My boss is a 23 year old female. Seriously an incredible person: GM at 22, putting herself through college, highly intelligent, stunningly gorgeous. She has a little komodo dragon. I'm 28, and I'm the bartender. I started working there about 6 months ago. I know my worth, but I feel like a roaring fire next to the sun when she is around. We have a weird relationship. We talk somewhat often, and she confides in me. I've seen her cry once and it was the first time I had seen her weak. It was only in front of me as well. I asked her if she was happy the other day after a long talk, and it was the only time she stuttered and seemed... challenged by what I said. She thanked me, saying "no one has asked if she was happy in a long time." She was sitting in the bar as I left for the night, we looked at each other, said goodbye, and I left. I think about her a lot. She's kinda like a little super hero. I don't idolize her, but she does inspire me to be a better man altogether, not just in the workplace. I began working out even when I didn't want to, I started showing up earlier and leaving later, I became more confident around her. I started seeing the other women in my life less because they just don't have what she does. Once she was telling another manager that such and such needs to shape up or she's going to be fired. I walked in on that, and she looked up, gave me this look she does with her eyes it's hard to explain, smiled, and asked me sweetly what it was I needed. I absolutely melted, and actually stuttered a bit. Idk what it was, but something about a rare and powerful woman intrigues me in more ways than one. It's sexy, obviously given how my vocal cords just stop working when she gives me that look. I guess the only other thing to add, the reason I'm saying all this, is I think there might be something there. I might be completely wrong.. but my gut just tells me. I've been around enough women to feel the vibes they give off. I feel her watch me sometime. Her voice changes, I swear by this, changes when she talks to me, when I step close to her when we're going over inventory or counting a till. I don't know what else to say from here. I just needed to use a RU-vid comment section as a diary real quick. Thanks for reading if anyone did. I guess uhh... idk pop some advice if you've got it. I've been thinking of switching jobs altogether just so I can ask her out once, but I almost think I'd rather have her in my life just as a coworker than not at all, in case she says no. Ugh. I haven't slept.
Hey. I'm shocked no one has ever replied to this.. I felt like watching a movie Infront of me.. seriously man I think that's love. Not just crushing, you do care about her and wether if she's happy or not.. your vocals messed up from a look.. you don't see other women the way you see, admire and appreciate her.. I felt butterflies reading that she inspires you, trusts me that is an absolute amazing thing to be told to a woman.. even better than telling her she's beautiful.. ah and all qualities she has as herself if she heard this she would be even surprised and stunned as no one thinks in themselves like this.. stunning glowing strong... Etc.. Now I'm a Muslim tbh so I don't date, but I'm praying for you here.. may you get what you want and what is best for you.. Take care.
@@linguaphile1871 hey thanks man. I try to not think about it too much because I don't want feelings to get in the way of my work and consequently my money. I've decided to just say nothing and keep the job, just make her laugh as often as I can, work as hard as she needs me to, and defend her from the occasional asshole that gets in her face after one too many drinks. I think if she ever leaves, or if I do, I'll ask her. As much as I fantasize some Romeo and Juliet romance bullshit I know she's too smart to risk her job for me. *If* she even feels the same way. My gut says there's something, but I've been wrong before and I'll be wrong again. If anything significant ever happens, I'll post here because, well, why not.
@soundingtheskies Please update us. Have you confessed? This was one of the sweetest comments I’ve read about a men expressing his desire in such a beautiful and not just lustful way for another woman. I will be praying for you and this lady. Life is short, and you miss 100% of the chances you don’t take.
Hi, my boss likes me and last Friday he came up to me to explain what my duties are for the day. He was constantly looking at my eyes in a certain way. I didn’t make eye contact. It’s annoying and he has been looking at me for the past year. Once he pretended to playfully hit me. I hope he doesn’t lift me up or tie me up 😂 He is that kind of guy 😟
I kinda have the feeling that he likes me back because he treats me differently ,he’s always asking me if I’m okay and also he’s more kind with me he pays attention to me a lot 😂when we are working together he smiles at me all the time when I get to work he smiles and he starts to flirt with me but I agree like I don’t know anything about but I know 😂😂😂 ❤❤
He says I have done a great job and happy for my work ,called me Sunday to his office even though I didn't go,normally he is very rude ,but I feel he is adjusting his tones infront of me,I felt he is stopping me reporting to others than him by directly involving me to his projects.also I feel my direct senior is calling me every where eventhough others are there
I noticed he spends an hour on the PC and then take a ghost look for milliseconds and get back to work and this is continuous.. I hate it that it's like this I mean he never talks to me unless he tells to my team leader to give me task.. that time only we can actually look to eachother.. his eyes are glowing and I feel comfortable and happy looking in his eyes.. anyway it stops here I don't know what's next.. he completely ignore me when we cross eachother anywhere in the company. He does not wear a ring but I have no idea if he's married or something.. he's kinda old a little In 30s
Mine is a creepy man. I am not interested and he's only our shift supervisor and he's brand new..He stares at me all night. He will follow me from room to room. He's called me Honey, buddy, and Juls. I said something to a friend I work with. How uncomfortable he makes me and how demeaning it is to be called honey by a man I don't know who is superior to me at the job. Extremely annoying. He backed off for a couple days. But now he's back to stalking me at work. He tries not to talk to me. But he will find ways to do it. I think because my friend had mentioned I was getting pissed. Idk all I know is, it's inappropriate and I don't like it.
I want my supervisor jasmine. How to get her tho I like her and we talk here and there. Good laughs, smiles, good energy and good vibes at the job. Long story short how do I get her to go on date with me? I don’t want to lose my position at this job by approaching her 😂 no lie she look just like an ex I used to deal with it’s crazy but I do like her tho and I want her fasho what should I do??
