*First story: I’m not sure. Being ignored your entire life and parents having extreme favourites is hard to deal with. You maybe should have not flipped out like that but just gently confronted your father. I still believe that your father has favourites and is purposely missing your events and that he prefers your step-brother. You have every single right to be equals with your step brother. In my opinion not the* *a$$hole.*
The last one is the AH the fact that you decided to not even consider learning to cook gives you no right to complain you decided to rely on someone else to cook instead of you learning to cook for yourself and have food that isn't as spicy as your boyfriend's.he had a solution and you decided to ignore it.seriously what happens if you guys are no longer together what happens then ?