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Wrong Love | Yasmin Mogahid 

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Allah gives us gifts, but then we come to love them as we should only love Him. We take those gifts and inject them into our hearts, until they take over. Soon we cannot live without them. Every waking moment is spent in contemplation of them, in submission and worship to them. The mind and the heart that was created by Allah, for Allah, becomes the property of someone or something else.
And then the fear comes. The fear of loss begins to cripple us. The gift-that should have remained in our hands-takes over our heart, so the fear of losing it consumes us. Soon, what was once a gift becomes a weapon of torture and a prison of our own making. How can we be freed of this? At times, in His infinite mercy, Allah frees us…by taking it away.
As a result of it being taken, we turn to Allah wholeheartedly. In that desperation and need, we ask, we beg, we pray. Through the loss, we reach a level of sincerity and humility and dependence on Him which we would otherwise not reach-had it not been taken from us. Through the loss, our hearts turn entirely to face Him. (#love #islamicvideo #islamicmotivation #islamiclecture #marriage)
Credit: Yasmin Mogahid, MAS ICNA (‪@MASICNAConvention‬)
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@fearlesssoul4346
@fearlesssoul4346 Год назад
Subhan Allah.. She is right... I have a personal experience with this situation.... If we love someone more than we aren't allowed to... Allah tests us by taking that thing away from us... May Allah subhanawatacallah guides us all to the right path...
@beauty_of_islam735
@beauty_of_islam735 Год назад
True
@Ariat1913
@Ariat1913 Год назад
Exactly
@allieansari789
@allieansari789 Год назад
Exactly...I also have this experience
@viggogee988
@viggogee988 Год назад
That explains it... 😞
@ibrahimnaeem9672
@ibrahimnaeem9672 Год назад
True 100%%%right i experiance it so closely
@madebyilsa
@madebyilsa Год назад
she has explained the entire philosophy of divine love in this single video
@loveschile7339
@loveschile7339 Год назад
This sister is speaking thee absolute truth! Those kids will become a test for you. Detaching the unhealthy part is HARD! But it can take you down. We have to raise them, teach them their religion and let them fly! We dont own them. They aren't ours. They will live their own lives & we have to find comfort in the fact that Allah allowed us to be their caretaker for that temporary time. Same with spouses. Basically, we have to love with limits. Nothing in society teaches us to be this way but Allah does if we have true understanding.
@wearealive796
@wearealive796 Год назад
Listen to this folks, this is correct. Heart is not designed for that immense love you have for that one person. Anything we take too dearly as though it surpasses our Love of God then it’s destructive it’s harmful . Simply because our hearts are not meant for it
@assasco-hx3qh
@assasco-hx3qh Год назад
It’s true I agree I faced this problem and after a long hard time when I return to Allah and I purely love Allah he give me everything. Shukar Allah ka now my life only for Allah who is only one who ruling this world . SubhanAllah
@sanazafar3822
@sanazafar3822 Год назад
This is so true…we literally are raised to spend our lives in servitude to everyone…our elder siblings, parents, spouses, in-laws, children …we are blackmailed and hard wired into thinking that it’s normal for a person to act as a super human…to juggle all roles at the same time and be perfect….it’s only when trials , hardships and depression befalls on us do we realise that Allah alone is our saviour, our guide, the Almighty, the All knowing, the Compassionate, and that we truly owe our servitude to Him and Him alone…..
@loveschile7339
@loveschile7339 Год назад
Perfectly said!
@fatimah9202
@fatimah9202 Год назад
The essence is not to stop serving, but to serve for the sake of Allah. And when you are sincerely doing things for the creation to please the creator, the heart does not break when you are not appreciated or let down, because you know that everything you did was for Allah. And with worship you gain Jannah, but in serving humanity, you gain the love and nearness to Allah
@Pathan109ShortVideos
@Pathan109ShortVideos Год назад
Don't hate those who lied to you, cheated and betrayed you. It will teach you to rely on ALLAH and expect less from creation. They will be answerable For their deeds and you will be accountable for your deeds. Forgive them and leave everything to ALLAH he is just. ❤️☝️
@Dream_Grade_Academy
@Dream_Grade_Academy Год назад
Subhanallah. Very True. May Allah ease our affairs.
@asiaabbas4515
@asiaabbas4515 Год назад
So true.....and if you're not careful you might fail the test........may Allah swt forgive us for the sins that we're aware and those we're not ❣🤲
@khushbu1409
@khushbu1409 Год назад
JazakAllah khair for good reminder
@Ballout60s
@Ballout60s Год назад
Bless her heart but she needs to chill with being super masculine
@adnanurgentfact9995
@adnanurgentfact9995 Год назад
​ in i
@NasroDaoudi-ls4sm
@NasroDaoudi-ls4sm Год назад
It is undoubtedly one of the most precious lessons to be learnt: the human's heart is all and only for the love of Allah the Almighty Thx sister
@sumanmehjebin3133
@sumanmehjebin3133 Год назад
Wow as simple as that!!!!! If this is followed by everyone....then no issue will arise. Our life must revolve around Allah❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@seacrest73
@seacrest73 Год назад
Yeah Subhanallah. I learned this lesson the hard way. First, it was my best friend and I lost her. Then, it was a man I fell hard for, and nothing came of it.
@minomokwa744
@minomokwa744 Год назад
wish i had known that a lot earlier in life !!!!!!!! SubhanAllah
@asiaabbas4515
@asiaabbas4515 Год назад
Even if you knew...you will be tested regardless... Me I knew and I know but still am hurt for loving him.....😢
@imaie3617
@imaie3617 Год назад
@@asiaabbas4515 I was thinking the same. This concept / idea was taught to us , but I think many (if not majority) of Muslims , will still have this sort of test “Fitna” .
@samelis6546
@samelis6546 Год назад
God takes away everything I love instantly. I had a gift for years, didn't use it. Used it once, and it literally flew away and I actually cried over that while telling myself that it was just an object even if it had sentimental value. All the things I love would just break in a short amount time once I start to even like it a little but things I don't mind or hate are always usable for years. So many examples of this throughout my life. I hope I'm learning to let go of worldly things faster God willing because this test is too tiring for me.
@AestheticQuotes126
@AestheticQuotes126 Год назад
Subhan Allaah... True words most needed by the younger generation. 🌼
@almasfathimasaad3563
@almasfathimasaad3563 Год назад
True to the core Realised many things Jazakallah khair
@dahma4570
@dahma4570 Год назад
I learned the hard way. Allah with his mercy tested me so I can realize no one other than Him belongs in that part of my heart... Now I am doing the damage control and constantly reminding myself expect only from Allah and rely on Allah only. After ten years of blindness, it's so to constantly remember to Put Allah first... May Allah grant as sincerity in our actions.. my Allah guide our hearts to the right path and the right way to love.
@achrafabid1541
@achrafabid1541 Год назад
May Allah the almighty grant me his love and attach my heart only to his love.
@hannnahdek
@hannnahdek Год назад
Amiin y ALLAH. That is just true
@aishahamza4111
@aishahamza4111 Год назад
Ameen ya Allah
@aasisters7910
@aasisters7910 6 месяцев назад
Aamiin Ya Rabb ❤
@arbazmalik4534
@arbazmalik4534 Год назад
That central point of my heart once belonged to my dad and now I've lost him, 7 years. Allah taught me the hard way.
@user-sz3oq6ie9u
@user-sz3oq6ie9u 6 месяцев назад
Darood Nazar e Kram perhyn Ya Rehmatul Alamin Sallalahu Alaika wasalum Huzoor Nazre Kram farmayn mujh pr
@abeer141
@abeer141 Год назад
Exactly, you will learn this in the hard way at the very end of your life. A priceless lesson from her.
@morocconoshaimaa
@morocconoshaimaa Год назад
True.. it's only by loving Allah that we can love others. May Allah bless us with His love
@creepysiny6695
@creepysiny6695 Год назад
Ya Allah it shook me from inside each nd every words were true
@bdbulkcarriers3520
@bdbulkcarriers3520 Год назад
Subhan Allah . She is absolutely right. Love is only for Almighty Allah SWT.
@Mohammad-kj7ed
@Mohammad-kj7ed Год назад
I wish I knew this before I broke my heart. First it was my mother then it was somebody who would replace my mother. I was taught wrong and I believed it in all my life. Thank you and respect
@user-sz3oq6ie9u
@user-sz3oq6ie9u 6 месяцев назад
Darood Nazar e Kram perhyn Ya Rehmatul Alamin Sallalahu Alaika wasalum Huzoor Nazre Kram farmayn mujh pr
@suzieb841
@suzieb841 Год назад
This is my current situation, this sister has made me realize, I appreciate this video, thank you this has helped so much.
@mshs905
@mshs905 Год назад
She’s to right! I lost my grandpa and guess who I ran to, Allah! We are tested with what we love the most! Love the creator, only then will you love his creation.
@Nally-jl7uk
@Nally-jl7uk Год назад
SubhanAllah that’s so true!
@manijhaparsa7976
@manijhaparsa7976 Год назад
You are absolutely right and I know that, I also learned this through pain and after pain reflecting on everything. And you know I felt so relieved and happy. And the mother in law and sister in law act awful out of fear. Fear of losing this son/brother who doesn’t belong to them. These women go take path of witchcraft to control this guy and lose their dunya and hereafter.
@kitten-and-carlover.
@kitten-and-carlover. Год назад
True ..soo true .. Sobhan Allah
@toyotasunny4131
@toyotasunny4131 Год назад
رَبَّنـا وَلَكَ الحَمْـدُ حَمْـداً كَثـيراً طَيِّـباً مُـبارَكاً فيه...
@fatmahashim7347
@fatmahashim7347 Год назад
SubhanaAllah very true wallahy
@sonyaazra19
@sonyaazra19 Год назад
It was really thoughtful and 💯 true!!!
@sidrahsiddiqui007
@sidrahsiddiqui007 Год назад
Much much needed! Thank you ma'am! 💫
@mariegaoua4935
@mariegaoua4935 Год назад
MashAllah. Wonderful lesson
@hkhj139
@hkhj139 Год назад
Thank you sister I needed this
@Butterflyinyourgarden
@Butterflyinyourgarden Год назад
Beautiful reminder
@monicagabor1098
@monicagabor1098 Год назад
Allah has 99 precious names I think his also name is LOVE so if you love somebody so deeply and this person loves you to you together come nearer to ALLAH enjoying and living your love together but also have a view to ALLAH that he is with you two because he is our creator and he wants the best for us his never ending LOVE . If something bad happens in life and you lose the beloved person if you are a real believer you still have the remembering and you still keep in the love of ALLAH . Many people even dont have that in nower days .
@mohammedshaik7113
@mohammedshaik7113 Год назад
Subhan Allah what a profund advice my sister.
@Dream_Grade_Academy
@Dream_Grade_Academy Год назад
Our lives are supposed to revolve around Allah. Naam. Allah Ar-Rahman.
@Saabireen
@Saabireen Год назад
Subhan Allah Tabarakkallah
@abdulrasheed372
@abdulrasheed372 Год назад
This is really an eye opener!
@UPTURN200
@UPTURN200 Год назад
Mashallah may Allah bless you, amazing speech I really needed to listen to it nothing and none should be more close and dear to Allah. May Allah teach all of us the right way to love him and people in our life.❤
@alihafeez3520
@alihafeez3520 Год назад
Absolutely Right.
@maryamayubsheikh
@maryamayubsheikh Год назад
U r right we should save that central part only for "Allah" otherwise our wrong love will control our lives and we would become slave to them!
@aleksiykhakimov2621
@aleksiykhakimov2621 Год назад
Subhan Allah, very powerful and eye opening..
@JohnDoe-ri5ge
@JohnDoe-ri5ge Год назад
MashaAllah Good Nasiha❤️
@ayeshaayaz3161
@ayeshaayaz3161 Год назад
True True Where is the whole lecture
@allahsservent3580
@allahsservent3580 Год назад
Love is for Allah
@hatakekakashipro5968
@hatakekakashipro5968 Год назад
May god bless u sister Ameen
@moroladib
@moroladib Год назад
So true!
@sarahgarrett1850
@sarahgarrett1850 Год назад
Absolutely, Allah-U-Akbar As-Salaam Alaikum.❤️😍
@usmanahmed4447
@usmanahmed4447 Год назад
May Allah (swt) bless you and your family as He (swt) blessed Ahle Bayt
@mazharabbasbukhari7390
@mazharabbasbukhari7390 Год назад
Alhamdulillah, may i see more people like this.
@muhammaduzair2923
@muhammaduzair2923 Год назад
Beautifully put sister. This is new for me. You are very well taught and groomed MashAllah.
@maryamali8046
@maryamali8046 Год назад
Walahi Just Speechless
@lailamalik2620
@lailamalik2620 Год назад
JazakAllah, sister you learnt me a lesson which I needed the most. Alhamdolillah I got to know it timely
@delshahid8971
@delshahid8971 Год назад
Alhumdulilah ❤
@masumnur5993
@masumnur5993 Год назад
Alhamdulila..I am from Italy and you
@ShakeelAhmed-pr7gn
@ShakeelAhmed-pr7gn Год назад
Subhan Allah
@anisaamarkhil3677
@anisaamarkhil3677 Год назад
May Allah SWT fill our hearts with his love.
@physics-chemistry-biology5736
Subhanallah...
@rebeccarodriguez238
@rebeccarodriguez238 Год назад
Well said my sister, thank you
@theguy5710
@theguy5710 Год назад
Exactly indeed
@godsangel67able
@godsangel67able Год назад
Although I’m not Muslim anymore the message still stands, don’t love someone else more than God(Yourself)
@guccixtennisshoes
@guccixtennisshoes Год назад
best lecture I’ve heard today, need to reevaluate the direction of my love 😒 hard, and im disappointed in myself
@NadeemKhan-yc1fg
@NadeemKhan-yc1fg Год назад
Don't worry brother this is human nature firstly we do mistakes, then we realised after realisation we repent and right out actions according to our lord.
@guccixtennisshoes
@guccixtennisshoes Год назад
@@NadeemKhan-yc1fg true, jazak Allah khair 🤲🏽 im a sister btw 😬rayan's unisex haha
@m.a7562
@m.a7562 Год назад
Excellent well said Allah swt bless you sister
@inasalhosieny254
@inasalhosieny254 Год назад
Bravo 100 % correct 👍🏼
@internal1000
@internal1000 Год назад
Yes! God first!
@laylaali5977
@laylaali5977 Год назад
Beautiful lecture
@neetaspirant1684
@neetaspirant1684 7 месяцев назад
Truee!
@a.ardaalewarfaa1237
@a.ardaalewarfaa1237 Год назад
Masha Allah my dear sister Allah yuxaafiduka anta wa anaa bi'idnillahi kareem
@skunew1198
@skunew1198 Год назад
قال تعالى: ﴿ يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا لَا تُلْهِكُمْ أَمْوَالُكُمْ وَلَا أَوْلَادُكُمْ عَنْ ذِكْرِ اللَّهِ وَمَنْ يَفْعَلْ ذَلِكَ فَأُولَئِكَ هُمُ الْخَاسِرُونَ
@rumanadeemkhan
@rumanadeemkhan Год назад
lv dis😍
@hafeezabegum1960
@hafeezabegum1960 Год назад
Beautiful 👏👏👏 mashallah
@ummesalma-vx3yc
@ummesalma-vx3yc Год назад
Very true dear. May Almighty bless you n ur generations till the day of aaqirah. N on the day of judgement too. Aameen ya rabbal alameen
@a.ardaalewarfaa1237
@a.ardaalewarfaa1237 Год назад
Yasmin I don't know what I can say but Allah protect u from evil eye bi'idnillahi kareem may Allah open the hearts people to understand that xaq u are telling to the umah nabiyunaa mohamed csw
@juststop94
@juststop94 Год назад
When Allah is the center point of attention in your life, only then can you bear the pain and disappointment that is coming your way from your spouse and children.
@shaistaafzal9573
@shaistaafzal9573 Год назад
I only love Allah. Rest of them responsibility. And I care for them because Allah gave me this as a test.
@Health-is-wealth-33
@Health-is-wealth-33 8 месяцев назад
May Allah bless you with more and more knowledge and help you disseminate it more and more...
@FahadKhan-cj3cv
@FahadKhan-cj3cv 2 месяца назад
🤍💍 {اللهم حبًا حلالًا على سنةً الله و رسوله}
@evangelinebeharry327
@evangelinebeharry327 Год назад
This is truth .
@maryamxxx7294
@maryamxxx7294 Год назад
Very powerful and true…must be taken seriously and act on it. I myself Learnt in a hard way…if anything, love or time we give to a person surpasses the love and time we give to our Creator is indeed harmful to us! At the end of the day we will be left with so much pain and lost the taste of this precious life. so let’s save our heart by filling with what we supposed to fill (Allah alone) and enjoy the peace! May Allah bless you and each of us with pure, guided heart, Ameen!🤲
@NadeemKhan-yc1fg
@NadeemKhan-yc1fg Год назад
Ameen!
@muhammadhoe-vu4wd
@muhammadhoe-vu4wd Год назад
Allah is best.
@tariqhassan3046
@tariqhassan3046 Год назад
True Yasmin,but difficult.
@ritamuslimah4901
@ritamuslimah4901 Год назад
100% true
@mynawattiejagnarain-nr8pz
@mynawattiejagnarain-nr8pz Год назад
Never too late to learn❤❤
@NadeemKhan-yc1fg
@NadeemKhan-yc1fg Год назад
Exactly!
@Alexlittle9
@Alexlittle9 Год назад
*Sooooo Good*
@Salam-ri2lu
@Salam-ri2lu Год назад
Subuhanallah AllahuAkber good class you great
@hannahhus
@hannahhus Год назад
She is right 💯
@belindacrutchfield-zx8jx
@belindacrutchfield-zx8jx Год назад
True facts...Allah first and love mankind in moderation
@abdulmazid6051
@abdulmazid6051 13 дней назад
SubhanAllah❤
@salmavlogs6824
@salmavlogs6824 Год назад
Beshak
@sarahgulniz5533
@sarahgulniz5533 Год назад
اللهم علق قلوبنا فقط بك ♥️
@NadeemKhan-yc1fg
@NadeemKhan-yc1fg Год назад
Ameen!
@saqh.4439
@saqh.4439 Год назад
Not just with your partner, it's about other relationships too
@tabassamnishat5464
@tabassamnishat5464 Год назад
Subhanallah subhanallah subhanallah 🥰🥰🥰🥰 Ya Allah give me one more chance
@writereader
@writereader Год назад
Attachment to any one, anything, any place except Allah , prevents us from moving on. And every one has to move on sooner or later. Nothing stays. The thing is, human beings so very few are that fluid
@a.ardaalewarfaa1237
@a.ardaalewarfaa1237 Год назад
True 99%
@Asor_vw
@Asor_vw Год назад
True
@irshadkhan2066
@irshadkhan2066 Год назад
Allah enclosed me with him by taking her out of my life That time I cried but now I believe Allah is all knowing whatever he does , does for the betterment of our life
@theseaworldd
@theseaworldd Год назад
La Ilahh ha ill Allah
@numanali8545
@numanali8545 Год назад
Allah is the most i loved... Then Muhammad pbuh
@sabrinarenataditaranto4960
@sabrinarenataditaranto4960 Год назад
Amen 🙏🏼
@ricksiddiqui8354
@ricksiddiqui8354 Год назад
ASA Dear Sister. I wish this was presented by scholars in the Masjid in the Jummah Khutbah AND also when a Nikah is taking place. I am married to a Christian, we had the Nikah, and my Mother in Law treats me with respect, and I'm sorry to say that my wife's Muslim Mother in Law (my mother) does not do the same for her. The only ones giving Muslims a bad name are Muslims. May Allah Guide us all on the right path which includes kindness to each and every human.
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