10 THINGS A FILIPINA FEARS When Dating a Foreigner 

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I'm American who married a Filipina. She is the nicest most kind hearted person I have ever known. She is also very pretty too though she doesn't think so. We have been together for 12 years now and hope to stay together for the rest of our lives.

Filipina women are not inferior in any way at all. To me, they are the epitome of grace and beauty.

I married my filipina at age 52 and now three years married, i am one truly blessed man! I will just point one thing out I believe filipinas have over western women, that is filipinas seem to have the two ingredients for lasting love, that being commitment and dedication, characteristics I share as well. I know there are snakes in all cultures, but if you are blessed to find a good filipina you are blessed indeed. I won't even get into the beauty of a filipina. I am a permanent resident in the Philippines and don't plan to ever reside anywhere else. Great videos Pea I enjoy them :-)

I was dating a Filipina and this clears everything up. Thank you for the insight Pea. Dope content 💜💜💜

Filipina women are too hard on themselves when in reality they’re they most beautiful amazing women on earth ! Thank u for sharing!

I've been married to a Filipina lady for over 12 years and over the years I've been patient and understanding with her insecurities knowing she was in a different culture and country! And have always treated her with respect and kindness!! I could care less what her bra size is or if there's some junk in the trunk, I measure her how she treats me and what's in her heart NOT how fancy she looks!! I'm proud of her and her achievements adapting to our culture and I wouldn't think of measuring her up to an American woman!!! There's NO comparison in my book!! After being married to two different American woman for a total of 40 years, SHE WINS HANDS DOWN!! I'm in my "Golden years" now and she takes care of me like a king!! I want for nothing and couldn't have found a more loving woman!! God truly blessed me!! My last step in life will be moving over to her country which I've been to twice, and set her up in her own home which she owns and where I can draw my last breath smiling, quietly, with her loving family there to watch over her after I'm gone!! And by the way I'm Not "diluted" In my thinking!! She deserves this as she's the ONLY woman that has ever treated me with love and respect ever in my life!! (Hands Down) American woman just don't get it!! sorry, but from day one they've always been demanding, selfish, immature and self centered!! Even though I busted my ass to provide all their needs, I always came in last!! The Lord has truly blessed me and my prayers to him always reflect that!!..........

I must've REALLY been blessed when I met my asawa then; the night we met she was upfront with me about her past -- her ENTIRE past. That she had a child out of wedlock to a Filipino, based on the typical false promises. That she'd had her share of boyfriends -- three steadies altogether, I was the fourth. And one thing she and I both had in common -- being so tired of having our hearts broken we weren't looking for anyone at all. Such an irony that only four months later we were married -- with a LOT to learn about each other, but it wasn't for lack of knowledge about each other's past. I guess her honesty -- or perhaps OUR honesty -- set the stage for a successful marriage of 42 years. May God rest her soul.

1. Our past 3:27 2. The physical fears 4:39 3. The imaginary fear 7:06 4. Relationship fears 8:24 5. Breast size 12:28

I'm Aussie, married to a Filipina who is a native Higaonon tribeswoman in Mindanao, and living in Cagayan de Oro with her. She is a fluent speaker of English and five Filipino languages. She is 56 years old, and I am 64. She had 7 daughters with her first husband, a Filipino, who died n 1999 aged only 34. She was pregnant just after she turned 17. After my first wife died in Australia in 2015, I met her sister in my hometown, and she introduced us. Her second husband, an American 22 years older than her, had suffered a stroke in 2010, was bedridden, and she nursed him until he died in late 2016. When we first chatted she told me her story, and I told her mine, and our relationship blossomed quickly, communicators. We met online in March 2017, she came to me in Australia in late April 2017, and we married there in June 2017. I realized she wanted to work but could not do so in Australia, and she had trouble with the cold winters where I lived. So I decided to retire and move to the Philippines with her. We have a small house and she runs a family business producing made-to-order furniture. Her five surviving daughters have one son and five daughters of their own between them. My wife looks more like 40 than 56. She is 5 feet 2 inches and actually her breast size is in the Caucasian range (somewhere close to D). She has beautiful "small eyes", a round face and a small nose. Yes, she has dark armpits and some hair on the upper lip, and all her teeth are false. So what? It's the heart that really matters in the end! She is loyal to a tee, hard working, and always helps those worse off than her when she can. We are too old for more children, and our relationship is not based on sex. I have copped the occasional flak online from Aussie guys who say "Why are you in the Philippines? Couldn't get an Aussie hey?". I love my wife, she loves me, and we both changed our lives to be together. QED!

A different perspective: my wife and her filipina friends went on a road trip to Dallas to go shopping,about a 300 mile total trip. All the other husbands kept calling their wives to see when they would be home. At 9:30 I laid down on the couch and fell asleep.Next morning Gerda told me about the calls and asked why I didn't call. Honey, I trust you and knew you'd be home when you got home. If something happened you would have called me.Why stress over something that shouldn't be stressed over? I'm almost 60 and Honey is 48. Not kids anymore and trust has been earned.

Dear Pea, I am awestruck and swept away by your candor, maturity, and insight. You are a very rare and shining gem. I hope that your man knows and appreciates what a treasure you are. Incredible sense of humor too.

I have a Filipina fiance who is 41 and looks like she is in her 20's. She is so beautiful, though she doesn't think so. She has even thought she was ugly because of the cultural stigmas you talked about. I remind her how beautiful she is daily even when I showed her pictures to my American coworkers they thought she was beautiful as well and I told her that. She is not only beautiful she is so kind, caring and smart. She knows I love her inside and out and we are looking forward to be married soon. Thanks for your videos and the insight that helps me love her even more.

Filipinos are some of the most beautiful women in the world and any man who finds himself with one should be very proud.

Filipinas also fear being rejected for having dark brown skin, which ironically most foreign men find more attractive than the white(r) skin of western women.

I need to go to the Philippines ASAP. The women their seems so nice, sooo pretty, and have traditional values, unlike their western counterparts who don't know how to make a man feel like a man. To the filipinas- We thank you so much for rescuing our sanity from these western women. Thank you my beautiful filipinas❣️

This video just made me fall further in love with my Filipino. I had no idea about most of this. Thank you for making this video this really helped me a lot to understand what my fiancé said to me in the beginning of our relationship.

Know that in America, the Women freak when they see an American Man look to Asia for a Woman and Wife. The competition shows up their own inadequacies. I was fired when my white female boss found out that I was dating a Filipina from a neighboring department. I was a Supervisor in an Insurance company and a week earlier was told how important I was to the department. I also body guarded that lady to and from her car after having to terminate some guy. Losing that job was a real hardship but that Filipina from Pangasinan kept me going; we married.- she is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Her family was already here when we met and they have been great too.

What makes me really happy My 3 kids in the US calls my wife mom The first time they called her mom my wife had tears of Joy

Amazing video! Makes me want a Filipina woman in my life more just so I can prove to her that perception of herself to be not wrong and not something to worry about. I don’t think any Filipina is unattractive at all! I guess I’m smitten. It’s nice to know these things though. It will help me understand Filipinas better. I want to show them not only respect, but also compassion. There is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING wrong with them. That’s why I’m on a Christian Fililipina dating website. They are,as a whole, just as good if not a woman that is best suited for me.

Pea, this was a great episode. It really hurts to know that Filipina women have such feelings of being expendable, even at the top of their beauty. You are beautiful people both inside and out. Thanks for being so honest and transparent. I love your content.

You cut straight to truth with no bias. You’re more wise than your years.

As a Western man, this video just broke my heart. I had no idea that Pinays thought those horrible things about themselves. We like you exactly as you are. There are many shallow and insincere people on both sides that make it difficult for those of us who are looking for love and a real romance. Sex is important but, in the long term, it's much more important to find your best friend.

Thanks for making this video. It helped me understand what happened to break off a serious relationship I had. It wasn't with a Filipina, but I think your perspectives, or at least some, apply far more broadly than just Fiipinas. It's almost like you were saying the exact words my ex said, in terms of fearing I'd leave her. I wanted to offer a counter perspective addressing what you said about "fear nothing much prevents [a guy] leaving for another new option." There are many reasons a guy wouldn't leave. The biggest is (some) guys can recognize and respect loyalty plus sacrifice. Guys and girls have inverse power when it comes to age. Girls have the most power when they're young, and this decreases as they age. With guys it's the opposite, since the older a guy is (before being too old) the more wisdom, resources, and ability he likely has. So when a female 'gives herself' to a guy the guy often values that especially if he isn't yet well established. Quality and caring guys would continue valuing and respecting that even as both people aged. Second, nobody can turn back the clock on life experiences. So a guy knows he can never have the same experience with someone else because he will age and change all his circumstances (and abilities) as time goes on. That means that regardless of his female partner aging, she remains in his mind for experiences at key times of his life. No new replacement could do that. Not all guys are the same, though. I'm sure there is some good reason to have that "replacement fear" for females. That's why it's important females choose wisely. Some personality types are less likely to hop around than others.

I have been binge watching your videos over the last few days and they are FANTASTIC! I spent some time in Vincenzo A Sagun, attending a traditional Subanen wedding for my Western "brother from another mother". I'm so glad that I found your channel as I was considering singing a rendition of "My Way" on my next trip to the Province!!! You may have saved my life Pea - thanks!!! By the way, you are hilarious! I almost spat coffee all over my laptop when you broke from "happily ever after" and into paranoia about crow's feet etc. :) Keep the videos coming please!!

If you want a Filipina, get one who is raised modestly in the Philippines. Majority of Westernized Filipina behaves just like non-Filipina, so beware.

The best thing that ever happened to me with women was to marry my beautiful Pinay... She's by far the best wife in the world, and yes, she didn't realize how beautiful she is!

My brother moved to the phillipines to be with his fiancé that’s why I watch your videos to get to know your culture better for when I visit them! And I love your humor! You are knowledgeable about the cultures you talk and compare about! Lots of love from Canada❤

Listening to Pea describe all those fears, it hit me that she must be going through that as well! Makes me wish I could give her a friendly bear hug, tell her everything will be okay, she will meet someone and have her happily ever after! Thank you for posting what must be a very personal video for you Pea.

I have been married to a filipina for ten years. The best ten years of my life.

I hear Filipina girls are scared a different Filipina will steal their man. Ladies let me tell you if a man truly loves you then you have nothing to worry about. Just take your time getting to know him to make sure he’s real and serious and not just fooling around or playing games

I’m really trying to understand my wife better. We’ve been fighting but this video makes me want to learn more and treat her like the queen she is! Thank you

One of the funniest, most entertaining and honest youtube-channels out there. Filipina-Pea! You make my day!

the one thing I realize some of us Western men have in common with Filipinas. Many of us have been used, taken advantage of, and then discarded by women in the West that makes us apprehensive to make a commitment to a Filipina. In our mind, "why would someone so beautiful want to stay with me?" using American standards, we have little money, we have flaws that cannot be hidden, we are basically discarded goods. So when quite possibly the most beautiful girl you have ever dated (not judged by blindness of love, look at photos LOL) says they want a forever relationship with you, a Western man can get scared. "is it happening again, how long before as Pea put it, a shiny new model is on the lot?" Leaving you lighter in the wallet and emptier in the heart. As an amputee it is my greatest fear. That one morning, a younger, wealthier, healthier stallion will entice that love and she will walk away. But it's a fear I must overcome, because the only way to never have your heart broken is to never risk it in the first place. That's creates an even emptier life.

The "insecurities" explain why my wife says "you know I love you, right?" a million times a day! There is nothing she should be insecure about! I'd be crazy to leave her by the side of the road and get a new model. She's the best ride I've ever had!

Times flyes, it was 5-6 months ago when I first discored this channel and it has reaaally grown and in 4 days I'll flight to the Philippines to meet my Filipina, we have been communicating almost every day for the last 4 months :) Thanks Pea I was really depressed with women here cause those last 3 years I haven't been able to find at least an average one, this is crazy. So yeah, lets surf, buy a motorcycle, buy good food, meet her family and maybe getting married

Thank you for being honest and kind. You’re the best!

Okay, my wife and I enjoyed this like we enjoy so many of your videos. That said, we found your examples a bit weird. The armpit thing especially. My Filipina looked at me and said, WHAT? Now, admittedly my wife and I are not your typical Filipina / Western man relationship. That we will both readily admit. We met at the UCSD. She an Accounting and Finance student and me, an EE student. But, she is a Filipina born and raised in the Philippines. Not just that, she was a girl raised in The Province. She's from Negros Oriental. The very first College Graduate in her family. The entire family sacrificed for her. Recognizing her potential and all pitching in to support it. When she applied for and was granted a full scholarship to UCSD based on her academics her family was in shock. But, she was still a young Filipina from The Province. And, getting that young, intelligent girl to let down her guard took quite a bit of persistence. She was so shy it was something I had never encountered before. I thought, how can a girl with so much intelligence be so shy and demure? I discovered it was my uniform. I was an ROTC student. Specifically, Marine ROTC. She was fascinated AND totally intimidated. Long story short, my Filipina became an incredibly accomplished professional. A Corporate CFO here in the USA. And, the wife of a career military man and mother of 4 children. And, she will tell anyone who listens that as a child growing up in The Province she never ever imagined such a thing was ever possible. I am one very Proud and Lucky man to have been so fortunate to have met and married this incredible Filipina from The Province.

I’ve been with my Philippines girlfriend for three years. She is the most wonderfully delightful woman I’ve ever met. Her friends and family are such friendly welcoming people you could ever meet. Life has been great since meeting her, I’m so lucky.

Only just came across your channel and it's very enjoyable to watch. I laughed so much when you drew that chart toward the end 😂😂

Your adorable pea! Thank you for your honesty! I love a woman for who she truly is within, appearance is always a bonus. In other words true unconditional love.

When a western man comes to find a wife there in phillipines we don’t want that of western women most been burned by that kinda woman ! We love Filipina way they are !

I really enjoy your channel. After almost 10 years of marriage, I still reassure my magandang asawa na babae that I will always love her and have no plans to trade her off. A good Filipina is a treasure to be kept and show off to your friends and family.

Great video, FP...👍

I truly enjoy your channel, it’s both enlightening and entertaining. When you said Pea, I thought that’s what you meant. Some guys think much more than a mouthful is too much! I love your straightforward brutal honesty. It’s so refreshing. When I discovered you here, it was love at first sight! Keep up the excellent work!

Wow, Thank you so much for the insight.. I have finally met "the one" , she has shared some of these fears with me. She is past the "expiration date" as you said, has a child, but she is honest, beautiful on the inside and out. I watch all of your videos to get a better insight in your culture. You are an inspiration. Keep up the good work.

A few years back I went into a coffee shop . The server was a Filipina who had limited English , obviously very recently in canada , it was -30 degree's that day and I asked how long she had been in this country. She replied ,10 days , quite a temp shock . Being old enough to be her grandfather I didn't feel that she would feel I was to forward if I engaged in conversation I chatted with her about her coming to this country , and she told me she came to get married . I remarked on her having a fiance , and she said she had not met anyone yet , so I told her I thought it might take a bit longer than the 6 months before her visa ran out to meet,fall in love and marry. She replied that she was going to meet someone and marry , and he would never have reason to regret it , that she would learn to love him , but it was not necessary beforehand . Couple years later I ran into her in a grocery store , with a big , bearded Caucasian guy he was pushing a baby carriage and she was expecting another . The guy looked very content and paternal and I thought she was making him the happiest man on earth. On a side note in the same store that day I saw 2 other Filipina women , with Canadian husband's , all looked like it was love . My stepson has had some poor relationships , and my wife keeps saying that she wishes he and our daughter would just meet some nice partner from the Philippines . She thinks that a spouse from there is the best chance of happiness

Clever take on subject! Good script, very impressed.

Brilliant, funny and honest. I’m really glad I found this channel.

Damn girl where were you 30 years ago? Beautiful, intelligent,funny the whole package.

You are truly an "old soul" with a magnetic personality. Your teaching abilities far outweigh most vloggers and I'm highly anticipating your new book. 3 Thumbs Up!!

Thanks Pea for being so honest and open. It is so refreshing to hear. If men want to play around, they should have the courage to be open about it in the beginning 😔.

OMG I adore you! I am in a new long distance relationship with a Filipina. A first for me. I am 13 years her senior and have a lot of concerns. Your channel has given me a different perspective and eliminated many of the doubts I had been feeling. Thank You!

I have been to the Philippines twice and enjoy being there each time, my last visit I met the love of my life, she is beautiful and has a heart of gold!

I’ll take “A” Filipina over a “D American” every time ❤️

Pea…You are incredible. I love to listen to your analysis. This is awesome! Keep doing these please 🙏🏾

Fun, funny and informative!!! love it!!!

What Ex-Pat's fear with good reason is being a "Bank" for Filipina women and their entire family sometimes several generations...

I'm married to a Filipina (from Cebu), and I can say that everything in this video is absolutely true. You'll never find a better woman than a Filipina

I am so beyond happy with my Filipina I encourage her to communicate with her family back home and abroad I look forward to when I am around the same group of people that have made her the success she is I pray for a woman like this the lord gave me far beyond what I asked and she likewise.

Wow.... I love this video.... .... So much insight I wouldn't never considered. Subbed.

15 years now married to a pinay. We live in Hong Kong and Philippines. Wouldn't trade her for anything.

You know Pea ... it is so refreshing to me to embrace a date who has a concern about little stuff. Thumbs ups 👍👍

oh man that was great with the chart.. you have a great channel.. lots of humor and reality..

You are so incredibly open and insightful

I have been to the Philippines 6 times I loved it there and the people are the best!

Outstanding English language fluency. Pity a lot of the people in England or the USA don't speak English this well. How did you manage to get it this polished ? Well done anyway.

I know this is an old video but you really made my day. The truth is we are like you we want a good relationship. Everyone gets old. The saying that comes to mind is beauty is on the outside but ugly goes to the bone. Meaning a bad personality is worse than all the things everybody is fearing. Thanks for you doing your channel

Hey I like your makeup at the last part of the video. That color lipstick looks good on you :)

For myself i am proud of my wife and the things we have accomplished My wife is in missouri USA right now waiting for the mess to clear up

She got a great sense of humor, great content!

You did a good job enlightening us on Phillipine culture/ fears etc.... I really think you should write a book or two....you sounds very capable 💯

You’re a gem! Keep making these great videos!

Having lived in San Francisco for a lot of my life I dated Filipina ladies almost exclusively…I absolutely loved them! Some of the most beautiful and genuine ladies out there!! 😍❤️😍

Man...this straight...REAL...and Raw. Takes a mountain of courage to spell all this out. Good on you! 👍🏼☺

I'm loving the content. Coming back soon!

Your hair looks so pretty! Love it pulled back and curled!

I love your humor and intelligence. You seem to have a fighting spirit, too. Greetings from Switzerland.

Was married to a Filipina ( Imelda Baysa) from Samar for 7+ years, I met her in Subic Bay.....long story short we divorced and she’s happier, she got remarried and moved back home, I wasn’t willing to live in the Philippines away from home, she was and still beautiful and most important HAPPY. And I’m HAPPY as well, I still love the Philippines

such great humor and life approach. The joy of pea soup

Brilliant as always, I just love your enthusiasm, good job 👍

I married a Filipina 4 years older than me, the differences in culture was a blast, so many things to learn and discover. After 30 years and one child together I would do it all over again. Our relationship has been based on respect for each others, great communication and sex being great but not the apogee of our love. I have seen her grow from a shy girl to an incredible business woman successfully operating 5 businesses over the years. Today most people believe I am with a younger girl by 20 years at least and are shocked with disbelief when she reveals her age. My observation about filipino women is that they are extremely family oriented, strong, hard working, to the point and loving. I dont envy my Canadian friends relationship one bit. Oh yes, almost forgot, I still dont eat adidas, helmets and ballout but the rest of the cuisine is awesome. My love for her has no bound.

"...whipped cream and swinging from the chandelier." *clears browser history*

Thank you! Much Love!

Your presentation is very good. It is a well-thought-out discussion. Thank you.

Hey this video is awesome.. I am with a Filipina and we have a child together, and i can relate to a lot of what you are saying here.. My partner is lovely, but she does lack confidence sometimes, but you know what? i would not swap her for anybody.. Great channel you got here and i just hit that most important button... Carl

I am sorry that you have had those experiences and they have caused you insecurities. Western women are not all they are cracked up to be. I have been used and abandoned by them. Most have cheated on me and a couple have been physically abusive. I honestly don't know if my love has ever been reciprocated. Some men are shallow and might worry about trivial things but I believe there are men like me who just want someone to love them.

Informative and appreciated keep up the good work

Great video Pea. I really love your honesty!❤️

Thank you for the video. it was an eye opener. I knew about a couple of the issues but was not aware of the true extent of what you call normal Filipina insecurities. I wish more Philippines dating commentators discussed this in their videos. Keep it up. well done and funny too! :)

Actually, girls from your country are mostly caring,devoted and have general "good treatment" for their men. :) Many of them sweet and good looking,too.. Unfortunately,I dont meet much of them here,mostly Chinese woman - its not the same. I should go to the Phillipines...:)

You are a very good youtuber with a good sense of humor. I watched some of your videos and noticed that your opinions are real and unbiased.

Pea, yor videos are getting more funny all the time. So much fun to watch ;-)

This presentation has "60Minutes" quality... Congratulations!

I don’t know why, but hearing you say “tap that” cracked me up.

Thank you so much for passing on all of this crucial information.

Pure and honest, this was well done and we appreciate the Filipinas!

I am a Native American and spent some time in the Philippines back in 1979-81. I absolutely loved the Philippines. I felt safe and at home there. I was mostly in Olongapo and Manila.

I ended up breaking up with the Filipina that I went to PH to meet. I did not give her a son, she had one already. She was not 30, she was 26. I did not compare her to other models and I do not think she did that to me. What brought us to the end was the fact that she became too comfortable. She thought she could manipulate me and get her way in everything. She used tampo as a weapon. I warned her many times and gave her more chances than I should have, because the immigration process was more complex than I imagined. So I fell short and I thought maybe that was aggravating her. She pushed me too far and I was like: Bye. I must disagree about true love. It is not something that you find. It is something that two people build together when they have a dedication to the relationship they are trying to build together. One day I will find the right one. It is just a question of if I will find her online while I still live in the USA or if I will be living in PH when I find her. The pandemic has made things harder than normal. A lot more scammers than I remember, plus people that are truly in need (I am sure).

Thank you so very much. I learned so much and what I learned will stay with me forever and with the Filapina lady that I truly love