6:51 - Hello! I’d like to begin with saying that this is absolutely normal K-pop fan behavior. And the constant need to buy merch, albums and photo cards is a common problem shared within K-pop fandoms. As a fan of several years, simply don’t buy these things for her, or instead encourage her to make K-pop crafts and accessories. And if you do decide to purchase items like photo cards and such, I would recommend extensive research or purchasing from a trusted company/website. Because unfortunately many people sell fake duplicates for a similar price as the authentic ones. The sleep schedule and attitude, as well as neglected schoolwork: I can’t help you there unfortunately. As this is a personal issue that you might like to converse with her rather than consulting Reddit. It’s quite common in the fandoms to collect, but if she doesn’t have the money to pay for the items she desires, simply do not give her the money. Photo cards are NOT the same as books. Many fans tend to open albums just for the excitement and thrill that it presents, then cast it aside only to never look at them again. I believe that eventually she will learn to appreciate the music rather than physical albums. My final advice is; don’t fuel her purchases with providing her with money. And personally, making lists of events, comebacks, schedules and releases of my favorite groups / soloists helps me to express my adoration and love for these groups without feeling the need to constantly purchase new albums. I encourage you to chat with your sister regarding your family’s situation. Maybe this realization will finally reach her if you really strive to explain and underline the kind of situation your family is in, and maybe then will she finally understand your side of this story.
