Someone who... 1. goes home to someone else. 2. Lacks self control 3. Lacks accountability 4. Starts arguments and leaves 5. Only and always speaks negative about their past partners 6. Have trust issues-questions everything 7. Has nothing to show-no regard for time 8. Claims they've never been in love 9. Complains about EVERYTHING- (CONTINUAL UNHAPPINESS) 10. IS JUST LIKE YOU- DIFFERENCE AND CHALLENGE ARE NEEDED
@@monicajohnson3626 yes get a dog you will love them and it's your first step learning what unconditional love feels like. Ps. Dog is God backwards and they both have unconditional love. Good luck.
Kirk you are absolutely right!! #6. I never cheated on my ex, but he would go thru my ph, questioned me about every single thing! I am so glad to be away from that Toxic mess!
I also dated 1 who would check my phone after we started dating for like a week and deleted photos of my ex or male friends saying he doesn't like them. And he was younger than me but he controlled me❌️
#6 it’s my belief that people with trust issues and I think it’s safe to say that more people than not have trust issues and it’s only when someone’s behaviour is brought to light that it triggers the trauma that cause the distrust in the first place
Good luck on dating Jesus. People will experience life at different stages of life and its not based on age. Who im i to judge you because you finally brought a house at 60, or you haven't found true love until you was 40. Thank God! Your timing its not my timing. What God has for you will be for you and it might be at 70. Its no perfect person or situation. Love who treats you right, and respect you. Keep living life and if you waiting for Mr. Perfect or Ms. perfect good luck and please let me know how that work out for you. Life is the best teacher and what work for you at 30 may not work for me at 20. We all fall short of his glory.
Jokes aside, 💯 good advice. Yes detachment and being ok with the end result is where you want to be,and where we need to be, after all our love of our lives is with us, nothing is greater than us ❤
You are right on point about All ten. Ive been through every last one of them with different individuals and they had to be dropped like a hot potato. I don't play games with these psychos. Im not for the foolery.
One question, how about if we like some of the same things. But once again you are right on the money on all of the ten things for me. I get it. For 65 yrs of my life some of these people have come across my path
#8 This one just stung me. I wish I would have known your channel earlier. Just 3 weeks earlier. I would have ran far, far away. He said he never loved anymore before, even after having 2 kids... He told me what I wanted to hear, we talked about God all the time, and then he ghosted me after sex 4 months later. We made it exclusive and all a week prior to sex..... What a fake person.
Thanks Kirk! These are 💎s Don’t Date These 10 People #1: Someone who goes home to someone else everyday (BM/BD, Ex GF/Ex BF, etc.) #2: Someone who lacks self-control #3: Someone who doesn’t take accountability for their actions or their words #4: Someone who starts arguments and then leaves #5: Someone who only and always talks trash about their Ex partners #6: Someone who has trust issues #7: Someone with nothing to show for all the years for being on this planet #8: Someone who claims they never been in love #9: Someone who complains about everything #10: Someone who is just like you
Haai my guy, that last one, Yo, haai. Not sure if I agree 😅 Too different can be exhausting. I prefer similar, maybe not the same but similar. Harmony please. I once dated a complainer, haai bo, exhausting. Never again.
I've been 3,4 and 9. I couldn't be accountable for my actions and was always spiraling whenever they called me out. I always went to my ex-boyfriend's house to argue my point, after forgetting certain details return to say what I left out🤦♀️yet he was the serial cheater and I didn't cheat so I thought storming out would help😅 I was always complaining because I was unhappy and even if someone, did me something special I couldn't be grateful or shown appreciation. I was very sad and a mess
But since I've been single I stopped complaining and started taking accountability for my actions and life. Now I'm happy and at peace with myself. I let the external environment control how I felt and reacted which was wrong...from the on set. After I decided to be single I also did research on whether or not I am a narcissist and your videos help me understand where I went wrong. So I can't take my bs to the next relationship😊. 6 months all by myself has taught me alot❤