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God asked Adam, "What is wrong with you?" Adam said he didn't have anyone to talk to. God said that He was going to make Adam a companion and that it would be a woman. God said, "This person will gather food for you, cook for you, and when you discover clothing she'll wash it for you. She will always agree with everything you say. She will bear your children and never ask you to get up in the middle of the night to take care of them. She will not nag you and will always be the first to admit she was wrong when you've had a disagreement. She will never have a headache and will freely give you love and passion whenever you need it." Adam asked God, "What will this woman cost?" God replied, "An arm and a leg." Then Adam asked, "What can I get for a rib?" The rest is history...
@@arminxvs3372 A means to an end. Society has been working against our country for decades. And most forms of Marxism (which we suffer from) involve creating self privileged and self victimizing people (many of which are women) to destroy the society through their awful behavior and tantrums which are backed up by the society and not properly shamed and punished.
Sadly that was never true. In most families in the last 200 years the women mad the decissions. Ask a real estate agent, who make the decission what house get bough and how much money is spend. Ask a travel agent. Ask the old ones how it was 30-50 years back. It was the same. Wmeon allways and at all time made thefinacial decissions and most other important ones. IT is a myth that men ever were in charge of the families. Women always ruled behind the doors!
@@siunami6432 ya, a lot of them don't even know how to be decent human beings. But there was this one time, I took my 10 year old daughter to see a movie, and a girl a few years older than her stopped and held the door open for us. I was so shocked and so proud of this girl. So, there is some hope for the future.
@@TheBarelyScientist nah, you gotta keep fighting the good fight. It sucks sometimes but ya gotta keep being a "good example" for those around you. Otherwise, all hope is lost.
I just realized, not once, not ever, have I heard a single woman reply to the 'What do you bring to the table?" question with the ONLY good answer... That answer is "What do YOU WANT me to bring to the table?". THAT would be hot as hell, not her griping about the question, not getting offended, but straight up asking what are you looking for me to bring to the table.
Women: "You know that thing that you really hate? The thing where you do really hard stuff and other people tell you what to do all day? The thing that takes up all your time and energy?" Men: "Jobs???" Women: "Yes...How dare you keep us from that!"
"If you want chivalry, just be nice to men" sounds like a line from the end of the movie PCU... "It's like if you're nice to them, they bring you things.", "Exactly."
I married in '80. A good factory job at GM netted about 2 bills a week. I worked 12 hr days drilling high pressure wells (oil field) for 6 bills a week. One pay was my months bills. Told my young leggy blond farm girl wife, "Here's the checkbook, You pay bills''. She said, "What about all the extra money ?" I said, "I don't care, but when I need a new truck it better be there.'' It was. Lord she was a wonderful woman, until menopause and a divorce lawyer destroyed her. But then. So is her replacement.
If you want to be around women who like the classic male/female energy interplay, then go where they are. I do Latin social dancing - salsa, etc. It's all about those dynamics. Leading, following, the right amount of touch, connection, confidence. The parallels are very clear. This scene attracts women who like men that 'get it'.
Men used to give up their seat to women, even when bone tired at the end of a sixteen hour shift. Now they'd still give up their seat but only to those deserving, like a disabled vet or another dude who put in a harder days work.
64 years old, I used to do nice things for women but after seeing so many men lose their job/career over mere allegations I said no more. Equal pay bee itch, means equal work. Flat tire? - change it yourself, have a question? Figure it out on your own.
The respect/appreciation would have to be sincere and consistent. Women would have to demonstrate loyalty to men who provide and protect. No more exploiting men who provide and then divorcing those same men once the woman thinks she can cash out. The laws would also need to be changed to remove the incentive to exploit men’s sacrifices.
A bear in the woods would 100% get up for her; and she certainly would not be standing for very long after that. Be careful what you ask for, you just might get it.
nah. anyone with a brain knows chivalry was a thing in the middle ages when knights were roaming around. none of us were alive when it started and faded out. nice try though.
The _romantic_ aspects of chivalry are dead, and we're all the better for it, because they were espoused by penniless knights who wanted women to love them for some nebulous, transcendent value like "love" and women got a lot of orbiters from it and a massive ego boost. See Paul Elam's _Chasing the Dragon._ The sooner you throw out attachments to chivalry and romantic love, the sooner you awake to reality and can change yourself accordingly to optimize your self-development and mating potential.
I am handicapped and cant walk properly. But i hate using a cane, so i waddle everywhere. I cannot stand on my foot for long. The ONLY people that ever gave me their seat were older men. No women EVER got up to allow me to sit. I bought a car now. I couldnt keep taking the bus anymore. People have become piece of trash in this generation.
@@celuiquipeut6527 Not all of us that are younger are as selfish. But the other part makes sense. "For I've met a thousand men, and few were rich in spirit. I've also met a thousand women, and sadly none were" King Solomon
@@VoiceOvaGuy I am sorry for you. I was generalizing. Sadly in your generation, you are very rare and a minority of minority. I used to hate it when i was getting bundled with the others when i was young too.
I am retired and single. Now I have the really tough job of cooking and doing the house work. lol I get bored having this freedom of doing two hours or less of work a day. Got to get back to watching tv for the next 12 hours. 😂
I can clean the house in 1-2 hours on Saturday morning. Spend 2 hours on Sunday afternoon making food for the entire week. Then all week get home from work, warm up the food then just relax with the dogs.
That video of the guy being greeted by his wife every day made me feel envy like never before, knowing it's more likely to win the lotery, get hit by a lightning 13 times, and watch godzilla emerge from the sea than to ever meet a woman like this. But a man can dream...
It's so unlikely that I'm leaning towards it being fake or AI😂 The point of content is to evoke emotions and there would be millions of men jealous after seeing that clip.
All of that is about as true as women knowing what they want or need to any degree. In that space, they're about as competent as a child that wants cake for breakfast, lunch, and dinner.
@@chinajoe6510 Military is able to rule over the state... well military mostly are men ... hmmm - hope that gives 'brain-dead' people something to think about.
Women overblow house work and actually being a normal spouse (emotional labour horseshit). I had several cleaning jobs as a teenager, I am extremely proficient in taking care of the home. It doesn't take long.
Dude for real women take 8-10 hours to do housework a dude can do in 2-3 .been there done that and I put in a 12 hour shift lol. Like good lord the pissing and moaning about doing some household chores. Its like they never had to do them as a kid. And now its ugh so dam hard
I retired after working for 30 years on the last day before retiree medical benefits were dropped where I formerly worked. My two boys were still in school; one in middle school and one starting high school. Basically, I was on a pension with a decent 401K and became a house husband with a working wife. It was easy, chauffeur the kids to and from school and sports events, cook, laundry, clean the house... no problem and no stress.
There are men who would get up and offer her their seat out of some misplaced sense of dignity. But by about the third time they do something like that and are told 'i have a boyfriend' 'i don't want to sleep with you' 'dont talk to me' they learned that it is best to simply ignore women.
You’re wasting your time with this. Women aren’t asking that they get treated like any man that has to work. They don’t want to make a choice between the old way and the modern way. They want to be a women who has all the rights and privileges of a man when it comes to work, promotion, etc, while still maintaining her privileged position as a bonus hole bearer everywhere else. That’s why modern women can demand Snow White be an independent woman who don’t need no prince but still demand the fairy tale romance from a literal prince. He’s supposed to do it with no expectations for his own desires, needs, and expectations.
May times women have told us they don’t owe us anything Which means we don’t owe them anything Women will never voluntarily return to any sort of love, respect and appreciation.
When I was in my twenties I had one moment that changed my attitude towards helping women. One woman was wearing high heels, she slipped and fell over, things flew out of her bag. I didn’t have second thoughts to approach and help, but she said “what are you doing”, and gave me that look that I felt I was doing something wrong. I’ve never helped a woman ever since and not going to
In my early twenties a woman who was drinking among friends, I'd never met her, went into the ocean drunk for attention. She started to drown and panic, calling for help. I without hesitation swam out to help her, bought her into shore. She got up and walked away. I as anyone would asked "are you okay" and she replied with "leave me alone".. I also felt like I didn't matter and was made wrong for pure chivalry. Now I'm convinced that if I looked like David Hasselhoff, she would have been more appreciative... But she was all entitled and dismissed me.
Actually, that was pretty realistic. We got a glimpse on a woman running smack dab into reality, and reality kicked her proverbial a--! Toughen up buttercup, because you are probably in the honeymoon phase at work. Wait until it really gets rough and the kid gloves come off. That's what separates the boys from the men. And guess who is the worst to work for? You guessed it, women. Lol 😂
I opened a door for a woman yesterday and the look she gave me was beyond rude and of course didnt say thanks or even nod her head, at least us men say thanks . So much for being a gentleman .
I hope you learned your lesson. Never open a door for a woman ever again because they don't deserve it. If you're very unlucky she even sues you for some bullshit reason.
Too many times where they will just stand in front of the door on the other side waiting for you to open it and then say nothing. Now I just stand there staring and wait for them to just go.
I married the woman that greets her husband when he gets home, married 45 years, sometimes she puts her arms out and wiggles her butt like a puppy, life is good.
They know it very well and they don't care if what they do is right. Just think about how shamelessly they treat simps, it's exactly the same thing. Fomenisn was all just a giant shot test.
@@theathlete771 haha FOMENISM. FOE MEN ISM. Also this is UR pale 👱🏾♀️ problem. Us ⚫️ aren't pedestalized ANYWHERE. Rosa Parks Harriet Tubman Sojourner Truth EAFNED their keep 👍.
My mom told me she was working in a local park as a volunteer for clean up. She was upset that some men were sitting on their porch watching from across the street instead of helping her and several children. I told her she is not entitled to their help.
Maybe the men had a bit of a cold coming on. We all know men don't have women protective hormones against the plight of a bit of a cold. Heartless woman. 😄
There was a comedian the other day who did a bit, "I had to change roles with my wife a while back. I had to stay home, take care of the kids, cook and clean the house while she worked. I finally understood what women's lives had been for so long.... and to be honest, it wasn't that hard." lmao
This intriguing video serves as a poignant reminder of the heartache I've been enduring since my 7 year relationship came to an end 4 months ago. My cherished partner, the love of my life, made the difficult decision to part ways, leaving me consumed by thoughts of him. Despite my earnest attempts to win him back, I find myself facing frustration and an overwhelming sense of emptiness, unable to envision a life without his presence. Despite my efforts to move on, I'm compelled to confess my lingering feelings and longing for him here.
The process of releasing a loved one can be an uphill battle. I can relate, having navigated a similar journey when my 8 year relationship dissolved. Despite the heartache, I refused to relinquish hope and embarked on a quest to win her back. Turning to a spiritual counselor for assistance, I found guidance that ultimately led to our reconciliation.
This is what they don't understand. It's so simple. Treat us like a man and we'll treat you like a woman. That last guy would swim through broken glass for his girl....and she knows it. That's why she treats him that way. It's a perfect circle of reciprocation. As you said, f*cking beautiful!
Actually it is the other way around. He treats her that way because of the way SHE treats him. She is the one outside waiting for him. The woman needs to do her part first for it to work.
@@matikaevur6299you dont know why you do it because you are conditioned to act without knowing why by propaganda. If i work 12 hours, then im at the same „weak“ level as an old person. And that means we both have the same right to sit. The reason why you should give up your seat to old people is literally because they are weak. Has nothing to do with respect. If you worked 12 hours and your legs are dead, then you have the same or more rights to sit and literally dont have to give your seat to anyone. You humans run on autopilot you dont even know why you do the things you do. You are at the same conscious level as animals
I had a gf compare my job on a pipeline with her job as an IT person at a hospital, “I do hard stuff too”. Then I handed her the 48in pipe wrench I used every day. She couldn’t even lift the tool. She stopped comparing but not complaining
In addition to big steel pipe wrenches I use to use an aluminum one if I had to lug it around any distance. They work great as long as you don’t use a hammer on the handle. We would sometimes have something so stuck we had to hook a chain to the pipe wrench handle and pull on it with a truck or other piece of heavy equipment. You don’t want to use an aluminum wrench then either.
both jobs can be difficult in different ways. she's wrong for comparing burdens because it belittles your effort. everyone needs to vent sometimes, so i hope you both have people they can complain to when work gets hard (as long as nobody is saying their troubles are harders than the others')
My mom needed a fridge so she got one I went to pick it up for her Got it to her house I go to unload it She said she can get it I said ok. She had that anything a man can do I can do better attitude She couldn't move the fridge let alone take it down from the truck It was funny during this whole time. I got it down from the truck Unboxed Old one out new one in By myself In less than 20 minutes The sad part is she still holds that attitude today 20 years after that one moment And keep saying she don't need no man It's devastatingly funny when women do this Then guess who they ask when they can't
Been out in the dating scene for the first time in years. My buddy has been kinda pushing me to go out again, well I finally caved in and have been and lemme tell ya, the bar and nightclub life is absolutely terrible. The women nowadays are treacherous
Best thing you can do is go into one of those places, take a look around. If you see a woman you are interested in, walk to where she can see you, just give her a good once over (look) with a neutral face, make sure she sees you doing it and then ignore her. IF there is to be any interaction, she will initiate it and then you are in the drivers seat. Make them chase you.
IF she put in some WORK and simply ASKED any of those men, 100% chance at least one of them would say "Oh, sorry about that, here have my seat, I'm off at the next station anyway..." BUT if she EXPECTS him to just DO that, because of her presence, NO, F that. I keep saying it to women, use your words, closed mouths CAN'T be fed.
I agree there's no reason to cede your seat to a woman just because she's a woman, but there's no excuse to occupy two seats when there's people standing.
I remember offering my seat to a woman and she looked disgusted and said no, when there was one available she sat on the one that was eventually available ... Even if you are chivalrous it needs to be from someone Nicer looking...
Don't fall for the BS. When they give you that look of suspicion like the girl in the gray sweatpants in the clip you showed..... They're not actually suspicious. It is just trendy to be a victim. It's an exaggerated irrational reaction. And it stems from egoistic and narcissistic intentions. For example, the girl in the clip you showed. I think she's like some special hottie. And she thinks that every dude thinks she's something special. She's not actually offended nor is she suspicious of anything. She's just reacting that way so that she can be this " attractive female victim". She doesn't believe it..... Therefore you shouldn't believe it All just an act
With any due respect, experimenting with the loosening any social structure for men and women is simply a bad idea. Let's not tear down fences before we understand why they were put there. There is a reason all major civilizations had male/female segregation in roles and responsibilities.
I'm not standing up for a woman in the train - especially when all she does is give me the looks. I've seen so many women just occupy a double seat and never consider giving up the other seat. Usually, they have their bag on that other seat or are working on their laptop. Besides this - my train rides are at least an hour. Why would I make myself suffer for a random woman who has no interest, or pretends she feels guilty for me to stand? She might leave on the next stop or she has to sit there all the time.
Welcome to our world. I used to open doors for everyone, but now just for senior citizens, or disabled people, or other guys. I am tall. But i never reach for items unless its an older person or disabled. I am not rude, just unwilling to treat women as privileged anymore. However in Philippines i revert to my old ways, as my efforts are genuinely appreciated.
Dude stop talking to them as if they were EVER reasonable or intelligent!! One of the truest lines ever spoken in a movie is Nicholson as Melvin Udall in As Good as it Gets. “ I think of a man and take away REASON and Accountability. “ Stop pandering to them they are NOT gonna learn
Until the divorce laws change nothing is going to change, no man wants to have a stay at home wife who then divorces him 20 years later and takes all his stuff and years of alimony for providing her 20 years of all that privilege.
Bill Burr nailed it. Women treat equality like it's a buffet. "Equal pay...I'll take some of that. Split the cheque? Pass. Hold the door open....I'll take some of that. Being drafted? No thanks. Give me your seat...Yes please. Learn how to use jumper cables? I don't think so. Women and children first...definitely". It's all or nothing ladies.
All it takes is to be kind and respectful? That's too much for them. Because that means they have to give up the ability to ritually humiliate men knowing men cannot do anything back and that sense of control and power feeds something deeply disgusting and sinister in them that they crave. They want both, the power over men and the privilege of being treated like women.
There is definitely a diversity of values in the culture today. But it is increasingly gendered. Can men get along with women? Which is the more tolerant sex? Are most women capable of being tolerant of of those who disagree with them?
As proof of the assertion, "men would love to stay at home," I am reminded of the immortal words of Mark Gungor."There is nothing a man likes more than spending time in his nothing box."
Maaaan she can hug him all she wants but she was at home all day bonking the milkman... female nature is undefeated. Try the stay home mom thing at your own risk!
Why should I offer my seat to a woman? The elderly have their age, pregnant women have their pregnancy, but why should we yield our seats to any person that isn't old or pregnant?
Who else thinks that all the damsels in the age of yore had like 5 or more different chivalrous knights in their rotation? I think Canterbury Tales left a lot out...
@j.p.5716 essentially, female nature hasn't changed. Merely the technology/medicine is finally advanced enough to cover it up. I wonder how many children of the Middle Ages weren't raised by their real fathers.
2:30 that’s exactly what happened and that’s exactly how we got here. Women asked for a little bit, and men obliged. But it wasn’t enough, so they asked for more, but that wasn’t enough, either, so they asked more. And more and more and more, until we ended up where we’re at today; our society in shambles, and our civilization in the middle of collapse. Frankly, they should’ve been told no the first time they asked.
I always like how feminist list the cost of every job a woman does in the house, you notice they never cost the men's role, that's because there isn't a job were you work all day and give your paycheck to someone else and let them live for free in your home, running up bills. The simple fact is the traditional women roles have a professional available to do them because some husbands used to pay to have help for their wives, wives just expect their husbands to provide for them for less and less.
I was in Disney land with my family. My brother chose to stay standing to offer the seat next to him to the young woman. The girl didn’t take the offer saying, with an offended tone, that she doesn’t the seat. I was leaving a store and two girls were close enough that I felt I would be shutting the door in their face. I decided to keep the door open. I got a grimace look from them…not even a thank you. Later on a saw an old lady with her older daughter, I held the door and the daughter was super gracious. That generation understood chivalry and had manners.
Chivalry existed in small agrarian societies where everyone knew everyone, and men knew their kindness would be returned. Standing on a bus or train in the city for strangers? Pure fantasy.
Treat women with masculine traits like you would any of your homeboys. Call them bro, homie, dude, etc. If they object, tell them if they want to be treated like a lady, then act like one.
Back when we were a more Christian nation we had the 7th and the 10th commandment. Thou shall not commit Adultery, and Thou shall not covet(which included other guys wives). Part of chivalry was offering a bit of service to married women or women who were off the market to you as a gesture kindness towards women and to make society more cohesive. Feminism killed that. A woman had better be very pregnant or elderly before i give up my seat.
But her even having to ask is already making her feel dirty, he should have been able to read her mind, and give that seat. Why do I nned to do any efforts for anything ? Where are all the good men ???!!!
For real, they dont just want special treatment, they want you to WANT to give them special treatment. She isnt upset she is standing, she is upset that men are seeing her standing and dont feel compelled by her femininity to hop and take care of her. If she has to ask then she wasnt worth as much as she was hoping.
@@shihoblade Great point. I guess it means she is only equal and not special. I know I feel that way all the time when women don't see how special I am. Lol 😂😂😂
What you say about men wanting to be SAHD is true, my wife went full tilt into career and when I started to lean into the house work and kids to compensate she lost all respect. My career stagnation bothered her immensely and the bedroom became dead. This was one of the bigger reasons for our divorce, not the only one but a big part of it for sure.
