how to have quiet confidence and natural magnetism

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Real confidence is not cold, detached, or uncaring. Quiet confidence is firm, but open and receptive. It embodies self-love, self-trust, and self compassion, which allows others to feel safe being their full selves in the presence of it. Once you're able to embody this energy from the inside out, then magnetism happens naturally. You can trust yourself to be selective, stand by your decisions, yet remain curious and open to differing ideas and opinions. #quietconfidence #howtobemoreconfident #selfdevelopment
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CHAPTERS:
00:00 everybody wants 'it"
01:52 write your own story
05:14 how to begin
15:21 bye bye social anxiety
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24 июл 2024

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@cherrysorbet-it6bs 17 дней назад

1. Shadow work (understand and accept self qualities so nobody can tell you otherwise, undertand what u do why u do it) 2. Dont judge others 3. Accept insecurities(make peace) 4. Accept past mistakes and learn from them GENUINLY 5. ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE PRESENT IN SOCIAL SITUATIONS 6. Nobody is thinking about you more than yourself

@emmali2265 18 дней назад

I am a very defensive person before. But now, if someone really show no respect and always say to me negative judgement . I ignore them and leave. Don't waste my time and energy on them at all.

@kdms.3377 4 дня назад

What if they are coworkers and you have to work with them?

@rburns1182 18 часов назад

what if they are family or people you have to be with for long periods of time. I'm quite a defensive person and tend to get reactive when I feel attacked whether it was their intention to attack me or not.

@jayrichdubai 15 дней назад

David Beckham has always exuded that quiet confidence. I've always admired that trait in him.

@allanpeter7700 16 дней назад

Tbh it is very true that if you’re compassionate to yourself self you become more compassionate to others, I wasn’t taught to be compassionate but after I changed I do feel more compassionate

@DiaJin 15 дней назад

Not sure why it took so long to truly have that click in place for me - But it’s made the biggest difference on my own journey.

@allanpeter7700 15 дней назад

@@DiaJin The thing is it's still weird for me to describe myself as kind and compassionate but I do actually help old people carry heavy stuff down the stairs and etc more. The biggest difference for me is breaking through my trauma and getting an implicit answer that I needed(maybe Idk I feel spectacular and the first time I've ever felt somewhat similar to who I envisioned), the compassion was a side effect for me. For me I dont think I could think could have nurtured my compassion the other way around since it wasnt really taught to me, I am bitter about my family, and generally people dont care about each other anyway.

@ekuniverse1 14 дней назад

Accept who you are, and realise you're not perfect which applies to everyone so that when people judge you don't care.

@kathleenkaleookalanismith8724 12 дней назад

This is such a beautiful message. I always tell my children that confidence is always kind. It’s a natural way that confidence moves through life.

@oumaima418 18 дней назад

So amazing to see you have overcome alcoholism etc. Even tough I don't know you personally, I am really proud of you. I can definitely see you have done a lot of inner work. Thanks for sharing < 3

@allanpeter7700 16 дней назад

With social anxiety it’s generally you are so focused on being nervous when in reality you should on asking questions and absorbing information about the other person

@DessaAtmaStudio 19 дней назад

I love the reminder that we write our own story. It’s up to us to build our foundation of our character within ourselves and naturally over time we will free ourselves from the past identity of who we think we are vs. who we actually are now. Thank you for the weekly practical magic ❤

@DiaJin 19 дней назад

Yes yes. Thank you 😉🩵

@therese8658 18 дней назад

you truly embody that quiet confidence and magnetism that you are saying because that is what made me click this video. i've come across several thumbnails nd i was quick to brush them off but when i saw this video, i was like .. woah. i know that each person has their own energy that radiates and shine on its own but i like your energy best :)

@DiaJin 15 дней назад

Aww thank you so much! I definitely still have many moments of self doubt and feeling uncomfortable but grateful for the progress. 🩵

@strawberryknfe 7 дней назад

I've watched a few different self help videos made by multiple ppl abt this similar topic and so far you're the only one that has not made me feel guilty abt my lack of confidence. Your confidence and the way you speak is so uplifting and your advice is so grounded and realistic. Rly loved this video

@DiaJin 6 дней назад

Aww I’m so glad it resonated with you 🩵🫶

@rawauthenticvulnerable 16 дней назад

This is great thanks for exposing this , all the fake it til you make it , and to encourage people to really be authentic and vulnerable -

@RobHMastiffDad 18 дней назад

The Gabor Mate book "In The Realm Of Hungry Ghosts" should be required reading for anyone considering the privilege of being a parent. It shows how our childhood environment impacts us as adults. It is far more than a book on addiction and a fascinating read.

@estheranthony7539 18 дней назад

This is just what I needed at this moment. I started a new job and I'm trying to retool my life. Your insights have been incredibly useful, providing me with productive areas to focus on. You speak in a realistic, down-to-earth way without resorting to overly optimistic platitudes. Thank you for your valuable advice.

@DiaJin 15 дней назад

I’m so glad to hear this! Thank you for leaving a comment 🩵

@bhavnaaggarwal1563 6 дней назад

This is a gorgeous video Dia, it all just comes down to accepting your whole self

@dirtbaguette 16 дней назад

You're absolutely gorgeous! I appreciate the realistic advice that there's no quick fix solution to this, and that real confidence is not detached :) Love the honesty and wisdom.

@DiaJin 15 дней назад

Thank you for your kind comment! 🩵

@lucasbittar 17 дней назад

What an amazing video, Dia! Great timing as well. I've been going through some stuff in my life recently (breakups, getting rid of toxic people) and this video really gave me a different perspective of things. Really appreciate it! Love the Arrival poster by the way :) Cheers from Brazil!

@DiaJin 17 дней назад

Wish you all the best! 🩵

@rishikashahi2187 3 дня назад

This entire video, you've spoken and explained beautifully. You exude confidence and I can feel that being passing on to me as well. The first video I came across of yours and truly loved it. ❤️

@DiaJin 3 дня назад

Thank you for your kind words! 🫶

@sabinastapel7528 6 дней назад

Just came across your video, it got me thinking about a couple of thinks. And just want to say that you radiate selflove and calmness. To me it looks like you are proud of the person you are now. That's beautiful to see!

@DiaJin 4 дня назад

🥹🫶

@monica95275 18 дней назад

Thank you for this amazing video❤I am currently 23 years old and loving myself had been such a huge topic in my life, and I often struggle to comprehend what it meant and how exactly I should achieve it, but watching your video definitely helps clearing my mind a lot! looking forward to see more of your videos in the future❤

@DiaJin 15 дней назад

I’m glad the video can add to your journey 🫶 and thank you for watching 🩵

@dreamerzstorie 18 дней назад

Ahhh ❤ another amazing woman to be followed/subscribed, im on my self growth journey rn and the latter half part of this video resonates so much with me. Almost all my life ive been avoiding to get out of my comfort zone and making the term “introvert” as an excuse for everything. Thanks for this. You and some other amazing people out there really pushes me to take accountability with my life and live for the better. Love from 🇵🇭

@DiaJin 15 дней назад

Aww thank you so much for the kind comment. I resonate with this very much, as a self proclaimed introvert. 😉 wish you all the very best 🫶🩵

@quynhchi4201 15 дней назад

love this! thank you Dia

@zarinsubah9331 Час назад

You’re literally so gorgeous ❤

@dolibbom 15 дней назад

thank you ❤ i’ve learnt a lot from this video

@miriamtm369 11 дней назад

You always speak to the deepest part of me and seem to spark a light in the darkness, thank you for your message❤

@DiaJin 8 дней назад

aww thank you for such a kind comment. 💞

@TiffanyKuo-ps5fc 16 часов назад

It may be beside the point, but she is sooo pretty in many ways ~

@hairnloveproducts8915 18 дней назад

Loved this segment this specifically resonated I think I’ll watch this every morning thank you for this Gem 💎

@DiaJin 15 дней назад

Awww I’m glad it resonated with you🫶

@alissia8767 19 дней назад

This video deserves more views 💗

@DiaJin 19 дней назад

Aww thank you 🫶

@Theawakenedsomnambulist 16 дней назад

You speak so beautifully! I love listening to your wisdom. ❤️

@DiaJin 15 дней назад

Aww thank you 🩵🫶

@25kishkish 17 дней назад

So informative, thank you!

@Magicalhooman 18 дней назад

This video is amazing!!!! ❤❤

@juliamayumi9961 10 дней назад

Thank you for this video ❤

@Nocturnal_Lorena 18 дней назад

Tysm! 💖

@bglv306 9 часов назад

Good talk ❤

@juliamurphy5943 9 дней назад

i really needed this video today, thank you

@DiaJin 8 дней назад

💞

@user-zy5yy8nk5m 12 дней назад

thank u🤍!

@arbueshelena 18 дней назад

She's so pretty and calm, don't really know if I want to be her or marry her 😂❤

@DiaJin 15 дней назад

Girl stahp 😂 🫶

@hobsyllwin2562 19 дней назад

Thank you ❤

@paulrivera5231 15 дней назад

Ooo Dia your views are exploding. Great job !!!

@richardgraber1477 19 дней назад

Awesome!

@ellawishnya 16 дней назад

very smart and useful!

@iamthecozyking 17 дней назад

Fantastic video 🎉

@semo_amg 15 дней назад

you are so pretty

@melissa1488 15 дней назад

Luv you’re absolutely gorgeous. 😊

@dianabratu6177 8 дней назад

You are absolutely beautiful just in every sense of the word, had to share that.

@DiaJin 8 дней назад

🥹thank u

@wbts7475 6 дней назад

hmmm satabishac girlll✨✨✨

@patgrl 18 дней назад

Tkssss❤❤❤❤

@LovingHypnoASMR 9 дней назад

I loved this! Thank you ❤ subbing 😇

@dreamergirl1140 6 дней назад

Unrelated but I love your artwork in the background! It reminds me of something from the movie Arrival. It looks super cool!

@DiaJin 6 дней назад

It is from Arrival! One of my favorite movies 😛

@dreamergirl1140 6 дней назад

Wait wait wait!! I think it says "time" or maybe "there is no linear time". That's so cool!!!

@LAdreaming19 11 дней назад

Wow you are stunning

@hohanh1452 18 дней назад

This change me

@studymusic403 2 дня назад

You are amazing wow - feel like I want to be your friend :)))))

@lavatr8322 17 дней назад

I am a very Quiet guy. I like my own space & peace. But outside factors make me react....

@ejohnson67 15 дней назад

Proverbs 3 : 26 [26] For the Lord will be your confidence, And will keep your foot from being caught.

@xwhy888 17 дней назад

Who read the title as "magnesium"? Anyone?

@DiaJin 17 дней назад

I had to triple check my own eyes when I typed it you’re not alone 😆

@user-xq4zh1oj7g 9 дней назад

You are extremely gorgeous💕🥹

@DiaJin 8 дней назад

Thank uuu🥹🩵

@paulacesarini9591 7 дней назад

❤

@ivanasancort 12 дней назад

Hiii, can i ask where do you get the poster in the background?

@DiaJin 12 дней назад

Hi I ordered the print off of Etsy I think and then bought frames on Amazon

@ivanasancort 10 дней назад

@@DiaJin Thank you!

@weier_populus 9 дней назад

The picture on the wall, is that from film Arrival?

@DiaJin 8 дней назад

yes! :)

@Carolareyes__ 19 дней назад

🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

@StudentofFlames-me3ie 18 дней назад

It's John Wick.

@alissia8767 19 дней назад

3rd :))

@ProfessorHamachi 19 дней назад

1st🎉❤

@DiaJin 19 дней назад

Woo!!🙏🏼💖

@borednow 7 дней назад

why is your plant shaking the whole time?

@DiaJin 4 дня назад

Ghost

@Lauratrenzas673 17 дней назад

Hola guapa, que cambiarias si pudiera en el mundo

@amberlee8074 19 дней назад

2nd❤

@DiaJin 19 дней назад

🩵🩵🩵

@divushypnotica5955 День назад

Please let us know why the plants in your room keep moving 🍀🫶🏻 thank you for the video

@DiaJin День назад

😂there’s a fan in the room, I almost wanted to just let the mystery remain but seeing this is the second comment on the ghostly plant

@stephanie387 18 дней назад

❤