You're 52, It's Time To Move Out Of Your Parent's House!

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You're 52, It's Time To Move Out Of Your Parent's House!
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@TheRamseyShow 2 года назад

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@namename3139 2 года назад

not even alowed to go to the shops without putting that thing in ur arm, or scning ur fone everywere

@rebeccachambers419 2 года назад

I believe extended families can be a great idea often.

@aisha-3857 2 года назад

This is bad advice Ramsey! She could buy a home and rent a part to the parents!!!

@aisha-3857 2 года назад

Especially if she doesn’t have retirement

@kevinfransen1255 2 года назад

@@aisha-3857 horrible idea

@BrandonMinguez 2 года назад

I couldn't imagine combining finances with my parents in my 50s..

@lukefolds147 2 года назад

Or ever....

@matthewcastillo9951 2 года назад

When I moved out of my parents house I was 20. I thought that was old..

@Guerrero3546 2 года назад

Everyone’s situation is different.

@geraldwalker7609 2 года назад

I can only imagine. There needs to be a song written about that.

@joypeaceandhappiness1501 2 года назад

My grandmother is 80, she lives with my mom who is 60. However it is my mom's house not my granny's and my granny has had two knee surgeries.

@rodrigofernandez9055 2 года назад

She constantly says WE because she is supporting her parents. She might manage to live with roommates with $41K but she can't leave her elderly parents on their own.

@Rizky06 2 года назад

Elderly parents can have all kinds of issues and still claim they are perfectly fine. The reality is they are one event from being put in a nursing home along with all of their remaining assets to keep them there.

@nk2682 2 года назад

There’s a lot more to this story.

@fortyseventhronin 2 года назад

Captain Obvious scores again

@fredericksharon6908 2 года назад

Yes.

@justlivelovelaughfrugally 2 года назад

@@fortyseventhronin 😂

@shola7987 2 года назад

I wish he asked her more questions

@Boxhead42 2 года назад

@@shola7987 This is what you get when you call in for a quick "McCounseling" session.🙃

@SuperFriday 2 года назад

Maybe she's their CAREGIVER. You didn't ask where the $41k was coming from.

@ketobarbelle8051 7 месяцев назад

Exactly, I’m in a similar boat. My father had cancer and then passed away, and my mother got cancer immediately after and went through a 4 year ordeal with it and is now unable to live on her own. Some of us simply don’t have a choice because of caregiving responsibilities - trying to maintain two households along with caregiving responsibilities and holding down a full time job is just too hard. Dave shouldn’t have been such an ass here.

@mirabella2154 2 года назад

She might as well stay there at 52.

@bryanlr 2 года назад

Right lol, at this point it is what it is

@JoseMora-wc5zz 2 года назад

Yeah, kind of dumb not to

@jonjones5368 2 года назад

yea at this point, mind as well stay. they are getting older.

@Sizukun1 2 года назад

Yeah people that old aren't going to suddenly progress into adulthood. She needs to stay with her parents.

@karimbennett5651 2 года назад

I agree. Moving out now and trying to claim her independence isn’t proving anything. That train been done left the station. It’s all about mutual survival now, and then survival without her parents once they are gone.

@jbirds87 2 года назад

I couldn’t imagine living with my mother for that long, I recently moved at 21 years old, although it’s harder on my own I don’t ever want to have to live with her again. I used the extra three years she gave me to focus on school, save money, and pay off my car, which I bought at 18 years old. I’ m forever grateful for the opportunities she gave me.

@CubsFan2812 2 года назад

I'm with you. I'm 24 and moved out in the spring. Its taught me a lot but I couldn't imagine ever going back.

@xfhnhhgjbvcfg 2 года назад

I moved out when I was 16 lol

@pipr5070 2 года назад

I couldn’t get out of my parents house quick enough

@pri.sci.lla. 2 года назад

Nothing like being independent. I moved out at 18 though.

@lifeisbeautiful9455 2 года назад

@@pri.sci.lla. same… my father said he punch me in my mfn mouth and I left. You do t talk to your daughter like that. He was abusive to my mom and she passed at 39. I was still in high school. I called the cops on him several times. People knew he was abusive and they left me there and I fought back.

@tonys6342 2 года назад

I have been listening to these clips on RU-vid every day for nearly two years and this is the first time I felt the caller was not given the patience and treatment they deserve. I hope you all didn’t truly end the call here. I have seen Ramsey do a lot of things for people and I don’t understand why this was so cold.

@mariob9389 2 года назад

I disagree. This is the American mentality of forget about your parents and let them live in a long term care home. I’m Latino and we see this as backwards. I was able to make millions and I still own a house with my mom... I don’t live with her but when the time comes, she can move in with me.

@HatedJared 2 года назад

Wasnt this call about her living with her parents, and not her parents living with her? Very different.

@wreckers_band8825 2 года назад

Exactly, if she is 52 her parents are in their 70's minimum. Not the best time to throw them by themselves in an apartment as she might be their caregiver. I wish Dave digged dipper into her situation, she might be with them out of necessity.

@rolandom29 2 года назад

Exactly, I thought I was the only one that disagreed

@Excalibur2 2 года назад

Exactly, this isn't the 1960s anymore where everyone can even afford their own place, and if you get along with family there's no benefit to even moving out anyway.

@goldshadow534 2 года назад

She is 52. Does she plan to get married? Proly not, they need each other. No issues here

@bigskyguy1611 2 года назад

Should have drilled down further in why she was living with her parents. Nothing wrong with multi-generational households. It's the norm in most of the rest of the world. It's perfectly ok if they aren't co-dependent and there are control issues.

@martylts 2 года назад

That's the problem, if you listen to her language she is codependent.

@jimroscovius 2 года назад

Well, it's not normal here. I don't care what weird things they do in other countries.

@naomirachel9161 2 года назад

in most multi generational households and cultures that practice it, by the time a person is 52, usually their parents are living WITH THEM, not the other way around. there is a difference.

@jasminediazarciga 2 года назад

Right?? America is the outlier with this structure. You are seeing it more & more because housing has become unaffordable. There are many benefits to it, I believe capitalism really forces the “independence” movement on us because it’s more money coming in when everyone lives separately and handles their own finances.

@joesisk8499 2 года назад

Couldn’t agree more with you and less with Dave on this one. He let his emotions get the best of him and went down a control rabbit hole vs helping her.

@supersportrsz28 2 года назад

I have a friend that still lived at home with his dad til the day his dad died a few months ago. We were best friend in HS and he is still working a part time 20-30 hour job a week like we did back then. We are both 49 years old. He is still at home and his dad paid for everything. an example is his dad paid for all car insurance and home bills plus vacations my friend went on. Now you say he was fine to live at home and I say what is his plan now? The other siblings have already made it clear the house will be sold and this will leave him with some inheritance but no real survival skills at 49 years old. Dave is correct as are the momma and daddy birds.

@theimperfectscrapper5313 2 года назад

If he’s been working all those years, but mooching off his dad, he should have a pretty huge bank balance.

@supersportrsz28 2 года назад

@@theimperfectscrapper5313 he is your typical American consumer that does not follow a plan and lives in the moment so you can imagine what his finances look like. That inheritance will be gone in no time. Dave is right, you have to have a plan and stick to it and Dave's plan is the best Godly advice you can follow for money and life. I read in so many comments that these kids are saving living off their parents but we all know this just isn't a 100% truth to the reality that most kids living off their parents abuse the gift and in the long run end up hurting the parents and themselves. People speak of traditions where kids and parents live together like Indian Families do as an example. But those Indian children pay for their parents and provide a home as they get older along with care. Way different than American kids or kids in general.

@theimperfectscrapper5313 2 года назад

@@supersportrsz28 very true about consumerism. My 20 year old son has been working, living at home and saving like crazy. He has a nice bank account for his efforts and in the next couple of years will be able to buy himself a unit. I’m in Australia and our house prices are insane. So kids generally stay home longer with their parents if they want to set themselves up for the future.

@tlpricescope7772 2 года назад

This is more common behavior than you think. My brother and my husband’s sister can’t cut the umbilical cord and they’re middle aged babies.

@hustlasstory7611 2 года назад

Bad plan only of you have bad parents.

@oneeyedman99 2 года назад

Dave likes to keep things simple and that's usually the best way to help struggling people, but sometimes life is complicated. This woman is never going to have children, probably never going to get married, isn't going to save any money on her income living on her own. Realistically she's going to need roommates to be able to have a real retirement, and she probably can't do better than the ones she has now.

@cisium1184 2 года назад

Well said.

@bellasue02 2 года назад

Have you priced houses in Austin since all the tech companies moved in? You can forget it. You need to be making about 100k or you're going to be renting a tent.

@curiouscat3384 Год назад

Well said.

@christofl6523 2 года назад

There is nothing wrong with living in a multi generational home. Europeans and Asians do it much more and have a lot more stability than most Americans. This idea that you have to struggle on your own is an American belief and is very outdated.

@bestly802 2 года назад

yeah but it hits different when you're in your 50s. Asians do it but they tend to move out in their 30-40s when they are done with college and worked their way up to a $100k income. But yeah, I agree it's very outdated to kick your kids out at 18 y/o.

@b201aman6 2 года назад

Yes but there's a negative side to this also. As an Asian, I agree that we have to live with our parents throughout our life most of the time, but we also have a responsibility to take care of our elderly parents and pay for their expensive healthcare which for many people becomes a huge liability.

@christofl6523 2 года назад

@@b201aman6 I'm sure this woman will take care of her elderly parents.

@widescreen1272 2 года назад

You cant compare asian culture to americans. Most asians living here in the US learn to live independently and asians living in asia has a totally different way of life. I am an asian, grew up in Asia and now living here in the US. I have live in both culture and i knew the differences.

@christofl6523 2 года назад

@@widescreen1272 When I say Asians I mean people who live in Asia not people who live in the US.

@rajbeekie7124 2 года назад

Without hearing the parents situation all this advice is useless. Her parents may have disabilities, etc. If they do, there is no way she will abandon them.

@besweeeet2 2 года назад

Who cares if she's with her parents? They're in this together. No big deal.

@MouseCIick 2 года назад

Because people are brainwashed by American culture and standard. If you are cool with your parents and there is no domestic issues then live with your parents, especially if they are paying for their mortgage. I would just pay my parents rent until they can pay off their house.

@matthewgardner2144 2 года назад

I agree. It's no one's business. This wouldn't work for me or most people I know, but I'm not judging this woman and her parents. Their finances sound messy, but she is trying.

@lisaowen7617 2 года назад

If her parents enjoy her being there, I don't see a problem.

@aprilg3299 2 года назад

I agree .. who cares that her life and her choice

@helenhilton2158 4 месяца назад

I totally disagree with Dave on this point. There is no problem with sharing expenses with parents if it’s necessary. I did. Both of my parents are with the Lord now, and I’m on my own, but I took care of each of them until their dying day. As hard as it was, I would do it again rather than put them in a nursing home unless absolutely necessary. If I had lived separately, our expenses would have been DOUBLED what they were, and neither of us could afford that. So, why not live in the same house, share expenses, and take care of one another? I was not mooching off of them, nor they off of me. Sometimes it just works out better for everyone that way.

@missj5564 2 года назад

Seems like this person is still dependent on her parents. I agree that she needs to learn to manage on her own.

@rachelharrison7961 2 года назад

Or them on her. She said “they need me”

@WaterfallVee 2 года назад

They won't be here forever.

@missj5564 2 года назад

@@WaterfallVee True.

@missj5564 2 года назад

@@rachelharrison7961 Sounds like codependency, her voice was breaking when Dave told her to live on her own. If her parents needs her, she should buy a home in her name (her parents sounds like they are in their 70s or 80s and should not be on the mortgage) her parents can stay with her and help with the utilities and food.

@SuperFriday 2 года назад

They need her.

@smeevers 2 года назад

But what if her parents are very old and she's caring for them also?! Not everyone wants to put their parents into a nursing home

@cutehumor 2 года назад

Yep, she is sacrificing her life to take care of her parents.

@murderofcrows7738 2 года назад

@@cutehumor I hate they Dave made her feel like a bad person for it.

@censored1360 2 года назад

@@cutehumor you dont know that

@jpg_sig10 5 месяцев назад

@@murderofcrows7738 I don't think Dave necessarily made her out to be a bad person, but he certainly did make her out to be a life-long under-achiever, a failure, a loser, pathetic, weak, as someone unable / unwilling to stand on her own two feet. Dave showed himself to be a very inside-the-box cookie-cutter kind of guy in his rational, here. Dave never once praised her good JudeoChristian sacrifice in honoring her elderly parents by taking care of them, rather than abandoning them to a cold heartless state-run nursing home. IMHO, it was not very Christian-like of Dave, at all.

@michaelcox645 2 года назад

finances aside, her parents are in their 70-90's; probably not a good time to move out away from her parents depending on their health

@NotShowingOff 2 года назад

Not necessarily. They could have had her young

@booshki 2 года назад

I was thinking the same thing.

@kevinfransen1255 2 года назад

@@NotShowingOff even if they had her young, that means her parents are in their late 60’s

@vanessaellis2195 2 года назад

Dave you didn't ASK THE ONE IMPORTANT QUESTION What is her cultural background.

@nickbroadhurst5924 2 года назад

I really don't understand why living with family members is so frowned upon by Dave. He employs his children for crying out loud. That is worse!

@rolandom29 2 года назад

Exactly, I’m just as confused

@nryanmusic 2 года назад

Right?!?!?!?!

@kelseybrown9959 2 года назад

Living with versus sharing a business with is very different…

@abumaryama6340 2 года назад

Hypocrisy at its finest

@firefly9838 2 года назад

Well first you have to understand Dave is a hypocrite. His getting out of debt advice is solid enough. It’s absurdly simple too. I followed his exact steps before I ever knew of him. Most of his other advice is flawed in one way or another. He comes from the same time and place my grandfather came from. Pull yourself up by your bootstraps or I disown you, get successful or we will never talk again.

@josephmasterson3992 2 года назад

Some children just make an emotional and physical-proximate attachment with their parents that they don't believe they're required to terminate. I've seen this with one woman in my extended family. She had a few boyfriends, but nothing stuck. Graduated college, but always wanted to return home. She could have moved from her childhood home but thought, "Why? I love it here. I love my parents. I can take care of them physically and we can combine incomes so that we can comfortably cover our shared expenses. Why must I leave?" And she never left. It didn't seem entirely crazy, either.

@Big-Government-Is-The-Problem 2 года назад

well its not crazy if everyone in the relationship gets along and everything is good. financially speaking it makes the most sense, especially if you dont have to pay rent or for food and could invest all of that money instead. even if you did have to pay for your own food and 1/3rd of the rent, thats still better than flying solo and paying 100% of everything, unless you have an awesome income and then solo expenses are not an issue at all.

@kingofrivia1248 2 года назад

Its not crazy🤷🏽‍♂️ Its a great life she can just have her husband move in thats what i did. Multi generational homes are a quick way out of middle class into riches.

@Jay-pf2cn 2 года назад

Dave has a real blind spot on issues like this.

@pattyajones 2 года назад

WRONG....I GET taking care of parents...but at 52 to have NOTHING for yourself is irresponsible. Mom and Dad are going to die. Where will she be then?

@Jay-pf2cn 2 года назад

@@pattyajones There really wasn’t enough information in this video to assume this person has nothing for themselves. She owned a home with her parents, so clearly she’s doing something right to qualify for a mortgage. When her parents die, she will have a valuable asset that gives her many options. Again, antiquated thinking is not useful in todays financial landscape.

@JAM609 2 года назад

@@pattyajones “my parents were skeptics but then we got out of debt” so her parents were in debt and they worked together to help each other.

@GlorifiedGremlin 2 года назад

He's old and southern lol he's as traditional as they come

@masonr1666 2 года назад

Imagine moving out, and having your parents loose their house, so they end up moving in with you.

@KS-cl8br 2 года назад

They can rent. Doesn't need to burden their kids.

@KS-cl8br 2 года назад

@Maria Garcia If you get married then for sure it's a burden to the spouse. Most likely a burden to the adult child as well.

@mysticaltyger2009 2 года назад

*lose

@tateg.7530 2 года назад

Heck at 52 years old, if you don't have your own spouse/family, maybe it's not such a bad idea to stay combined withe the parents? They're going to kick the bucket pretty soon anyway,

@AllIAm1 2 года назад

Crude but true

@mikemcbeth3216 2 года назад

Yess

@creolelady182 2 года назад

I left home when I was 19 and been on my own every since

@smittyvidz25fire84 2 года назад

I wonder if the parents can’t physically live by themselves. If she’s 52 I would say her parents are in their 70s or 80s. That being said they may not be able to get through day-to-day task without help

@justdoit54321 2 года назад

I don't fault her for taking care of her elderly parents. Most Americans throw their parents in a nursing home and let them fend for themselves. Honor, respect and take care of your elderly parents that is the right thing to do. And for those of you who disagree keep in mind you will be elderly someday.

@jpg_sig10 5 месяцев назад

Your comment reminds me of the story of the wooden bowl. May God bless you.

@ij1376 2 года назад

I was dependent on my parents until I was 21 and was about to explode like a firecracker--this woman is dependent and she's in her _fifties?_ God bless you ma'am you need it.

@rtlau-mk4di 2 года назад

I'm 24 and still living with my parents. LOL. At least I work though and I'm in school.

@RaptureHead1993 2 года назад

Im 28 and its a painnn….but i did this to myself due to weak resolve

@john-ic9vj 2 года назад

The vibe I got out of this was her parents were more dependent on her

@ralphholiman7401 2 года назад

I retired at 52, and was thinking that I could have done it faster if I had tried harder. Thanks to this caller for making me feel a whole lot better about my life!

@TheAngrySlug 2 года назад

Any tips for a young dude trying to do the same?

@ralphholiman7401 2 года назад

@@TheAngrySlug , save money, and put it in a good indexed mutual fund like the S&P 500, or small cap 2000. Don’t look at the returns but once a year.

@ralphholiman7401 2 года назад

Go to one of those investment rate of return calculators and start plugging in monthly savings, and time with average interest rate, which you can look up, and it makes it easy to plan for how much savings will be necessary for your planned retirement date.

@westsidesagittarius3103 2 года назад

Why you retire at 52 couldn't you have went longer ?

@ralphholiman7401 2 года назад

@@westsidesagittarius3103 , I had always had a lifelong dream of sailing the Caribbean. So I planned and retired and did it while I was still young enough to do it. I was making more money than I had ever made in my life. Family and friends were equally divided between jealous and horrified when I announced my plan. Getting off the gerbil wheel,was probably the most frightening thing I ever did.

@Lilbit2215 2 года назад

There's more to the story of why she's still living with her parents. She might be their caretaker or something and Dave's just not trying to hear that

@smeevers 2 года назад

Exactly!

@sackettfamily4685 2 года назад

She didn't word it right then. If she's their caretaker, I don't think she'd be talking like this.

@censored1360 2 года назад

lol not likely

@aplanefliesabove 2 года назад

I think she has a codependent relationship with her parents. Could be because she single and childless. Could be because she's extremely comfortable in her surroundings as are the parents because she is there to assist them in some way. This is not as odd as it appears.. there are more multi Generational homes as rents have skyrocketed and pay is low.

@ThreePuttBogeys88 2 года назад

I think it's too late for her to launch at this point. To quote a famous philosopher, "SAD" - DJT

@billvigus3719 2 года назад

Best philosopher ever 👆

@michellegrovak Год назад

The point of the emergency fund is not to never spend it, but to use it when needed and then build it back up.

@haywood4299 2 года назад

52 and making 40k in Austin texas, no wonder she is still living at home. She isn't going to change at this point, its already too late.

@MrFunkadeIic 2 года назад

Cost of living in Texas is cheap. She can manage with $40K

@Gonzo_Bubb 2 года назад

@@MrFunkadeIic Is the cost of living in Austin still cheap?

@ibrahimpasha8229 2 года назад

Not Austin

@haywood4299 2 года назад

@@MrFunkadeIic median home price in austin is 575k good luck with that making 40k

@BetYouHateMeNow 2 года назад

@@haywood4299 if she were to buy it earlier it wouldn't have been that high also even at 40k if she worked at least 20 years of the 52, that's 800k .

@eddieblake097 2 года назад

nothing wrong with a multigenerational home, specially if the elders need the help. Dave can shove it on this one.

@jazzydraft8418 2 года назад

Do you know the difference between owning your own home vs still living at your parents home? Having your parents move into your home is helping them. There is a difference! The caller never once said her parents needed help. Your assuming...

@JAM609 2 года назад

@@jazzydraft8418 “we bought a house” “we got rid of their debt”. It’s like people can’t listen to callers.

@U2beRejects 2 года назад

He didn't say not to help them. He said to visit from a different place to help them so you aren't robbing yourself from independence. He meant well.

@turtleville288 2 года назад

Exactly! 100%

@rolandom29 2 года назад

Maybe she takes care of her parents? I don’t see the problem. Would anyone care to explain?

@margaritae7526 2 года назад

Comments are very revealing of what different people hold most dear...

@deniseyweesy 2 года назад

I bought a house in 2000 with my mom and it's worked out fine. When my daughter was little I worked nights and she watched her so I didn't need daycare. Now that her health is failing I (and my now husband) help her out and pay much of the bills. It can be difficult at times but it's been fine. We have joint tenancy with right of survivorship. Not sure what Dave is thinking here.

@kristymarie6065 2 года назад

I agree

@lipglossed 2 года назад

I mean, at this point she has to decide herself if she wants to live with her parents forever or live a more separate life. What Dave is missing here is that I don't think her parents are bringing in enough money to fully support themselves or they may need care. There may be resources available for them though to help.

@jamaicancoder6278 2 года назад

moved out at 21, never looked back

@simsima3669 2 года назад

I disagree. If you’re going to take care of your parents as you should there’s no reason to avoid home ownership with them.

@chrisg27 2 года назад

There's a difference between making sure your parents are taken care of and being dependent or joining finances with them. You can do the former whilst being an independent adult

@ceciliapetrowsky2572 2 года назад

This was so dissatisfying! Dave should have dug deeper. What about the parents’ income? Why and how did they lose their house to an “investor” and now have no place to live? You can’t be like Judge Judy Dave. She gets overwhelmed by cases that are too complicated and then says “I’m done.” Don’t be like Judge Judy.

@tmusa2002 2 года назад

He got so hung up on how she lives with her parents and shouldn’t. Sounds like her parents have nothing and they are trying to survive together.

@erich84502a 2 года назад

I know its expensive to have your own house but you never become your own person until you move out forever. You should be gone at 21 because you will always be their little kid child. You can't grow up until you're free

@fredericksharon6908 2 года назад

She is 52!! Don't tell her to move out. U don't know what she is going through

@alinatamashevich3354 2 года назад

She has had years to figure it out. At 52, not gonna happen.

@yifanrants7894 2 года назад

@@alinatamashevich3354 No such thing as figuring out life. Figuring out is a forever game. We're all gonna die in the end. Moved out at 18 and doing great in life? well thats great but everyone is different right? Its like everyone in the comment section is judging her situation. No need for that trying to feel better about yourself. I've lost faith in humanity at this point.

@alinatamashevich3354 2 года назад

@@yifanrants7894 Might want to get some counseling.

@stevefrench5668 2 года назад

I don’t agree with Dave. What if they’re happy and this what they all want ? We don’t know all the details of their unique situation.

@noopz8035 2 года назад

What's wrong with combining finances with parents ? It's called building a dynasty , growing generational wealth .

@Shay-yg7nm 2 года назад

What a bunch of excuses. This woman is all over the place. She's a Trainwreck

@Sinful_Survivor 2 года назад

I thinking she's supporting her Parents, and if she's the only one bringing in Income then 40k a year won't be enough.

@J0hn.R 2 года назад

Sending this to my sister. I felt like I was listening to her 20 yrs in the future.

@davidclaro152 2 года назад

This is very common here in Japan. I was shocked when I moved to Japan how many singles in their mid to late 30s still live with mom and dad.

@elizabethtimothy4776 2 года назад

Only in North America and few countries in Europe that this is considered strange. Most cultures have multi generational living situations, it's different if the child/ adult is a bum. You could be top surgeon and still live at home until you are married or about to, then once you start having kids mum and dad comes to live with you to help raise the kid, and then stays till they pass on, (they could have their own apartment or section in the compound aka granny flat) and circle continues.

@LTGDSP 2 года назад

Its happening more in the U.S now more then ever

@davidclaro152 2 года назад

@@LTGDSP Wow! Really? What’s been happening there? I’ve been living in Japan for almost 20 years. BTW, what’s a Karen (other than a female name)? I still think the ladies who get in trouble are named Karen. We don’t really see that sort of thing in Japan.

@CarmenBuenrostro 2 года назад

One of the times I disagree with Dave. If she wants to live with her parent and they can help each other out is up to them. There is no financial reason why she needs to move. Her living with her parents is a social standard issue.

@mikaylacole4498 2 года назад

If someone’s happy living in a multigenerational home there’s no need to shame people for that. It sounds like everyone was comfortable with that element of the arraignment. Not everyone lives the same.

@ikkakukempachi4866 2 года назад

I don't think we got the whole story...how can they ask her to leave her parents without knowing their story. Stay with your mom and dad if it is the best for all of you!

@edhcb9359 2 года назад

“How do I build my wealth?” See also, “My parents and I keep getting outbid on trailer homes”. 🤔

@stevenporter863 2 года назад

She is mixing and complicating her finances by combining with her parents like they are married.

@christinebutler7630 2 года назад

At this point she is probably their caregiver. She's going to end up moving back in with them to care for them anyway, so why not have her name on the place anyway?

@johnSmith-uz8nl 2 года назад

How old are the parents? I think if this person is comfortable with the parents and it is OK with them, I am sure it is a big help. Dave does not understand the cost of home care.... I think this person is fantastic.

@Guitarlvr01 2 года назад

Surprised by the comments. It’s clear by the way she speaks she’s deeply inmeshed with her parents and doesn’t see herself as separate. There’s no boundaries. There’s a big difference between helping your parents and acting as a throuple with them.

@bmichh40 2 года назад

My uncle moved out when he was 58 years old.

@christianc7420 2 года назад

Everyones situation is different and some cultures live with and take care of their eldery parents.

@harshangill8130 2 года назад

Faxx

@AustinRasch-p2y 2 года назад

Yes, but the kids usually own the house and the parents live with them

@jaredkyle5987 2 года назад

Who cares if you live with your parents all your life… what are you to tell people otherwise? Are you the 52 and living at home police? Just mind your own business… other countries do this all the time…

@taahdaah3813 2 года назад

They should have spent a little bit more time finding out exactly why she was still living with her parents. Whatever her reasoning that is the real help she needs and probably would have been helpful to many adults in her situation. I've never worked a job were there wasn't an adult who lived their entire lives, single and with their parents.

@rosamoreno4794 2 года назад

So many adults are delusional and have failed to launch. 😳🤦🏻‍♀️👎🏻

@alexandermarcus7646 2 года назад

epic!

@sarahjaynescott545 2 года назад

not really. I stayed with my parents until marriage and am now a millionaire.

@katie8325 Год назад

So many adults are nasty and judgmental about situations of strangers they know nothing about. Apparently you’re one of them.

@KennTollens 2 года назад

When I was super broke, my grandma let me stay with her. She tried to give me some dignity and told people that I was staying there to take care of her, but she was just giving me a free place to live. Extremely degrading to live in someone else's house when most people your age have their own house, but usually better than living on the street.

@GOD-IS-REAL247 2 года назад

See this is the difference between men and women there’s no way a man could be in their parents place at the age of 52 and not have their life together people would be highly questioning why a man doesn’t have his life in order by the age of 52

@ellenmorse8559 2 года назад

With all due respect , at 52, that ship has sailed. Let her be.

@theasianjaywalker4455 2 года назад

What is this very specifically American OBSESSION with 'moving out of the parents house'? It's weird.

@erich84502ify 2 года назад

Its expected after you're 18 but some stay until 65

@BeaBelfastVideos 2 года назад

Dr Delony would have been a more suitable person to handle this call. Dave and Ken made a lot of assumptions.

@MM-lg4oi 2 года назад

Never take a mortgage with your parents UNLESS you really.... Really.... REALLY want the home and plan to live and die in it forever. I'm currently stuck in this limbo right now; I want my own home but life changing things happened in the past few years and now I cant get a mortgage for a second one and am stuck with this one until I get rid of it. They dont want to sell it but I want to sell it. They dont want to refinance without my name because they wont be able to afford it. But I had no choice back then as it was either sign with them or get kicked out the house and become homeless.

@The.Dude.Abides. 2 года назад

If she hasn’t moved away from mommy and daddy at age 52 and they have enabled her to this point, she is never moving out because she never became a real adult.

@garryharriman7349 2 года назад

All cases like this must be traeted as individual cases. To me, for those that are in financial dire straights out of their own financial mismanagement and irresponsibility is one thing. What is worse, in my mind, is being prepared to burden others and not really caring about it. I have met many people who fall into that latter category!

@carlernestsantos6523 2 года назад

In the Philippines 🇵🇭 sons and daughters live with their parents until their 60s and 70s. And assume the responsibility as caregiver to their parents

@chocolatewheelchair 6 месяцев назад

Do they get the house when the parents pass is that part of the deal because wouldn’t the be homeless otherwise

@nikolaig1 Год назад

The parents might need assistance. Living on your own is a dream for many.

@sarahjaynescott545 2 года назад

Reading a lot of the comments, Western mentality is so f'd up and backwards sometimes.

@jermaineporter1101 2 года назад

comments did not pass the vibe test. shes freaking 52 for crying out loud... need to get some independence

@edenterra2608 2 года назад

When i was 14, I only had one dream in my life to flee away from the communist regime, where i was born. My dream came through 10 years later. I left everything i knew behind, without thinking about it twice.

@johannesswillery7855 2 года назад

Tell your story!

@beckyjones3578 2 года назад

Maybe she's taking care of her parents? Instead of leaving them in a nursing home?

@jt9058 2 года назад

I couldn’t stand living moving back to my parents after graduating college and finding my first job. I moved out as soon as I got my first (tiny) paycheck. I literally was poor but made it work. I HAD to get out of there! There is something to be said for being poor but managing making it work on your own.

@kailyjuarez8811 2 года назад

do you live in a HCOL area?

@scholaroftheworldalternatehist 2 года назад

Yes, live poor and shun your parents or live with your parents and build up a nice amount of wealth before moving out. Hard choice

@widescreen1272 2 года назад

This is why i speak to my 9yo son to get a good job someday and get his life started on his own and be independent. This woman can't step out of her house thinking she has to live on her own from now on.

@anthonyfonseca5025 2 года назад

Saw the title and thought I was seeing things lol

@fernandofernandez2677 2 года назад

If she’s 52, her parents are probably in their 70’s, so at this point she is taking care of them not the other way around.

@catlady2795 2 года назад

Sounds like she likes living with her parents. Why mess with what you like. So she can be independent and miserable?

@sarahjaynescott545 2 года назад

exactly. too many weirdos out there as well .

@Lightningmicro 2 года назад

Doesn’t even know any of the details but automatically thinks she’s living in her parents basement. What a joke. Sounds like she’s the one helping her parents stay off the streets. Nothing wrong with her parents living with her if they are paying some of the bills and they are all helping each other and she is happy.

@Joe-dd5ht 2 года назад

too late for her, 52 with no man and living with parents. might as well stay

@MrFunkadeIic 2 года назад

Jennifer Lopez is 51, and she looks 40. She can land any man she wants. Never too late.

@edb484 2 года назад

@@MrFunkadeIic That’s different, J Lo worth over $150 million lol

@esonon5210 2 года назад

@@MrFunkadeIic J. Lo also doesn't live with her parents

@shantereed 2 года назад

I don’t think she will if she has not left by now. I had a great aunt and uncles did the same thing. And when great grandma died, they moved in with my grandma who is their older sister.

@vjs4539 2 года назад

There's nothing wrong with her living with her parents and sharing expenses. Dave wasn't very nice on this call.

@flamefusion8963 2 года назад

There is when you're already 52 years old. Especially when she says she only makes 40k at her age.

@murderofcrows7738 2 года назад

Ken’s body language was theatrical and rude. They can take less calls from millionaires with fake questions and more calls from people in legit shocking situations. They don’t need to dismissive anyone whose story is different in order to make it seem shocking and extreme.

@censored1360 2 года назад

there is lots wrong with it

@ivy4335 2 года назад

@@flamefusion8963 A lot of people will make that amount of money...not everyone is making more...wages have not caught up to inflation. Travel America you will see how true this is, some are even making less.

@flamefusion8963 2 года назад

@@ivy4335 untrue, the average for her age is 80k. She fell far behind, likely from decisions she's made.

@fhuber7507 2 года назад

Sounds like she has been her parents' cash cow for life.

@missj5564 2 года назад

Her parents should have some income coming in. If not, how have they managed financially all their life.

@DemetriPanici 2 года назад

I'm shook people still live with their parents at this age

@musicpro7278 2 года назад

I had my own place at 17 and I think thats to old still I should've move when I was 15

@JC-gi6jf 2 года назад

@@musicpro7278 how did u get ur own place at 17?

@KennyakaTI 2 года назад

@@musicpro7278 Why would you think 17 is too old to live at your parents. At 18 you're barely an adult

@HappyLife-tg8yy 2 года назад

@@musicpro7278 bozo

@musicpro7278 2 года назад

@@JC-gi6jf I drop out at 16 and started working 50 hours a week and i got a studio for 1k a month when I turned 17

@bhuwin6186 2 года назад

This is very cultural heavy topic with no right/wrong answer. Matter fact the older my parents get the more we prefer to stay with them till the end in south asia.

@mriphone1000 2 года назад

With inflation kids will be 52 before they leave the house. Lol

@kterry22 2 года назад

Apparently Dave Ramsey has never heard of multi-generational households. Shaming a woman for a practice that is a norm around the world.....

@dcg590 Год назад

This is what happens when you end up unmarried with no plan in life. She was more worried about her career than building her life with someone.

@katie8325 Год назад

Well that was quite an assumption! You have no idea about this woman’s circumstances. Also she makes 40k. I highly doubt she was focused on her career.

@alexm5426 2 года назад

My name is George I’m unemployed and I live with my parents

@alinatamashevich3354 2 года назад

This is not AA

@alexm5426 2 года назад

@@alinatamashevich3354 it’s a Seinfeld reference

@alinatamashevich3354 2 года назад

@@alexm5426 And you want to be my latex salesman.

@alexm5426 2 года назад

@@alinatamashevich3354 no I’m a marine biologist

@alinatamashevich3354 2 года назад

@@alexm5426 it’s a Seinfeld reference

@bclayton430 2 года назад

I literally can’t believe this is real.

@OTOWN2STOCKTOWN 2 года назад

She might be Indian, Caribbean, Southeast Asian or Latino. They live with their parents for long

@ChrisMFlorida 2 года назад

Sounds like a series of bad ideas after bad ideas..

@emmanuelgomez1973 2 года назад

Happy Thanksgiving Everyone!

@ceciliapreziose3783 2 года назад

same to you and yours❤

@markcurry3083 2 года назад

Everyone who’s in their 20s talking about they’re saving money to buy a house or to go to school needs to leave and live on their own. No growth happens with mama. You’re more likely to end up like this lady