We were saving up in my account for lobola he was supposed to come march 2020 for lobola negotiations. He cheated in Feb 2020 went on a couples trip with his friends and the other girl... I found out dumped him the 4ok savings wiped my tears during lock down. He tried to threaten me so he can get a share, wanted love back... I ran and never looked at men the same. Still single and achieved a lot after the break up.
I can relate to the lady's story who was dumped for buying a Ford, however, my story is the opposite. I was dumped for buying a bigger car than his yet before I bought my car I requested for his advice as it was my first time buying a car and he totally refused to assist me so I went ahead and bought a car that I liked and afforded and it turned out that mine was more powerful than his so to him it seemed like I wanted to spite him so he left me. It was the first time I realized that all along we were in a competition. By the time he decided to come back, I had all the time to look back and had realized that I had missed a lot of red flags. I really dodged a bullet in this instance and I 'm so happy that he showed his true colours before messing with me.
Never date a man you are doing better than, or never try to uplift a man and try to take him out of the tranches 😂😂😂😂... I thought I had everything figured out until I met my current boyfriend I'm 27 he is 33,I'm learning a lot from him. We are both doing well, but he is ahead because he has been working longer than me, I'm learning a lot from him, he is reliable, gives great advice etc. Find a man who is doing better than you, although you know your story you will be a damsel in distress, a mans role is to provide and protect, any men who feels intimidated by a women is not a man. 😊
Tjo!!.. Madam speaker you opened our eyes even though some people don't want to learn nna ke tshaba basimane. I put myself in debts to build my kids a home not just a home but my dream house so that when they come with their stories they find me broke.
@@lucynchabeleng1643"borrow me money for petrol" "I didn't pay rent and no one is willing to help me, plz borrow me money" I rather be stressed by my house than a man with their endless problems.
Hei pillow talks I still remember during pillow talk my ex bf held my hand and he was like bbe you know I love you and I want to build a future with you " how about you take up a loan for me so that I can buy a car then I will repay you" I told him I will think about it. When I left I called him and said to him my brother the thing you ask from me will never work 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 hell No!!!!!!!!!!!!!!??
A friend of mine borrowed 2 million bank loan for her boyfriend. They were to 'clear vehicles at the port and custom. Turned out the guy was a scammer who befriends rich women for money. They had no written agreement or trace of the payments because she gave him cash money. Very smart guy. He stays in a good area, owns properties and big vehicles imported from UK. The guy is now in Canada continuing in the same deceit. My friend suffered depression and was left with the bank loan and still servicing it 5 years later.😢
Hi guys my story is different. I borrow some one R27000 she refuse to pay me The one was going to do the funeral for her husband I gave R15000 she never paid me.
This actually shows that woman do not actually use pillow talk to ask for our rent being paid, or ask for a car or whatever. Its a self-worth issue, our expectations from our men need to be high or they must voetsek
My baby daddy convinced me to take a loan and buy a car. We agreed dat the car will help me at home bcos my mom has a stroke so we will transport her with dat car.but now the question is who will drive day car bcoz I don't have a license and he doesn't stay at my home he has to go to work? I took day loan of R100 000. Gave him,he bought a car and he asked me to let the car be under his name,My advocate cousin said to me hell no. I refused.mind you he promised to help me pay back the loan But now bcos the car is under my name, he never gave me a single cent to repay the loan.but he is driving dat car up and down.everyone around us think it belongs to him. I am now planning to get a license and driving lessons so I can take my car back am thinking of some sweet words to take it back without fighting.
What fight is going to be there? It's your car. You will continue to let him drive it cos you still love him. If you want your car, you just take the keys away from him
🤣🤣🤣🤣the topic of the video nje made me laugh , but im not laughing yazi...kkkkkk yazi ladies if you not careful these men will scam you yazi..fear men who ask money form you, vho pls borrow me or get me a loan i will pay upu wen my invoices pay... ex colik resigned and cash out her pension coz of vahtukana😅😅😅😅love with the heart and not the head maan
@15:34 abafana test us with little requests to see how our minds work, and they get a loop hole to start using us😔. Been observing this in my relationship. Fortunately I've been winning with my no's. One wrong yes opens up the easily manipulated mind.
Madam Speaker, please madam. Don't be ok with 50/50....trust God for what you really want, even if it looks like Delulu. What you want exists and it wants you too.
