical intimacy is something that I'm not completely comfortable with and I want to make sure that I can trust, and he knew that. We were long distance as well. The sad is we aren't together and he isn't talking to me, and we were friends for years. We used to talk about anything.