Rape, and ukes suddenly forgiving for no appearent reason. Abusive realionships with forgiving uke who never have any resemblence of personality. And why go they from zero to 100 in a scene without build up.
Thank you! I too am so tired of the whole rape and rapid forgiveness by the victim (almost always the uke). I also hate that the victim gets 0 support if he acknowledges the act as rape, by anyone close around them. Since yaoi is targeted towards women mostly, and so many of us have been victimized ourselves; where's the empathy? The disgust that this keeps being drawn for our entertainment? This is a harmful image to think of. We need to remember that even in fantasy, we should know where to draw the line.
I agree!! But some time it the kind of thing when both party do want it, but then their is always these cliche "oh ma gad!! please stop" just to make the moment sexier?? idk. So it sometime make the impression and come off as rape, but if the uke want it, he wants it ya know wat i mean ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°).
@Kanya Navanathan oh yeah, there's definitely is, ive seen my fair share of eff up one, not proud of it lol. But the cases i was talking about do happen, and it could be confusing. Then again, there is a fine line between rape and consent in yaoi.
my biggest yaoi pet peeves aside from what was mentioned in the video are: sexual intercourse right after the confession (feel fake) and comparing uke to a woman ( this drives me insane)
I mean, the second one could be someone's fetish (only if both of them like it) but aside from that... Yeah a big nope from me. The first one is a strong WTF worthy moment.
@@mad23081 Is that suppose to be 100% pure minded or is there another.......ulterior meaning behind it!??!! Edit: I'm sorry...I'm really sorry but I just wanna know what it seriously means in all honesty!!?
Alice Petal But sometimes it’s funny when yaoi is referenced in an anime you like, as in that one episode of Nozaki-kun. It still makes me laugh to this day.
Hetalia and YOI is my favorite out of all of them I do like BMHA but i sometimes don't really like the gay ships ( I am not being homophobic but i get annoyed easily when i keep seeing them everywhere )
Yuuri: oh no he was playing with kids does he want kids? I can’t give him kids he’s gonna hate me and we’re gonna break up and he’s gonna marry a lady and- Jellie: Calm down, relaxation, chill out~
KARMA × NAGISA IS THE BESTT Nobody really talks about Assassination Classroom and that makes me kinda sad because I love that anime. It's a really good one but I feel like a lot of people don't know about it ;^;
@@personwithamid-lifecrisis6289 Girl/Guy/beautiful person you need to stop being their friend 'cuz no friend should force somebody to do something and that's on period
You ship tododeku too ahhh!! Knowing other people ship tododeku just brings me joy ^w^ Edit: Woah this is getting a lot of likes and reply’s thank you guys so much
You know of hetalia? I thought you were way to sophisticated for that! I mean I’m obsessed with it and know it’s coming back but I never knew you knew about it. I loved you before... but know it’s off the charts!😂 like the new art style btw
AwkwardPhangirl I have no idea about a new season! There’s been a little rumor I guess but fans are coming back to it and cosplays and shiz are BOOMING. So you never know.😂
I didn't get into the fandom when it first was at its hight because it was so toxic but then RU-vid recommended did it's magic and now I'm in the fandom and now I'm one of those Ivan (Russia) fan girls. I have a thing for fucked up characters I'm not gonna lie. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
This is the list of what cringes me in BL yaoi anime: - The uke explains how he feels while getting banged - Legit banging in uncomfortable places - They get banged without knowing
The most cringey thing for me is when they bang out in the open. Like i read one once where they FREAKING DID IT THROUGH A FENCE. LIKE EVERYTHING. The whole no pants groping kinda thing. Out. In. The. Open. Like, urgghhh...
One of my yaoi peeves is where they confess on like the first chapter. THEY LITERALLY MET AT THE BEGINNING OF THE CHAPTER,, TALKED MAYBE ONCE OR TWICE AND BOOM THE UKE GOES "I-I- LO-LOVE YOU". BOI WHERE HOW. They're still good dont get me wrong,, I do enjoy a good quick to confess plot but some are just so darn annoying
I’m a simple woman I see todoroki and deku I click Edit: it’s been 10 months and I totally forgot about this.... any ways I don’t really ship it. I just like the characters
Senpai means upperclassmen? If used correctly it *always* means someone older than them, hence Midoriya calling Mirio Togota “Togota-senpai” or just “senpai”, it’s referring to the fact that he respects mirio as an elder student than him.
A huge pet peeve of mine is when they're relationship is going well and everything is super cute and fluffy but then there is some kind of misunderstanding and they get mad at eachother for no reason ughhhhhh
@@StrwBrry_Caramel Well, there's a lot of shitpost in there. Erm... it's making fun of other countries and all of them are boys(Majority of them) so yes, it is Yaoi, Germany is crushing on Italy soo :))))
I hate when people try to make everything about yaoi like just because some people prefer straight ships doesn't mean that there are fake fan like you can't control people Edit: don't get me wrong I am a cold heart yaoi fan but come on there are other ships that aren't just about BL or GL it can be BG
Also, to be fair, a lot of the “kiss greeting” came from genuine confusion in Japan in pre-internet times. There is an anime with a name I cannot remember that was made in the 80s and the two male BROTHERS from America straight up kiss eachother in greeting. They genuinely thought that was a thing in the English speaking community. So now the people writing yaoi grew up reading yaoi made from people that thought that was a thing. I’m honestly gonna miss it when it’s gone. It’s fun.
I was watching this video Then exited to play a game Came back With *FULL* volume And there was kissing sound then my mom asked *What are you doing?!???*
Non con and shota are a big no for me but other pet peeves of mine are as such: 1. When the uke is just SUPER annoying/mean yet they still get their way. This usually also involves someone who ALSO likes the main seme getting emotionally hurt really really badly. I understand a little drama keeps a story interesting but when the uke is just always annoying or always mean, it ruins it. Same goes for the seme. 2. Sabotaging the uke/seme's relationship out of jealousy....When you are their SIBLING! I have read many a yaoi that involves a disapproving sibling or a jealous sibling trying to break the pairing up like wtf!? It is NONE of your business who your brother is dating! I dont know why, but it especially bothers me if the saboteur is a younger sister sibling. The sabotage can either be telling their partner that they are cheating, only using them for their body, etc or the sibling taking explicit photos of themselves, sending it to their brother's phone when they know they are with their partner and that they are GOING to see it and thus acting like "Oh he loves me, not you LOL!" That annoys me so much. 3. Public Sex Scenes. When I read a yaoi that is r18, I expect a sex scene. But if its in an alley, in the woods or even in a store dressing room, I get uncomfortable. Like, you are going to get caught! Why!? 4. When the uke/seme enables their partner when they are clearly doing bad things to others. I hate stories when the seme is like "Oh, he murdered a man for me? Well, hes sweet to me so oh well~!" or when the uke is like "Oh, you told your boss' wife that he is having an affair just cuz he treats you like shit? Well, I guess he deserved it." Nu uh. No no. NOT good. If they are obviously a bad person, then once their partner sets them off, they will turn on them too. All of these bother me. So so much!
Heh, I’m a true hentai fan. So really explicit yaoi is the best. So I totally agree on 1 and 4. But the rest I like for some reason (but we don’t talk about that). One of the most annoying tropes in yaoi though is the doting super nice seme. I love when a seme is nice and cute, but not syrupy sweet, or do anything the uke wants. Give them some personality! I prefer it when the uke takes the initiative and is the mature one, because cute, dense but though semes are the best.
I genuinely thought the first pairing was Karma and Naigisa from Assassination classroom. I'm still gonna pretend that it was 'cos I haven't seen Kuroko no Basket. But the TodoDeku and Victuri was beautiful :D
I agree to these peeves, and I totally relate and laughed to how you thought since I'm the same! Can't wait for part 2, great job, Josh! (Also, clever idea with different ships for each peeve!)
I saw TodoDeku and the title and I just had to click. All the pairings in this video are my life. Me too though, these happen way too many times I can't even count. This video is hilarious btw.
Darn, I wheezed so hard while watching this video. Yaoi has consumed my life, as soon as I saw 1:00 "Aoba Moaning Rap" I instantly remembered how I got into this lovely mess. Thanks Dramatical Murder, I appreciate you.
@@nothoughtsnotthoughts.1136 I will say I've only read up to the bit where Alex started stalking the main character, but up until that point the secondary pairing was healthy, though that might have changed
