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He is an articulate young man. He is not bitter and seems not to hold any malice in his heart for his mother. He simply and respectfully spoke his truth.
Then why is he on social media with it and not speaking to her personally. He wait until the Show to drop a bum on his mom. She spoke about how she wasn't a good mom. So what do e want? He need to take accountability that he's an adult.
He is bitter asf the way he started the video I just dont get why it was so important to let everyone know yall don't speak an ain5 gon speak you could kept this video nobody cares sound like clout chasing
And how you talk about somebody being a mother when you No, your mother worked for hollywoodwhich one of those celebrities really have time for their kids, especially when they're in the spotlightnobody else kids came on TV talk my hot day. Mama or daddy didn't want them cause they was too damn busyhe found bitter and he needs To sit down somewhere. With him and his pity party
When this young man said I loved my mother, but she loved other things. This is what all need to hear. There is no amount of money worth the hurt of your kid! Say it louder, as a child, you don’t owe no parent a reason why they failed you, but each child is owed an explanation to why the parent failed them!
DADDY!!! Need to sit this one out. What is going on between Monique and her oldest child. Can "ONLY" be resolved between them. DADDY! Will never love him truly as his own. This is sad...
@@sheenashanta1205It’s the sarcasm for me.😂D.L refers to Sidney as zaddy,but I haven’t heard any controversy/rebuttal in regard to him referring to Monique’s husband as zaddy.
“At the end of the day, you’re going to need somebody” -Carlus King Facts! What’s wealth without family & health- I rather be comfortable with loved ones, and genuine friends, then be rich, and alone, paranoid that everybody is out to get what you got.
It’s something about parents that have kids with someone else and they are together it’s almost like your a outsider and if you there are not they wouldn’t care from my experience
I’ve gone through this with my children. But when I apologized my behavior changed. I understand the power in humbling myself and loving them even when they don’t deserve it, just as Christ does with me. She’s the leader, even though her son is grown. She still has to set the example.
@@thagoochtookmylunchmoney8800 That breaks my heart. I’m so sorry you have to go through this. Although it saddens me, the truth is some mothers will never get to a good point in life, unfortunately. I’m in the same situation you’re in with my mom, but I have distanced myself from her because she has no desire to humble herself, she only wants to be worshipped and I don’t worship people. Ask God to keep you and take you up, as I have done and will continue to do. Psalm 27:10 KJV 10 When my father and my mother forsake me, then the Lord will take me up. Place your faith in God! He will keep you! Many blessings! 💖
I can 100% relate with him. I’m a 21 y/o young lady and my mother still has me on the block list for guest what.. lack of accountability on her part but because she’s a mother it was always projected a different way & being the oldest, watching your mother be a different kind of mother to your other siblings is bitter/sweet. Sweet because you get to see the growth, but bitter because not when it came to me. I also understand the being ungrateful aspect. My mother continuously threw in my face that she did everything she was supposed to .. food, housing, lights and water .. thanks…? Nvm an actual loving relationship.
Sorry you went through this. But like you said..she grew. That was probably all she could handle at the time unfortunately. I was left for my siblings to take care of me and they were growing up themselves. Im just grateful they did what they could. I see them thriving with their children while i was a test dummy. It is bittersweet but we are all human. Life doesn't come with a handbook. Parenting is never ever easy especially when you have to do it by yourself. Forgive and move on. You know better ...and she now knows better❤ hopefully you are seeking counseling luvbug. You got this.
@@divineintervention212I appreciate this perspective a lot ❤people tell you to just move on but that’s where it ends it isn’t easy but I’m definitely leaning against GOD for ALL support; While it isn’t going to be “a walk in the park” as in easy, knowing where to start is the first step and ironically I’ve been healing by taking sed walks with GOD😂 I just walk for however long it takes, whatever time I need to and GOD is always with me guiding me through, talking me through things
@@KosmikGawdessThank you for your kind words of encouragement 🙏🏽❣️🥹and the side of Grace that you help shed some light on. You’re absolutely right about people just doing the best they can. I’m sorry to hear about your experience as well😩! One thing I did learn from this experience was to take notes, and as cliche as it may sound, to treat people how I would want to be treated, to notice when someone else’s light is a little dim and give them a little encouragement just as you’ve done for me tonight 🙏🏽I really appreciate it!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
👑 Carlus.... Congratulations to you once again on your blessings 🙏🏼 I don't know you personally but I'm so proud of you 💯 I've been subscribed for about 4 years and to witness God's abundant blessings over you and your beautiful angel....has been phenomenal. "My favorite Dread Head in Red"
I feel for people with fractured relationships with their parents, especially parents who dealt with trauma in their childhood, because I can relate. But one thing I know for certain is that it takes both parties being open, honest, and ready to communicate and make an effort. He said that he does not want to be her son and is assuming that she does not want to be his mother. But he also said that she said "when you're ready, I'm here," and that he had an issue with that because she should be making all of the effort to reconcile with him. Unfortunately, that's not how that works. It's impossible to expect someone to make the effort to reconcile with you if you have already decided that you don't want to be her son and don't want a relationship. He can only speak on what he wants for himself in this situation. If your estranged parent is saying "when you're ready, I'm here," that doesn't sound to me like she doesn't want to be his mother. It sounds like she's respecting his boundaries and giving him space to decide what he wants because he has made it clear that he doesn't want a relationship. I know he's saying he isn't bothered by it because he's smiling, and he has a child, but it's very clear he is very much bothered by their lack of relationship (as he should be) because he wanted her to know how he felt by posting it to the internet. Whether he chooses to pursue mending that relationship or not, I hope he finds the healing he deserves because if the breakdown in their relationship started when he was still a child, it definitely was not his fault, and he deserved better from all the parents involved, biological and stepparents.
I hope he holds his father as accountable as he holds his mom alot of young men get grown and hold hate for they own mothers who had to play "momma and daddy" being the provider and the enforcer but the Dead beat dad's get a pass everytime
As a young mother..... mistakes will be made. Monique is not the same person she was back then. He just refuses to see it. His anger and jealousy of his brothers won't let him see the difference. I have two sons... one on the spectrum. My younger son says that I don't love him like I do my other son. The love is the same but what they need from me are different. He hates my autistic son and me because he feels I don't pay attention to him. Well they are 23 and 26 and the older he gets the more he hates us. I see this situation in a similar way. He won't hear anything that is said and expects the most from me because he wants me to feel guilty. I did the best I could at the time and I have to move on and so should he. I let him know that I love him and do what I can but nothing is good enough. I feel you Monique.
Monique is a dead beat mother...she should of never put her older son's name in her mouth...Money can't buy you love, especially if you get Daddy out the mother and son relationship.
It’s interesting Monique claims Tyler and Oprah need to do right by her. It seems like she needs to do right by her son. I’m sure there are others that are feeling that she needs to do right by them also. That’s why I take what people say with a grain of salt.
Of all the headlines I’ve read today this is the only video I could watch in its entirety. You rock Carlus King. Your unbiased commentary is worth its weight in gold. Much love my brotha.
Kudos to this young man for speaking his truth. Not all parents are good, famous or not. And everything is not fixable. I believe in keeping toxic BS at a distance. That goes for anyone trying to disrupt my peace or my children❤
My heart breaks for this young man. Another cry for love NOT things but LOVE!!!! Damn Monique I was rooting for you girl but THIS puts a BAD taste in my mouth now about you. You think because he’s an adult that your job is done NAW sis you f’d up on this one right here and it’s YOUR job to mend his broken heart. Unbelievable!!! I will never look at her the same.
Well, she admitted to this and spoke about her failures and challenges as a first time parent VS her career. Very much accountable and made several attempts to mend the situation. Trauma in itself is challenging but she can’t mend it if he isn’t receptive to her pain/growth as well!!!
He seems rather bitter. She was trying to make it in a hard industry, no one’s perfect, she made mistakes. Sometimes even putting a child in daycare so we can make a living is not what we want, but have too. She was trying to make a better life for all of them. He should not have posted this on social media . He needs to make sure he and his child’s mother do better. Sometimes history has a habit or repeating itself…
That part.. this his side she got a totally different side then there's the truth like come on then there's the siblings stories I can't with this shit .. go get some therapy bro it with help the Internet isn't going to help I definitely did
That's why I don't get all up in these celebrities asses because they popular or well liked. They all got secrets that would shock everybody. I'm just here because I enjoy the videos and I enjoy seeing the real faces of these well known famous and loved people come out in the open so everybody can see what they are really about! Now I'm waiting to see what her "Daddy" gonna say about this, because he love talking for her
I went through the same thing with my mother and I vowed to my children I would never let that happen to us. I am the adult always and I will have no problem apologizing first, calling first, saying I love you first etc.
MOST HIGH JUST MAKE IT RIGHT AGAIN FOR THE BOTH OF THEM. EVEN I KNOW ABOUT THE UPS AND DOWNS WITH MOTHERS AND SON SOMETIMES IV"E BEEN THERE TOI YALL. MUCH PRAYERS UP!!!
If you all haven’t, watch the movie “The Shack” please do so. Trauma runs so deeply within Monique’s family as it does most & forgiveness is the key!! Cycles are VISCOUS!!! His truth is his though. Sadly, he is deciding to live there and not heal from it!!!
This is sad, I like Monique, but she got so much to say about other people she don’t even have her household together can’t talk about people in your household is not together😢😢😢😢😢
Tragic 😢 but he has the right to tell his truth just like she did! He looks sad. I see where “daddy” 🤦🏽♀️has already addressed this video but Monique didn’t? I hope they can resolve their issues. since she’s willing to have DL reach out to talk maybe she will reach out to him!
@@user-ys7nf7ip3hExactly he looking for his 15 mins of fame. I guess people want her to crawl on all fours to prove she loves him. The woman already admitted she wasn't a great mother to him. I sense he's trying to ruin her
@@iy4563 exactly 💯 let his selfish ahh gone tf on....I've been following Monique since the parkers...She always had him with her and spoiling his ahh....When she had the other kids his weak ahh had to scoot over 😂 him mad he can't be spoiled no more Lil ahh boy frfr 😂
Here’s my take both her and her oldest son’s feelings are valid. However Grace needs to be given as she was a young mother that experienced trauma. Grace should also be extended to her son as he experienced things he did or lack there of in his childhood. No one intends to have a child with a soul purpose to neglect them. There is no manual to being a parent. Parents & children alike are not perfect. Sometimes as parents what we experienced in our childhood comes to show through in our parenting. We also need to learn that forgiveness is for you not them. So that you may continue on living. If we know better then we will do better. I hope they heal from what they both experienced.
*I GET BOTH SIDES AND FEEL THEY BOTH NEED THERAPY* HOWEVER THE SON FLAT OUT SAID MONIQUE HAS COME TO HIM IN PRIVATE YEARS AGO AND SAID SORRY AND HE JUST STATED IN THIS VIDEO THAT HE DOESN'T PLAN ON FORGIVING HER....SOOO WHAT IS THE POINT??? I GET HIS HURT...BUT IF YOU'RE NOT WILLING TO EVEN TRY AN HEAL then dont come to social media🤷🏾♀️
Some parents may apologize but their actions dont line up and its just a cycle of hurt and then them expecting you to forgive them so they can hurt you all over again bc they feel they have a right/excuse to bc they are the parent. I know from EXPERIENCE
Monique is something else with her sweet babies but got a whole big baby she abandoned. Folk yell about dead beat dads. Don't forget these dead beat mammies. I feel sad for him because some mothers truly never bond with their child.
I would rather she give him to his father than keep him and mistreat him. If she dosen't want a relationship with him life goes on. What about her second son do they have a relationship
@@andrejamal5438 Yes he should go on with his life because if someone who wronged you have you down then they win. She doesn't seem to bothered with the situation. So this young man should go on and live his best life. Rejection is never easy and I hope he gets therapy it's a lot more to this story.
@@nonasullivan2327 He the one rejecting his mother ( his right). Mo already spoke on this admitting she wasn't a good mother to him. She also said when he is ready to forgive her and talk she'll be waiting there for him with open arms.He stated in this video he was not ready to talk to her but here ready to expose her for 15 mins of fame off her name.
Sometimes kids feel that way but the feeling doesn't make it true. I am going g through something like this right now with my son and it really hurts as a parent
This is so sad and mind-blowing. Social media is a great tool, but I hate that we are using it to air out our in-house dirty laundry. I hope that the social media platform can be used to spread positivity. Pain is real and so is love. I hope that we can get back to loving one another. 😢
I totally agree with you. He can't get past the pain of past hurt. He doesn't want to forgive her. Forgiveness is more for your own well-being, not the person you're forgiving. It seems as if she's extending the olive branch, and he's projecting his feelings as her feelings. I pray to God they come together. Life is too short n you never know when your time is up abs it will be too late to reconcile.
That’s what I’m learning as well forgiving those dat hurt me n cnt even apologize for their actions. But I definitely won’t my heart ta be healed n happy!
He said he forgave her. As a mother she disrespected having a close & loving relationship with her 1st born son for another man. Ultimate rejections like this destroy invalidate & devalues the need & worth of having a mother at all. God is actually doing him a favor with by giving him a daughter & Monique has a lot of karmic lessons that are playing out publicly so she really needs to humble herself to her 1st son & sons. God gives children as a "Reward" & works He works in his own ways...Ijs 💯 👋🏾
I’m not sure you understand what forgiveness means. Forgiveness does not mean that you welcome the person back into your life. Particularly if the person keeps the behavior that causes the strife. If a person does not understand what forgiveness means then they are likely toxic to everyone around them. Forgiveness is not on your terms but on the terms of the person who chooses to forgive.
My heart breaks for this young man. What I heard in this speech is a broken hearted child who wanted what all kids want and that is to be loved and wanted by their mother. He has found a way to not let the pain destroy him, but the hurt is still there. I pray that he finds true peace
"Hello my babies" Is this statement Genuine? Let's take care of family and home first!!!! I am sorry you had to go through that. I went through this similar thing. I had to eventually turn to God!!!! To forgive and heal. God bless us!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
God. will give you what you need … it’s sad , as a mom who lost my youngest to his epilepsy.. life is a moment ,, we are not promised time … Monique needs to see the real happiness, it’s family not the limelight …
It's the fact that everyone is showing him sympathy when in his whole video he said that he's not willing to accept her apology.....so if you're not willing to heal for it why even keep ranting???? Idk I understand his hurt but now this is giving (you hurt me so I'ma continue to hurt)
Please… He said she put out a false narrative about him, and he wants it to stop. Ask Monique why she keep bringing up Tyler and Oprah for 14 years. If they not willing to give an apology she should move on.
Hi Carlus … it really hit me when he said “ when God give you what you want but you ask for something else. I feel his pain. Sometimes people are not good stewards over what they’ve been given. I hope they can mend their issues.
❤like he's trying to get paid off his mom's name....Why go viral with this while her name is ringing for good schitt🤔All of this time 😢 That's why you let these kids learn the hard way 🙄 3 other son's got me😢😢
💯Big facts. He trying to ruin his own mom for 15 mins of fame. When all he had to do was call her and say I love you. I forgive you. He first born she would break doors for him.
@tobiasglass7653 no he did! Just like spoiled punks tend to do ...almost 35 years old need to take his old ass and sit down...y'all too sensitive for me ...A mf scream a sad story yall run like dogs 🐕 he sitting up ready to ask yall for cashapps🤧
Say the same thing about your daddy. When he gets done with it she said she was not at her best when she had him….. she told you. This is very sad on both parts.
He's spoke Ill of his father as well he have a problem with both parents....my only issue is that he said he's not willing to forgive Monique....and if that's the case why even go on a rant??? Why even say something??? You either want to heal and move on or keep sitting in trauma
@@andrejamal5438this is why it's important to listen to men and women when they say they dont want kids or not ready for kids..... forcing people to be parents does nothing but create a life full of trauma for the child or children
Some kids needs to understand that some parents are still kids at heart! I would never do this to any parent not even my dad and I only had my mom! PERIODT!
@@wonderfullymade425 she said something about LOVING ALL OF THEM im not about to argue I said what I said I would not come publicly about my mom PERIODT
@@selietasymonebut if shes talking ab loving all her kids, but treats this one terribly or is estranged from him, then that is simply not true. No one is talking ab your mother tho. Its great u love and respect your mom but thats probably bc shes not like Monique!
I'm pretty much done with the Monique situation. I don't think it's gonna be as entertaining for as long as the Katt Williams was. But I'm sending positive energy back to you, Carlus. And just here to support the channel ❤.
@latanyagarner7080 not an excuse, more of a reality in that situation. My moms was a teen mom, had my brother, met my dad at like 19/20, had 7 more kids with him and my brother was with my grandmother. We would see him but it wasn't until he was in his 40s that they were able to truly build a bond because as a child of a child you don't understand and as a child parent sometimes that's just what happens to the dynamic. My brother probably felt left out because the rest of us grew up together in the same house while he only visited. He resented her for sure, but not understanding that he was a product of SA on a 14yr old, or that my moms tried her hardest to get him from my grandmother but she wasn't budging and it was a different time. My brother would resist my moms love because of his resentment. And she tried so hard. Once she passed, that's when he realized that she was there the entire time. So yea no excuse but if u don't know that dynamic u can't speak on it
@@janethoward1161 we all can speak on any situation that’s made public just to try and get an understanding. I just wish that parents realize when you get it wrong in a child’s life, they become messed up adults. No, we don’t all get it right, we don’t all have the answers, so let’s at least start with giving these kids the free substance, LOVE. If you didn’t get it when you were a child, break the cycle.
If I'm not mistaken isn't he the child the was conceived when she was being SA'd by her family member ? I feel for him. But I can somewhat see how difficult it may be to care for a child that came into this world from a situation like that. That's no excuse because it's not his fault but I think its a tad deeper than even he may know. I hope one day they can find peace and become the family that they should have been .. This is really sad.😥
@@sewblue187maybe because some people actually can recognize that the child is not at fault for how they were conceived? Walk up to the face of a person that was conceived in SA and tell them that they shouldn’t be here cause they’re a reminder of what happened and see what they do.
This young man is hurt and angry but his vision of life is distorted by it. I guarantee that his views of his current feelings are the same as they were 10 years ago and wont hear anything differently.
I BELIEVE him only because her husband definitely gives off this is my family now and we let(allow) u be around vibes👀👀👀😳and I only know this because I have a stepdad and my mom has 2 kids with him and he’s not rude about it but I definitely feel like he give off your her kid and these are OUR kids vibes..... that’s basically EXACTLY how I feel💯💯💯
He looks like he is recovering from an addiction. If so, addicts are difficult to deal with in a family. Sometimes you just have to let them go. A son, daughter, mother, father, sister, brother, niece or nephew, let God.
How sway? How? That young spoke his truth Just like his egg donor. He said he loves his mother he didn't wish any ill will towards his mother all he said was she's painting a false narrative about their relationship which has bits and pieces we know nothing about. He said she gave him material things and he just wanted to be loved. I mean what is wrong with people. What is the issue? If she gets to call people out on what she deems to be lies or untruths as she sat begging for a bag to be given to her. If anyone is ungrateful she is. Kevin Hart gave her a bag but she wanted more her son just wanted her love from a perspective of loves sake nothing else. People are just ridiculous.
I’m firm believer in the most high we in the year 8 ( karma -truth-people getting exposed) maybe her getting black ball was karma for putting career and money before her relationship with her son….Being a spiritualist Mo might not be a bad person but when you dealing with the universe you got to pay the karmic debt…Mo heavy on accountability but sometimes due to her own trauma she don’t see how that played a part!
Y’all keep moving the goal post. So if this never happens y’all would be saying it wasnt fair she was told to promote the movie when she wanted to be with her family. Now that her son is speaking out, u think she chose her career over her family. Which one is it? She has repeatedly said that she wanted to be with her family but was near forced to promote Precious. Which one is it?
@@THEDOORIZCLOSED Clearly you didn’t watch the whole interview 🤦🏾♀️ She said out her own mouth which she been saying for years with her first child ( the young man that’s talking in the video ) before she was married! she was all about work work work didn’t have time to be a mother so when she had kids by her daddy ( husband) she wanted to be different be there for her kids her family …Go back watch the interview lol
To him forgiveness means saying that it was okay and i understand why you treated me horribly. No kid should ever have to forgive that shit in the first place
My thing is how can this man say she doesn't pray that they can have a better relationship. if he doesn't talk to her then he sit and say she admitted not be the best mother. But then with the same breath says that she doesn't take accountability for being a bad mother. What he needs to do is get over it what's done is done as long as she's being a grandmother to his kids That's all that matters.
Not too long ago everyone was giving Monique her flowers. How quickly many are now quickly condemning her because of her son speaking his truth.. I'm not taking a side either way.. Take of it what you may. Her son himself said, "No one is perfect."
This is a sad situation, but we don’t know anything about it. Monique did what she had to do to get where she is and our children don’t have any Seniority. parents were people before we have children. and people go through a lot I unfortunately don’t have anything to say because just because a person is famous, does not give us the right to judge them based upon family members accounts of situations I understand the young man is hurting, but this is not a situation that can be solved by the public. We can have an opinion, but at the end of the day, those two need to sit down and talk to one another there is nothing that a public opinion can help about the situation. Monique is the one that’s famous nothing we say or opinions we could have can change the fact that she had a calling and she answered the call and is doing well the family has to take place with family not the public
@@wonderfullymade425do you know what it’s like to be told that you weren’t there, when you actually was, but you were working and trying to keep it all together? Do you know what it’s like to tell your children to come to you when they have a problem, but they don’t? Instead, they grow up and say that you abandoned them emotionally? It’s a hard pill to swallow, because the children remained silent or held onto it? Do you know what it’s like to have children who hate their siblings, because they only wanted to be the only child? This often happens with children who have age gaps between siblings. The older children feel neglected and jealous because they have to share the parents with their siblings. You can’t really heal that. You apologize, genuinely apologize, and pray that the child/children heal from that. You have to love on all of your children, but some children are not receptive and punish you. I have seen this over and over. It is truly sad to watch. Pride doesn’t allow a space to heal, whether it’s the parent or the children. I pray that they get this right at some point. Getting paid to be Monique so that she could provide for him is commendable. I can’t fault her for that.
I understand this my mom and dad are pretty similar I’m 21 years old and been raised by my great grandmother while my parents been with their stepkids and treated them better than me. I forgive them tho but honestly it’s a real pain
We all have something that we don't want people to know about or hide- for the people saying she is exposed for hiding things. She don't have to tell people her private affairs. We don't know these people personally so lets stop judging & acting like some of our s++ doesn't stink.