How to be toxic and make no one like you. (or how to win friends and be more likable)

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Friends? Colleagues? Relationships?
Today we will explore how you can become one of the most douchiest, toxic and annoying human being. That way you won't have anyone to share your happiness or sadness with and you can be all by yourself on your death bed. A perf... horrible way to live.
But, if by any chance, you want to learn how to be likable, friendly, want to learn how to win friends and forge long lasting relationships then watch the video carefully and try to figure out what are the things you should avoid, so you don't become that envious, lonely person no one wants.
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@cliodeo 6 лет назад

That awkward moment when you realize that you're a strongly toxic person :(

@skjaldmr5388 5 лет назад

It's okay! you've got a lot of time to improve ❤

@ernestgty1442 5 лет назад

it's an amazing thing to realize a flaw, first step to improve. Some stay blind forever

@jm-sh6qr 5 лет назад

It's still kind of nice to check up on how well I'm doing ruining other people's lives, but mostly mine. Always remember that the master has failed more times than the student has tried, but you've never failed and you're always perfect at everything.

@stereotype.6377 5 лет назад

No. WE are a strongly toxic person.

@pauluskim2028 5 лет назад

Hey that sucks, but remember that it is not defining your worth as a person. The reason why youre being toxic is that you have a low self-esteem, not because you are evil or bad. Your toxic behavior means that youve suffered some wounds and need to love yourself more. Pls be more compassionate and understanding towards yourself and youll start to be more benevolent towards others as well! Stay strong

@HentaiSweetie 5 лет назад

As an anti-social person who just wants to be left alone, I found this useful.

@allonacamille3272 3 года назад

Frr

@ryannalexandrea5262 3 года назад

Samee

@catinabin504 3 года назад

Really useful

@ptess7828 3 года назад

This person is anti-social don’t reply to her comment

@mhm8742 3 года назад

I want him to make more of thsee

@voisart 6 лет назад

I love these type of "don't do this" advices instead of "do this" advices, it points out flaws in ourselves than we can fix.

@kierangallagher6265 6 лет назад

Anger is NOT a negative emotion; people are rarely motivated to make a positive difference when calm.

@gagandeepsingh7789 5 лет назад

That's when they're angry at themselves, taking the blame for your own actions is a good thing

@jonsegerros Месяц назад

very true. im sick of this "omgz never be angry or toxic" being toxic is a necessity.

@fauxshamrock7447 Месяц назад

@@jonsegerroswell no. You have to be cruel to be kind as they say but I see what you're getting at

@CrusardModding 6 лет назад

I'd rather have a few friends than a lot of friends. Quality beats Quantity.

@JonSheldon610 6 лет назад

I would like to see some of these Custard Modelings. Do you include any on your channel?

@CrusardModding 6 лет назад

Stewie Griffin No, I do not.

@JonSheldon610 6 лет назад

Crusard Modding I had a good gander through your videos. Click bait much ):

@AchieversWorkshop 6 лет назад

Indeed

@PeteTheGrouch 6 лет назад

Smart man.

@alexIVMKD 6 лет назад

Fucking Finally... I've tried so hard but just now I realized that I was missing a lot of key points in how being less likable

@AchieversWorkshop 6 лет назад

13SIX Hahaha

@clay9403 6 лет назад

Isn't it blatant why you didn't know them, or can you not even get that part of your life right? It's because your IQ sucks and will never be as high as mine, 193.

@alexIVMKD 6 лет назад

Clay Remarkable

@clay9403 6 лет назад

I know it is.

@glorytoarstotzka330 6 лет назад

U didnt have to make a video about me

@thepigeonman_ 4 года назад

same lol

@sidefries247 3 года назад

i wish someone can teach me to be toxic so im not get bullied all the time.

@sidefries247 3 года назад

i wish someone can teach me to be toxic so im not get bullied all the time.

@sidefries247 3 года назад

i wish someone can teach me to be toxic so im not get bullied all the time.

@AchieversWorkshop 6 лет назад

I love when you make these reverse videos 😂😂👏

@rabaahir 3 года назад

Benefit Book indeed🤣

@merlinpinkfeather 3 года назад

A better term would be 'satire'

@reversecard7018 3 года назад

I used to do this in my game called "Uno"

@thelight2230 6 лет назад

Funny thing is, I try to do the opposite of everything in this video and I still have 0 friends. Haven't had friends in about 5 years. People suck and I'd rather be lonely than be a target of the many evils people have inside of them.

@kbc7515 5 лет назад

Unikron Lol , Exactly Same situation.

@Jojosiwo 5 лет назад

just because you are nice ...it does not mean people are going to be nice and honest...or like u. there are many fake and mean people...but whatever...

@wazzap500 5 лет назад

Maybe you need to learn the steps on how to start a friendship.

@sophianjones1682 2 года назад

So sad 😂😂 try be toxic then

@geologestein726 6 лет назад

Play league of legends

@flyingmonkey4465 6 лет назад

.......and tell them that you are a Yasuo player (for bonus effect)

@angelaguero4262 5 лет назад

This comment could easily resume all the video

@khuetruong4767 5 лет назад

But at least they can have "league friends"

@xchorro 5 лет назад

honestly

@datscrazy4095 5 лет назад

Geologe Stein Honestly not wrong just play Bot lane and you will be A okay

@yasuko1183 3 года назад

I love this, people abuse me because i'm a nice person, now i'm a changed person.

@hope37121 6 лет назад

love this reverse thing you do :D its quite amusing

@shadowsalamanderful 6 лет назад

Love your spin on things mate, makes you listen and think more

@skull8093 6 лет назад

Jealousy is you're talking to my closest friend and it's cutting into my time with them by a lot, and so I start feeling like you're taking them away, implying I already had the subject in question. Envy is you have something that I don't, and I resent you for it and want it for myself.

@irexeresp2659 6 лет назад

I love this type of videos, they're funny and with useful information. Great work!

@eoinbrennan3949 6 лет назад

Ooh this stung. I think Ive displayed all of those traits at one time or another. Thanks for the wake up call bro!

@VISHALVERMA389 6 лет назад

omg!! this video really took me out of my sadness love this

@chinmayawale7085 6 лет назад

This has me and my friends hooked. Do more vids like this. Damn, this is the best. Thanks.

@unleashingpotential-psycho9433 6 лет назад

If you want people to like to be around you and like you, then the best thing to do is to always stay positive, be grateful, and never put down other people.

@gabbotheawesome754 6 лет назад

UNLEASHING POTENTIAL - PSYCHOLOGY VIDEOS what if i'm not positive about it? I tell, the truth, care for others, but that doesn't work?

@unleashingpotential-psycho9433 6 лет назад

Gabbo The Awesome Humans are emotional creatures. If we are around people who make us feel good, then we will want to be around them. If people make us feel bad, then we want to stay away from those people. The reason why I say staying positive and grateful is important to attracting people is because people feed off of other people's energy. Caring for others and being honest are great qualities that you have, but if people don't enjoy being around you due too negative energy, then people will still want to be around other people who have a more positive vibe in general.

@gabbotheawesome754 6 лет назад

UNLEASHING POTENTIAL - PSYCHOLOGY VIDEOS what if it's part of your character? Like a stick or gimmich you've come to accept and like? What if I have friends (two of them) that like me because I'm being honest but also being negative? They accept me or like me and I like to stay with them but nobody else likes me? (but I don't care about other people)

@unleashingpotential-psycho9433 6 лет назад

Gabbo The Awesome Our personalities are constantly changing as we get older. The way someone behaves when they're 18 years old is going to be much different than how they behave when their 30 years old. It's fine to stay friends with your two friends, and if they like you for who you are, if you start to become more positive they should also accept it as long as they are true friends.

@gabbotheawesome754 6 лет назад

UNLEASHING POTENTIAL - PSYCHOLOGY VIDEOS My problem remains the same, what If genuinely like being toxic? To watch people get hurt /harm (Not physicaly, because scars heal) mentally? What if like being depressed (for now) and then when I'm older I regret everything and try to change but can't change peoples perception of the old me?

@abhilashgoud8615 5 лет назад

I’m starting to take these videos seriously now.... thanks, great advice!! ❤️

@daku3529 6 лет назад

i am gonna share this channel to every existent lifeform i know. lets start the revolution of peace. this guy is the hokage

@vincentpark489 6 лет назад

I really love your videos! Thank you :) big fan of your work

@jorissimaitis7619 6 лет назад

I'm so happy to have discovered my next favourite channel, this content is brilliant. Keep it up ! :)

@gruvalisticno 4 года назад

Interestingly, I never did any of these and still no one ever liked me. Having said this, it is also interesting that a few months ago I actually started lying to people and it really helps keeping conversations going and getting people's attention, trust and affection. Admittedly, the connections established with people in this way do not last long, but at least they have been brought about. This is so absurd...

@lorrainegabriela7575 5 лет назад

Loooooveeed this canal!!!! Very very good!! Thks for exist.

@dragoaio 5 лет назад

Will follow, thanks!

@emiliaallen492 5 лет назад

One of the best channels i love it

@Marakana5 5 лет назад

Wow...this channel is something worth watching

@ShareOnlyGood 5 лет назад

I really love your content thank you so much.

@v.rprasad5377 5 лет назад

Thanks! I needed this. I don't like socializing.

@michaels-meditations 6 лет назад

Like the new format dude, it's funny lmao

@AchieversWorkshop 6 лет назад

Michaels Meditations They are 😂👏

@GeekyMino 6 лет назад

Absolutely love it! This is a masterpiece😊Keep up the great work💪

@ethanmorris7826 6 лет назад

Great video man. Give it a couple more years and you'll almost be on my level. I mean, if you don't just buckle under the stress and quit. I wouldn't blame you pal.

@priyatiwari1173 5 лет назад

Giving life lessons and making realize what we are in reality in suhc a short video...!!! I think that's amazing part. I would like to thank you for such great videos.Hope you make more like these

@renzoulit5466 5 лет назад

This really helps me out, please continue making more vids 🙏

@FS-cw3cn 5 лет назад

Thanks it worked!

@thanhhaistephan3139 3 года назад

Thank you, I've seen a lot of those signs in my behaviour and I hope I can still turn around.

@sobanya_228 6 лет назад

It's pretty hard to not be toxic, when you were raised by toxic people and it became a second nature. It's easy to not be toxic to strangers, but once you become more close it's hard to resist. Lying and condemning are things I was able to overcome completely, but not the others.

@Rocky7777v7 2 года назад

Thanks for the guide

@ayzft1010 6 лет назад

thanks now I can be part of the list

@bns3543 6 лет назад

I like your creative way of explaining the content, Good work, thanks for sharing 😊

@LL-dx2xj 6 лет назад

ALREADY DOING ALL OF THOSE STEPS. UTTERLY UNINFORMATIVE VIDEO. PS. PERSONAL IQ: 100.000.001

@mysterym2269 5 лет назад

You look so cute Not as cute as me ofc

@lanarcho-mathematicien9949 5 лет назад

pfff, my iq is 100000003

@julialagrone589 6 лет назад

Thanks dude this really helped

@plugfingerintobunghole 3 года назад

I just read the title. Thanks for rubbing it in.

@mickmoon6887 6 лет назад

Ty now I learned that I am natural at not making friends its almost close to subconscious behaviour or breathing. It all makes sense now

@ellipsis- 6 лет назад

Thanks!

@lieke6258 6 лет назад

God, finally someone did it. My amazingness needed some of these toxic lessons, I'm growing tired of all he admirers.

@salt5364 6 лет назад

Thank you this was very helpful.

@ninsh9821 6 лет назад

Great job! I just love your videos and your accent! I bet the people who disliked this, are those who already pay heed to your "advice". ;-)

@williamafton5661 4 года назад

This is great advice! Wonderful for becoming toxic!

@aspectofthealex 5 лет назад

Thanks this helps a lot

@MasculineMan 6 лет назад

Always appreciate your content mate, you are certainly going for the "Quality > Content" mentality, which is what I also strive for :) Keep it up, coming up on 100k soon.

@guesswhoami4723 6 лет назад

Masculine Man Dude, you’re waaaay better than this guy 😂👌

@guesswhoami4723 6 лет назад

Karen Walker scams 😒

@zitronekoma30 6 лет назад

self promotion, well done

@user-yr3uj6go8i 5 лет назад

Coming up today.

@fenrirgg 6 лет назад

I as a self loathing person always bring the worst of myself to my face and beat myself with it to get motivation peaks. Then I think that would be motivational for other people too, but it isn't, I should just listen and encourage people more instead thinking they would like the old self loathing motivational critic. Also, probably everyone will die alone and be forgotten in a mather of a short period of years, who cares? It's not a big deal.

@covenawhite4855 5 лет назад

Have you tried finding the root of your problem in therapy

@jm-sh6qr 5 лет назад

But pretending it is until we die feels kind of nice.

@gytisdobrovolskis5933 5 лет назад

Maybe you have some strong parent issues around that?

@artursarnieks6560 6 лет назад

Make These "How to be Miserable, Toxic and fail at Life" in regular series. These vids are kickass.

@koffiecake 3 года назад

Thanks this is really useful

@NewbyTon 6 лет назад

This is very helpful thx

@koros6005 5 лет назад

You made quite a few good points. This should help me bring my League of Legends carrier to the next level.

@Jesus-ve4io 5 лет назад

You made my night thx 😂

@OrvilDsouza 5 лет назад

Mr project better self thanks a lot for this

@user-bv6xr8ye8p 2 года назад

perfect guide for discord and cod lobbies 10/10

@maxfer1002 6 лет назад

We've reached a new level of tutorials

@TeddySheehan 6 лет назад

Nice content dude, keep it up!

@matteocastillosensidoni8770 5 лет назад

Good just making sure I’m doing it right

@emersonleonardoazevedoagui8293 5 лет назад

Wow! This is a real eye opener. I’m rather toxic. Damn...

@lourencovieira313 5 лет назад

Really needed XD

@anythinginteresting3412 6 лет назад

Haha this video was very funny. I recently picked up Dale Carnegie's book. I liked your spin on it. It puts it in a very interesting perspective

@Guss7804 6 лет назад

I'm glad that your video popped up in my Recommendation list 😄 nice video anyway. 1 subs for you guys!

@theintrovertedowl 5 лет назад

*"instructions are not clear..."* *I now have more friends, and i hate'em*

@ihateeverything9137 5 лет назад

Lol ! Bigger the circle is , expect more bullshit and hatradness !

@practicalsuccess 6 лет назад

Great video ❤

@andromedaandromeda7933 6 лет назад

I love this channel 😍

@user-zo8hs4yh2h 6 лет назад

DUDE MOAR OF THIS PLZ

@pictionary 6 лет назад

Haha this was fun! Gonna try all of them on my friends :P

@Ablequerq 6 лет назад

Why are you so afraid to be alone?

@LyubomirIko 6 лет назад

because scat needs two

@deussivenatura5805 6 лет назад

Because being alone means being with with your thoughts. Then the existential thoughts creep up. 99% of people cant handle these thoughts.

@DRaz-di1in 6 лет назад

Because I know there will be a day where Internet will disappear.

@BooksAndChocolate 5 лет назад

Find me one person who can live without friends or acquaintances and actually be productive and mentally stable.

@littlealbert 4 года назад

'Cause have good people around you will turn your life and world a better place to live, with better experiences and exchange of knowledge and feelings.

@GeekPeek 6 лет назад

Fantastic

@missmarvelous110 3 года назад

I used to do many of these and never kept friends. Now I learned but have no new people around me to meet. It's hard to make friends as an adult. And hard to realize what you are doing wrong when you are young. Well it was for me.

@perryh.5306 2 года назад

I'll be your friend!

@deniroforrest8733 3 года назад

I’ve literally been trying to cut someone off but I don’t have a reason I just don’t like them. This helped

@kerenobara3434 6 лет назад

People like this have so many friends

@fan13204 5 лет назад

WOW! Such a very good video you have! The title also was so attractive until I thought what the heck with this people making video like this? Btw keep it up!

@aster1222 6 лет назад

2:45 Lol thanks for that,my friend always said that I will never be that good as I thought I would be.Every time I got a good grade he always said that it was just luck.Thanks for making me realize that a lot of my friends are assholes!

@avotrafitia9429 6 лет назад

I like the style

@primitivespongebob1178 6 лет назад

Thanks for the advice Borat

@Lightnings 6 лет назад

Nice video. Thanks, man. But I *disagree* regarding the topic of criticism. I'm convinced that criticising others, when reasonable and adequate, is vital. The problem is just, that many people *can't handle criticism* and get into that "defense mechanism" immediately, wanting to justify themselves. Those are the people who have to change their behaviour, because they must learn to deal with criticism. One must be confident, insightful and wise enough, to admit one's mistake - thereby one will be able to accept criticism. Have a good day

@DR-tp9ok 6 лет назад

exactly why its better to keep your mouth shut and not say anything

@bighaley6882 6 лет назад

Lightnings I think you misunderstood what he meant

@Lightnings 6 лет назад

RU-vid Comments Well said mate

@controlequebrado4455 5 лет назад

Its called "constructive criticism"

@Hoosierontherun 5 лет назад

Amen lol

@Me-eb3wv 6 лет назад

you just explained my brother

@XxlildramaxX 6 лет назад

Nice, I did this in highschool and I still have no friends. Still working great.

@CelmaDraws 6 лет назад

With this guide, I finally lost all of my friends!! Now I can weep alone every night ^^

@videakias3000 6 лет назад

do a video titled"learn how to argue". a lot's of people don't know how to do this simple thing.

@That_One_Guy... 6 лет назад

answer : don't arguing is very tiring and sometimes a big waste of time (even if you're good with words)

@SoeZ-M4 6 лет назад

videakias3000 Ur mother

@DR-tp9ok 6 лет назад

what screaming and yelling in the persons face is not a good way to argue?

@videakias3000 6 лет назад

no it is not. you argue using fact based arguments. subjective oppinions should be avoided most of the time nd things like whinning should be avoided all the time. also when someone uses your logic against you,you either explain them what's wrong with their argument or admit you are wrong.

@SoeZ-M4 6 лет назад

videakias3000 He was making a joke*

@loganellis4386 5 лет назад

Speed of Speech has improved a lot!!

@jenniferjohnson9419 5 лет назад

Woah are you a Psychiatrist!? This is good stuff!☺️

@ZeroRekoning 6 лет назад

Thanks, now I am going to use this to annoy the hell out of my best friends.

@cricticalthinking4098 6 лет назад

When you realize that every friend you have, including yourself, has one of these traits. I have a friend that will lie about himself but is very kind to others. I have a friend that is toxic to us, but is honest and just as hard on himself as others. I'm boastful whenever I accomplish something, and usually am the person who won't shut up. Goes to show that nobody's perfect, but we look past each other's flaws and form irreplaceable relationships.

@catherinebirch2399 6 лет назад

This reminds me of most of the people I grew up with!

@Oceaniac 6 лет назад

I had two ‘friends’ like this. Thank god i got them out of my life.

@PaperBagMan884 6 лет назад

That's the thing I absolutely hate the most. When I'm talking to someone, they're not even listening. They're either thinking of what to say next (and of course it's always about them), looking the other way, or glancing back at their phone. Sometimes it's fun to call them out on it and see their surprised reaction, because it's all subconscious. They truly don't care about what I have to say, yet have no clue they're showing it like there's no tomorrow. Can't stand talking to these kinds of people. Social media has really screwed over real life casual conversations.

@AirElegant 6 лет назад

Do you have relation with Betterman Project? Love your video 💖

@Spark_Books 5 лет назад

Nice one :)

@cherubin7th 6 лет назад

No friends no hurting!

@icecookie2953 5 лет назад

finally I get good recommendations

@sandeepbrar1742 2 года назад

This made me laugh so good

@NathanBergan 6 лет назад

This video is done really well! I like the artistic style it has. What software do you use to make these videos? Do you make all the artwork and audio yourself? Or do you get it from someplace?

@Nickname863 5 лет назад

1:52 Strongly disagree. Criticism is very important and a useful for everyone. However it is important to communicate criticism in a way that makes people learn and not to defend themselfes.

@sixtyfive6846 4 года назад

Be reasonable, kid. In the video "Criticism" is most probably meaning it's destructive form, not constructive. This involves both failure to progress and sentimental damage.