what?? a clan?? You invite the entire village and their children's children...PS wait what is an invite?? u dnt need to be invited to a wedding u just go😂😂 i love my AFRICAN people
If you're Hispanic, it's very hard to have an "intimate wedding" because then your mom and all your tias starts inviting people, next thing you know you're paying to feed triple the amount of people you wanted lol
V Gomez that’s why I would take charge of the guest list 😪 if I left it to my mom, she’ll invite everyone, even the people who took care of me for one day when I was very young FOH
@@MrSexydivas yess- they be inviting even the neighbors that just moved in and you barely know them- they even be inviting the women they met at the store to the wedding and that women invite her friends and her friends tells her friends- so basically the mom is using our weddings to meet new people and make friends
Dee M that's what I said she seem much happier with him than Lenny she even said that after she gotten engaged she didn't look at one wedding book or done anything and it was months later now what engaged woman does that
Exactly It's your special day why should you have to share it with people you don't like. I'm with Adrienne if I don't feel comfortable being vulnerable in front of you or if i don't like you, your not coming. It's pity to have a garbage/reject table to make it know that you don-t want them at your wedding just don't let them come. But that me, my wedding is going to be smallish only close family members and close friends only. I not doing that "got to invite my grandmother's second cousin family or "my husband's sometime friend that talks crap about him behind his backhas to come."
Tamera 400 people??????!!!!!!!!!! Uhhhh uhhhhhh I don't even know 10 people.................................. and I want a big Wedding!!!!!!!!!!!!!!🙁🙁🙁🙁🙁🙁🙁🙁🙁🙁🙁😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳🤗
Dear lord I really hope Adrienne will get married cause if she doesn't........awkward will be a understatement. She seems so excited that they talking about weddings and relationships all this week. If I were her I wouldn't have made it public until I am actually married to save myself the embarrassment just in case it doesn't work. I also feel because she is so eager to be married and have kids she is making a mistake, someone can be your friend your whole life that does not mean you know them, and when you live with someone under the same roof you see and learn things that will surprise you. Everything seems rushed. I wish her all the best and pray it works out.
My sister had around 400 people at her wedding. The church was packed. Her husband came from a large family and she came from a large family, both had a lot of friends. She had 9 bridesmaids, a maid AND matron of honor. It was very nice. Everything including the weather came together without any problems. Personally, I agree with Adrianne. I want a small intimate, outdoors wedding, in the Botanic Gardens which is gorgeous in the spring. All that money we save can go into a nice house.
I like when a bride wears the same dress her whole wedding I mean if I'm going to spend sooo much money on it you better believe I'm leaving that night with it on lol I did anyway
I'm about to get married so I agree with Adrienne. ONE DRESS!! LOL!! We are gonna change halfway through the reception into comfortable clothes and our high tops. But I'm loving these segments cause its really helping me to plan.
I really like this composition more. Their personalities don't clash, but they all come with different views at the same time. And there's very little shouting over each other, which is always so frustrating for viewers! Great!
not that adrienne will see this lol but she can get her dress remade into angel gowns for still borns or newborn babies that pass after birth...after she's done using it of course 🙂
My goodness. I've heard of a photographer that comes to the hospital and takes pictures of the newborn who passed away at birth. She took pictures with the family all looking at the baby (I'm getting chills just writing this) no one smiled but it was so real in the moment. Then they displayed those pictures at the service. Man, I just got super sad and texted my friend. May God bless and comfort all those who loose children:(
Rep Jesus yea it's such a terrible thing to go through, can't imagine :( You can google angel gowns..a lot of sites will come up..to donate dresses and I think there's some that can get sent back to u and u can take them to a hospital of your choice
I don't care about having a big fancy wedding, just as long as I'm marrying the right person. That may be because of my anxiety issues. Besides, I always thought the honeymoon would be the more exciting part anyway...😏😂
You're doing it right. Folks spent a guap and end up divorced 2+ years/months later. I'd prefer that my intended spend money on building our hearth instead of impressing other folks with our ensembles who won't be there when we need them in a crisis. Society today is hella twisted. That's why the divorce rate is so high to begin with.
You're right. Just look at all the celebrities or even friends you may have who spent thousands of dollars on a glamorous wedding and got a divorce in less than a year. It's insane.
C Ali Yeah and what I don't get is that most of these couples are already living like they're married before the wedding. Having sex, living together, raising families. If you're already doing all of that, what value does a marriage have then?
I don't like acquaintances who expect an invitation. There's one I know who I don't talk to but see once in a blue moon- she flat out says, "when are you getting married? Invite me when you do!" we don't text, talk, see each other at all nor meet up for coffee or lunch. Also, I'm noticing I'm being invited to personal events, like a baby shower, over people I don't know at all. Ex: my man's cousin's wife's sister. I just see her now and then but I don't know her well and I'm uncomfortable and expected to go :(
Yeah I know what you mean. When I was graduating high school some people were like, "make sure you invite me!" And I'm like "who is you?" 😂 I only had 6 tickets and many people didn't make the cut. Oh well.
They want gifts lol. I honestly think that's why people invite casual acquaintances to personal events. The more people they invite, the more gifts they get, regardless of how well they know you.
😂😂 I agree with Adrienne! I'm starting to plan mine and it's the whole "you better wear that dress the entire time" it was like that for my quinceanera too 😂😂
In Nola, everyone gets invited, and you do buffet style! I had 300+ at the Audubon tea room in 2012 and we are still hearing about how Awesome our wedding was. Everyone has their own style but my main thing was food, dancing, booze and fun! And that's exactly what we got!
That's right Adrienne , that's how us CapeVerdeans do it too lol ! Show off the hell out of that dress! I like how some ppl change to a shorter dress when it's time to get down on the dance floor tho lol
This past June I was hired to photograph a wedding. That sucker was over in 90 minutes. I have no idea what Tamera's talking about with the two days of festivities! Huh? Are you THAAAAAT important that I need to devote two/three days of my life just to watch you walk down an aisle to say "I Do?"
OneLoveRSR Some weddings involve friends and family that have traveled far to attend and want to make the most of the visit.That was the case with my wedding so we did have multiple get togethers and parties my entire wedding weekend. Everyone wanted to take advantage of being all together and getting to know our in laws beyond the ceremony and reception. It's not unheard of or a bad idea if you have a lot of guests.
I agree with lady rodriguez, I have a large family and we all live in different parts of the country, and some overseas, so when we do get together for a wedding or even a funeral or something, it will need to be at least a couple or few days worth of time. People spend a lot of money and time getting to that destination, and have to take time off work, brings the kids or arrange to leave them at home. If my friend who lived in my same city wanted 3 days of my time I'd be a bit irritated, but if they or someone else is travelling just for that event, I think make it worth their while.
As an Indian American, I'm likely going to have wedding ceremonies that last 4 days with 200 people just from my side. It's justified when it's part of your culture and you have guests from all over the world. And in case you're wondering, people absolutely love it. Maybe have more of an open mind next?
Adrienne! Yes!!! I’m getting ALL my money out of it and/or then send it to this organization called Angel Gowns who actually take wedding dresses people donate and turn them into gowns for babies that pass away. It’s precious. So, if you think about it, you could keep that in mind when you shop. Although, I think I’m gonna be single forever y’all. 😂 💯✨
Tbh weddings are beautiful, but some people are so extra. 400 people?? I'm totally fine with a court marriage. Out here having a million dollar wedding only to break up next year.
😂😂😂 hahahaha A is on point with the Latina weddings, we get full use of that wedding dress. We will wear it from the moment we wake up till we go to sleep. None of that course dress change.
If you have to place someone by the restroom or trash can, what's the point of having them there? If you really don't care to have them at your wedding, why treat them as less than your other guests? Just don't have them there.
Those are tables for ppl they don't like but they kind of have to be invited... let's say you don't like your bride/groom sister or cousin but kind of feel obligated to invite them bc the other partner might think something's up if you don't. Let's be real- if you were to have a wedding, you want to table the ppl a certain way. Bc for sure you don't want a distant relative who barely talk to you sit at a table close to you.
Whose else is wondering if Adrienne will invite Tamar to her wedding? I'm sure she would not come anyway. But going by her "Absolutely Adrienne" segment, I have a feeling she would at least extend an invitation.
Literally I am Adrienne! I'm wearing my dress the whole time. I might even wear it next 3-4 days after the wedding... to go grocery shopping, pump gas, out to dinner and movie.. hell im getting every cent out of my dress!!!
Yasss same as Adrienne I need to have cried with you so I’m not embarrassed to do it again. I’m so ready for my brothers wedding it’s a total fashion show
I feel like it's putting them in a bigger spotlight making the mairrage so public and if they were to not work out in the end so many people are going to lash out saying why they made it so public
I see why someone wouldn't want to give single guests a +1, but I feel bad for people who don't get a plus one and they don't know anyone other than the bride and groom. It's so awkward.
We had a small wedding and didn’t invite anyone we didn’t want there. Some feelings for hurt but our wedding isn’t about them. We did however had a spill over table for anyone that doesn’t know how a RSVP works!
I actually think it depends on who is actually there... Because if I have friends but they don't like each other then if they are there and they see each other and start drama on my day , let me tell you ALL HELL WILL BREAK LOOSE ! So I'm not gonna invite those two friends! But I will have ten people from each side ( immediate family & friends ) and that's it ! NO PLUS ONES please
I’m not sure if Armenians are considered middle eastern , but we have really similar traditions , including huge over the top weddings with lots of people. I can not tell you how many weddings have I been to and didn’t know who the couple was , which one of them is my relative and my dad’s explanation of how we are related sometimes didn’t even make sense. I stoped going and to this day get yelled on by my parents because it’s “rude” and “if you don’t go, they won’t come to your wedding”. I think I’ll be fine with that.
Adrienne wasn't lying latinos will wear the dress the whole day 😂😂 that dress was not cheap .. when I had my quinceñera my mom did not let me change to something different
In my culture we have two weddings in two weekends. First wedding is at the bride's village/where she grew up and the next weekend it's at the groom's village/where he grew up. When the festivities are over the bride's stays behind at the groom's home, as she will be 'given away'. It also gives people who didn't go to the first wedding a chance to attend the second leg of the wedding. So, Tamera having 'two weddings' isn't utterly unheard of.
South Asian weddings are like 1000+ people and I've never been to one where you organise tables with who's sitting where. You come in and mingle and sit next to whoever you want.
i like tamera but i feel like when it comes to Family and Kids, she acts like a know it all. and sometimes she comes off as defensive like..chill girl. and it doesn't help the fact that she acts like she's so innocent or "perfect". i know i'm not the only one who feels this way
