Story 2: I'm a christian and I think YTA you didn't have to go to the funeral, but you should of went on the trip to support him before and after. You thought about yourself only, and I get not attending the service but that shouldn't of stopping you from still being there for your husband when he needed you most
The 2nd story Your the a hole your husband is supposed to be your best friend your literal ride or die and you abandoned him in his time of need he is literally grieving his father and ofc he isn’t gonna be with you for a festive time during the holidays with your parents because he is with the people who are actually comforting and supporting him in his time of grief When he comes back you must buy him a who package of things for him e.g : his fav food , fav drink, take him out , hugs (if you enjoys intimate loving) , talk about his dad with him , take him to therapy.
