When he meets the woman who is quiet AND loud. Sexy AND well rounded. Fun AND productive. He's forced to re-evaluate his entire perspective. So yes, be yourself. It's the only way to attract someone in alignment.
Still don't quite understand why they like playing in other yard's, when you can just as easily keep the spice in house, an keep the wolf from prowling. ❤
Thank you for the male perspective on this topic. Lately this is what I wonder. Both men and woman are different and confusing. Finding a true match and chemistry is gonna take time and discernment❤
So call 66yr old high value man cause he got 💰 wanted me to accept a whole mistress with his low vibrating arse. I don't care how much money u got. I ain't settling for that.
I approve this message. Very true and accurate. Men like different women for different roles. Depending on where his mind set is will dictate what his needs are.
Love this video. Whats crazy too is how so many women, at least where I’m from, are always telling women what men like and how they should look to attract men. I have always been small, never cared to change that, but the women I grew up around told me I needed to put on pounds bc men like that. Meanwhile I never had an issue attracting men lol. Case in point, don’t take advice from women about what men like. Please don’t feed in to the garbage. Be your best self and the right person for you will love you.
Thanks, Kirk for the wisdom you bring daily! I think many of us are way too hard on ourselves and I absolutely agree with you that everybody’s looking the same. We definitely need to be our authentic selves period. Peace and blessings to you. 😃💕
God bless you Kirk. Of all the so called relationship experts online this is the first time I have had anyone say this and it makes sense. One size does not fit all. Thank you so much for your honesty
I'm smiling ❤. Some men only want to play and never marry anyone. I'm not into playing. 😊. You are very accurate and in my knowing these things also... I'm really very content with respect to men.... Men are wonderful... But for my self.... I prefer to live my life in happiness without drama. Therefore I enjoy my freedom and I do not desire a relationship... My life is busy enough and full of happiness by flying solo and fulfilling my divine calling. Kisses to you men.... ❤For me... I will avoid relationship projects... Listen... Everyone should try to grow up. Blessings ❤❤❤❤❤
Forreal half of the shit with him be so self-centered. The woman who can care for his ego is the one they are constantly cheating on. The way that he describes it sounds like men are looking for a mule.
That's not always true. Ive been that wife cook clean take care of kids natural hair nails modest non casual and he will claim a broad with kids by multiple men cant cook or clean.
He didn't like you. It's that simple. A very hard pill but it's not a reflection of you. He's where he feels he deserves to be based on his estimate of himself.
@@Meandyouisnus Ahhhh hahahaha Lord, oh Lord have mercy…..so it seems!!! I so agree with you. Men Just have to be breathing now days for sooo many women ( the walking dead) Definitely low bar requirements at best!
I respect everything that you have to say But one thing that you don't talk about Many man are damaged and yes a man knows exactly what they want. However a man will not ever say they are damaged and hurt. No matter who he likes or who he is sexually attracted to...many men and women are damaged. I am scared to get to know a man..too many rules and issues to deal with. Therefore I choose ME..Oh and a man can marry you and still cheat on you...give you a baby and have another family in a different state..country or on another side of town. Ladies love yourself. Stop putting a man as the center of your life. Men are very smart...we gotta stop being stupid. Period.❤❤❤❤
You are right on everything. Timing is also important. I talked to a guy who lived alone who decided to get married after he said that he was sick with the flu. He had a hard time living alone while he was so sick according to him. Interestingly, the girl he was really in love with broke his heart, and then he started dating the new girl who he married as a rebound. They have been married since the late 80's, have children, and possibly grands by now.
God Bless Mr. Kirk. You are a true Blessing to me. You give advice like my Dad. I appreciate you for your truth and encouragement as well as this message. Thank you Sweet Jesus for this man. 🙏 ❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😊
I sincerely appreciate your videos. My case is funny! He wants me to mother and raise his children and nothing more. But i have watched your videos too much that right now i know I have fully moved on in absolute forgiveness to myself and others. My heart is full of live and my energy level so high that i pick energies and immediately know what a man wants when they come. I just dogged a bullet last week! Thanks for all your amazing videos.
You just know alot, whereby, even when am a woman I fail to argue with you, cos you're ever on point.. I'm telling you am getting a lot of insight and confirmation from you... Thanks for the eduinfo that you highlight every time you speak to us 🙏 🙏 God bless you and increase you in knowledge and wisdom...
It is possible for other Women to be better then what that Man has at home...There are billions of Women out here and of course some women will be more compatible then what a Man has already chosen..it doesn't make the other Women bad or less then...There are so many attractive, educated, kind, loving Women that men have connections with..It doesn't mean he won't and doesn't feel connected to both Women...The difference is his loyalty is suppose to be at home.
Sounds as though the man is playing with fire and wants a side chick. No where no how she any woman settle for being a side chick. Please Jesus didn't die on the cross for any woman to be a side chick. If he is married and you feel as though you have developed feelings towards him you need to remove yourself from that.
Agree 💯, However more often the Married Man has lied and is lying to the other Woman. Some Women do not know he is married or involved with anyone...How about If A Married Man is Cheating ...Divorce Him...He is a single Man walking...Neither the Wife or Other Woman has anything Good...He is No Good, Lucky Wife I guess.
It's just a matter of time that the cheating Man will get caught up in some drama...Neither the wife or other woman/women have anything special...These Women are not Lucky to have a lying, cheating , unsanitary Man.
Exactly! U can still married or in a relationship and STILL be attracted to someone else those are the facts. I know its happened to me many times. Even people I knew their husband's were hitting on me 😮😳
Who asked this? It doesn’t even matter. Girl, just be who you are & love who you are. You ARE the prize. Let the Lord bring to your life who belongs in your life.
Thank the most high I'm created originally authentic & souly natural, do my own hair & all, don't try at all to be as the next female, I don't even have one female friend, all that being in a competition mindset, I was never created , I love the fact of I'm created the most high , so if man doesn't accept me for me, that's his business & loss of a blessing
A lot of men are attracted Instagram baddies that they have no chance with! But if they somehow luck up and get a chance to be with her, then they try to change her into wife material, like make it make sense! It’s confusing as hell!!
I am not sure if your speaking from personal experience or people you know or cultural...But here in the States plenty of Men don't always Marry Smart or Wise and some that do cheat may cheat with Someone equal or better then his wife...You have to look at the person as a whole and each situation.
It is not for you to decide if the wife is the same or that you are better. Why does your statement give off sidechick vibes. It is not a good place to be. To divorce his wife for the other woman is adultery in God's eyes and man's eyes. If he is having marital issues he needs to seek counseling. Do you know the wife or just from what he told you. Stay away from people husband. Karma is a bi***
You have to tell the husbands to Stop preying on innocent Women....The other Woman has Absolutely no Loyalty to his wife or main Woman...The Man should not be Cheating. He is no good to Anyone. The Man with the vows is more at fault
How could she be equal or better than his wife if she's willing to cheat with a married man?? People just be commenting and have no spiritual wisdom nor understanding🤦🏾♀️ That's the first sign of down grading is the lack of moral character.
@@sweetiet602The other woman may not have loyalty to the wife or man, but what about personal MORAL INTEGRITY?? OMG I can't believe there are "grown" people who thinks this way. I can tell that you're obviously not married since your comment reflects no respect for marriage. As a now married woman, I can say that one of the reasons I've been blessed with such a good husband is because as a single woman, I NEVER interferred with a married man. Not even when married men made attempts. I knew that was a boundary never to be crossed not just out of respect for others marriages but for MYSELF. If there weren't desperate women willing to cheat, the men would be forced to self reflect and repairs their marriages and relationships with their wives. The Most High blessed me when it was my time.
A Man who cheats is not a Happy Man...He is present in the house but his mind and feelings are elsewhere... Remember: He is a grown Man if he values his wife and family he would seek professional help instead of being destructive. I personally do not tolerate cheating. If I am not his number 1 and only I would move on from him whether my boyfriend or husband because his actions states he would rather be single.
@@sweetiet602 in other words they are greedy and are in competition with each other. They place value on their bounties I.e women, money and toys. The more bounty the more he is seen as "high value" but only in the eyes of other men and lazy women
@@marcelinaun3304 One of Anything never seems to be Enough for most Men...They want More and More. They want more money, vehicles, attention, women...Seems like Men are not happy with just one of anything and the more prestige/money he has the worse it gets. That's just my observation 💯🌟
How does one pretend to be someone else? How does one show up like that? What does that look like? So, what do men want is such a broad question to be answered...
So all men dont atleast look for in still want a type quailites in a women that make up fit wife type ? Even if they all like differently as in shape body hair and even attuide? And the way tou described challenge for certain mean i also heard a different definitions of what some men say they like as a challenge i dont consider making the man be something forcing him to be something is challenge.
Every year Men get confusing to me! Ive been single and Great! Now i see Why. Its Yall men who go door to door! This is funny! But interesting. Good luck Ladies
Sorry that's not true this woman here is not bored. I have alot going on in life to be bored.and if I didn't have something to do in my spare time I like doing something even then like reading researching so am just saying king all women are not bored Real Love🙏
New subscribers hello sorry I am never boring I just go with the flow good woman men's and woman's have there own mindset roblox....bd for 10years cheating on me low-key 2 year's men's confusing no men's can't bring me out my character no excuses.....it's depending on them... I am kept being me godly woman