I nearly lost my house in my 20s long story I bought a house with him. MO guy contributed small money I was OK with it cz we have a future together. Short story... Zabuya ingqondo zam I paid him his portion, removed his name and moved on.
Self-love is the answer to these women. The woman who says the man said he wont let her go or she must kill him, its as if shes not ready to let go, she still entertains all the things he says. When she's ready, she will go and not wait for his permission. His threats, she can go to Court for a protection order, most narcissistic are scared of going to jail. And she can just move to another province instead of another country, since she says she needs passports. And her not telling her family its because she still has hope that he will change. My dear choose you. Praying all these women realise they are precious and move on.
Ladies, please heal from previous relationship before moving on because you are likely to attract the same spirit if you are not healed. Healing is actually deliverance, If you are not delivered you will keep on experiencing what you ran away from.
This is why I keep saying Madam speaker that God is not going to create new men for us. The math aint mathing. If you want to marry in the lord be ready to remain single for the rest of your life, cause majority of men don't want God and there is nothing you can do about that.(people say I'm harsh) We must also stop telling women to pray and fast for marriage cause that implies that unmarried womendo not match God's standard yet there are so many good and God fearing single women. We must start training our daughters to forget about marriage. Period! When you ask young men who their role model is they say with clarity ELON MUSK!! Ababoniswa nje ngomtshato. If we continue telling our daughters uba baziphathe kakuble ukuze babonwe by some good guy we might as well dig their graves cause these kids kill themselves when they are facing heartbreak..
This is so true men know their worth that is why majority of them do not even help around with chores in the house.Some even resorting to not even paying the bills cause they know they are catered for 100% .Deperation to be chosen or kept is being naive to all the red flags😢Iam not even in a rush to get into any relationship cause I do not even think it's worth it anymore.....
Bridget that Nyatsi knew you where there she kneww shame she didn't care at all and the nerve from your husband to tell you to abort the pregnancy man love theirs self soo much keep on loving yourself and your kids Bridget
I really feel for Sis Bridget. The marriage is long gone. I hope u find Healing and Peace,Love to u and the kids. We feel pity for the other lady too, she will eventually see the true colours of Mr. As Madam says, tke a loong walk to the maintenance court. Ladies, let us give love to us first,nit anyone's child. Rock on ur finger doesn't guarantee 4ever yena or happiness. No law or Act dictates when we shud be married. Single hood🎉let's stop taking over from what the financial institutions do, we human, Dignify ur NO ladies. I ❤U but NO mothowaka🤣 Thank you Madam
Yooo Bridget, thanks for putting yourself first! Please don’t go back there, like you I have diabetes because of the stress of marriage! Strength to you my sister!
True hey societal, family pressures make us to be desperate.Because at a certain age as a woman we are expected to have children and get married.And with the issue of the surname you are spot on my sister
I stopped going to the maintenance court because the father was playing hide and seek for my own sanity and kids . I was always angry .I love my kids and they don’t feel his gap in their lives .God is providing for us ❤
I love my Fathers surname hle I was married for 10 years i dont have anything ka the new surname except email address🤦♀️ It even felt weird when someone addresses me ka Mrs that surname 😂😂 When i divorced my friend said vele vele i never took the marriage serious i never changed my surname Akena stress sa changing any policies 💃💃💃💃💃💃
I nearly did that years ago, when we got to the bank and it was now time to sign I froze. I just couldn't, and the consultant realised what was happening and said no sisi its fine. You can go and sleep over it and come back tomorrow. And thats how I got saved from taking that loan
1:34:23 my sister run run run ...... you can see all redflags . Leave that man before you make another mistake. You need to heal, take you time,find your self ,love yourself..... then dats when youll start dating ❤❤
