As an INTJ alas other women do hate us...in my childhood years my besties were boys then in high school college and through work i met awesome women who im still very close to.🥰
My wife -> INTJ Me -> INTP Together we complement our strengths and weaknesses to make a powerful team that is ALWAYS growing ever sense we first meet.12+ years and counting. And yes we both go against the grain of society and it's amazing to have her in my life. Random tangent done.........
I’m an INTJ, and I’m constantly in my head coming up with future research innovations about topics such as marine biogeography, urban planning, economics, and autonomous underwater vehicle (AUV) development. My partner is an ISTP who can kick my butt in Pokemon battles in about five minutes (even though I have planned them out about two weeks in advance), and prevents me from bumping into trees.
This makes it seem like INTJ women are born of myths and legends! But in reality we are very ordinary and boring 😂 Edit: wow some people are getting hurt and lashing out 😂 boring and ordinary are relative and can never describe the inner world or accomplishments of an INTJ. But to the casual people with no substance of their own we look ordinary.
Now I know why the judge thanked and excused me from jury duty after I said that sometimes ignorance of the law is an excellent excuse, and backed it up with my reasons when he asked me why. I'm exactly the type you'd want on a jury if you want anything approaching justice, so I'm afraid he was more concerned about a hung jury.
@@moniquefleming3738The only problem being, if we need a jury of our INTJ peers, we may not get one. Although, I suspect we might find a defense attorney or two, but whether they can sway a jury as well as sway a judge...still depends on the jury. I've decided it makes sense to serve if at all possible as it's the only place my vote really can make a difference.
This helps us all so much when we feel like a misfit and get so upset by simple logical “that is not right” when faced with situations of a simple right or wrong… and us asking ourselves the problem with no feelings behind it that it simply just doesn’t make sense. Feeling like it’s best to work by yourself because everyone else takes their time, wastes time, does it in a more difficult way instead of completing the task perfectly in the smartest approach. Does anyone else get super internally heated when someone talks to you as if you’re an idiot when in fact you could just open your mouth with a novel of facts in systematic order of events on why they are incorrect and is just wanting to send them the pdf of your mental thesis on why they are in fact an idiot and what specifically they can work on to better themselves and their growth to move forward… because same 😅 I have to remove myself from rooms at work so I can visually see the stupidity or hear it for a second so I don’t go into full boss mode.
Also I feel like I’m forever the “what’s going on, how can I help you” 100 times a day because I can sense their energy is off and instead of being miserable let’s not look at complaining about the problem, let’s look at possible solutions so we can all live in a happy environment. When a person just wants to be a problem and there’s absolutely no solution, it’s debilitating like let me just SOLVE this already, just move out of my way. Use your brain, something as simple as something tangled, broken needing to be fixed, my brain just solves the problem so quickly and I have to stand their with the employees acting dumb until they can connect the dots when I speak to them and they still can’t get it, I’m internally dying inside in the time I explained the intro in basic terms I could have just solved this problem and be already done not talking about it. Sometimes I find myself trying to make a joke and being like “hahaha just move out of my way and I’ll do it no worries” is my only way to approach it like I can’t handle it anymore please just move so I can fix it 😅😅
I hear INTJ's are attracted, more than any other type, to persons of the same type, rather than opposites. I believe this is true because two like-minded introverts can go to parties as split the extrovert load, and they'll be ready to leave at the same time (J). They're in the same universe (N, not S), and given the universe of facts being perceived the same, recognize the logical (T) truth. (Plus, they know about the MBTI and use it in every day conversation because of how elegantly logical it is.) Humanity doesn't need a huge number of INTJ's giving directions from the crow's nest, because it'll rock the boat too much. That said, INTJ's are really useful to groups, unless the group is overweighted with them (see the Libertarian Party, a political party for people who hate politics--right, but early to seeing where politics was headed). However, in a personal relationship, if you can see over the horizon, you really don't want a 24/7 life partner who can't. A group can appreciate an INTJ only after they've proven themselves over and over again unless that INTJ is very skilled at communicating with other types. Personal relationships may not last long enough for the group to trust an INTJ (many have been executed before being found correct).
Yep. We like hanging out with other INTJs. But INTJ for a relationship - no go. I’ve a very friends, and two of them are INTJ. We meet few rarely, but I know I can trust them. If I got into any problem, they’re just a phone call away
@@train_xc Yes, very wise. I'm always very aware that sometimes I hurt people's feelings (without that intention), but can't change that other than to distance myself and talk less, as the only alternative to lying to them outright (I believe this the height of insult; to lie is to say they can't understand or handle the truth). I can't imagine having an intimate relationship where I could not express what I think or where my partner kept the truth from me -- especially since they should know I'm open to having new evidence or logic supplied and applied. In a close relationship, I have the power to make most people miserable, and if not them, then myself. But another INTJ shouldn't be a problem. I had two in my family besides me, and the communication was pretty intuitive with few misunderstandings and no grudges! We often talked about how to better communicate to the other types! Every family should have an ISTJ (like my mom, if you want the children to survive and thrive and get their taxes filed), and other types for their aptitudes and qualities. INTJ's are rare and don't occur in every family, but we're on-call as you said.
My 20 year friend asked me if i always achieve my goals, since i do. I laughed and told her most of some of those goals started at childhood, or 10 to 15 years of planning. We are exacting in our plans to accomplishments. I recently bought my 3000sqft home in the woods on land at 64. Joyfully, blissfully happy.
I actually completely a SWOT analysis on myself. I listed non-conformity and not blindly following anyone, including authority, as strengths.. 😆 😊 We are keen on what our weaknesses are and constantly seeks ways to improve.
Maybe I am an intj. I bought every color or the same leggins and a shirt to match. AND I LOVE POCKETS IN A DRESS AND I BOUGHT ONE IN EVERY COLOR😂 and still looking for them for those pocketed dresses
I tested INTJ twice. I even tried the test with this dating app but I quit cause it was boring lol. It says there that I am an INTJ. (Sounds accurate for me because they were able to tell what I am like and what I really like) But when I saw the first reason- Ahh... maybe all the tests were wrong 😂😂 I am bad at Math. It even takes time for me to calculate even in my head.
@divinityomine6935 I know, right 🥹🥹. I only know a small range of vocabulary as basic English. It's not even my first language, but who cares right. It's probably because I didn't memorize the whole dictionary to expand my knowledge and gain a wide range of vocabulary. That's why I'm lacking 🥹🥹🥹.
@@9825xTreasureas you see, in my first language, I say things people don't get. I use pure form and they be like "what?" It's okay to have English as Second language. We will improve as we learn.
I am definitely scarce. Found it amusing that as far back as the sixth grade, my teacher commented on my report card that I have a love for learning. I by no means find myself to be a genius and consider myself to be as wise as my best teacher. I do have a hunger for learning.
The way society blindly follows authority is insane. People just blindly follow authority, even if they are corrupt? I am too intelligent to follow blindly. Having critical thinking abilities are a plus, not a negative. Most individuals don't have critical thinking abilities. Luckily, I am well educated and intelligent. Can't help that I am of a higher consciousness. Lower consciousness is most definitely different from lower consciousness. Our conversations, thinking style, behavior, characteristics, values, and beliefs are different. Lower consciousness is dark and higher consciousness is light and of healing. Then lower consciousness always wonders why they are always surrounded by constant destruction? I am solution orientated and most definitely built different. While most whine and complain, I am the one running around getting things done. If one wants a bad leader and a blind follower, please don't chose me. 🙅 I bring healing, guidance, and higher consciousness. I am grateful to take on all evolved MBTI's and all my different gifts. I believe everything has many layers and there is always a spectrum in every situation. Good and bad. Unaware and aware. Evolved / unevolved / or able to practice both. Light and shadow. (Spectrum) Most individuals don't even know to practice their shadow or light balance correctly. One has to understand how to properly use their balance and I frequently see individuals use it wrong. Just because one has balance of light and shadow doesn't mean one is practicing it correctly. Btw, one has to master their darkness to get to purity. Purity is Christ consciousness, love, and enlightenment, without healthy emotional, psychological, and spiritual health. Unattainable. Like I said many times, one has to be able to help oneself and others to fight the spiritual war on the 3D. ✌️🧐
.8% means you'd only find about one in about three classrooms of 30 random students. If it was a science class, there might be more. Of course, in the general population, our ages would be all over the place. My point is, yes, we're relatively rare, but as my INTJ Dad used to say, "Relative to what?" It is true that Introverts often wait to weigh in on conversations. But I was at home in a classroom and capable of taking 40% of the conversation if it was interesting. then I read that most conversations are carried in large part by 2 individuals, and since they often take opposing sides, or catch what the other has missed, the remainder of the group only contributes about 10% (or something like that--read it last century). I decided to test it out in the classroom one time, and not say anything when I normally did much of the heavy lifting (having read the assigned book). It took a little while before someone else took up the slack, but they did. Did you know that the Sun revolves around the Earth? Relative to me, it does. And what's with all the "No ___ beyond this point" signs? Don't they know it takes two points to establish a line? Everything is beyond that point. Point being, we might be relatively rare, but being essential to the survival of the species, we aren't that uncommon.
Yeah we or I find Things funny. When my grandkids act bad and have to be yelled or talk to about there behavior I see the underlining things of her being manipulated or lieing to get out of trouble so I don't see the surface of what she does that allows most people to be stern. I see the underlining of what she is doing that I find funny. Or maybe im both infj and an intj. I just hope im not dumb like hillary
What i find so strange is what life consequences caused me to have this personality, coz i definately know i was not always like this. So, its rlly weird ngl. Also, i work part time jobs and have a manager like most ppl, i think ppl assume u will be a rebel but lol, thats far from truth. Also, i cannot maintain friendships coz i work so much better on my own that i basically dont call them, yeah its can be rlly lonely bc u am do focused on school and work.
That is soo true.... I used to be an INFJ in 10th grade... I used to feel and empathise with other people it came naturally to me... But after that i grew up and as my life got more stressful i started to focus on thinking naturally without letting my emotions control me... But i still have some feelings left
It won't be accurate. This kind of personality and mental test would be accurate only if that person is honest with themselves. Even adults might have difficulties regarding the test for we are often unsure of certain things. Let alone a kid that still developing. Personality does not pop up out of nowhere. Yeah, there are certain traits that each individual is born with, but we also are influenced by the environment we grow up in. There would be not much difference but as one individual became more mature and stable so did their personality. I did have a little bit of change from E and I traits as young adults before settling with the I parts 😂 Well, I guess it's better to treat our children with a more open approach. They can be anything they want and grow to be whatever adults they wish. (Of course not in a negative way) And putting labels such as MBTI would limit their development. We can not put humans into boxes. MBTI alone is not enough because each individual has a different story, experience, and way to accept things. We are unique in our own way. MBTI mere tool to get close to that understanding. But it can't define us as a whole.
Possible because the cognitive functions are identical, just rearranged in a different order. Im INTJ dating ENTJ, there are obvious differences in our personalities to easily distinguish us. For instance, my Ni is way more enhanced and complicated, where his Ni is very limited and restricted to helping his Te.
May my personal experience resonate with you. MBTI was a thing when I was in Uni and my first test came up ENTJ. It was always an ENTJ during my Uni life so I thought that much. After done with Uni and quarantine began during the Pandemic, I found myself becoming more introverted during the isolation. It continued and after two years I took another test and it turned out INTJ. I, of course, took another test every two months 😂 I just couldn't believe it. I kind of perceive that my introversion comes together with the social anxiety I got during isolation. It's been a year or more, but yeah I think a lot about it. I kind of admit that I was an INTJ all along. The 'E' that had been part of me during my school life was like a mask I used to get what I wanted. It is necessary! Compared to the real extroverted friend I ever met, mine was obviously limited or some called it an ambivert. And the more I learn about the traits of an INTJ, the more I have to admit I am an INTJ and yeah it is what it is. 😅
Not in this world 🤣. They are shy and not easily noticed. When you do talk to one their straight forward emotionless answers will make you think they are not interested. You have better odds winning the lottery.
@@JohnDoe-xd7he Nah mate, we ain't shy. Rather, we're not really frivolous with our energy. So you won't find us entertaining random strangers. That's about it.
@@shemac1482they love unemotional woman. They want us hot and stupid tho. They can't handle a very intelligent woman. Their fragile egos can't take it.
Stating the obvious much? INTJs often have strong self awareness. We know these things. This video could still be useful for other types wanting to know us though.
