You May Think The Narcissist Is Surviving Without You 

It cracks me up. People want to be seen as good people without being good people 😂 Talk about delusional

The key is not to care if the Narc is surviving without you. Yes, a Narc's victim must have coined the phrase 'no good deed goes unpunished' lol. Move on and enjoy your life 🙂

I left a Covert Narcissist because of the rage and she still managed to get into my head at the end. Next thing you know I'm talking to a VA therapist because I was suicidal. They are master manipulators and they just don't care. Thank God for family, friends and therapy or I wouldn't be here. I'm still in the early healing stage .

I really couldn't care less. Anyone who harms another wilfully and over a sustained period is not worthy of attention IMHO.

Even though you free the Narcissist. The Narcissist doesn't want freed. It becomes a challenge to them. Stay strong, and refuse to let them back in your life.

Putting god first will help you heal even faster

The narc will never admit they are wrong . Period.others they meet fill their needs

My ex narcissist found his nirvana when he found a job in the funeral industry. It was like a supply buffet! And he feasted to his own demise, his womanising earning him the nickname “Elvis”. His mask was publicly ripped from his face when his boss exposed him and fired him. For all the pain he put me through this was a privileged front row seat.

Dave, you look like you're ready to go to war with the narcissist, like Rambo! 😅 hope you're having a blessed day, thank you for the video 🙏

Yes, narcissists love to set you up! As you rightly say, Dave, they often co-opt the new supply who is (often) a narcissist too. Just remember: churches are a hotbed for narcissism too. 💟

My ex narcissist is NOT coming back. He is NOT aloud. God will NOT allow it. I know now what I was dealing with.

The last time my ex narc contacted me was in September. Now remember i have a protective order against him. He is also blocked, so he called private number. He told me that i belong to him and that in another year he would be allowed to legally see me. Ummm i don't think so devil. They are relentless. This all while he has a new supply living with him. He went behind my back when i was with him as well. Yuck! Thanks Dave!

Yes, it is true. He called me after 2 months of no contact. I do not answer.

Thank you 🙏 Dave! The Cluster B is the Devil in disguise. Your soul is what they are after. Nothing more, nothing less! Only the purest body, mind, soul, and spirit will survive, but it will be a life without a Cluster B. Stay alert! Stay alive! Stay strong! Peace ✌️

We need to have a meeting for narcissist survivors. Just like aa and na

They have one mode of operation , excuse , justify , blame , manipulate , when meeting a narcissist you are meeting a deception that appears as a person , discarding actually means the deception has failed , and that means non existence, so when they act as though you no longer exist , it's all projection! Once you figure them out , it ends them , they never developed into a person ! God Bless !

I truly believe narcissist’s are demons in human form ..the last I heard from the one I was seeing he’s living on disability in a very bad neighborhood no car and his new supply looks terrible a ex meth head ..smh karma ! Still shocks me how fast he moved this very terrible looking woman in though ! I mean I’m no Beauty queen but WOW he really down graded from me 😳

All my family died during covid. I'm seeking support for my losses.

Indeed, Those “Golden Children” ARE EXTREMELY DANGEROUS and CRUEL!!! They emit a very Venomous attitude, especially toward their Target(s), and other people in general. They are NOT normal humans. They are “Cancerous” to our society! Thank you, David, for your straightforward, peaceful message. Your timely message helped Me to honestly examine the progress during my No-Contact/Recovery Journey.

Thank you for recording this video and enlightening me Dave! I am an empath and a compassionate person. I had helped this narcissist's life improve! That's what the narcissist did to me, triangulated with a third person, provoked me and then recorded me getting angry. This narcissist brought out the absolute worst in me. I have never acted like this in my life. It all makes so much sense now. I have gone no contact and blocked the narcissist's number forever.

He bought an insurance policy and asked for my personal information. He said I was the beneficiary. Later I started thinking, that policy was on me not him. When I asked him about it he told me there was no policy and I was crazy. A couple months later he mentioned the policy. I told him there was no policy and he was crazy. It left him speechless.

It's easy to get down on yourself for allowing yourself to be taken in by the narcissist. Don't do that. They are experts at manipulation. You didn't stand a chance. On the other hand, it's also easy not to blame yourself for some of the things that you did that were--let's face it--"against that which is good" in your pursuit of the narcissist. It's hard for me to admit this but in my case, she was married when the love-bombing began and I eventually put my values aside and sold out to the flesh. After the discard, I awoke from the spell. I went with my friend who also had just been discarded and we waited for two hours to go to confession. Some of you don't want to hear this but you have to face your own demons too. Ask for help and you shall receive.

I left my exhusband Narcissistic because he was gonna kill me. And then i found out that he had a girlfriend two months after i left and who she was. I called her and saved her from him. I don't agree with allot people on the thing that we shouldn't warn the new supply. I wish someone would of warned me about him 32 years ago. I am going to be celebrating 6 Christmas' without him. 🎉🎉

I'm an empath . I was in a 4 year relationship with a covert narcissist . I refused to marry him or even move in with him. He couldn't control and gaslight me . He eventually admitted the relationship wasn't going to work. I calmly walked away and went no contact. I knew he was cheating but I only saw him on weekends. I even cut back on the time I spent with him.

Every narcissist I’ve ever met were awful to waitresses and waiters I used to apologize to them after wards And explain that you can’t treat people like that

Yeah, my Ex-Narc literally told me that I made everything about me & that I never let him talk, this shocked me because when I met him he was quiet & reserved, he showed his true colors to me after I awoke & began holding him accountable to his abusive behavior & accusations of me cheating on him! 😢 I had to shut all contact with him to protect myself ❤. All you’re saying I believe I experienced.

I DON'T CARE IF HE IS SURVIVING. I AM LONG GONE FROM THAT MESS. THESE "PEOPLE" DON'T DESERVE TO BE AROUND US.

They never regret loosing you, despite everything they said

When you go silent, door slam, give them nothing; they go away… like a Rat who gets no cheese💯

You need to discern genuine kindeness. They can be nice to you & others but then they flip with underhanded contempt.

My bf took me to CA to meet his family for thanksgiving. I watched him flip a switch and yell at me for a comment I made about his mom. It freaked me out and I tried to leave and he tried to stop me so I called the police. He assumed I called them to tell them how awful and abusive he was which I didn’t at all I just wanted to leave. the next day i tried to reason with him and make nice and he punished me by informing me that he would not be allowing me to ride back I'm the rental car for the 13hr ride home and that he wouldn't be helping me get home. he stranded me at his brothers house. when i got home he would not give me back my car and house keys which i had left inside his house before we left. i tried many times to de escalate the situation and talk to him but each time i wad met with anger and rage. i lost out on over $1000 and was heartbroken. do you think only a narcissist is capable of this? its hard for me to belive a non narcissist would be capable of this.

I was thinking that they have an addiction to evil doings. Once you're a target..they can't let go.however you said it better..they are parasites.invisible parasite sucking the life out of you😢❤❤

"We're good, we're good baby", "I just don't pay my bills with the $30,000" That cracked me up.😂

My ex narcissist was notorious for being the happy extrovert, while we were out and about in groups of people, but I was not allowed to be happy or extroverted, or he would immediately become jealous. He even got jealous on a trip to Israel and accused two guys of looking at me and started a fight with them. It was so embarrassing. That was the last straw for me. At that point, I knew he’d never change, and eventually ended the relationship.

Watch out for the Holiday Love Bomb Marathon. They use nostalgia against everyone in their path. Thank you!

I've found the best thing to do is smile and keep walking. This way they can't have you as an audience member to their show. They no longer matter. They are always looking for attention and a reaction.

What amazes me, Dave, as you had said: ... "After the first few fights, you are out of the spotlight, etc (fall out of favor)" of course I paraphrase. But sometimes, I fall in love with these narcissists, and there is no " fight" per se... They are just tired of me, like a dog or cat that's bored with a new toy. They don't see any more potential in me, than solving a local needs at the time: money, comfort, or my expertise at helping them with electrical or plumbing issue, otherwise I've outlived my usefulness in their eyes. And being disabled since birth, socially awkward from years of trauma, and charisma challenged, I will continue to be a target for all these kinds of people, because I do not attract anyone seeking a " credible" or " viable" life partner. For me it's a win/win, now that I realize this, because instead of seeing my living single as some kind of death sentence, I now see it as time I can get closer to God and learn of Him. Because at the end of the day, the ONLY relationship that matters is the one with God.

Hebrews 4:12 King James Version 12 For the word of God is quick, and powerful, and sharper than any twoedged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart.

Dave whether the narcissist is surviving isn't my concern at all I'm out of the situationship forever there is no going back ever now that I know the door is slammed shut and bolted now that I know about the narc what he is thanks be to God and my Lord Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit saving me 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

Mine would open his wallet in front of me and flick bills in the bill fold area in his fingers and say look at this money....such a weird thing to do. I knew he was broke, he didn't even work. He got money advances from the bank because he inherited a house he was trying to sell.

Sneaky Snakes keep me out of the Triangle 🐍🔺️

I was ivolved with a Narcissist for almost four years. It was a relationship from hell. He snapped easily and would abandon me for days after a quartel He cheated on me was see her for a year. He was indesisive , hot n cold. Pathalogical liar and a phony. I dispise him and wish I never met him . We are broken up. The new supply is in for a surprise. He is a drug addict and health issues and I accepted him. How stupid I was to accept him in my life. Glad he is gone. His name is Robert.

They won’t come back after a while if you stand your ground with a no contact. My ex kept trying to talk to me, and so I finally just left the so-called mutual friend circle. Once in a while, unsolicited, I hear through the grapevine that they are miserable and constantly fighting, and he treats her like crap. Most of the time I don’t even think about them, and don’t care, but when someone brings it up. All I can do is hope that she comes to her senses for the sake of her and her children.

My ex seemed to have moved on but she will circle back at some point like she has in the past They can’t help themselves and I will never take her back

My ex narc wanted me o call him after the woman he got involved with, when we were together died. It had been over 40 years since the split from him. I could feel something urging me to call him, but knowing he has ties to those in the dark arts that hate me with a passion (all narcissists), I resisted that urge, reminding myself that he never made me happy and he just wants to hurt me some more. Now I know it was all about supply, that man must of been desparate because he hates me with a passion too

I wasn’t never good enough- walking with him while he’s scoping out for new suppliers, very humiliating, as he denied my observation. He was eww from that moment on…

Thanks Dave! Keep showing up and shining out the light of TRUTH!

Blessings ❤ from London uk 🙏 I’m so happy I found you Dave.

Channeling that inner Naruto 😂

I appreciate you Dave. Telling people where they really find freedom, truth, transparency, pure honesty and love, in the arms of Christ! That’s the only place we need to be. He’s the only one that could ever heal us, and not just heal us, but restore us so we can be who we were always meant to be. A humble servant in the kingdom of God!

The bridge is burned Dave. He replaced me with a woman that replicates his mother. She's short, has the exact same shaped nose. He really has a crush on his mother, and no one compares to her. So now, he can actually be with his mother, in every way, so to speak, if you know what I mean. He's Blocked for good. May GOD'S Will, not mine be done. Amen.

Dave my name is Jeff and I have wrote in to you been hoping to get a chance to tell my story 33 years with a narcissist it was hell. God gave me the strength to I don't know a whole lot about trying to get to you on these other social media websites and I'm scared to leave my phone number or email when I just would love to let you hear my story is bad but God he did it and I thank God I'm 60 years old starting I thank God for you and others out here just trying to get the word out people don't believe things like this goes on in America looking forward to talking to you soon I'm in North Carolina

You look like Rambo today, I'm glad to be one of your new regulars 👍

Omg lol moldy pizza and dog poop so true! The narc hid plates in his dresser full of food! 🤣 you are so right 💯

I feel like I’ve found a gold mine with your channel. There’s a ton of people toting narc stuff. You’re channel is changing eternity. I’ve commented before that my Mom has NPD and I’m still ruminating over horrible things she’s said to me from years ago until weeks ago. What to do ? You provide spiritual ointment that only comes through Jesus Christ . Thanks

The best advice or truth I have ever heard about why we empaths end up in relation w narcissists is because I was told, You don't pick them they pick you !!! Smartest most profound eye opening statement I've yet to hear. It's true so true. We empaths tend to see the world through our innate sense of goodness and the incapacity to believe that others have the capacity to even think in such a manner never mind act it out. We don't have that capacity and don't believe that others do either. We can't even comprehend the thought of doing what a narcissist already has planned and this is why we never chose them, they always choose us, remember never make excuses or feel insignificant for your deep gift of empathy. Be grateful. The narcissist wasn't capable of appreciation for all your rare characteristics that the majority don't naturally possess. Even through the pain holding on to my unique nuisances and deep sense of empathy is what keeps me strong. They wanted you because they could never be you. Love your channel love your content, your the man ! !

Hi Dave. Christmas is coming. Is it possible for you to do a video on Empaths that escaped their Narcissists and will be alone at Christmas?

He said he'd rather be in prison than to be without me.. of course it's a LIE!!!😅

love your content brother, keep up the Lords work!

Rambo is in the house! Lol. I love the look Dave. Rambo meets Heavy Metal guitarist.

Great messages Dave it is true we need to go to the throne and ask for forgiveness and ask him to forgive our enemies and ask for deliverance from all evil. Cover yourself in the blood of Jesus every day and break all curses and chains of anything evil you have ever come across or touched! Oh and tell the devil to SHUT UP and GO TO THE PIT in Jesus Mighty Name!! Blessings to all survivors!! ❤

Hahaha you mimic them so well Dave ,thank you again for the humor to bear with these gross creatures.

It makes me laugh and smile everytime he starts the video that damn coffee or tea ☕️ sound you kind of expect it now, it is brilliant pattern interrupt to get people coming back for more..

Yes ur soo right & I hope they better than me so after 10 yrs. Being manipulated & torched they can have him I tried & he 70 so good luck 2 him & all the supply & I noticed he likes supply way younger bcuz more easier to be manipulated...

Hi Dave, just want to say that your videos have been most helpful. Thank you.

Wow brother, hello! strange when things just keep lining up. i thought my own situation was finally coming to it's ending after 12 years as i have been telling you. but no. my ex has escalated her remote passive communications, editing, adding words to her profile, as she knows it is in my app history and i will see it. she can also see mine. we are in a large community. it's hard to avoid people in public groups sometimes. people also come to me asking if it's me that she's saying all this nasty stuff about. Now i am being called a Narcissist by random people who don't know me or even know how to use these terminologies. but it has no effect on me any more. and they hate it. she adds one more thing at a time, which i talk about in my own public profile, dispelling her attempted smear campaign. people have been coming to me saying she's spreading rumors and lies that i also stalked her for a year. i kept proof after a while. because she hoovers. then lies. she has done this before. she wrote now, the most hurtful weapons, with the cherry on top saying she found her diamond, her twin flame, she's so in love, found the one she's been looking for. (i used to be that only person). all the others were nobodies, (meaning me). just to really rub it in, really wanting to hurt me with these words. she wrote "taken" now, and the date was the actual day after i told her i was done. Wow. either she had the new supply ready, for the exact moment, to the day, or it is fabricated to hurt me. it is all she has left. and i have payed ZERO attention to her. i think she sees now, i am not coming back. and i wrote how i am studying Narcissistic Personality Disorder, which i have left on my profile. she won't dare come back now, and the flying monkies are just making a legend of my name. nothing new. but now, i am so strong, they can't hurt me anymore! it's fine. god and good is on my side. and truth. we are real empathics. and so glad to have you buddy. and chat. our love keeps us protected and strong. everything she does, are the things you describe, verbatim. she can't hurt me any more! we are eternal beings. our light guides us. hope you're well. ✨💜

Interesting theory of Natalie wood and robert wagner being narcisstic and triangulation but at least Natalie saw a therapist for years. About what? We will never know.

3-Months...90-Days. Thats all they could last after being "Cod-Locked" in No-Contact. Then it was "Amazing Grace" being sung over my ex-fiance's casket. Stroked out dead at 32...

Dave you should do a Folgers commercial. Love your videos

Thank you for all of your help over the years. God, is good 🙏🙏🙏

He said your picture is still on my Facebook page. I said you have 5 different pages

Yes they are surviving very well. In fact they have a big beautiful home and it's spectacular. They made a lot of money. They swayed my friends away from me. They cheated on me then used me ti cheat on the guy who they were cheating on me with. They've gotten away with everything for years. They've n9w been married for many years. It looks like they've destroy the husbands life. Yes they've gotten away with everything.

Everybody's working for the weekend 😂 Sorry the head band look reminds me of "Loverboy". Hope you're having a good weekend Dave ?

That coffee poor😂🩰☕✨

Hi Dave. I have been active listening people about this toxic behavior and I have a better understanding. But you can spend a lifetime trying youir best recognizing virtues and mistakes in yourself and others, and you will never know what are you getting into. The risk is everywhere, inside and outside of you. Talking about this things without experiencing is impossible. Everyone life is a lot of gamble, failures and happy moments. I do avoid people that are instant red flags, like drug addicts and mean to others, but when a covert is there you dont spot things obviously. You start paranoia about everyone and everything once you are hurt deeply, and you sabotage yourself, your job, grattitude to others and your own self integrity if not externally, in your head. Loneliness can be overwhelming but I have decided to be calm and enjoy what I do and God is everywhere all the time. Thanks for your video. I hope this helps.

Thank you for this video. My narcissist became disabled, which will affect how he looks and ability to get money. I left him alone and he had an accident. I came back told him I loved him and a week to the day He posted a woman who is 10 years older than me, looks nothing like the other women he's friends with in FB. He received different remarks on this pic basically congratulating him for finding a 'mark' and he's on that bs. I called him out on it and he was trianglating me with this woman, love bombing me and asking me for pics. I believe if she doesn't help him like he wants he will kick her to the curb like its nothing. He also got mad when he found my ex was trying to get me back. Doesn't matter if the woman drives a benz and I drive a honda if all she wants to do is date and not help she will find out soon

🙏🙏🙏Yes I believe you and his time is UP, and they time is UP one by one here on earth in this presence World and I don't feel sorry for them 🙏🙏🙏 God and my angels always been by my side since day one ❤🙌🙏

I asked him toward the end, if he was using our faith in Jesus Christ as leverage to fool me! You’re 100% & used our finances to rise higher in his goals & cared less about my dreams. When I began to work towards my dreams, he went demonic with me & his family all glorifies him, his sidekick is his eldest sister, who is the queen Narc & all their conversations of smoking mirrors! Thank you for speaking on this powerful knowledge that set me free to lean even more on God to protect me from these demons!

😌 EXCELLENT 'POUR'.🥰

I love this channel.... i love god.... this is one of the only channels that preaches the word of god

Yeah, it was always about him & my opinions were never respected or acknowledged! Thank you God that you showed me 😢 that he was mainly using me & never really loved me sincerely 🙏🏼

Funny you said that about the DOG POO AND PIZZA ! That's EXACTLY WHAT I WALKED INTO WITH MY EX FIANCE!! Although he warned me about his dog and that his apartment smelled a bit, that wasn't the actual case! He lived in a one bedroom apartment and the bedroom was the dog's room! There was poo and pee all over! The smell was unbelievable!! On top of that, he only ate Domino's pizza! So he'd stack the empty boxes on the stove. Trash bags full of beer boxes and pizza boxes. He didn't even take care of the dog properly ( no walks and had bloody rashes all over her body) still treated the dog better than me. I left him after being engaged for 2 months.

My narc must have had alot of fuel sources cause he did reverse discard on me several times after only love bombing me for one month. He was good in paying his bills, he was good at exercising, he took good care of himself but I saw through him and he continued drawinh me in even if I screamed to him he was a narsisist. I told him several times he was a narc. I injured him

Yes ! It is helping me so much that I saved this. So many of you have these videos, and I save them to refer back to them. Little by little, I've been taking everyone's advice and gaining my power back. I still live with my ex for financial reasons. He is EVERYTHING you ALL talk about. And now that I REALLY know who is and what he's about I actually feel free. Now, I keep to myself unless the grandkids come over. Other then that I stay to myself. I don't hang with any of his people anymore cause they are ALL like him and he trashed and bashed me to ALL of his people. It's the women in his life not the men.I actually knew he was a narc but I didn't know to what extent. The only difference between him and my other ex is this guy that I live with didn't almost kill me. This guy doesn't put hands on me. Anyway thank you. Please keep helping us get through this.

Excellent teaching! Thanks so much, Dave😊

I haven’t watched your content since I left my narc 4 years ago (thanks to u) You’ve CHANGED! 🤗

How dead on you are, with similar situations as I’ve seen, is scary.

Wow! This is so true. I lived with a covert narcissist during two years. In the first days of our dating, at my house, we were kind of joking around and suddenly he told me : "I want to be like you", followed by "No, I wish I were your son" and ended up by saying "I want to be you". I found that kind of weird but thought he was just trying to seduce me by flattering me. (In reality, it didn't flatter me). Story short, he ended up moving into my house only 12 days after we had met. He lived off of my money and even got me into debts. It was very difficult to get rid of him... He was always playing the victim and I was too kind... But one day, I finally called the police from the park in front of my house and had them come get him and throw him out of my house.

mine never came back after discard. it’s been over a year. i believe mine tried reverse hoover but it didn’t work.

I'm so thankful for you ♡

Dave! I love you! You are so true in all your words!!!

Great Info. It's like hearing my self. Thank you so much for telling it. like it is

Glad I came across your channel again. Was one of the first I subscribe to about narcissists. Have hot soup vs tea 😂

Thank the most high for your channel its given me so much insight on what i was once refusing to accept. I tried to see good in everyone but I now see that just isn't the case with some people. God bless you

I went no contact with my ex narc for 2 month, which was amazing! Unfortunately, I have to deal with him again. It’s so emotionally abusive. I hate the cycle. It sucks. I keep on telling myself it’s transactional and to keep distant with him. They see us as objects. I was so happy without him and now I’m back to square one. Any suggestions to help deal?

I don't care if they are or aren't. I only worry about my daughter. God will protect 🙏 her.

It’s Xmas 🎄 The narcs are out! Jus recieved my yearly “I’m not gonna be here much longer”….blackmail letter! Happie Crimbo stay in your peace ✌🏻

Bless you Dave. So true! 🥺

Oh my gosh I love this video!! So real and historical with the costume 😂❤ “survivor” 😂

WOW you hit everything exactly on point!!!