Your Silence Makes Him Want You More - The Jia Effect Decoded 

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

if a guy doesn't like you - it doesn't matter how much you play it cool, it wont change his feelings!! you will just become even more non-existent

Bro in the realm of the kdramas now 🤣🤣🤣🤣

This doesn't work on anyone who doesn't like you, they appreciate your silence

It doesn't matter what you do, say.. Let a guy know you interested and then go live your live. If he is interested he will let you know, then get to know each other and go fall in love or not.

Just be yourself.. no games.. the right person for you will love you for you! Not because you are trying to be someone you are not.. Manipulation is temporary... Your true self will come out and then BAM 💥. Who is meant is meant and who isn't can walk on.. 🙏💕💕. Every culture is different,, I'm Hispanic and we are spicy and blunt and we get what we want.. she's Asian and shy and that's fine ... Different cultures different attractions for that guy.. She seems like an AI lmao.. why do you have to adjust yourself to get anyone... Be you!!

Finally, a video that makes silence into a huge strength. These qualities come naturally for some introverts. Please keep making videos like these, to keep your introverted fans interested.

Well this works if the man shows interest initially. I tried this with a man that I thought was interested he wasn’t he didn’t change his behavior we are still just platonic friends

Ppl kept saying Jia was most loved by men due to her looks but that's not true.. it terms of Korean beauty standards Jiyeon (Shin, Jiyeon) was the ideal korean beauty. Personality is huge... and that also shows in the last season (Season 3) where the least attractive girl won the male contestants because she knew boundaries.

But she can get away with this because she’s very exceptionally pretty!!! If it was an average looking girl it will not work that well.

shes can only act like this cos she doesn't like anyone there. Guarantee she'd be different if she actually fancied one of them!

Love Jia, obsessed with her. She is so classy

LOL “shut up Melissa”

Personllity stays same all time Doesnt get to excited and doest overshare Hold to her self what she feels, last one to express Warm apperance, colder inside, emotions inside in the biginning Look at eyes! Smile, move slower, touch herself, hair, lips, straight posture Create a sense of exlusivity, only nice to her men

Father Alex is now Alex Oppa! ❤😂

read the forbidden book Magnetic Aura on Borlest, and you'll see the secrets they're keeping from us.

yes but Jia is super stunning-she can be silent. if youre average no one cares. Lets be real! Im goodlooking and know this for a fact-goodlooking people get away with so much-I can be silent or I can be the centre of attention... I say what I want when I want ..no one cares what I do and they want to please me.. Humans love status/looks/beauty. A quiet girl not attractive with be forgotten.. a guy doesnt get it im sorry Alex

jia is still talked about after yearrs, it really shows how magnetic she was

This is introvert type of attractiveness.. :) Extrovert type of attractiveness is just opposite.

I don’t know this show but she seem very reserved

I love jia! I’m so happy you broke down what makes her attractive!

Is your home under construction?

Father Alex, why do you have the stick in the hand? I did listened to you and will definitely follow your wisdom! Thank you father Alex!

As someone who has 0 emotional attachment to men atp, and who is also extremely introverted (extremely)- silence is easy 🤣. I don’t even do it on purpose or to get a guy to chase me; when I don’t feel like talking- I just don’t lol. And… when I do actually entertain myself with talking to a man, they are constantly asking me questions and blowing up my phone with messages 🙄. The key is stoicism… and men will be like putty in your hands.

Father Alex, where are you filming this video? Nice spot

Mellissa's been real quiet since this dropped 🗿🗿🗿🗿

I noticed she was the only girl on the show who refused to let men (or even cameras) see her without makeup. Very mysterious overall

Yay! Finally! 😂 I wish you would of shown examples of her on the show but you are correct. You should react to all 3 seasons! It has a lot of good examples of what we should or should not do in dating.

Did you end up crushing on Georgina?

Sir she is exceptionally beautiful 😍 she is gorgeous

Love this episode Good job Great informations in here 💛💯💫

It's not good to play games. Be who you are. If he leaves he's not for you. Don't make someone fall for your fake personality. Isn't it better to know someone loves our authentic personality? Btw I do believe it's good to not invest too much too soon emotionally just like you said.

Yes!! Love her😍😍😍

"shut up Melissa, I can paint though" 😆💯🎨

I’m doing it naturally and many men are attracted to me, but I didn’t know the reason before.😅

Do you suggest being like this if you are out in public like a restaurant on your own

What's the name of background music plz?

What was the first thing you said in this video Padre?

“Her own Tyrone the personal trainer” 😂😂😂😂😂

is she freezia? thought it was jang wonyoung at first

Who is the girl in your examples

Thank You Father Alex 😊❤

this video format suits me a lot

Who TF is Jia?

1:57 when he begins #1

Can you also do a video on Seul-ki from season 2? She was similar to Jia in that she reserved with her emotions, but she was more "innocent" and sweet/shy compared to Jia. I relate to Jia more.

Step one be beautiful

But first she is pretty

Dalexis, can you analize everything Sada do wrong to Kichi in movie The Realm of Senses. I see girls made same mistakes as her in most relationships.

I have a quick question. I have been seeing this man for about 4 months. He says I'm jealous and insecure. I say he is disrespectful. We were friends on Facebook. Most of his Facebook friends are about sex sights or half naked girls. He is constantly liking their pictures and commenting. Like I said, to me this is very disrespectful and I walked away. What are your comments on this? Am I wrong?

Homegirl Jia

6:34😊

full support

If your extroverted and cold to the guy you like, i mean do the opposite of what you say then? Then what?

I'm having trouble with moving slow, dose anyone have any tips on slow body moving?

What is this dungeon

new to your channel lol i like your energy 💕

You into KPOP?

Hello, how are you? Thank you for all your videos.

5:14 👍🏽

I remember that show, awesome, father Alex ❤

La rolita clasica en el background de tanta toxicidad

Haha I was waiting for you to do this video

finally

No 💅🏽

awesome!!

@mindfulattraction2.0 I wanted to thank you for opening my eyes. All the videos and topics you've discussed resonate with me. Just describe who I am. I enjoyed following your videos ,you taught me a lot and also showed me that I’m already that person. Every time I go on a date, even if it’s brief and I step away because it doesn't feel right, it’s always those who become obsessed with me. No matter what type of guy I’m with, they always end up obsessed. My friends often ask why a guy acts like he’s my ex or why he cries. They wonder why he behaves as if we had something special, even if it was just a date. Whenever someone approaches me for a date, they do it in a way that no other man would. When I share this with my friends, they’re shocked and surprised because they’ve never experienced that or seen it with their own friends. I’m grateful for your videos because you’ve taught me so much and shown me that I already embody this. For example, this video nowI’m already doing and being this. Keep it up!

8:33 That was a very creepy smile.

lol…The world is an effing stage. Nothing biblical here…😉😴😷🤥🙄🤫🤩😵😴😷🤥🙄😵🤩

3:11 🤣🤣😅