We're taught how to give, please, and take care of others. But what about when it's time for us to take care of ourselves, a cost of someone else's feelings?
Dealing with guilt tripping parents, ending an unhealthy relationship, calling out toxic colleagues... These inevitable situations require the strength to have hard conversations. Yet most of us have never been taught to develop that ability.
Instead, we crumble at the thought that someone's hurt by us. We reactively try to alleviate the pain and compromise. We find ourselves trapped in a cyclical pattern where nothing gets solved. This is because we disappoint people in the worst way possible - without a plan.
In this video I talk about how to disappoint people well. To get rid of our need to avoid disappointment, and to develop the strength to allow people be hurt by us, if we know it's the right thing for the situation at end.
I hope you enjoy the video!
Asha
2 окт 2024