Ellie wants a sophisticated fishtail wedding dress that will make her look more mature, but mum wants to see her little girl in a princess gown. Catch Say Yes to the Dress on TLC - Sky 133, Virgin 162, BT TV 323
I has my first kiss at 19, and my first boyfriend/ fiance at 23 and 4 yrs later we were ingaged and and 2 years after we're getting married 😉 don't worry take your time to know if that special someone is right for you
@@itsminxy_ no, that's not the issue. The size isn't the issue, it's the shape and how it works with her frame. I'm skinnier than her by a mile and know to stay away from anything that cuts off the shoulders or makes her look boxed in.
Why do mother's do this? It's horribly unfair. Your daughters wedding day is not your day. Cop on, live your own life and stop trying to live through your daughter. It's pathetic!
I must admit that if I was prepared to fork over 2,000 pounds for my daughter's dress, I'd find it very, very hard to keep my mouth closed. I know I'd have to, but I'd be biting my tongue constantly. I also must admit that I am surprised at the number of brides - and not just young ones like this one, but women in their late 20s - whose parents are paying for the dress.
@@pandorabox8094While I do agree that they should pay for the dresses themselves, paying for something doesn't mean you get to control someone else's choices. It's supposed to be a gift, not a chance to manipulate.
@@bettynolo23 Did you miss that I wrote: "I'd find it very, very hard to keep my mouth closed. I know I'd have to, but I'd be biting my tongue constantly?" This obviously implies that I'd be supportive, and keep my mouth shut. However, even a gift can come with strings attached, and the sooner these brides realise it and face facts, the better for them. Additionally, a lot of these brides need someone to tell them that although they might love the dress, they look ridiculous. It's possibly the train wreck effect that is the appeal of some - not all - of this type of programme. Additionally,it would be interesting to know how many brides actually wear the dress t they select.
I don't know WHY I watch these! I end up screaming at the screen....." but its NOT your wedding!!!!!" I'm a mother too and I have NO vision of what my kids will get married in, if they'll get married or even have kids. Its not my place to tell my ADULT kids what I WANT THEM TO DO! If they ask for advice or opinion ill give it but I'm HAPPY if THEY ARE HAPPY! #selfishmums
I agree Jen. It's one thing to say how you visioned to see your daughter,it's another thing to impose it on her. You had your chance on your wedding day.Now is her chance to do the wedding in her style,to live her dream.
Jen Loves Nails your an ideal mom! My mom chose my dress. I just wore it. My mom is the one who chooses most of my decisions even though I’m 22, have 2 kids, and am married. She pretty much controls my life and if I don’t do what she wants, she gets upset or mad at me.
It seem that they suddenly have become deaf... It happens a lot in this particular show. Soon annoying. I think she would have looked the part in a nice fishtail. With her youthful figure she could carry that style of easily.
My opinion; that was the worst dress she tried on! Totally swallowed her up. Mom's shouldn't push their dreams on the their daughters but respect what they want!
Agree with the comments about the dress she choose, swimsuit her and made her look pregnant. Mum although your opinion does matter it's her wedding and she should wear what she's dreamt of.
they should have put her in another fishtail (that *actually* compliments her figure) instead of two of what the mom wants. that last one was the most kid-ish of all three.
she looks 19 for a caucasion girl, but yea older if you compare her to like everyone, ive noticed white girls or pale girls in general tend to age faster due to more wrinkle and damage prone skin.
@@shristisilwal492 that def can be the case because people tend to disregard the value of spf in keeping you young looking, but I think she looks her age 19 year olds have a tendency to look 16-25 depending on who's looking at her.
I dont like it. I am so tired of seeing these moms overtaking the appointment with what they want. It kills me.. these mother's already had their wedding and chose their dresses. I hate that they sway the bride from the vision she has. I went dress shopping with my mom and sister and showed them the dress I loved. They saw how happy I was and they loved that but not the dress. Which sucked bad. Then they picked a dress for me the exact opposite of what I was wanting. I put it on and they both started crying talking about how beautiful and look at your waiste and shape. Ya it was nice and looked pretty. But wasn't what I wanted or loved. I didn't get anything. I wanted moms approval and didn't get it But I didn't give in either.. Still looking
That's why I made two appointments. One for my mom and mother in law and a second with my sister and friends who would not overtake the appointment with what they like. Worked out. Let my mom picture me in dresses as well as my mother in law, and chose the one I loved with my friends. She had no room to say no. Bahahaha
I feel so bad for you... Get the one you love. When I went dress shopping, i found the perfect dress. I had my mom, my grandma, my best friend, and my best friends mom with me. When I put on the dress and said this is the one, everyone agreed with me that they thought it was perfect. My husband who doesn't even like red (the dress had red incorporated into it in the sash and design) was a little deflated when I told him red and white was the color scheme. After he saw me, he told me it was the prettiest dress hed ever seen and that I looked absolutely stunning. Get what you want because it's your wedding!
I am just annoyed when moms are like: "yeah yeah I know what you like" and they overrule the bride- like no, you know what YOU like, you had your day already now be quiet and let the bride pick what SHE likes and feels comfortable and confident in.
This is ridiculous I can’t believe people actually get up there and let other people sway their choice on their wedding day. It’s why I went by myself pick up my dress in 30 minutes and had an amazing coordinator to help me out. I felt like a princess in my dress. ❤️
:/ Yeah I don't think she knows what *she* wants. If you notice, she said that she wants people to take her seriously and then went with the dress that everyone liked. All of that stuff shouldn't matter when you are setting up YOUR wedding. 😕
She has an absolutely beautiful face. But it's interesting that she's one of those people who simply doesn't wear clothes well. It may be her youth, and that she simply lacks confidence.
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i think she’s just nervous. i hate shopping, especially for formalwear. i remember being terrified while shopping for a prom dress, i can’t even imagine wedding shopping
I am very, very glad that this woman is not my mother. My mother would never try to force me to wear something I didn't like just because she liked it - she would be supportive of my choice because after all I'd be the one getting married! Idk what's with these crazy ladies...
The people who are concerned about her getting married at 19 are exactly what is making this poor woman feel so insecure and wanting to look older, it's not your business. I was married at 24 and my SIL was married at 30, we both had ball gowns so I personally don't feel they look young or immature. My advice to any bride reading this would be to try every style before you rule something out.
Omg I can’t stop getting angry about this. The dress she wanted suited her so much I hope she doesn’t let her husband manipulate her as much. Mom should be ashamed
Oh what a coincidence this young bride episode was posted today! My brother just got engaged to his girlfriend, now fiance, today. They're 20 years old. Been together since they were 15. Young love is still love!
"I'm used to brides being slightly older trying to look younger", he is literally most famous for dressing a 19 year-old Lady Diana in the most famous wedding dress ever. But I guess he's had a few older clients since her...
I was married at 19 and my Mother's opinion was very important to me. It was a big step in my life and her support was invaluable if not frustrating at times. She passed away not long after my wedding and I miss the times we had together. This just brought back fond memories. And the dress looks amazing! 🙏❤️
Its because she knows she dont have a voice or knows how to set boundaries & cant speak up for herself, probably cause her family is crazy n overbearing n will abuse her in any way they can if she doesnt obey them. Its not cute. Its sad. Ik cause I have the same voice n same family. People who are quiet like this were probably abused n shut down. Cause nobody else talks like this especially when it comes to speaking up for themselves. I saw an adult young man and his mom at the store recently n he was quieter talking to her about choices on something n she wouldnt listen to him on his opinion which I knew he was right based on what he said, but she still did the opposite.
Sri Devi kka out curiosity I searched her name on Instagram and there’s a private profile of her (I think) and it looks like she’s a teen mom. She probably broke up with her baby daddy.
19 is normal age to get married in my country. Both my grandmas got married at 19, and lived happily with my grandpas till their death. My mother also got married at 19, and she has been married to my father for 42 years now. I got married at 21, and 8 years later we are still madly in love with each other.
I looked her up because I’m weird like that🙄 She has the cutest babyyy😍😍 I guess she had him in 2016 and decided to wait until she finished school to get married
I was looking for a fellow stalker 😂😂😂 Joke, does that mean she was pregnant at the time this was recorded? And did you see any wedding photos by any chance?
I'm glad the birde chose a dress she liked and made her feel beautiful, instead of wanting to feel older and mature. She looked beautiful in the dress she chose. 😊😍
@@bethany8854 if the wedding is soon enough... or long enough after the baby is born...? But I was wondering, too, because of the way she put her hand on her belly when she introduced herself and those with her. Not "judging"- just stating, in a very neutral way. 😉
@@shelbys27501) She doesn't look happy, and 2) she chose the dress that everyone else liked. Looks like a girl who doesn't know what she wants and is trying to please everyone. *Very sad.*
5:53 that dress was absolutely beautiful in my opinion her mom did good picking that one dress for her. 😇☺🙂☺👏👏👏It had the wow factor that she was looking for. 😇☺😎👏👏👏
It should give David some flasbacks. Lady Diana Spencer was 19 when she married Prince Charles. Though that's certainly not the Happily ever after story we want to hear...
It might be her makeup or something but I was surprised to hear that she was only nineteen, I would have guessed 25-30. Honestly I don’t think she needs a certain dress to look older
Actually understand how she feels. When I was shopping I tried on a couple gowns that I felt swallowed me and made me feel like I was a little girl playing dress up
I was married at 19. 51 years later, still together, still happy. I tried on 1 dress. Boat neck, scalloped lace edge. Long sheer, lacie sleeves, pointed on my hand. Full skirt with lace appliqué. I still have it and still love it to this day.
I love that they have a younger bride on the show! I'm 18 and going to be 19 when I get married to the love of my life 💕 4 years together this year! together 9-30-15 getting married 9-28-19 😍