hello and welcome to our channel! we are a professionally diagnosed system who makes educational videos, vlogs and documents our life with DID (dissociative identity disorder, formerly known as multiple personality disorder). please consider subscribing! 💖
About the last one, something I as the host have struggled with is the idea of phases and being unsure. Like do we the system have a personality if it is changing as the alters do? The answer is yes, the problem is that we still look to define ourselves as one person rather than defining each alter. We are working in realizing that we are allowed to take up space in the world. If one alter likes the shirt we can keep it even if others don't. In trying to force ourself into a one size fits all we still loose out on any alter being themself
@@EnchanDID yeah that’s exactly what I experience! I’ve also been struggling with my identity and it’s like when I look in the mirror I don’t recognize myself sometimes and it’s like I don’t who I really am🥹🫶🏻
@@bxbyoasis1182 just be honest! say that you've read a lot and think the symptoms of whatever disorder seem to fit you a lot. ask if they can help you be tested!
I'm literally about to cry, I just found out I have alters. Carla, Onyx, and Gemstone I think? idk about the last one, I probably have more. Its so hard to tell who I am now.
Thank you for this, we're a diagnosed system since 2020 but the healing journey never stop. Even if we knew all of these tips it's always good to be reminded of what is good to do :)
I loved the religoon question! I was like you for years and now follow the ancient greek religion ^^ its so fun to explore different religions honestly! Love hearing of someone else like that
As a system, we have lots of different choices for clothing for our alters! I (the host) tend to dress more emo while our newest headmate Valentine loves pink and hearts, the whole love core aesthetic. I find it helps with feeling more secure in our body, since most of us are male aligned. Thank you so much for this video, it really does help! - The Oktober Collective
Watching This for my partner system! this is a good video, can you do a video on your opinion on 'endogenic systems'? I've seen some controversy and I'd like an outside perspective
Not newly discovered teehee but still in heavy exploration and understanding phase. Ive known for almost a year now technically but i kinda always knew. Its a strange feeling. Ive always been that kid who was like “haha oh yeah i erm have multiple personalities” when i grew up as a dysfunctional system and heavily masking autistic person. I know this is an old video but i still appreciate this alot <33 I’ve been having so many problems with this experience i could honestly make whole lists but ill spare that haha. But regardless tysm <33 after watching this ima go watch yalls other vids they are really well made ^^
I found out about the system about three months ago. Many mass splits. And still live in dangerous and toxic Household. I just wish i could be safe and happy.
for the love of everything, if you stumbled across the video and channel and comment, get some real help social media is not a therapy session the chances of anyone here in the comments actually having any form of dissociative identity disorder is abysmal low
Its okay i a discored username needed system communicaton help, becausw they have beenvgiving me sign langauge signals that doesnt make a alters feel consearned.
im unsure if im a system but i have memory gaps and i often dissociate and feel like nothing in the entire universe is real, i cant tell if i have alters although ive done a ton of research i cant figure it out
I really needed to hear that for the longest time iv been aware of my alters bug not given thrm the freedom they deserve nor have i admitted that im not better or more important than them and i needed to ne reminded kf that so that i can accept my place as part of our system and wotk with my system mates to make a life we all want not force them to live mine im still not sure how to do it and it will take time and we have a long way to go but it will ne worth it when we get there i just need to work on fully accepting whst im part of and learn to do better so i don't hold us back or hurt my system anymore than i have This entire time i thought i was in control and we was doing okay but i was in denial and hurting my system by not giving them there full equal right to our body and life i feel ashamed for what iv done and now i need to work towards making sure i make things the best they Can for us and fix what iv donecwhile lesrning acceptence and braking this mindset iv held so close for so long
I'm glad to see you posting again. We were worried about your system for a while because the videos changed, or got taken down. I'm glad to hear you're doing well and working on your therapy! Sounds like you're doing the hard work, keep it up girl! <3
Yelling is actually a trigger and will cause me to shut down further usually, so if you yell while I’m already dissociating…? Yeah… Gonna shut down SO hard it’s like a computer crashed.
Hello, I know you all do not know us but we started watching your all's videos about a year or two ago when we first discovered being a system, and I just hope you all are doing okay. We just turned 20 and started out with only knowing about 3 alters, and have learnt of 30 or so more and that we probably did not have two either when we discovered being a system. It was always nice to see your all's videos, especially given the things going on in the community.
I don't really understand the bracelet thing. I've been diagnosed for sixteen years now so I'm definitely aware of the complexity of the disorder... however, the bracelets have thrown me. Do you just go around with them all in your pocket all the time, and all of you constantly remember to switch them when you switch out?.what about when you are blurry, who's would you wear then
good question! we've actually since ditched this idea because it was too difficult. we had made them more for the channel, and for the people in our life so people could tell who was who. but it was too difficult to carry them around once we started using a smaller bag, and to remember to actually switch them when we switch. we had them for maybe 2 months 😅😅 - edit: spelling
Thank you sm man, I’ve been struggling to help my partner who has a massive dissociation issues and currently it’s so bad he can’t feel anything, hot or cold. It’s truly scary to see some one you love like this, and I find myself panicking because I don’t know what to do, especially when it’s on call and I can’t help physically ground them. Thank you for the tips <3
