LISTEN.. Monday I made a appointment with Dr. Jones for a fat transfer BUT since listening to this I going to cancel my appointment because I am enough! Thx Tony
I haven't worn lashes in over 17 years. I understand the pressure society puts on women to look like physical perfection just to be loved by someone. As we get older, it's about stability, security, wealth, and good health. God don't make mistakes, and everybody's not supposed to look the same.
I have no idea, how I am perceived by men at large but had a couple of guys abroad say they like the way i dress .I do modesty wid a bit of swag. I am not a makeup girl , either just natural beauty organic if possible. I think im a country bumpkin lol.
Tony is the TRUTH! His videos helped educate me about men & forgive myself for dating the guy who gave me Herpes over a summer fling 😞. I’ve grown so much & have learned my worth. And Tony has played a major role in that. 🙏🏼❤️ God Bless.
I'm an avid reader and I don't feel taken "bike" at all by your accent Your message is powerful and I hear wisdom and intelligence in all your videos. As a matter of fact a higher level of intelligence, integrity, than most. Grateful for your gifts and how you share so much of your beautiful family life and dynamics with us in such an authentic way. . Such a blessing.
Amen to that..that's the problem in society manipulating people in to what they want us to believe how things should be when it's all a lie...we need to trust in God and be at peace and love our selves just the way we are created..🙂❤❤
I believe God is using you Tony to confirm what the Lord is speaking to me, I had a dream last night where I was sitting at the head of a table amongst gorgeous women; and I started talking and all of a sudden I got the attention of a very handsome man, but I was embarrassed because I knew I didn't have any makeup on, but I knew he was mesmerized by my conversation, not my looks.. keep doing what you are doing, you are definitely impacting lives.
That lash analogy 😂😂🤣🤣😭😭 Anyways, I feel like most women move towards trends (fueled by social media) vs wearing what’s “flattering” on them. The Medusa weaves and tarantula lashes need to be retired 😭 Also, ladies the squats and stair master are a game changer. I went from having no shape to having a natural hourglass but it takes consistency and keeping your diet in check.
My lashes are naturally long and I just use mascara. I had people asking me what lashes I had on that I started selling lash serum as a home based business. It's just castor oil, almond and vitamin E that I bottle and sell. I use my own natural lashes for advertisement. ☺ I don't understand the need for body enhancements. We should try to naturally improve what we have been given. Everyone is starting to look like a copy and paste version of each other.
Yeah exactly! I can hear him and understand him just fine, am not even American. Am on the other side of the world 🇿🇦❤️… We here for the message. Thank you Tony ❤🙏🏾
LITERALLY , just delivered my son via C-section this past week and, I had to pause the video ATLEAST 6x so that I wouldn't "Bust these stitches" ..he knows that he is hilarious! !!
Yes Ladies, we need to take accountability of ourselves. We also have to accept constructive criticism and thankfully its great that it is coming from Cuz Tony.
Yes someone who not trying sleep w u or be w u. I've had men for the longest try to teach me no comment so I love him and other men insight on here daily.
I was just looking into plastic surgery in Miami today to transfer body fat to my breast. It seems more risky than silicone and I don't want that so that idea is dead. This video is further confirmation.
Whoa I'm soooooo glad he said something about those lashes,they look clownish,the overly long ones,those companies I believe target black women in particular to make us look ridiculous.💯
I am cleaning out my garage and listening to this. I've had several people look at me weird because i'm laughing so loud while surrounded by boxes and a garden hose. 🤣🤣🤣
Tony my mentor, I love your gospel because you are on point with the Lord. Anyone who want to hear what pleases him/ her does not belong here. What Tony says is not hurting your business because he is the messenger, don’t kill the messenger.Tony will say it and yes some women will still come and buy the 6” lashes. When he tells us “ STAY OFF YOUR BACK” do you think all women practice that? NO and NO , should he stop saying it ? NO, why? Because Tony is fulfilling the Lord’s promises. Tony is serving God and not humans. Thank you Lord, keep Tony in your favor.
Thank you for this message Tony. Sometimes i feel like I should wear a wig and fake eyelashes because everyone is doing it. I feel odd with shaved hair and natural makeup, but it’s how I feel the most beautiful. So I know I will attract my husband with who I am.
What benefit is it if we gain the world and lose our soul. Lord it’s so many lost women. The harvest is plentiful but the laborers are few. I speak in love women we need to get to work help out these younger women and some older ones who need it too. And always keep ourselves under the microscope of God in our own lives so we can be used. Keep doing your labor of love brother Tony
Ladies. Please invest in yourself and get your lashes professionally done. If you want lashes...By an Esthetician not the lady at the nail salon. 🤣 it’s not cheap but it will look natural bc each lash is placed on individually.
I had an old friend years ago take me to the nail salon to get my lashes done and I was so MAD! 😂 I’m like weave glue does not belong on your eye lids. Some people are so cheap and it will cost more in the long run.
People dont want to workout. Working out is not vain. It shows you care about your body. You putting in the work and consistency actually shows more about your character which is attractive. The plus is a better body but a body that is strong and will keep you walking with ease without a cane or limping in you 60s and 70s. Think about it people. Tgis society is ageist. Working out will keep you having your indepence longer
I actually like working out. It’s fun to me. I like the feeling I get after I workout, like I’m making progress. Plus I just like to be active and being active makes me feel productive so I enjoy it.
I'm stream lined: thin lips, small butt, small boobs, thin long build. I can run and move easily without all that weight flying around! It's all in perfect proportion. My skin is very pale, and it looks natural with my red hair and freckles. When someone tells me I need some sun, I'm like, I'm not trying to look like Lindsay Lohan! Great message
In my opinion, people focus on improving their exterior for it's easier than to improve in our "inner" being. We should work on the "3 Bs" per Tio Tony to become our best selves.
Tony, you are HILARIOUS! I was laughing all throughout the video😆 The lips, veneers, booty and lashes. You covered a lot and still delivered a message. We need to love and work on ourselves, but not look like a cartoon. Thank you Tony and be blessed.
The Bible says a Woman was a ‘Help Meet to Adam and Tony helps confirm that Men have The Power to choose The Woman they love ...... but a Woman has The Power to help a Man earn her love ❤️
Tony I absolutely agree. Listening to feminine influencers on here I started wearing weaves and wigs now I’m battling traction Alopecia and I feel so silly. So many things influence women to do stupid things. I also suffer from lil boot syndrome but I go to the gym 4-5 days a week end lost 57 lbs but it’s not time to work on the Glutes. I do feel so much pressure and thought about surgery. I honestly just need to keep going to Dr. gym. Thank you for the confirmation.
@@jessicab331 Yep I have braces now. I got them in October of 2019 and been wearing them all of Quarantine. The cost was $3,000 and I paid monthly on it. Best choice ever!
I got veneers 25 years ago because I had a gap, and I was always teased in school about it and I regret getting them now, because my dentist told me that that they made me look like I got rabbit teeth😂😂😂😂😂
I'm 24 and getting braces in 2 months. My friends keep making fun of me saying I'm "too grown for braces", but I don't care. I don't see how anyone is too old to get their teeth fixed, I'm not paying 10k+ to look like a gutta mouth Donkey, not to mention how they have to shave the hell out of people's natural teeth in order to actually apply the veneers.
@@goldengirl7625 Please!!! Don't listen to them. I got mine for the first time at 30. Best choice ever!! Many of us did not get the pleasure of getting them as teens. Lol
I do understand why so many women go to the extreme to get so much done. Its because they want to look feminine and many of them equate that with designer clothes, long nails, eyelashes. Etc. Decades ago, I was one of them. Believe me, you feel so free and liberating! It is amazing. Truthfully, I was miserable with the nails, eyelashes etc. Because you constantly have to keep up with it. Its exhausting after awhile. However, you should always maintain an appearance that works for you as well. If you are reading this and are wearing a weave, have eyelashes and have your nails done...do not feel insecure and ashamed. Its a style you love and enjoy so wear it with pride and confidence. But its also good to switch it up sometimes.
Women need to leave the lashes alone. My mom got some the looked very natural..however after a while they took out her real lashes..let it go. Put some lancôme high def mascara on. It works wonders
Thank you for this. Lately I have been having a hard time sort of loving my body. I have the body type of Jada Pinkett Smith and Karrueche. I’m very small with not much curves for my age, so I feel like men are not attracted to me. Voluptuous women are in style now. I have to work a little bit harder to remind myself that I am enough and the right man will love and appreciate me.
The Most High YAH made us naturally beautiful inside and outside am from Jamaican parents my mum told us it's your character that makes you beautiful and that suck with me all my life and I am 55 years if age my mum is now 83 and I have never see her relax her hair or dye it and her hair was turning white in her early 40s now my hair is turning white really fast and I love I am a natural woman I don't wear makeup I have locks that flow to my waist I love them what I am really saying is I love who YAH create I love myself my husband was looking for a natural woman and he found me nothing is wrong in being natural my face glows my body is slim because I only eat a little and I try only to eat healthy as a part of my life style but I am happy with How I was created life is too short let's be thankful for life walking moving being alive
I remember I was looking at myself imagining a smaller forehead or nose or lips, and I couldn’t find anything that would fit.. turns out I love me just how God made me 🤧🥰
I just learned how to have self love. After walking away from a situation-ship I realized i deserved better. So I work out eat healthier meditate put God before anything. I feel so much better. So now I’m just waiting for God to allow the man he feels that can be in my life. I get lonely but I know God is with me.
If they make her feel good about herself,it's nothing wrong,every body has an opinion,I meet a guy once, that said,he don't like weave,and lashes,he married a lady with long weave and wore lashes,some men are jealous,and they feel insecure with a attractive women,so they wanna,dim you down,to make them feel better.
Hey Tony! Just wanted you to know I appreciate what you're doing. My brother passed away 6 years ago, that "brotherly love", really hits different. Thank you so much! 💪🏼 Edit: It's time to get to Dr. Gym! 🏋🏽♀️
As a makeup artist younger clients ask for 25MM and I have to say , I don’t offer those types because it doesn’t fit the aesthetic of my brand. But, I do offer other styles.
Yup! The 25mm are definitely more a younger crowd thing that I’m sure will past soon. Not to mention the 25mm are just toooo much for most looks but I love me a good 20mm 🥴
Yes lately I'm just happy with myself. Nothing wrong with wanting to look more fancy, but I'm not doing anything that changes my face. No filters, not even contouring. I am me, and I'm happy with me. I'm not changing myself into anyone else.
Thank you Tony! This was well received. It's important that we walk in our authenticity and love ourselves! God made each one of us unique for a reason. You are always able to bring humor while bringing truth which is very much appreciated!
😂😂😩😩😭😭😭😩 I was literally tearing my room up looking for some lashes I got that I knew was too long as I listened to this omg!! And he right I never liked too much lashes but my peers made me feel like I was being childish
I've NEVER worn lashes simply because of all the reasons Tony mentioned 😂or wanted what I didn't physically have because it's naturally inherited and fitness health is my wealth.🙌🏾 GREAT POINTS Mr. Gaskins.💯💪🏾💯
Great topic! There's sooooo much on this and living room talk among women. At the end of day, women think alike but oh so powerful we are! Accept, align, and alter our inner self with the purpose the Lord has for us. True freedom!
This is so funny. My best friend is in school to be an Esthetician and she also took a separate class to learn lashes and she talks about this ALL THE TIME with the lashes. Not every thing is for every eye and lashes can damage the natural lash.
My kids medical aid had eye lashes so thick long as butterflies and my 5 year twins were scared to death and i kept double blinking as she talked to me i mean I couldn’t focus on the matter of hand lol
Wow this was incredible! Everyone needs to here this message. I’m going to continue to love me for me despite what society thinks! Tony is the realest here on RU-vid ✨
Thank you for all the confident and self esteem advice indeed. you’ll will always be like a brother to me in my heart, God bless you and your lovely family ❤️😇
Confirmation, Confirmation!! Thank you (Extraordinaire Life Coach/Honorary Pastor Gaskins) for unselfishly taking time out of your day to share some great insight that will be beneficial for Men and Women, as a whole. Stay Blessed and Be Blessed! 🙏🏼
Many times in my early adult life my male family members told me you look fine the way you are just workout. Even when I was 50 lbs heavier or smaller they always encouraged me that I was beautiful either way. Ladies Tony is telling the truth. Love yourself how you are born ❤️
Tony I love how you veer off to give examples, but your mind is really good because you always remember where you left off. I forget for a second what the initial topic was, cause I can’t stop laughing 😂
The synchronicities of 2021- My all day every day affirmation that I’ve written on my bedroom mirror in lipstick ‘you are enough’- this is confirmation ❤️❤️❤️🙌🏽 Thanks Tony!
