It's good to see a feminine woman in our natural God-given hair. It's a breathe of fresh air from all the black 'feminine' women on this app discussing how to be feminine in wigs and excess makeup.
That's so sweet of you! Some women are too focused on the external trappings of femininity instead of cultivating real, inner femininity. Some of the most masculine women I've met adorned themselves with long, fake nails, hair extensions, excessive makeup as you said, high heels, bodycon dresses... it's just a cope. They're subconsciously trying to compensate for their lack of actual femininity but it never works
@@JasmyneTheodora this is my 2nd video and I like your content & will likely subscribe but I would like to say this is a perfect time to dispell what femininity needs to look like. Yes there are some femininity content creators in wigs, makeup and nails but that is fine. Like you stated previously the focus should be the inner part of it.
As a white girl with straight hair I would just like to say that y'all's curls are some of the most gorgeous things I've laid my eyes on, it breaks my heart when I see black women with beautiful curls covering them up and changing them, although I think that woman should do what they want with their hair I really hope these women aren't changing their hair out of insecurity because their curls are just so beautiful and so flattering on them :) Nothing against these women like I said. they are beautiful either way, it's almost like seeing someone covering up their pretty freckles though
1. Do not interrupt others while talking. 2. Refrain from bringing the conversation back to the topic of yourself all the time. Ask questions to others. Refrain from replying "I know!". 3. Refrain from speaking ill of others, bashing reputations of other people and gossiping. 4. Do not check your phone while talking to others. It's basic courtesy. 5. Handle conflict graciously. Be gentle yet firm. Remove yourself from the conversation if situation escalates. 6. Prioritize privacy and mystery. 7. Limit your usage of profanity. 8. Limit alcohol intake, especially in public settings. 9. Sit ladylike, with poise and elegance. Straight posture and crossed ankles. 10. Getting in and out of a car elegantly. Sit first then swivel your legs in together.
I love your videos, as I’m navigating finding my way back to Christ, I notice that my femininity was under attack for the longest. I could not move graciously, I was hostile and easily tempered. This could only go on for so long before I experienced the damaging toll of taking on this “hard” way of life. I am so excited to know that while I’m on my walk with Christ, I am really coming into who I am by His design. Thank you for your videos, you are so blessed and an inspiration for us soft girls ❤️
I love your videos but I have to disagree with point number 7. Profanity is NEVER ladylike neither is it godly whatsoever. As followers of christ, we can't have one foot in and one foot out in any area. I really encourage you to read in full james chapter 3. It speaks on this topic and I hope you align your opinions with scripture fully without compromise. Out of the same mouth proceedeth blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not so to be. Doth a fountain send forth at the same place sweet water and bitter? Can the fig tree, my brethren, bear olive berries? either a vine, figs? so can no fountain both yield salt water and fresh. James 3:10-12
You are so right! I made this video before I fully converted to Christianity - I was interested in it but was not yet fully invested nor baptized. I now try my best to not curse at all 💕☦️
@@JasmyneTheodora amen I pray the Lord leads you to seek him with all your heart and grow in him yo become the woman he created you to be. Seek him daily and don't forget to read scripture daily as well. You can overcome all sin through Christ. God bless you sister and thank you for using your platform to praise the Lord and spread his virtues.
I just found your channel today and I'm so glad I did. This is exactly what I was looking for and thank you for the amazing tips. I'm looking forward to future videos and the start of my femanine journey. Thank you so much
Thank you so so so so wonderful to see a young woman being so elegant The world NEEDS MORE ELEGANCE AND GRACE. These are vital, a feminine woman adds so much to the world. You are helping us all be more civilized, hopeful and be our best. Elegant woman make the world a better place. Seeing someone be aware and respectful make us all be and do better. You have a little of the Audrey Hepburn vibe by the way
I just found out your channel. I am from India and we are very feminine women but somehow the "liberal west" automatically assumes that we're oppressed. I absolutely loved your video ❤️🌺.
Another is nagging to someone/ partner Complaining be grateful for what we have , it shows simplicity even in the smallest of things arguing- arguing with someone just shows that we stoop down to their level and we ain’t low over here lol. It’s some that I’ve been working on as well. Love your videos 🤍
I always used to interrupt people so much and I had no idea I was doing it, I was not conscious of it… I realised that it is a symptom of adhd along with all the other symptoms.
I have 4 brothers and 3 sisters. All my sister's moved away when I was very young because of the age gap between us. My sister's were 1st, 2d and 6th born. They were really close. I was the 7th born. I grew up without them and around nothing but boys. My mother was neglectful and abusive in multiple ways so I never learned anything from her. This has caused me a lot of trouble and pain in my life. Because I was to much like, "one a the guys," a guy once told me... None of the guys I met were ever interested in me. They just thought I was cool to hang out with. My father was in the Marine Corp so I grew up around a lot of profanity. Because of this I use it a lot and it's just like you said. People say I'm aggressive or angry all the time when it's not true. I want to cry because I don't know how to be a woman. I've never been taught anything. I finally found a guy who was interested in me and he turned out to be manipulative and abusive. 4 years ago a guy found me. We dated and ended up living together. He's appreciated and loved me... But we've been having trouble this passed year. Maybe a little longer but idk. Last night was the last straw. We were at the gym working out together as we usually do when he said he was worried about bringing something up. I asked him what and he said he didn't want to hurt my feelings. I had to drag it out of him but he finally said... That I wasn't feminine at all and that there was to much masculine energy in the relationship... That it was making him uncomfortable and putting tension between us. I knew something was up but not that... I know it's true but it still hurts to here him say. Please I love this man! I'll do anything to keep him in my life. He says he'll never leave me but that's not enough! I just want to make him happy! I want to learn to be a proper woman so I can finally make him as happy as he makes me. It hurts me so much that my mother didn't teach me these things.😭
I truly loved this video! As a 19 year old young lady, I am learning and seeking to know more about what it is to be a woman. Especially a Proverbs 31 woman 🙏🏽! To conduct myself in a modest, respectful, and humble manner. With that being said, I am so happy that I found your RU-vid channel for your videos are truly helpful and I appreciate them so much! God bless you and your family 🤍
I just found your channel today and I'm so glad I did. This is exactly what I was looking for and thank you for the amazing tips. I'm looking forward to future videos and the start of my femanine journey. Thank you so much
I just really like everything about your videos, if this is your true personality then you're a high quality person and someone I really look up to. I'm 40 but I absolutely don't have it all figured out and... well you're wise! And you don't hold back! I love your realness.
Great breakdown but your videos never disappoint so I’m not surprised. Love this. Took my notes and got some takeaways to implement . Instead of “I know” I am working on “I agree, great observation/comment”. 😀
Being a lady is such a lost art. Its funny how it has become counter-cultural to embrace ladylikeness. I'm not great at all of these, there are definitely things i could work on.
then don't feel bad about it :) doing it out of adhd isn't your fault or necessarily your lack of self-control.. but if you realize your interrupting someone in a moment of them speaking, you could still apologize and if your comfortable enough to open up to them, you could explain why sometimes you interrupt people without being able to control it :)
لا تقاطعين احد .. اذ احد تكلم اسمعي له ولا توجهين الكلام كله لك انتي ... لاتقولين اعرف .. لاتتحدث بالسوء عن الآخرين .. لاتمسك الهاتف اذ احد يتكلم معك .. خلي خصوصيه بحياتك .. اجلس مثل سيده .. .. ❤❤
I did not expect the bird! You are all around! I began to try to do the feminine thing after I had kids. I don't want to leave my girls hanging when it comes to makeup/fashion like I was and I don't want them getting suspect messages. Thanks, can't wait to watch your videos with my spawn.
brouhaha is my new favorite word lmao that sounds so funny also love your channel I've been binge watching a lot of your videos now and I am so glad I found you!
Hey i'm so excited i found your page i was having a honest convo with a guy frien and he decided to give me advice best ADVICE I EVER heard he told me i should be more refine an while watching this video i see all my errors i really appreciate this video
I love your videos and love how to touched more on character than outward appearance. I've been seeing a lot of femininity channels emphasize the importance of being rude to men and not nice since being nice or kind is not taken seriously. I sort of dislike that kind of advice, especially being a Christian, that sort of character doesn't sit right with me. What do you think about that idea?
girllll i been watching your channel and i didn’t expect that middle finger from you Ms Lady 🤣 great content though. definitely some great points to reassess
I think the funniest part of the video was when her next topic was “handle conflict graciously” after the last clip was her flipping someone off 🤣🤣🤣(time was 4:50)
I sent my wife your video about being a submissive wife but I’m realizing I should have just recommended the channel I think it’s a tough thing because I think that video is so relevant to issues we are having /hug love the channel
@@sundus928 we’re getting therapy individually and together it’s still tense but getting better feel like we’re starting over kinda with more trust this time
The first point about interrupting others.. it all depends on the people you are with. Sometimes you have to speak up and interrupt to show that you deserve to be heard and respected if the others keep taking over the conversation.
Hi Jasmyne, I have recently seen a couple of your content videos. I must say that I feel you have done a remarkable job of reintroducing godly principles and long lost virtuisms. Hats Off!! Bravo Zulu! The only thing I would add is that while it is indeed OK to respond to personal opposition without being overshadowed by others; its also good to try to respond tactfully by either, no response at all or by adding positives as well as negatives after being shot with overarching/overreaching negatives. Try to use non-offensive taste and tact while offering our thoughts and opinions to others. I also realize that some people can dish it out-- but can't take it. And, perhaps at times taking it will enable us to SEE our own imperfections in a different light. Lastly, as Christians and as Godly (femine) examples, it is Never, Ever ok to use profanity. I realize that this comes naturally, given our fallen nature's, but in God's eyes it is not part of his good, perfect and acceptable will for our lives. However, it is important to be filled with the Spirit of the God to develop the true nature of God, which starts within us. This kind of adornment is spoken of in the bible as you touched on in your divinity versus Godly feminity video. Thanks So Much for sharing Jasmyn!! We do need more of this kind of content on a practical level, sharing and expressing biblical truths and the beauty of Holiness --using wisdom that comes from God, not of this world.
Right now it feels femininity is under attack. Ironically as more and more people are self proclaimed feminists they simultaneously seem to attribute feminine acts with weakness. Over sharing, cussing, baring it all are what’s in now and I honestly find it really exhausting. I think about my grandmother. She was feminine, well spoken, dressed elegantly, a mother, but could hold her own in a debate and was well respected at her job at the attorney generals. All without needing to be loud or abrasive
Holy wow my social skills are not as attuned as I thought they were! I’ve spent so much time around masculine women that I’ve become obnoxious and out of touch with everyone but myself. This is a wonder to reprogram some things
Some of these my husband needs to hear 😅 he interrupts, looks at his phone while I’m trying to converse, and answers back oh yeah, right, uh huh. Not engaging at all even when he thinks (says) he is. Most of the time I don’t feel heard.
So glad I found your channel where have you been when I needed you 40 years ago I know your not that age but we older women missed you, thank you for helping the young ones, ladies take heed to every word she says she speaks the truth just listen & pay attention ❤
Just want to point out that interruption is cultural - there are certain social differences and I think it’s equally gracious to understand when someone else has a different framework for what “polite” and “engaging” conversation is and compromise
Hmm… I’d say, in return, that just because something is “cultural” doesn’t make it okay. I think it’s pretty clear that needless interruption in general is rude. Why not wait for the person to finish? It’s communicating that you think what you have to say is more important than what they have to say.
