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Would You Have Kids to Save Your Relationship? 

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A same-sex couple shares their surrogacy journey and parenting story with Cristino, a 24-year-old gay man who isn't at all sure if he wants kids. Jeff and Tom prod Cristino by asking "would you have kids to save your relationship?" But Jeff also flashes back to his own youth, wondering whether having the full "gay experience" was necessary before settling down into fatherhood. To have or have not, that is the question.
Kids vs. No Kids: Gay Men and Parenthood | Should We Kid or Not? Ep. 3
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Writer | Director
Maxine Trump
Executive Producers for Independent Lens
Sally Jo Fifer
Lois Vossen
Producers
Dorottya Mathe
Maxine Trump
Series Producer
Pamela Torno
Supervising Producer for ITVS
Clare Chambers
Director of Photography
Hiroshi Hara
Editor
Josh Granger
Casting Associate
Martine Phelan-Roberts
Production Designer
Jesika Farkas
Sound Recordist
Nikola Chapelle
Production Coordinator for ITVS
Susan Cohen
Makeup Artist | Hair Stylist
Daurisa Tessier
Camera Operator | Gaffer
Andrew Keefe
Camera PA
Mollie Moore
Art PA
Jack Dobens
Set PA
Serena Smith
DIT | Behind The Scenes Photographer
Kuldeep Sah Gangola
Driver
Igeoma "Ejoma" Simon
Colorist
Kyle I. Kelley
ReRecording Mixer Clean Cuts
Archie Moore
Intern
Adrian Korin
Music Courtesy of
APM Music
Filmed at
Attic Studios
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SHOULD WE KID OR NOT? is a co-production of HITMAN PRODUCTIONS, LLC and INDEPENDENT TELEVISION SERVICE (ITVS), with funding provided by the CORPORATION FOR PUBLIC BROADCASTING (CPB)
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Комментарии : 32   
@torkelsvenson6411
@torkelsvenson6411 4 года назад
Definitely not, if your relationship is in danger, having kids will most likely ruin it due to all the stress.
@amandasafterword9512
@amandasafterword9512 3 года назад
Thanks for talking about adoption. Surrogacy is a beautiful thing, don’t get me wrong, but so many kids need a home and everyone considering kids should consider adoption first (imo).
@KreeZafi
@KreeZafi 3 года назад
I agree, I think that even fertile heterosexual couples should start considering adoption more. SO many kids in the world are in need of loving parents!
@Emiliapocalypse
@Emiliapocalypse 3 года назад
Can we save a failing parachute by adding a sack of bricks? Let’s find out
@MichelleGissara
@MichelleGissara 3 года назад
It's a human life not a relationship saver omg.
@focusbonheur6519
@focusbonheur6519 4 года назад
It is funny to me that gay couple are more free now than before to have any life they want with mariage, acceptance, but at the same time, they became more pressured with having all the options of hetero couples. More freedom but not necessarly more simple...
@Myria83
@Myria83 4 года назад
Cristino seems such a sweet guy! And he's cute, too. :-)
@Eckertainment
@Eckertainment 3 года назад
This is lovely, seeing these vids branch out to more walks of life. I was mostly seeing women talking to women, but it really is a topic that effects everyone no matter your gender, sexual orientation, race, etc. : )
@SuperLovehp
@SuperLovehp 3 года назад
It's interesting that most of the young people interviewing for this series are usually on the childfree side
@marcusanark2541
@marcusanark2541 3 года назад
They have more choices and worst expectations for the future, it's rational for many if not most of them.
@taylortaylor5854
@taylortaylor5854 4 года назад
Things going to be worst. My parents use to fight all the day 24/7 during 20 years, in some Point between my childhood and teenager day i was tired and wish both of them were murder. So 😒 And my younger brother is an alcoholic
@cam6872
@cam6872 4 года назад
Yo I'm sorry that you're brother turned out that way. I hope you find something to look forward to regardless of your family's past. I had a similar childhood concerning my parents trying to save their marriage by having my little brother. I'm glad that him and I grew up well, and both of us plan to create a better future for ourselves.
@taylortaylor5854
@taylortaylor5854 4 года назад
Cameron Grecia thank you.
@PowerOfAIandMotivation
@PowerOfAIandMotivation Год назад
Such videos are amazing and you guys did it so well, thanks a lot for these videos
@mndyD9
@mndyD9 4 года назад
Love this episode 💗
@mailevanunen3146
@mailevanunen3146 4 года назад
I love the couple! I see their love for each other and see how positive, open, and kind they are.
@BB-yl4wv
@BB-yl4wv 4 года назад
I love this kind of conversation.
@chadguindon6909
@chadguindon6909 7 месяцев назад
As a gay man, I'm single/unmarried and childfree all by choice. I don't have the matrimonial or paternal desires and I enjoy my autonomy and freedom to do what I want when I want. I don't wanna go through a divorce and deal with the burdens of paying alimony, child support and legal fees. My mental health (depression and anxiety disorder) is a very good reason to opt out of getting married and having children.
@jpbart1390
@jpbart1390 3 года назад
simple answer; fuck no!!
@marcusanark2541
@marcusanark2541 3 года назад
The most interesting episode.
@zethikirst
@zethikirst Год назад
Not him saying "debauchery" is a "gay experience"
@mikz8694
@mikz8694 2 года назад
they said, the baby is their stress reliever but also causes stress to them HEHE!
@beautyintheskies
@beautyintheskies Год назад
it is the same with pets. they are both the source of stress, and provide stress relief.
@KibouKunny
@KibouKunny 3 года назад
so is he ought to wear the shirt by the backside for any reason?
@alicewolfson4423
@alicewolfson4423 Год назад
Having kids won't save any marriage, it'll only add more stress.
@AceHardy
@AceHardy 4 года назад
👑🙏
@tenaja
@tenaja Год назад
No.
@thetwelfth9987
@thetwelfth9987 4 года назад
*page boi has smoll feet*
@moumita_d99
@moumita_d99 4 года назад
You are cute.
@rolfkrajewski4975
@rolfkrajewski4975 4 года назад
His hair is hideous
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