Your Ex Is Dating Someone New? GET THE CONTROL BACK! 

Sad times don't last forever. Give yourself a time to reflect and to heal. Everything will be ok someday. Time flies!

This is the worst feeling ever.🥺

I'm starting to feel happy when i focus more on myself rather than my ex😌😌

Its only been 2 months since the breakup up, she was talking to the other guy a week after the break up. Months later they start really dating and posting that they're together.

That was until I got to see the new person my ex dated in person 😂😂😂😂

Absolutely destroyed at the moment...and it doesn't seem like a rebound. she does reach out to me and has done so periodically since we split. However, it hurts like hell!

Thanks for the wisdom points LAT😊. You guys are looking good anyways👍

This so helpful😊 This is my current situatuon. I pray for healing😢😢

OMG yes this is the video I needed 😳🙌🏽. Damn, I miss my ex so much!

FYI, they were seeing their crush before the break up!!

If my x leave me for someone else and it didn't work out..., Sorry Hun i don't want you back

I love it wen u guys work as a team

My rebound relationship turned into a five year toxic relationship. I was so sad about my ex that I ended up dating someone who took advantage of my weakness, so, I do not recommend a rebound relationship. 0/10. And I can say now, it’s affecting my new relationships.

In these types of situations the tactic i employ is simple. Imagine taking a look at this possibility from 50 000 feet, in an airplane if you like; take a good look. You will soon realise how insignificant and silly it all is. At the end of the day none of it will matter. If they moved on too quickly or with the person you feared, then its probably highly likely they were not for you. It should be a huge red flag as to the maturity level and you should be able to laugh at it and walk away. This is only possible if you are not reacting from ego, but from your true self who knows they deserve better.

Unfortunately my recent ex wife 10 years reconnected with her high school sweetheart about 9 months before telling me she wanted a divorce then admitted the affair 6 months later . .we divorced I'm heartbroken . .her boyfriend however has yet to tell his wife . ..breaks my heart but don't know what to do for her

She did this to me 😭 3 days after the break up. 1.5 years with this girl doing my best.

My ex is moving in with someone she met less than a month after we broke up. 2 weeks before she told me she said 'I love you so much and I miss you but I need time by myself to sort my head out' cos she's got childhood trauma issues and is alcoholic. I left her alone then spoke to her 2 weeks later and she told me she's getting with this guy cos he understands her cos he's got similar issues, then blamed me for not being there for her and he was, even though she specifically told me to leave her alone for a while. And now she's moving in with him already.

I just recently got out of a relationship while it's been a year but I got out of an abusive relationship recently and my kid's dad is getting. Involved and saying he misses me and loves me but he has a girlfriend i'm confused

Only two weeks of breaking up, he posted himself with new girl. Over a week he tried to reach out to me for over a week. He went to my friends house asked her to call me, he asked if I could get back to him, I wasn’t response. 4 days after he posted himself with another girls on WhatsApp. What’s going on?

What advice do you have for this. He will not divorce his wife even though they have not been together for years. I am not sure why because he will not say why he will not divorce her.

I’m also going through the same thing my ex has been engaged even while in an relationship with me then I find out that my ex has moved in with the fiance

Honestly I met my ex at the wrong time in my life. I worked on myself and at first i felt depressed. But giving him the break up and knew he was the cause, i granted him so. But i now my new love of my life, fiance soon to be husband he found me. And won't let go. Let me explain, my fiance got angry with me and then i tried to apologize but he rejected it quickly. So i thought it was over he just needed time to think but at the end of the day and several weeks later he proposed to me and now im working on a passport to meet his family in South Korea so, stay tunes next is 💍

Why does she accuse me of being with someone else when she is seeing someone

And now let's all praise the grass and the bumble bees that are always chilling in the lakes which are also doing twirly things too in the hallways that will smile and be glad and sad too. But honestly we must all do the things while sitting on the sinks baking some carrots and biscuits in the trees swaying in the skies. Lastly let's all spin into some fans cuz they will make us really happy too while we can eat some fries and some broccoli in the streets that are happy too!💯💯💯

My ex wife was dating a month after leaving me but that didn't last very long becaue he rejected her, and now a few months later she is in another relationship with someone else and I really don't think she will ever come back

Sorry but this is a terrible cope. How could you take someone back who’s been with someone else? You should be teaching people how to break the bond and move on if the situation allows it. But that’s hard and impossible sometimes

How can I set up a one on one coaching

last year I moved to another city and after 8 months I became a control freak. I was jealous when her friends visited her and then I just pushed her to lie to me when she went out with her guy friend she told me that she was her brother. I found it out and I freaked out. I went to her city the second day and kinda all went well, but I started to having trust issues. every time we talked all my questions were about where she was and with whom. I know I pushed her too much. last night when I wished her a goodnight she didn't respond. so I called her. at first she declined my call. then she answered and I asked her to show me every room in her apartment. I know how wrong I am. today she said that she wants to break up because i was being disrespectful. I understand her feelings and I swear just those words were enough punishment to realize how wrong I was. I'm going to give her time and space. because she told me that she has lots of problems on her head (she's separated, not divorced with her husband). I understand this all. I just love her so much. Can I win her back? I'll do anything to have her in my life. I forgot how lucky and happy i was that she chose me to be in her life. I don't know what to do. my world just exploded. I don't know how to hope for a better tomorrow without her. I know I'm wrong, and that I should never let thatbone lie affect our relationship. I'm so lost...

Can it be a rebond relationship if he finds a new girl after 4 month ? We were together for 4 years …

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Me in her been broken up a year in she in a new relationship

What if he blocks me on all platforms and he is with someone new?

I was with my ex for23 years. I never knew he was seeing someone 12 yrs ago but we stayed together..me only finding out recentley. Right before Christmas he told me he wanted me to move out in order to bring his new girlfriend in. Its killing me.

I just found out that my ex unblocked me. What does this mean? He is still in a relationship with the girl who caused our break up.

What about my ex change your number on me

Happy Birthday and now we must buck with ducks and then cluck cluck cluck with our trucks doing some spinning on their fingers. Cuz let's all sit in some clouds while also prancing with the moms baking some carrots on some trees. But let's all pls smile with the forks waving to the skies and also trying to make us cry and hug some grass waving at some cats. But lastly all in all lets all pls be happy and also laughing with the dads and grasshoppers twirling into some other spoons too while the rabbits and ants can also hug and eat some pizza to in the lakes that can always be happy for the birds crying in the branches of the twigs on trees guys...🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼❤❤❤❤❤

Ok. Long story here and I hope someone can help me. My gf of 16 years dumped me about 3 months ago after a HORRIBLE fight. I am a very outgoing and extroverted person by nature, but suffer bad depression. My job was a great source of socializing because I really didn't do much outside the family when I wasn't working. We have 4 kids and they take up a lot of our time. Then covid hit and everyone but me an one or two others went to work from home. I was usually the only person at work besides the janitor and it sent my depression into overdrive and about a year ago I started drinking. The last 4-6 months before the break up we had been having bad fights while I was drunk and the last fight I said some pretty unforgivable things that I have since acknowledged and apologized for repeatedly. We still live together and still share the same bed. Lately she has been a little nicer to me and I had written her a few notes which she has kept instead of throwing away. I was a wreck for the first few weeks but then I basically told her the break up was my rock bottom slap in the face wake up call and I have been working hard on self improvement and mental shifts from the negatives to the positive and spending more time inside with the kids instead of hiding in the garage smoking and getting drunk. Also been totally sober except for 2 or 3 lapses when things got to be too much. A few nights ago she even rolled towards me in her sleep and put her arm on mine. She used to get pissed if I touched her even accidentally in my sleep. Sounds good, right? Now the bad part. We have a roommate who basically was like a live in babysitter for when we were both at work and the kids like him. She has been messing around with him for at least a month and it's tearing me up inside. I love her deeply and want her back more than anything. She doesn't know that I know about them. I have been thinking about moving out and only leaving her enough cash each month to pay child support (about $1700 according to the lawyer I talked to) instead of the $4000 I have been putting towards the bills. She makes about $2000 a month and rent alone is $2200 and the roommate just can't get a job anywhere. He says he applies like crazy but has only had one or two interviews in the last 9 months and probably won't find a job. The money I would leave and her income is no where near what they need to live on and it would wreck them. Should I go that route? Or should I stay at home and just keep showcasing my improvement and trying to win her over that way? What do I do?? I love her so much it hurts. 😢