My life isn't falling apart. I just feel like everything I try is a constant struggle. I'm 26 and ever since I was a child things never went my way, not one even when I tried my hardest. Social skills, School, Work, even had a traumatic birth. I've made my peace with the struggles in my life, and have chosen to just keep moving forward and not focus on the bad. But I would be lying if I didn't say I've felt defeated somedays. Sometimes I ask God "why am I here" or "did I kill someone in a past life??".
@jeremy God gave us scriptures. The bible is full of scriptures. The root word of scripture is script. A script is a written description of how to act or a way to move and think. If we keep doing things the way we want to do things we will continue to struggle. However; when we act and think the way God wants us to, our "struggles" will become minimal. It doesn't mean you wont have obstacles and tests, but life will get easier, when you learn and follow the way God wants us to handle things.
Reality is based on our belief systems stored in the subconscious mind. Limiting beliefs carry over from past lives, the good news we can change the beliefs to more beneficial beliefs, we have to become aware of them and reprogram the mind. We also sign for some of the hardships in our life, God gives his toughest warriors the most difficult path.
I see you struggling bro and I hope you get a breakthrough. I'm in the same boat. I hope somebody sees you down and actually puts their hand out for you
I needed this message because I lost my job, and I’ve had several interviews and they all rejected me so far and I just said out loud “does GOD not want me to work or something. My anxiety and depression is kicking my butt so staying in the gym and getting sun everyday is helping a lot. I’m at the lowest point of my life but trying to keep faith alive
*I needed to hear this, I lost my parents, sister, my friends, job, just had a near death experience and my just brother went missing all within 3 months*
My life is has been constantly going downhill for the past 6 years. I don't think God has been trying all this time to get my attention by making my life so horrible for all these years man. I'm tired.
@Bucatti, God does try to get your attention by "making your life so horrible". Your decisions are like earthquakes, they have trimmers. Your past choices lead you to whatever situation you are in right now. Life comes with principles to follow. The Bible is rich with principles, but you have to take the time to read it. It has principles to help you protect yourself from being in terrible situations. At some point, I took accountability for my actions and developed self-discipline and patience as I started reading the Bible. Once I gave my attention to God, my whole life changed, from friends to places (it all changed). My talk changed, my mind changed, my environment changed, and my maturity level increased. All that changed because I chose to give God my mind (by reading the Bible and being obedient to God's Word). Wherever your mind goes, your life will follow.
@@BigMiketheMessenger this is powerful, thank you for this. Right now I find myself in tough situations and I know that he’s getting my attention. For years I’ve known about the principles and obedience but just never did none of it, so I know that what I’m experiencing is no bad luck and things like that. Thanks for the message; I wish everyone well and God’s abundant blessings, peace, joy and favour.
I'm really at my witts end!!!!! My life doesn't even feel real anymore!!!! I've been praying for year's and NOTHING IS HAPPENING. Whether relationships or jobs or friendships, ALL I DO IS LOSE. I can't take anymore. Really not feeling like he exists anymore. It's easy for you to say "don't worry" when I'm next to being suicidal. It's like God picks and chooses who he helps. I'm now thinking of finding different ways to help myself. Not what I really want to do but I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE!!!!!!!!!!!!
@Lonewolf 7 God looks at the heart and mind of each individual. You have to come to God with a sincere heart and an open mind. God will allow everything you had faith in fail, because God wants to your attention. I was where you are at one point in my life.....as I started focusing my mind on God's Word....I began to come out of depression and poverty. It took a few weeks, but as I became obedient and committed to God's Word....life became easy. The truth is...I was doing things my way (That's what got me in the bad situation), but then I was committed to learning and doing things God's way....I didn't always understand it ( I did things God's way anyway) and life has been getting better ever since. Commit to studying God's Word yourself...no church...no pastor..just have a sincere heart, schedule time to read the Word of God, be obedient, have faith, and the rest will unfold. I guarantee it! I live by it. I'm living proof.
@@sandstorm8840 I hope you're doing better. Keep your head up and don't give up. Try not to be too hard on yourself and just take things one breath at a time. I truly hope you're doing OK and things are better for you.
Was just laying here talking to God in tears saying my life is falling apart after I do so much good and spread His word still no life progress! Then God sends me here…so simple and to the point. I had begin to let alcohol, the desire to have a man and go on many dates to find him, all distract me and today it seemed like I was stripped from EVERYTHING when I was just so happy yesterday. Keep me in your prayers to whomever reads those. (I tossed the rest of my alcohol in the trash because I’m just fed up) ☺️ time to get back living for Jesus whole heartedly
@ASMRELAX You'll be fine....Jerusalem went into slavery because they compromised obeying God's word and started adopting the ways of other cultures (serving other God's and not living according to God's standards). So God gave them over to the other cultures and allowed the cultures to deal with them according to their standards. Don't compromise God's ways and watch how you build favor, peace, wisdom, and everything else your heart desires. Remember...First seek the Kingdom of Heaven, then all the desires of your heart will be given to you.
You’re absolutely correct Big Mike. God has taken away my wealth, my hobbies, my sports, my friends and my home but I still have my body,mind, soul and heart. Every time I start to get physically string again, he knocks me back down to humble me. If it weren’t for God I would be lost, in prison or dead. It’s a daily struggle to stay in line with his wishes, but when you fall out of his grace he’ll let you know right away. Another great video Mike. Thank you
I have made mistakes and have repented and getting back on track yet still my family is going without food and bills aren’t being paid. I know God has something for me it’s just like I can’t reach it.
I can not tell you how timely this message is. I fell asleep on it, although it's only 5 minutes because the enemy didn't want me to hear this. I'm glad I listened again.🙏🏼
Im about to be homeless in a week. I have nowhere to go. I start school in a month. My family is so toxic I can't live with them. My life has been falling apart for years. I feel like god is not helping find a solution. Ive been crying to god for so long im tired. I feel like giving up.
@Victoria Ford God has a Covenant established for those who choose to give themselves to Him. In God's Covenant or contract He has requirements for us to meet. To keep it simple, we have to learn how God wants us to do things. When we do things our way it has a tendency to lead us to hurt, pain, dysfunction, disease, homelessness, poverty, unstable environments, and even death. As I went through life in my early years, I've witnessed all of the above from friends and family being disobedient to God. In the past 13 years I've experienced the favor and blessings from God. It all starts, when you choose to learn, read, and obey God's word. God knows your mind and intentions, so be honest, open, obedient, and humble and God will show you a way out. I'm living proof. I'm not talking about what a pastor said or what I've heard.....I'm telling you what I'm currently witnessing as God continues to heal, develop, and make me whole. The Most High wants your attention! Give Him your focus and things will change before you know it.
Losing my housing, losing hrs. at work, lights notice, gas notice....how is taking these things away going to help me? I'm a mom of 4 n would be on the streets if this happens..n the bad part is I did my part but the people put in place to help me have dropped the ball.
Wow thank you for this. I commend you for sharing your own story with us it takes courage to admit that. And yes sex and relationships and vanity can be very distracting from God and the father said the same thing on Sunday. Great message thanks for helping others
To touch on the relationship part.. I feel like I was more productive and more focused then I ever was when I was in it and now that that is no longer. I feel as if I don’t want to do anything and I feel that what was the best thing for me. And I’m trying my hardest to have faith and believe in the plan god has for me. But it is really difficult for once I felt like myself and felt like doing the best and now I feel as if that was taking away.
@2 dudes fishin Your faith has to be developed. Faith means "To have total trust"...but God requires you to have total trust in Him. We sometimes "miss the mark", because we have more faith in the outcome than we have faith in God. God only accepts Faith as His form of currency. The more Faith you have in God, the more you will be at peace...knowing that God's hands are bigger than yours (God has the power to position you and no one can override God's authority).
So I want to say thank you for being honest about sexual distractions. I have been abstinent awhile now because I felt like it was hindering me from seeing what God wanted from me. Sometimes it gets really REALLY HARD not to just say man I can't take it. But then I start thinking about how it's going to set me back in my journey. You're right it is definitely a trade! I just pray God sees our efforts even when it's very very hard!. Thank you so much for this video and your honesty!
idk man i just keep constantly getting bad things towards me my grades are horrible everytime i try to pull them up they go back down i lost everything at home, got embarrassed, lost a friend, failed my drivers test, can’t get any females attention, lost my job.. and im only 17 i honestly dont know how to feel im slowly getting those thoughts that it might be over for me and what made me like this, ive never been in a place like this i don’t understand whats going on. Am i not enough do i not belong here anymore, i just don’t know what to do man i might just take the easy way out.
Idk why but when you said God was taking away distractions especially sex it broke me down. I lost it and realized how hollow my existence has become. Thank you for letting me know.
@@D1_Tactical We got divorced but were still living together. But we have been getting along much better so maybe it was a blessing in disguise. I do want to re marry her and make everything better this time. We both made many mistakes but I still love her.
Wow, thank you! Such a simple but powerful message. 👏 Thank you for the enlightenment, very much needed at this point in my life. God Bless, you! I wish you the best and much success! ✝️
No my life is actually falling apart. Ever since I got a divorce bc I found out my husband was cheating, things have been going downhill. I can’t find a job, my apt/expenses are quickly devouring my savings, I keep having car issues and I can’t afford to have it repaired. I pray to God all the time and ask is there something I did wrong? But, I don’t feel like I’m getting a answer. I almost feel like I’m being punished for wanting a divorce because I chose to take the high road and not stay with my ex-husband and just keep letting him cheat 😢Why would God allow this? What’s the lesson in this? Hopefully someone answers because I literally don’t know what to do at this point. I’m going to have to move in with niece so I don’t end up homeless.
What if God is your 100% focus but he is still taking things? Example: my wife and I have been following God unapologetically and now her Dad is trying to take her business back from her and turn her family against us. They see the light God has brought upon us, we've been living in obiendiance with God now her family is potting against us Thanks for all who respond to this!
@bmuss06 I don't know, but I'm willing to guess. So, here it goes...When God is 100% your focus, He allows you to go through storms (in your case "family issues") in order to up root the nouns (people, places, or things) that are not compatible for your next season. Trust the process. God knows what you have a hard time letting go of...including relationships with family members and even some businesses. Those things had their season in your life, but those old things will choke out the new growth God had planned for you to gain in the next season. Remember, All things happen for the greater good for those who love God. It will work out how God sees fit. Trust God! He knows what's best for you.
I lost my job I lost my car shortly after, my roommate screwed me over and was ho less for 2 days until my mom letme come home, my mom just put me out after I got out of the hospital and was told I have pneumonia and now I have no food I'm staying at my nephews my stress is up ive been crying for days I'm scared my anxiety is up and feel like god has completely left me, I don't feel like I have anyone foreal, I'm begging g god to help me I'm begging him to make a way for me, 2 mo the ago my faith was tested so hard I tore my bible up I immediately regretted it and I will never do it again ever but this is what I've been going through ad everyone says it's because he's getting ready to d something big in my life I just dnt know why if that is true why am I suffering like this, plz plz pray for me brothers and sisters in christ I'm real scared and truly tryingto keep my head up ❤
I've heard this message, or a variation of this message for years. I have even said similar words in the hopes of providing support for people that need it. My life crumbled around me 20 years ago because I was not living right. I lost everything, including my family. God got my attention, and I started making the necessary changes. It took years for my life to get back on track. Now here I am again staring at the possibility of being homeless. I lost my job six months ago. It's easy to give great advice and deliver a great message when everything is going great, but when you are in the midst of a storm it's hard to see the light. I'm much older now. I love the Lord, but I am losing faith.
@Anthaman Somewhere along your journey, you put faith (complete trust) into your job, family, or whatever else you lost along the way. God will allow whatever you have faith in to fall apart. Personally, I have had good jobs that paid well and left, because it took away my time from God. I've had relationships that I eliminated because it was harmful to my relationship with God. The message in the video is about what God will allow to happen when you put things first before God. If you reflect on your past, I'm sure you may find where you began to neglect God (and give your "time" or "life currency" to other things). I have learned to not compromise my time and relationship with God. In other cases, your situation could either be a test or an indication you need to reflect and adjust your priorities in life.
I don't know why, but I am going through a very difficult time in my life. There are times when I want to give up but I give myself courage. First of all, my marriage is broken, my children are nowhere to be seen, I have been stopped at work and every interview I do I am told that I have failed. me🤦♂️
I just came across with this video cause I am desperate to find an answer to my problems, I feel like my life is falling apart and I don’t have any aspirations or purposes.
Hey.. I am a high school graduate and this is my second year trying to get into medical school.. I truly felt like God was there, with me, writing my exam but now that my results are out, I don't know how I'll ever get in.. My whole life just feels like a joke. Like I'm that one person that God just can't get through to. Watching your video opened my eyes to maybe what it is that I've been missing. Thank you ❤
@Sneha David....you getting into medical school doesn't define your life. There are lessons and experiences in disappointment. Reflect and analyze your experience and make the adjustments. You can get into medical school this is just a trial before the testimony.
What if you pray for stability and get the opposite im tired of fighting I pray for his help everyday and my safety it just seems like I’m getting the opposite
my life is falling apart rn my car stopped working and no money and no job and i feel like im suffering inside and everything is just confusing i don’t know what to do anymore i feel alone and i hate this
None of the things that are happening to me happened until I came back to God. I’m having health problems, my accounts are negative what is going on???
My life is falling apart my country, my life is in danger my sister wish she wasn’t born to our family my family don’t even care anymore they want the military to stop and I’m Buddhism btw does god still want my attention after all these years
@ Direct Dude Yes. Our time, attention, obedience, and willingness to know God is what God is asking from us. When you pay attention to God, He has a way to guide you to peace of mind, a different perspective on life, and growth in all aspects of your life. I can only speak from my experience. I am ignorant to the beliefs of Buddhism....so forgive me of my lack of knowledge about Buddhism. However; I do know my personal relationship with God has enhanced my happiness, mental health, as well as other areas in my life for the better. As you build your personal relationship with God, everything else close you will benefit from your relationship with God. I'm living proof.
Big mike I don't know what is going one because I believe in god and every day my life is worse why is that I love god and jesus I believe in them but my life is getting worse and worse
@Matias, to love God is to study thw word of God. The bible gives us a set of principles to apply to our lives. Once you apply them to our life, then life will get better. In addition, as life gets tough, it's designed to make you tougher. Life doesn't get easier so God allows us to go through things to make us stronger.
First you have to understand who the rules of this earth is and how his manipulation tactics work, stay fervent n steadfast, remember we're sinners living in a world filled with sin, trials n troubles aree going to come but remember to go to Him and stop putting you first
And i wonder if god is really trying to get my attention i just don’t understand why and i just unsure with everything and tbh i’ve been smoking to help but ive been getting so sick of it
So... my bike, which is my only means of transportation to my job, breaking and costing me more money that I dont have, and my rent going up, and all the other endless shit that is happening is all God's will? I'm glad I dont put my faith in a being that uses punishment as a tool to make you believe.
@Garrett Martin If you don't pay rent, are you punished or denied access to the living quarters? If you chose a bike as your primary means of transportation, are you held accountable for that choice? When rent goes up, are you forced to pay without an option to move? Everything you have going on in your life are related to the choices you made....God gave you free will to make those choices. They are all results of the way YOU chose. You have to take accountability for your choices instead of blaming God. This is a clear example of what happens when you do things your way. God allows things to happen....He gave you free will....the issue is you don't know God or His ways, so you choose to blame Him for your results. You life will continue to tumble down hill, until you take time to learn who God is and the way He commands us to live. Life does get better when you do things God's way. I'm living proof. You will always have adversity...it conditions you for the next level of maturity. In the adversity, there are lessons we learn and it builds faith knowing that God will take care of it as long as you're obedient. I'm telling you from experience.
@@BigMiketheMessenger if I dont pay rent, I get evicted. I use a bike for transportation due to PTSD from a car accident that cost the life of my best friend. I cannot get a cheaper place where I live. My rent is the cheapest it can be for where I live. But there is no conversation to have with a person of faith when it comes to rationality. You believe in faith, and I dont. I believe in what is tangible. God cannot save me, cuz I dont have a monotheistic perspective of the universe.
@@BigMiketheMessenger also, I have read the Bible, New and Old Testament. Not a fan. Some good stories, some not so good. Are you trying to say I should be like Job? And accept all the evil in my life, for it is God's will to test my faith? What about the story of Ishmael? Or Sodom and Gamorrah, where God sent his wrath onto those who denied him and his teachings? Were they not expressing their free will? I'm not a biblical scholar by any means, but I can read a story and find the premise. When God gets mad, he destroys unless you pledge yourself to him. Seems a lot like King Xerxes from Ancient Greek times. He saw himself as a type of diety who is kind unless you oppose his will. Also, Ancient Sumerian culture and Mesopotamian culture talked about Jesus and God, too. Yahweh. There are so many intellectual holes in the Bible, which is why I can take it at face value, but cannot put my faith into something that has no real form of truth.
@@BigMiketheMessenger but let's be clear, I am not an atheist. I have a polytheistic perspective. Did you know that the Christian God despised polytheism? He would go on to call us heathen, corrupt and morally evil. I've never harmed another human for selfish reasons. I've only accepted and tried to understand those around me. Some of my closer friends are Christian believers. And I have good convos with them. But I dont ask them to change their beliefs because I dont agree with them. I dont ignore their faith, I just dont follow it. I've got nothing against faith, just blind following. I believe things are just the way they are. It's random chaos. I was indoctrinated from birth about Christianity. And when I spoke about how I didnt believe the same faith as my family, they told me I wasn't allowed to participate in Christmas if I didn't believe in Jesus.... "Christmas" was a holiday that celebrated the year in past, and expressed friendship, family, and good will. The Pagans celebrated it before the missionaries of Chrit came to convert them to a new faith. And when the Pagans disagreed, they were harmed and the land they called their home was taken from them. They were whipped, beaten, burned, etc. And if you wanna know more, read and discover.
@Garrett Martin The key point is about accountability and choices. It is not wise to blame "God's will" as the reason rent went up or your bike being your only means of transportation...etc. I'm saying take accountability for your choices instead of blaming God. That is the focus of my comment.
God seems to be incompetent in regards to giving a message. Add in the mystery, indirect communication, etc., God needs to do a better job at relying messages. As a human being, if we want to give a message to somebody, we do it directly in a coherent manner. We do not rely upon confusion, nor methods that cause dysfunction.
@KevZen2000 In this season of life, you have to take accountability for setting time aside to read the God's Word and listen to God's Word. God is a gentleman, you either choose to commit to learning the Word of God or ignoring it. The choice is yours. You have to commit to giving more effort and focus to the Word of God. On a serious note, God will make it simple to you...if your heart is genuine about studying God's Word and living according to God's Word. It's not God....it's YOUR short comings.
You don't need convincing....the storms of life will continue to get worse and the mind and spirit will search for answers. In due season, it will happen.
@@tadhgmcdermid7545 You will have tests in life that will look like "bad luck" or "unfortunate circumstances", but in reality there are principles that will protect you. At some point, life experiences will make you question "Why me?!". At that point you will began to look for answers in the place of humility. Or it may be a near death experience, that make you question life and purpose on a more mental and spiritual level.
Good message. Just wanna say God could have just said so clearly... just dont like how he makes things so confusing. Seem like he takes a long time to get to the point. 😂
Jesus Christ, he didnt need to give my fiance stage 4 cancer, my mom heart problems and kill off my grandpa all in the same year just to get my attention. These didn't get me closer to god, it just broke me and took me farther from him, I don't think a good god can do this... he's like a toxic girlfriend who will punish you when you don't pay him enough attention. I wouldn't share this to my friend who lost 4 family members to covid... i don't want her to hear someone telling her she's so distracted with life that god decided to kill off her family.
@Anne of Cleves God doesn't "give" anyone stage 4 cancer nor did he "give" or "kill" in anyone in the situations you wrote. He may have allowed those things to happen....the same way He allowed you to write the comment about this video. Here's a perspective to consider.....be careful what you write out of ignorance and emotions....be diligent in learning solid life principles. People parish due to lack of knowledge and being lead by their emotions (instead of God's principles). Yet people chose to blame God, but not take accountability for their responsibility for their hardships.
@@BigMiketheMessenger it doesn't make me feel any better about god when you just told me I'm coming from a place of ignorance... I am coming from a place of pain and concern about the people I loved, the people that god can heal but won't. People can only take so much, we're not gods.
@@anneofcleveswithinternet The "place of ignorance " is based on you giving God credit for "giving" people cancer...amongst other things. The devil comes to kill, steal, and destroy....God comes to redeem, heal, and give life. If you know God...then you will know that God's nature is to love and protect. I'm not responding to make you feel better, it's more of a warning to not accuse God of killing, giving heart problems, or cancer to anyone. You provoke curses on your life when you write or speak against God's character. The fact is, things will happen and you will not always have the capacity to understand. However; if you take the time to understand God's Word....then your perspective would change as long as you come to learn who God is with a sincere heart and an open mind. God is graceful, but He doesn't have tolerance for disrespect.
