Thank you for this. I struggled with communication for a very long time because I grew up believing that making mistakes was not ok. Take it from this guy and from me: DGAF what you think or say. You do you. Don't say anything that will land you in prison, but just know that there's a high chance that we're all holding back way too much because we have these irrational fears.
Step 6. Have children. The crippling responsibility involved in raising kids will turn your daily life into a rollercoaster that you have no control over.
When i observe others, occasionally they look straight back and our eyes meet. This feels a little weird. Sould you maintain eye contact or maybe smile and look away, maybe have a little moment with suttle communication? These all feels weird.. To me eye contact feels like a sign of challenge or attraction.. I dont know im thinking too much again
Sometimes its a matter of my mind going blank and having no idea what to say, not sure why it happens, also just being around other people gives me an uncomfortable feeling, just walking past someone in a hallway gives me anxiety. Why am i like this?
For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved. (Romans 10:13) Have mercy upon me, O God, according to thy lovingkindness: according unto the multitude of thy tender mercies blot out my transgressions. Wash me throughly from mine iniquity, and cleanse me from my sin. For I acknowledge my transgressions: and my sin is ever before me. Against thee, thee only, have I sinned, and done this evil in thy sight: that thou mightest be justified when thou speakest, and be clear when thou judgest. (Psalms 51:1-4)
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LOVE THIS!!! A quote my mom always says is "You'd worry less about what people think of you if you realize how seldom they do." I love it cause it allows me to be more open to others because I know they won't judge me as bad as I think they will
