#1 Sign He Loves You 

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If he can invest his time, attention, & gives unselfishly then yes he truly loves you.

Women who are willing to accept less end up with less cause he loves himself more

My mum told me this ....you only get back what you put in to a relationship .....so treat your lady like a queen and she will treat you like a king 🥰

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I found my match. I'm done looking. Thank God hallelujah 😍🙏

he's open minded to the things you like, he's willing to sacrifice and make adjustment . noted!

A man that's serious is intentional out of the gate and wants his lady to know that first and foremost. He's also not selfish where her needs are concerned

Yep, he was trying to get more for less. Big lesson learnt.

All true. I watch out for these things because time waits on no one and I have 0 time to waste 😁😌✍🏾

I don't have time for a guy that just is concerned about him filling his life, only thinking about what he wants out of this relationship. And not caring about what I think or what my interests are. C ya! If a guy is really into you. I believe he will respect an honor you for who you are and not try to change you into what he wants you to be.

Yes very true, my advice is , keep him at arms length , till you know what he’s about!

Ahh well 💔😬 I wish I saw this 10 years ago. I don’t think it’s that black and white. Sometimes a man can treat you like a Princess but STILL isn’t serious about you. He was constantly cheating. But Someone could treat you like you’re nothing to him but you know deep down there’s emotion there. Either way both had to go. I also trust Gods timing.

This is only a good measure for certain types of guys, more specific than a guy looking to commit or not. A man who is looking to commit, who views love from an altruistic standpoint will be like this, but will also expect the same in return from a partner. Others who do not view love in an altruistic manner, which is also a valid for of love, will not act in these manners while still loving their partner. Altruistic love I shown in studies to create longer lasting relationships when mutually applied, but not everyone is capable of that because it requires a lot of risk and sacrifice that most are not willing to do as a result of past experiences.

I totally disagree with what he calls sacrifices, spending his time and his money is not a sacrifice. It's a choice! If a man thinks that he's sacrificing by doing these things for me. I don't want him. Sacrifice is missing out a big opportunity to work overseas just to be around your woman/ or family....men should just stop playing with us, period!

My man found me I'm done looking for means. I already have one and he's a great man too. Im done searching for mans in he love me to That's my superhero❤️

Yup, he’s right! Was in a four year long distance relationship with a man and he only visited me once, at the most twice a year. He owned a business so his excuse was that if he loses customers he wouldn’t get them back. Crazy thing is that the amount of money he made in two days could have covered a plane ticket and at least five days with me. Fast forward some time, I stopped working my stressful job and I decided to visit him. I flew across country to visit him for a prolonged amount of time. VERY DISAPPOINTED AT WHAT I EXPERIENCED. One time (out of many) comes to mind when I was eating and started choking and he did not even flinch from his video game. He kept playing and he said ‘you’ll be alright’. I helped myself to stop choking, got up, and ate in the other room while internally regretting ever entering this relationship. IT BECAME GLARINGLY CLEAR THAT HE HAD NEVER CARED ABOUT ME. I SACRIFICED YEARS OF MY LIFE FOR A MAN THAT I THOUGHT WAS THE LOVE OF MY LIFE. HE FOOLED ME WITH HIS EMPTY NICE WORDS AND PROMISES. I realized what I had mistaken for affection at the beginning of the relationship, was only love-bombing to get in my pants. Thankfully, we broke up shortly after I arrived home. I thank God everyday because I dodged a bullet! If a man wants a deal, go to Ross but don’t come over here!

This warmed my soul. Waiting for love like this. Already got it from God so the man will have to be top tier and God approved

If you find yourself doing and saying everything, it's time to go home alone. Peace and happiness 😊

Sacrifice is key as it comes directly from the heart of God as a real sentiment of True love in a relationship much like our relationship with God to the sacrificing of his son in his Love for us as his children, So sacrifice is a great act of True Love and I greatly appreciate one's sacrifices for me.💯💜

I understand completely. I have moved on.There is no relationship and I've moved on.

Ur one of the good decent man.& it's not about money only.

I pray to meet this man soon who is sacrifice for me in my family..

I believe it they will go out their way for you

I learned this a long time ago. Sad to say is that they never loved me...they only used me and accused me of everything that they were doing. This year made me give up on love.

Are you married or in a relationship. You are on point; with the things you say about relationship with males.

Thanks for sharing this important information. I needed that.

U are so correct .. I am getting married thanks to your teaching

Truth…, very well said, and I thank you! Simple, and to the point.😊

“What you won’t do. Do for love.”

Only God Knows Amen!

I Experienced that with BM So I don't go there Anymore, Truth more for less, so I left it there and moved on and doing a hell of a lot better and I'm happy.

He does not cheat. I don’t understand why men say they love you and still cheat.

Thanks great Video Stephan love & Blessings ❤🙏🏽🥰💕

Thank you for your guidance

Okay he and I are now in the “let’s just be friends” stage. Wow! Bewildering. Like what happened? 🤔

Where are they????

Well said.

YES!! WE CAN SEE THEM ACTIONS. IT VERY TRUE 👍

Most definitely 👍 👌 💯 Thank you for that powerful truth.

My husband in a nutshell. We just celebrated 17 years of marriage. Praise Yah.

Hi handsome you speaks sense. I relate to what you Say...but i don't see your wedding Ring...how Come?😏

Thank you 💖 for your words Mr. STEPHAN.❤❤

Yes sure

All relationships are about open to your partner. To work

And I give all that to Wife and Family. TheChef.

Thank you so much. 🙏⚘🧚‍♀️💚🧚‍♀️⚘🙏

AMEN!! THANK YOU FOR THIS MESSAGE!! AMEN! Praying for Christensen!!!

SB you are a good man! 🙏🙏❤❤btw u look great in blue. The shirt looks great on you.

Thank you for your blessings us with your words Amen Thank you for the time you sharing your words Amen

Sacrifices compromise invest time money true thank you for sharing peace and blessings🙏🏽👍❤️

I was married to a psychologist I was and family for doctors with my ex's family I was a psychology buff when I was young one of my best friends was his good psychologist I didn't know myself at that time that well spiritually and not sexually I am definitely a male sexually although you might know or not know that or perceive that is not my problem I know myself quite well now I didn't then and I'd still knew that I was a guy. I never had a problem that way except after my divorce I felt a little bit confused about a lot of things but definitely I did not ever or nor was I ever attracted to men I wish you would stop and I wish the people out there in the media would stop it I don't know why they spread this stuff because it's not true now I am very secure and I know who I am spiritually and man I feel so much more stronger and confident and I'm getting better every day anyway that's after my divorce and not hooking up with a woman for a long time I can't wait to and I keep trying there's a lot of candidates but you know please I am not gay I wish the gay men yeah find good health and enjoy yourselves but please don't approach me that way I'm not gay and I'm not bisexual and I'm not any of the mixtures out there I'm pretty much stable I said you know something something like a divorce that point in my life when I was all around 30 no 40 years old made me confused about myself but there was a good reason for that and I won't get into that right now it had nothing to do with sex stuff please understand this I can't make this any clearer to people any other way I can think of so I don't know what else to do. Like the word if you can if you see somebody hey I know that guy went yet well Wayne is also somebody else spiritually and that doesn't mean I'm two different people or think that way I just didn't know something about my heritage and who I am spiritually because no one told me which was very troublesome in my life and now you know and I'm not going to go into who it is or what I mean by that just believe me I know what I'm talking about solidly scientifically and every which way you could look at it I am very smart and I know what I'm talking about don't doubt me I wouldn't lie I have no reason to I am known for my honesty.

I did that money thing once to support her dreams because I believe she could be more. I ended up in debt, couldn't pay some people I owed. I chased them from my house with a gun when they tried to take my possessions. While I paid off 75% of the debt , she was already looking for other men. I've had to apologise to people for the "sacrifices" I made for her. Pay them back. Made my first $8m after separating with her and focusing on growing my business.

True, speak it from experience but I wasn’t in love with that person.

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Thanks l agree with you STEPHAN God Bless this CHANNEL

Thank you for the teaching🙌

I agree with you.

Then again when does the sacrifice becomes too much to the point you are being used in the relationship and not love. This is something I had to understand when it comes to relationship and what I have seen with my own parents. When one was always giving and the other felt it’s never enough. I told the parent who was always giving why are you always staying in the relationship when you know it is becoming toxic? The toxic part was when the one parent used the children as a way to avoid their own problems. The child was the scapegoat. They told me it was because of not wanting to lose the assets. I was somewhat baffled by the answers but I understood that the cost for divorce surpasses than marriage. It is cheaper to get married than get a divorce nowadays. But you are also detrimenting your own kids in the process. A lot couples ought to sacrifice but not to the point it is impacting your children’s lively hood. Acting like a happy family outside but behind closed doors it’s another story. There isn’t much realness in the homes. The children can’t say much because they will end up getting the brunt of the situation. I am speaking from experience I grew up in the suburbs.

Nice polo! I want one like that

Facts! ✅💯🌺

Love your polo!

Thank you 😊

You are like a modern day Moses to those of us wondering the deserts starved for Good, men. I have to wonder if there were 10 commandments to stick to as Vital to know about finding Good relationships with men and identifying them, what would they be??? Just a thought…

What about a older guy who is set in his ways???

What if the guy that doesn't want to compromise or sacrifice is your HUSBAND???

Thank you so much for all of the valuable information you give us❤ I've learned so much

This is Spot On!!!

YESSSSIIIIIIIIRRRRRRRR I AGREE WITH YOU 💯💯💯🙏🙏💯💯💯 💚💚❤️❤️😇🙏🙏💯💯💯😇😇

Thank God for let me have a good man in my life

I ,(sort of), think, that we are, (sort of), in the "same place." I think Im, "like, "a man," in a way, that, Im, (sort of), "s.a.t.i.s.f.i.e.d", (where) we are, relationship wise, (at a distance), with our "causiousness" of eachother. ☆ But, I dont "like", being "used", "desire fumed" and camera surveilled.

That's is very true my brother

I just want to thank you, your advice has always helped me ❤

IVE GIVEN SND GIVEN. I HOPE WHOEVER HE IS CAN FIND THE RIGHT ONE

So true Stephan thanks

I’m confused I’m dealing with a guy who keeps saying he is in but then gets scared from past relationship issues he has had.

Thank you

😊 I enjoy so much h your lessons about love, relationships and all 😊

Amen I definitely agree with you hundred percent

So so true. He tried it and I denied it.

You remind me of a country song from Joe Nichols called "Yeah", as I listen to your short

Hahaha your energy is wonderful!!! 😂💞✨

What if you are married but separated

Where he’s ring at

I agree I'm greatful that my Husband is a very good person. We are both territorial Lion and Ram strong headed want to be in control so we my butt heads sometime The ups and downs arguments is part of life it happens. When you know that 15yrs married to someone that's never been in long time relationship .He married me right away still here today 15 yrs later provided for me in the beginning and Today. We Love Each Other it's been like that since the day we met He is A Keeper Provider My Husband is not perfect Im Not perfect we make mistake wrong decision. There's always snakes temptation that we face everyday . A Women that willing to be a side chick get just what they get A Dinner maybe A Movie Get Hit Dropped off until the next Booty Call that's all it is The wifey is at home with. All the benefits. If that change Home comes first no matter what . He's not gone take care of nobody like this body. A side chicks.Is stupid only a number Wifey is number 1. If you have to wait to been the 1 your really not the just a Hit and Run

Real love? Wen he learn you? And you say I dont leave my mam she has cancer? He come live with me. Bring her to hospital wen I cuted because work. That was or furst years. MY MAM SAY! HE IS A GOOD MEN! WHO DOU THAT? WEN FALL IN LOVE? ANS BEGINS WITH MISERY? WE 26 AUGUST 23 YEARS TOGETHER.

Yes

I realllly love him and he is available to me, but on a strict schedule that he rarely flexes. I told him tonight (for the 100th time) how I notice this and it bothers me and he told me to “get used to it”….. bro spends like 5 hours on his gym routine Mon/Wed/Thurs/Fri… from 4:30 to 8:45. Now he started doing deliveries and takes that shit SERIOUS….. So my weekends are almost gone now too as well. But he tells me, I sacrifice every Tuesday for you!!! It’s not enough for me but I worry I’m just being extra…. I’m so confused.

That is the real advises we are here form

That is true

Amen amen amen thank you

That’s true I noticed that as well

Where's my heart I need to see these things I pray that I'll be sacrificial too noticing him when all he does

100%true fact,☝☝☝☝☝☝☝☝☝☝👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍u are so right Stephen ... Amen brother🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

My Bi Polar/Narcissist Ex GF use to say You r the one who always gives 80-100 % to the relationship. When I asked Y is that, her reply I'm trying!" Her Mom told her He's a Keeper. Mom said to me a few times I need to take you home with me. Her 26 yr old daughter said I know he treats you like a Queen. My Ex always had time for every one/everything else. I hung in there telling my Trauma Bond self, It's the illness, not her, it will get better. She set me FREE 3 1/2 months ago after 17 months. She probably had a new supply weeks b4 she set me FREE 2023 NARC FREE!!

Right exactly. This is why you don’t waste your time with a time wasting man who won’t commit. You are a place holder. Move on

Exactly ,and thank you !well said tell all these women in America that are begging for love and allowing a man to use them! And Never provide for them or their kids.

And I thank him for that and love him for that I never said I didn't love him but how I can forgive what he did with my niece

Facts

Awesome color polo shirt. :-)