@sofaking2846He's not the one who brought it up AND he gave a million opportunities to back out, lmfao. In what shitty CW show with a recycled cast is he manipulating her?
@@loungeduck6583 yeppp already give opportunities 😅 sofaking that’s what happen when you eat curry 24/7 and please tell your people and you included to wash your stink armpits 😂 can’t stand near you even a minute 🤦♀️
no, his answer was truly genuine and honest, you can see it on his face and hear it in his words he didn't want to be hurtful & this was something he had thought about & dwelled on fore a while & realized that even despite the sex isn't what he would like it to be that it's not as important to him than being with her. but now there's an open door for communication in the bedroom and over time their sexlife can improve because a stale sexlife can hinder a relationship when one or both partners aren't fulfilling each others physical needs & the truth be told that is an important part of a committed sexual relationship. @sofaking2846
Hopefully, but unlikely: he will always think its trash no matter what she does and she will just be trying in vain. Yeah, they will break up after this.
He didn't say he wasn't there for the sex. He called her trash. This is what being raised on porn gets you. I hope they worked on it, and I hope they are still together. 🙏
@@Sarahthelunsfordhe did say it in the last bit - after he said he loved her, there should be a switch behind your hearing aid - try switching that on, maybe you'll hear it then
But as a female would you want to hear that from your man tho and still have a healthy relationship after that or would sex be the same after hearing that Actually want to know cause most females would do what he said and break up
@@Dmv1260as a female I want the 100% truth . Weak ppl will leave the relationship but those who know the truth and stay will be able to fix the problem. If my husband don't like something I want him to say something, men and women are not mind readers can't fix what u dnt know is messed up.
My partner is brutally honest like this. We've been together 7 years now. Honestly, I'd take this any day over a liar. My ex husband of 12 years is such a narcissistic liar... I WOULD GLADLY CHOKE ON OLD HONEST HUMBLE PIE EVERYDAY FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE, if it means being self aware, living in truth and telling that MOFO, my partner, a thing or two about himself. Once you get a few things off of your chest too... No one is walking around on eggshells. The delivery can definitely be worked on, it'll cause fewer arguments. Eventually, we all have to put on our BIG DRAWERS and talk it out while working through those difficult conversations though. It really opens the door for healthy communication and long lasting relationships.
I would take a guy that's this real with me every day. He's into me for sure. This is a great opportunity to have a much needed honest conversation. Sex can be fixed together. Poor character is a path of self discovery that must be taken alone.
If the relationship means enough to both of them, then they can handle the truth. Switch over to oral or brake up. If this is all it takes to split them, then that’s how it should be.
That’s all u can do with it, it don’t get wet so what else is there. he probably wack off in the morning in the bathroom everyday just to tolerate being around her😢
@@sarahburggraf907that’s the problem that you women always thinking about the next man😂 that’s why your relationships fail. Focus on what you got not what you don’t
@@sarahburggraf907Dry is dry to everyone and if the next guy not this honest he just gonna leave without her knowing why but i think she gets the clue! If i’m inside you and i can’t hear 👂ya cooch You not wet enough 😮
@@tiffanymcintyre8375some girls are loose maybe just naturally and some are tighter, but the looser ones w ugly cat or cat that don’t really be creaming fr ain’t it. And a lot of girls don’t know how to take dick they be in pain bc it’s too big and it’s a turn off having to keep stopping or not putting the whole thing
Honestly that’s comforting to hear. “I’m not hear for sex, your actually pretty bad at it. I’m hear because I fell in love with you.” I’m glad he was honest
Some of us hate lieing especially when it doesn't help anyone and easily creates distrust between friends. Transparency is a good thing, only times we would lie is if you didn't need to know or it had to do with someone else and we felt uncomfortable talking bout someone elses life/problems. Too many liars in todays society, so some of us like to not be lumped in with them n try to be better.
@@1Psalmadayharsh in your everyday life, from your perspective. You have no idea what these two people may or may not endure on a daily basis. Let's not forget as well that she asked this question with a camera in his face, and he had the decency to look her in the eyes and didn't even let the camera phase him (whether or not he knew it was filming).
She was not fast enough. That is why I was told I am so cold. I’m thinking if my Kitty is trash- a good possibility he getting it somewhere else. He does love me I guess. With that said I would not hesitate to tell him that I feel the same way about his D game- it is so weak but he treats me so good I figure why not and I too fell in love. Glad we in the same page cause I was holding this in for a very long time. I would tell him I’m so happy we can be honest with eachother and that is why I love you even with you trash D and my bad kitty. 😂He would be pissed no doubt cause men can’t take it. 😂😂😂. If their relationship last I would be shocked 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️😁
If youre out here looking to smash the best looking people then sure you want good sex, but if youre out here looking for love? Is he/she marriage material?😂
Naw she will because he hit a nerve so if this guy doesn’t work out I guarantee u she will be asking ever guy or girl she dates until she no longer feels like shit
@@shakarahshakarah6902 she's gonna go look for validation elsewhere. She gonna ask everyone how that shit feels. Probably while she still with him too. But that's cool, because she's a VICTIM.
@newphone1523 No, sir. We're all responsible for how we treat others. You can be honest without being rude, sir. Hell, what does, "Your P is trash" even mean? Is it too loose? Too dry? What? He would've been more effective being more specific, so she can try to address whatever it is that's bothering him. That is, IF it's something she can actually address.
This feels staged and/or a moment we shouldn't be around for. It's hard to imagine this being a real conversation when there's a camera in his face the whole time.
@@mikacandy5 That's not what makes it unbelievable. I think that whole thing could have happened. But the fact that she recorded it... no way she would share it if that was real.
But she won't care. Most women (not all) want to feel sexy. If he doesn't make her feel sexy, she'll find someone who will. And there's always men out there who will.
Dude needs to be president. The one man who can make them hard decisions to be damned with the outcome. I had to play it back twice to make sure I heard what I thought he said.
Totally! The drive for sex is inherent but the skill isn't. He was honest and not mean or demeaning. If she can handle that and they can talk then this is how growth happens. Plus, learning to be a skillful lover is fun... lol
No. Those questions lead to insecurities and arguments. In every healthy relationship, there is a certain amount of "faking" going on... and there is nothing wrong with that.
@@sweetivory42 There was never a lie that was living. It was all good til one of the many women y'all have living in your head goes around thinking shit up and that's when y'all gotta go rocking the boat.🤷🏾♂️😂
@@user-vs8yj8oy2vhell no. The pum pum is the main thing a man wants from every woman. If that is not up to par they are gone! Not even cheat alone just totally gone. She just have other qualities he like and focus on that. Furthermore everybody is used for something. Man used for sperm women used to carry babies.
Always post before you go and do some sht like that, so the entire comment section can save you from yourself before you end up with a frying pan concussion. We could’ve helped you bro. Next time remember, this is why they made comment sections 😝
@@billallen4793 and honestly, I was thinking about this video. What he said was actually the nicest thing I’ve ever heard a man tell his sig oth! Just depends on what lens it’s filtered through. I wanted to be like Aww, 🥰!
I've learned that with my wife too. If I ask her something and she says "you don't wanna know," after 15 years of marriage I know the only smart response is "Oh, ok."
I'm 20 and I'm with the same girl I've loved since a freshman in highschool and don't have this problem and don't understand how pussy can even be trash. Just not tight enough? Maybe it stinks or something idk lmao I just wanna know what he means
As a married woman, I understand and am learning how to really hear my man. His honesty cuts no doubt but this dude is a keeper b/c he said str8 up it's not about sex for him which most times it is (with yall high a$$ sexxdrive lol). He placed a higher value on everything else. ❤ #Respect
@@Walkingsoul-qd9cj its not just that. some kitty's don't feel nice inside. (nothing to do with tightness either) some are warm and welcoming and some are not. I've been in the same position as this guy and it really is love if you stick around with a woman that has a dead kitty.
Hmmm, I think it’s the best way to handle it. Be upfront, she can either handle it or not. It sets the tone for future expectations and I won’t have to change myself.
@@paulb3436their sex life shouldn’t change considering he been with her for some time like she said. If she wants to leave because of that she has that choice…or she can master pelvic floor exercises to make improvements because the next man..if it comes to that may not tell her he’ll just have someone else. The choice is hers..she wanted to know and now she does.
WOW! He is the most honest man! He's not being malicious& doesnt want to hurt her but if he had even better communication skills, they cld have worked on her skills and kegal exercises!
