MAID IN THE PHILIPPINES / The Most Valuable Asset - A Filipina Maid! 

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When my wife was sick i hired a Filipina housekeeper. She worked for us for a few years and became a part of the family. Such a nice lady i could tell many stories of all the little things she did above and beyond what was required. I will never forget that wonderful lady😊

Great topic Miss Pea. When I was stationed in Philippines the going rate for a house girl was 10 dollars a month. Our house girl became part of our family and we stayed in contact for years after I left. Our girl was a young filipina without much education or future. We treated her very well and she treated us good. Usually at the end of the month we would buy her some article of trailer made clothes. On weekends I would give her money for the movie and a treat afterwards. She was a live in and I never had to worry about theft or dishonesty from her. I know that’s not always the case. We really missed that when we came back to the states. My one word of advice is guys don’t boink your house girl. It’s always trouble.

A note of caution: try to avoid hiring a housekeeper from your sweetheart's close family. That can introduce a set of problems that you may not want to deal with. One is that she doesn't quite work out and you want to replace her, leading to conflict with your sweetheart over a family member losing a source of income and loss of hiya. The other is it can sometimes generate a feeling of excessive privilege, with the housekeeper assuming she can get away with behavior just because she is "family". Another is that, because it's her family member, your girlfriend can automatically take the housekeeper's side in any disagreement with you and suddenly it becomes two against one in your home. I'm not saying it never works, because that same exact situation works fine for us. But we've had decades to deal with the issues also.

My father was stationed at Subic Bay for three years when I was a child. I remember the maid taking care me and with kindness. I was treated by her as her child. She would take me shopping with her out in the city, it was a great learning experience. Later in my life, I was in the Navy and when our sub had up keep there, I would live in the town and always made sure a maid was included. She took care of everything I would just give her money and everything was done. She even would try to find me a wife, a good girl as she would say. I got spoiled by this kind of life, when I worked in the Philippines after the Navy, I was there for a few years, and of course I had a maid. I got lucky, she was young and beautiful, I couldn't resist her charm and care. So now my maid is my wife.

I had a house cleaner that came 3 times a week. She kept bring her daughters to help until I promoted her from head housekeeper to mommy-in-law.

I remember being deployed to the Philippines as a young sailor and meeting a guy who had been stationed there for some time. He lived off base and had a maid (later I found out she took care of more than his household needs as well). He invited me over one day and I saw how he treated her (poorly). Needless to say I didn't hang around him after that. Remember: Treat others as you would want to be treated. Definitely one of my favorite videos of yours, Miss Pea. I'd love to see a video on hiring a driver/yard maintenance man as well. Thanks!

Although I have been retired in Central America rather than the Philippines for a long time, the scope and excellence of your advice applies perfectly here. It might take several tries before you find a suitable housekeeper, but it can be well worth the time and effort. Our housekeeper has actually saved us money and made retirement much, much more pleasant. My approach is to treat her with the same degree of respect and loyalty she displays in her job. Our housekeeper has been with us for over ten years, and she continues to be a blessing. It might be a good idea to listen to this video two or more times. You will not find better and more complete advice than that given by Filipina Pea in this video.

This video is something that people who are not culturally aware should see from time to time. It has practical information that actually can be applied in many countries.

I still remember a visit to Hong Kong years ago and seeing all of the beautiful young Filipina maids enjoying their Sunday picnics in Victoria Park. Very unforgettable.

I had a filipina nanny growing up. My mom gave her full rule over me and she raised me like a local. Which is one of the reason's why I can adapt to situations here and understand the mannerisms a lot along with speaking the language, not well but getting better. Now I can tell when and what people are talking about me and call them out. LOL

Thank you for mentioning to treat the maid well and not to mistreat or underpay her . I was raised with 6 siblings and my late mother worked our whole childhoods as a Maid and housekeeper as kids we were embarrassed by her profession but now I know the sacrifices she made for us and she took pride in her work and was always happy.

Pea is so amazing, beautiful, talented and funny. Pretty shocked she's not married.

I have a filipina helper that that does the cleaning, taking care of the kids and many other things around the house and does a great job and always has a smile on her face. She is a delight and a relief having around knowing my kids are safe with her while I'm away.

Have engaged my housekeeper for more than 16 years and yes she is a lot more than just a housekeeper as she takes care of everything in Dumaguete. A truly essential addition to our life

if i had seen your videos earlier in my life, i would have moved to the Philippines. You do a terrific job promoting your country. Its not all positive but its very clear and easy to understand through you.

Thank you. You are a great teacher.

I feel like a follow up video with a panel of housekeepers would be interesting to get some insight into the culture and different situations that come up (and also chisme lol)

For those needing the services of a good housekeeper your info is spot on. They are not only an employee but so much more. The pay and benefits aspect generally always can be agreed upon. The one thing I wished you would have touched on is how to let someone go if it just isn't working out. Great topic😀

Great information about maids Ms. Pea...thank you.

Answered all of my questions,, good job as usual Pea.

Ben Franklin one of the founders my country said, let all your servants be homely otherwise after the first time you sleep with your maid your house will never be cleaned properly again.

We were recommended a single mom who was a masseuse , a very good one too . She now helps us around the house also to earn a bit extra money . She is a really hard worker and we appreciate having her around . Once you have the trust in each other , it's a real great working relationship . I am still stuck in The UK , but I still communicate with her , normally trying to sort out her love life , haha !

I really enjoy all the topics you have been discussing so far on your page. You are so intelligent and kind.

To me , you Ms Pea have been my PERSONAL GUIDE plus advisor - thanks a lot

I'm from Paraguay, and living in Germany now. You won't believe the looks I get from the germans every time I mention that I had two housekeepers and a cook in my homeland. 😁 So yes, if someday I get to live in the Philippines, I'd definitely do the "housekeeper route" again. As a single guy who dont likes to do household chores, I really, really miss them here. 😂

The a few problems I had at first with my helper was leaving food out . I would warn her about it and if it would continue I would just throw the food in the trash because I am not going to eat food that has been left out a couple of hours that will make me sick. Over cooking meat and fish where there was no flavor left was another one . And sometimes I sent her to the grocery store and she didnt come home with certain items because she said they were too expensive . I told her it wasnt her money or her decision to make if something cost too much. Everything is great now after almost 3 years of her learning how I like things

You have alot of knowledge to go with a good heart.Very fair to both employee and employer.on all subjects a great resource.

I love when you do these kind of videos. We get to see a different side of you.

Getting things ready to retire to the Philippines and part of my planned budget was for a maid/housekeeper. I've had one when before and they make life so much easier and well worth their salary. The trick is to keep the line between professional and personal, so like others have mentioned, it's highly recommended you don't mix the two. If you want a personal relationship, then you're better off just looking for a wife. As I'm going to be moving over as a single person myself, the one issue I'd decided was not to have a 'live-in', as it may cause more problems than it's worth. That said, finding and keeping a good maid/housekeeper should be carefully decided upon. If you have some friends who could recommend candidates, still check them out. If possible, see if you could talk with their past employers and get a good background on them. The only problem is if you have to let one go, then it could be a bit of drama. Just make sure you don't get excited and/or angry, and try to have someone else around as a witness - just to be safe. Being accused without a witness could land you into a world of hurt and trouble.

Another great video. I spent quite a bit of time in PI back in my younger days. You talk so clear and are so passionate about your topics.

Incredible video. Your videos are really helping me prepare for my retirement in Cebu.

A guy did a video of his budget in the Philippines. He had a wife/girlfriend living with him and she brought her kid and mother, too. He liked it. He said he gave his mother-in-law some small amount like you said, because she did everything to keep the house and run things. If you have to give your girlfriend/wife money so she can support her family, this sounds like a good idea if everyone can be peaceful.

Great vlog FP! I was surprised when my Filipina wife told me her family had a live in maid who did cooking, cleaning, etc. and lived with them. She actually taught my wife how to cook and was an excellent cook. Here in the U.S. only the wealthy have live in maids. Thanks!

You are the best Ms. Pea !! Thank you for all that you’re doing

The one thing you forgot to mention, is to avoid hiring a Facebook addict. Most of my Pinay friends are housekeepers, and they are chatting with me all day on FB, instead of working, lol. I think rules about house guests are very important, because Westerners are more private, and less trusting of strangers. Filipino culture is very open, social, etc ... they often don't vet people, so the person they invite over could be a thief, rude, or something like that. I do my own laundry, if I hired a housekeeper I would not need her to do too much work. I think "translation" would be very helpful. For me someone trustworthy would be very important, and someone who could understand my culture, without being offended by it. I have found that many Pinay's have trouble understanding other cultures have different traditions. Based on my Pinay friends, I could see it would be a positive experience with some, but with others it would be difficult.

Wow. As a middle-aged, chronically single = lazy man, I'd gladly pay twice that salary for half the working hours, if somebody REALLY did ALL the cooking & cleaning & ironing for me! And yet Pea warns us about overpaying?? Holy hell. Too good to be true. Peas info, however, tends to be as solid as it is fascinating, so... Wow.

Pea you were indeed Made in the Philippines and may I say your parents did an amazing job. Thank you for another awesome video that again gives foreigners so much info re living in and enjoying their time in PI. The insight you give is truly informative and helpful to westerners who want to get their feet wet in Filipino culture and experiences. God bless.

EPIC ! OK Pea, this one got me. I have watched several of your videos over the last 6 months. I have found you to be a person of ethical values. This video is pure gold for someone who's plans include an extended stay in the Philippines. I have subscribed to this channel. OK, OK, the truth.......You in the Maid uniform got me..... Thank you for your hard-work. Be happy, be safe

Absolutely excellent presentation and information.

Thank You Pea, I most definitely have a house keeper, I fired my current housekeeper (Me!) for having a bad attitude and taking too many coffee breaks

Sound advice as always. Although I'm sad that people mistreat their staff. Some people are so cruel. Great vids Pea!

Another great show Pea. Thank you for all the great info 👍

I love this channel. You are beautiful, smart, articulate and entertaining and that's why I keep coming back to see more of your content. Keep up the good work.

Just found this channel and I have to say this information is fascinating. It’s fun learning about other places and cultures. I had a co worker move to the Philippines years ago and get married and he was saying a lot of stuff like this but I didn’t really pay much attention. Kinda sounds like the Philippines are a little slice of heaven. 😊

I like this presentation, It feels like I'm sitting across from you and having a chat! Here in Central America, Things with maids/housekeepers are quite similar! Sometimes it is necessary to train your maid to clean to your standards, and once she knows what is expected from her, it is of great value! Sometimes it is easier to find a person with no experience so she doesn't have to "unlearn" bad habits! There is an important distinction between paying using the government's labor system and paying "under the table"! I have also seen the downside of generosity - it can definitely backfire! I'm glad to hear I've made your day! :)

I watched your video from a year ago All you can say is wow Interviews from other channels to build your channel Great job Amazing woman

I am sure that thousands have already said this. Your videos are incredibly informative Pea, and you sense of humour is amazing as well. You are a delight. Thank you Pea.

As a single man, she would not have massive amounts to do, but she would be worth her weight in gold. She needs to be treated like a family member and gets to eat whatever she wants and gets her own proper bedroom, not sleeping in the lounge or kitchen

Great post! I have a house and a fair amount of property in Philippines in Quezon Province. I have employed a housekeeper for many many years. She is a local from the Barangay and, I must say, I never considered her a maid - she is family to me and that is how I treat her and her family, husband and children. I trust her completely and consider her like my daughter (she is half my age). I hope she never leaves.

One of your best videos, lot's of basic info AND cultural info, thanks darlin

Awesome deal. I look forward to retiring there.

As a party of one when I arrive in the Philippines (someday I hope); I hadn't even considered what you propose in this video. However, now it's food-for-thought. Thanks Pea.

Among so many informative yet entertaining videos you have done, this ranks among the best. As a Blackman with grandparents raised in the South, I have much respect for the occupation of housekeeper or domestic work. I recently learned that my Great Aunt was a domestic for Elvis Presley, though she never talked about it. This video has made me determined to seek and obtain services of a Filipina Maid. Trust me, when I propose marriage later this year, I will not expect you to be standing in long lines.

Super video. Many thanks. Greatly appreciated. Will use all of your suggestions. Very valuable.

I've been trying to find a housekeeper for months and I appreciate the information you shared in your video

As a man who moved to The Philippines in 2018, I found this particular article to be one of your very best. Yes, I have personally witnessed abuse of domestic help in The Philippines. These maids, as indicated in the article, can be worth their weight in gold and many/maybe most are wonderful people! You lightly touched on maids being abused in foreign countries. This has been my crusade to expose horrific treatment of some/likely many OFWs! The Arab countries are the worst but, not the only brutal countries! i.e.- Rape and physical abuse is not prosecuted in Saudi Arabia and in many other countries. Many workers are too embarrassed to report these atrocities! All of these workers have their passports confiscated and held upon arrival. The workers are entrapped slaves! Why does The Philippine government allow this? These workers are sending money back home, which accounts for a whopping 10% of the entire country's economy. (10% 0f The GDP!)

Miss Pea, for me this is one of your very best videos. Highly informative dealt from all angles. Keep this format coming on a more regular basis, You always share great content. Your evolution is a joy to watch, I have learned and will apply much of what you share with us. Thank you so much for all the effort you put in to sharing your culture, You make you Peeps proud. 🌹

What a wealth of information your vids provide. You're a gem!! Keep em rolling out.

Highly Informative Thanks

Just as any employer respectable employer, I would have a 30, 60, 90 day rule for performance review. Also, I’d definitely give two days off. You need the downtime for your own mental wellbeing and frankly if you have a good maid, you want to retain that. My wife’s aunt in Ortigas has had the same live in housekeeper for over 20 years. Shes no longer considered a maid, she’s considered family.

Another great topic, pea. When I was stationed at subic bay in the late 70's, I got into an argument with my superiors about how little they were paying the locals, taking advantage of them, slavery, the whole nine yards.. It got very heated. But I had a good commander. Rather than punish me, he sat me down and explained the economics and culture and the negative impacts that suddenly having lots of money would cause because he had seen it happen before. And while he actually agreed that we didn't pay much, in our assessment, for the locals they were being paid very adequately and even had weekend off and had health and other benefits as well. I had to think on this a while and go out into the towns and villages nearby and observe life before I understood. It is not an overstatement to tell people they should only pay the current going rate. It is actually the kindest thing you can do. As you said by example, a woman might think she has enough money, then quit her job only to discover a month or two later it was a big mistake. Many people don't know how to handle larger sums of money even in my country, let alone in yours. Giving them slow and moderate pay raises over time allows them to adjust to having a little more money as time goes on. Personally, because I am one of those generous people, struggle with this even though I know the consequences. But it is the best way. And if you find a good one, she will be like family and stay with you for years as many have pointed out here. Thanks for bringing this up. But I agree that a good follow up would be how to let someone go if you find the need to do that. Carry on, good pea.

I have watched a few of your video, your funny and make things seem easy... You have your own style... keep up the good work... your info is easy to understand.

Well done Pea! I just discovered this one of your many helpful videos; this such a good topic and so well communicated with care, understanding and clarity. The specifics of listing expectations and examples so good! Best video on this topic by far. Thanks!! Well thought out.

Sorry for my late to the party comment Lady Pea, but as always you deliver. Love your natural ability to foresee and bring forth the importance navigating to and through the Philippines for a way of safe and comfortable living. Thank you so much for commitment to your viewers Lady Pea. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

This vlog is a w e s o m e!! Your information (and look 😉) continually blows me away! I sense a marriage proposal in the pipeline (from me)! 😂. Can't thank you enough, Miss Pea. You are great and very helpful with your invaluable insight, always! You're a Filipina treasure. Till next time. 😎

You always have good topics I love watching your videos. I learn a lot from them. Thank you very much.

Been waiting for this one for so long. I will for sure get one when I get there. Thank you for adding it- Saved

Excellent info! You covered so much in a friendly and comprehensive way, even covering the pitfalls for both maid and employer. I live in the UAE (Abu Dhabi) right now but plan on moving to the Philippines in the future. Thanks Pea for covering this and so many more important topics.

Pea, watching you describing all those maid's benefits made me smile, you really are passionate about helping people ! Have you considered opening a job agency ? maybe together with your lawyer friend ? you could help a lot of local jobless single moms, and expats as well ! 🙂

Great vid Pea. My wife's family lives in Manila, Pasig City, and we do love our housekeeper.

Pea, I really appreciate your work and all that u do. You look good with and without makeup... And I admire the real hair. Thank u and keep up the good work.

Sounds cheaper & better than a girlfriend 😁🌴👍

Hi Pea, I always thoroughly enjoyed every video that you do, I have listened to others Gio the time that you talked with him and I listen to a number of the ones from Paul, but I have seen some other videos from some other filipinas and nobody holds a candle to you you are very well spoken you are very professional the way you do things and it is always interesting no matter what it is you put a spin on it to make it interesting, which in my book makes you the best, keep up the good work you are such a good person and once again thanks for helping that older couple out that was awesome, you will always be special to me because you did that you told me you would and you did and that means a lot it shows the kind of person that you really are, very very special with a big heart ❤️

Great information. Thank you!

Dear Pea : you ARE a Bright Spirit : always helping other people : Bless you :) .

I remember when my sister and I were kids my Lola had 2 maids where we live in Bicol. That lifestyle was amazing. Then my folks wanted us to live with them in the US. My sister and I thought my folks had maids in there house but no. My folks introduced us to the word chores took my sister and I awhile to assimilate into the American culture. I still definitely miss living back home with maids doing everything. My Lola spoiled my sister and I.

A very fascinating talk. And helpful. Not just for the Philippines. My son mentioned that when he was in China, having a maid come around (just a couple of hours) was very cheap and necessary to clean up the place, the dirty dishes, etc. However, here in the States, it is limited to the wealthy, as the middle class can't afford a maid. In those old American TV shows, people had more maids. No more. But nothing prevents one from hiring a maid for a couple of hours. It doesn't have to be every day. Of course, in the "old" days, a "housewife" would do those things and more. These days, a female in America doesn't even know how to cook! Forget about anything else. LOL. A fascinating, and potentially dangerous, subject.

I am binge watching your videos Pea. Great information.

Pea... you are one very special human being - all off you looks great and, more importantly, you are an intelligent, compassionate, insightful, expressive person with excellent communication skills.. you are perfect just the way you are...!!!

Thanks for the explanation on the Phillipina Maid. Here in the West, I have a couple of older friends that have what is called "LIVE INS" They usually have a large home where you can separate yourself from the main living area. This way he offers a Woman to live in his house (many times with young children) food and shelter for free. He doesn't pay her like an employee. She can still work on her own but doesn't have to worry about paying rent or buying groceries. She basically lives her own life as well as you do. They often hang with each other from time to time but neither are obligated to one another. There is an understanding between them that there is no problem having a Booty Call.

The housekeeper stays the girlfriend goes 100% of the time

Great video Pea! I'm hoping to go there when things open up again!

The answer to your french is a big yes! Your channel is so much better then all the rest!

Way cheaper then I thought. I'd pay that every month just to avoid waiting in line in the hot sun for 2 hours to pay bills. You are a very smart young lady that is full of great info and explain things great. Thanks for all you do to help everyone.

When I was in the Philippines. I was going to a local church. And found lady’s there. Also, found working Students too. Paid between P4k-P5k a mth ( $95-$100). With free room and board..I had asked the Bishop/Pastor/Minister for recommendations. It also helps having a local to keep u safe when u are out and also to answer the door for you,etc.. One of the things I did there was help foreigners understand the do’s and don’t. The local government agency I was with would refer me to these Foreigners. Pea gives a lot of good information here..

Just watched this gem of a video again. And then seen a couple comments from a couple years ago from me. My how time flies!

Thanks Pea! I enjoyed this very much, great info!

Pea - you are truly a treat and great for many ideas and laughs. You in a maid costume was certain to get men to watch - and what you say is invaluable to those interested in moving to the Philippines. My wife is Indonesian - and she thinks you're a great speaker for your country, and that you're very funny (in a good way!) Keep making videos!

My maid eats with me, we have the same food and her room is bigger than mine, I can be away knowing my dogs are fed, the house clean, run errands and basically make my life easier.

What are smart and practical thinking woman. You got me Pea. Subscribed

Good advice Pea. Who doesn't need a helper or house keeper. Pea your really impressive with your content.

Got a maid in the Philippines; married her and then needed to hire another maid

The more that you describe the benefits and the like, the more that it sounds like the working conditions (and the pay scheme) that you get in Mexico, especially the 13th month pay. In general, most employers pay the 13th month a minimum of 2-3 weeks prior to Christmas.

I love you Pea, I really do. I'm always excited to see what you have at the end and this was great! The maid outfit and saying those French words I was told when I was a young man by a friend that knew French, well, grinning from ear to ear.

Beauty? Very wise and a great voice!!! Wowwww!😮❤🎉😊 Sound good when you sung that old Patti LaBelle song

I saw a documentary a few years ago about the scores of Filipinas who go overseas to be maids in different countries. Some of these women are subjected to horrible abuses. It can be a really terrible situation when they're far from home and perhaps don't have the legal rights in some countries that they would in others. We can only hope that there is an agency or organisation that can monitor these women and make sure they're not being mistreated.

Hi miss Pea, this vid reminds me of one of your earlier vids about poverty in the philipines. In that one, you interviewed a young woman who was being paid $80 a month for 18 hour days with one day off per week. I've occasionally thought of her since and wonder how she's doing and what's happened to her. If you could revisit her and some of the others in that episode I'd appreciate it. I do understand that it might be difficult to find some of them again, especially after the typhoon. Love your channel, keep up the good work.

Good job on this topic something to consider.

Great video on the topics of hiring a good maid.