10 Ways to Discipline Your Children 

I love this!... Absolutely awesome! Keep up the positive parenting!!!🤗🤗🤗

lol the profile pic looks exactly like the girl in the video

haha thats good considering I'm 30! :) :)

That's awesome since my daughter was 11 when we made this video! (She doesn't have a RU-vid profile yet).....

interesting points ,if anyone else trying to find out how to talk to your child try Loctavan Teaching Toddler Strategy (do a google search ) ? Ive heard some extraordinary things about it and my co-worker got cool success with it.

Wish you luck down the road

Nothing stays forever Hence u can change behaviour no matter the condition

I love you.

Pokemón!

That's easier said than done.

Thank you!

Thank you !!

Thank you 👍👍

It seems like #6 in this video was, "Give your children choices"... 3:49

@@KennethPhotography yeah, thanks.

Umm no

what

Yep

G B I almost had to go to military school but got cancelled last minute

Yea-

Gordon Mckay That's amazing! xD

Good parent

My moms beaten me up my whole life.. today i picked up a plastic tabasco super bowl holder and tapped him on the head with it. He threw on the ground and it broke in half. My mom ran over and he told her i hit him really hard on the head and he fake cried. I was blamed for throwing it. I ran over and hid under a bed. She said if i didnt come out shed hit me even worse. So i ran out. She was in my room. When i got in she started pulling my hair and slapping and hitting me really hard and yelling. Then made me apologize ti him. I said sorry, but crying, i smelled blood on my self. I ran back to my room in tears, hid in my closet. A few minutes later she opened the door, and said come out and go on your bed. She said “ARE YOU EVER GONNA EVER AGAIN F****** HIT AND THROW SOMETHING ON AN ADULT AGAIN?!” I said no, still in tears. I told her the truth that i only tapped him lightly and i didnt throw it. She didnt believe me and said “ hes in the basement crying right now and you did throw it, i heard it. “Stay on your bed visible, and this door stays open or i will remove it. As soon as she left, i hid under my blankets , smelling blood, seeing myself with rashes, cuts, scabs, scars, bruises, ruined pulled out hair. I stayed there for a bit, crying. I thought to myself, no wonder my hair never grows. No wonder im not pretty like all the people at school. She treats me like im a bag of garbage she can throw around, then i began to cry again. I ran back to my closet and closed the door, quietly and now im still crying, wruting this comment.. P.s, he had drank a full bottle if vodka before . So he was drunk Also, what do I do? I want to call the national child abuse hotline on her, but i dont wanna lose her bc you know, shes my biological mother. And i still kind of love her.

My mother does that as well.... I feel you man.

Love that high five..

Jeremiah, that is some of the coolest feedback I've ever heard. Thank you so much brother. I love being a father more than anything, and my wife and I have lived these teachings out with our daughter. We are beyond proud of the incredibly kind, compassionate, and all around amazing person she is. I genuinely appreciate you sharing this video, and please know I'm sending all my best to you and your family! Much peace!

Wait till society gets a hold of him and he'll learn another lesson not taught at home.

It will also depend on a child's personality and temperament. The truth is some children are easier to raise than the others even in the same family.

Ahh. but every kid isn’t the same. Absolutely couldn’t do this with most kids and expect a well-rounded, well-behaved kid.

That's amazing!! Goes to show how big an impact this video has.

Bri P thought tantrums is a normal part of development , specially toddlers

As a mother of 6...my eldest being 22, I think you would enjoy the video I made with my daughter ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-ZmVuo6jYR3k.html

Hmm, how do you know her behavior is not a response to theirs instead of the other way round? If I nvr gave children who needed them harsh consequences and they turned out spoiled, perhaps I would turn to spanking as a last effort to try and regain control over my household.

I am a foster parent and discipline children I have not raised, and yet everything he mentioned works on them, and we are also trained in this positive parenting! I am also a Christian and first night all my kids get prayed with and told how much God loves them....they all resonate with this and love prayer, teaching them Godly principles also helps you to set the example as a parent, my other big teaching is serving others and helping others and just being a kind person, this is something very important to me and I strive to instill it in these kids lives! Love is the key with humanity, it heals and transforms us!

@@cconroy1677 nothing wrong in giving kids a spanking from time to time instead of listening to these insane positive parenting videos Sometimes this stuff they try to teach dont work or not enough

This and they really haven’t turned out fine they just push everything down

With this they they reply YOU'RE JUST WEAK

@@ikmaladammax Apparently I was strong enough to resist the urge to cancel my dad's life subscription after I found out every possible way he finessed my mother AND that I was too old to legally do anything about it

@@VanNessy97 damn, I'm glad you stayed strong.. hope everything's ok now

Ppmpp :-[:-[

Lol, he has his priorities straight

PBJ yuck

Lol. When that happens, I tell parents to say the following: “Peanut butter and jelly is not one of the choices. I’ll ask you again, do you want broccoli or green beans?” If that still doesn’t work, you may need to add in a 3rd acceptable option.

What about broccoli in jelly? Or green beans and a spoon of peanut butter after?

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Thank you so much. I really appreciate hearing that. I definitely do my best to be concise and make my videos practical for people, so thank you for saying that. I'm really grateful anytime people subscribe to my channel or share the videos I make. And that's awesome work that you're doing. I think any job teaching/working with our children is the most honorable work we can do. I'm definitely sending you all my best and tons of peace!

thats sad. feel sorry for you

Lol i told her wait can we talk about thisb she was like too late for dat

@@justme8841 ofc you do, your white parents would just tell you to “go to your room”. Even if you spent 70,000$ on their credit cards🤦🏾‍♂️

How’d it go?

My son screams when I say no or if he doesn’t want to do some he screams so loud neighbors complain

Thank you! Wonderful idea for a new video. Will definitely keep that in mind. Sending you much peace!

Glenn Feldt why the hell are you hooking up with a milf

Is there any chance your SO might be able to learn from this video, and then you could observe how she implements the advice? You might also look up the number for your local Health Department office and give them a call; they might be able to point you in the direction of a local parenting support group or classes for people learning how to integrate with a pre-existing family.

lol! I just just scrolled down here to comment that exact comment. I kept waiting on examples. I understand much of it, but I would like to know if I'm on the same page with you and your steps. Examples would have made me give a thumbs up that's for sure. The video lacked that. Other than that, I will try my best at this because this is the best list of things on how to help me teach my child to be respectful and listen that I've found thus far. Thanks.

Glenn Feldt with love and patience everything is possible 💙✌🏻

i understand but i was abused very very badly it got bloody sometomes but im a super nice person now. and a great parent because it taught me what not to do lol

Spanking must be done in the correct way. Not in anger or frustration. Always in love and with the intent of teaching. Yeah, there are consequences in life that cause harm. There needs to be levels of discipline. Matching what could happen in the real world. Try raising someone with a higher IQ than you. I am. It’s hard. Yes have compassion. Yes give explanations. This guy’s type of discipline, lead us to the way the world is now. Remember this started a loooong time ago. I was not spammed and I reigned a whole city. I had entitlement. And see how she interrupted him? Super funny, not. Kids need to learn how to give respect to those in authority and know when and how it’s important to sway from that rule. Discipline is complicated, it’s not fun for anyone when done right. And my kids love me. I don’t have to give a lot of spankings. That means more time for cuddling and reading books. Being mommy instead of friend. It’s more important to have a mom. I wish my mom was not my friend. I was very confused about giving respect to people other than my dad who demanded respect and didn’t deserve respect, while I was growing up. Respect is earned. Someone who worked hard for their position of power, someone who saved a bus load of people, someone who gave birth to you, someone who worked to put food on your table, someone who taught you to read or ride a bike, teachers, police officers.

NO NO NO NO NO! Just absolutely NO! Parents NEED to physically punish their children! I do it to my kids all the time. Here are some of the things I do to them: Torture them Twist their nipples with pliers Force them to eat expired onions Pepper spray them Whack them with a shovel Burn them with a blowtorch. That's what YOU need to do to your children if they act up. However, it all depends on where you live. I live in Go city, New Jersey. There, it is perfectly legal to do this stuff to your kids, as long as they did something to deserve it. Where you live, it might be illegal. If it's not, then please follow my advice. It'll be worth it.

Wtf Boris

@@christmas_rock4208 That's Child Abuse not Discipline

“Teachers should never shout at their students.” That’s hilarious. Bet you’ve never been a teacher -at least not a good one.

Children don’t respect adults for whom they don’t have some measure of fear.

I've worked with children since 2004; I can tell you that those children who 'feared' an adult also had no respect for them. I understand your point however. I also tend to have no respect for people that try to intimidate me or think they can scare me in some way. @@donnap3541

Same with me. 😭😫 i admit I’m the problem not them. I feel like I’m already past the damaging point. I’m a mom to 5.

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I actually want kids just as an excuse to buy a xbox

Me, and the worst part is that i am a kid

@@ROTOJ_ so what?one day u will have kid Simple

me watching to teach my younger brother

Thank you so much. Yes, the changes that divorce brings are sometimes scary for children, so now is the time to give him unconditional compassion. He definitely needs your love and patience now more than ever. Sending you all the best and much peace!

100% Thanks for watching and for your kind words! Sending you much peace!

I tell my husband that as well. He undermines them at time and makes them feel less important bc they are children. It causes arguments but they are still their own person.

@@bethclark8088 I believe in questioning the hell out of everything so when that comes up, it's best to accuse the person with that attitude (in a nice way though, nicer than they are to the kids) of not being an adult and only pretending to be one, if you ask them what an adult even is in the first place, nobody can tell you or identify the moment they became one without the answer feeling deep down arbitrary or contradictory to what they said other times and there's so many paradoxes they just what the label for emotional self esteem reasons so move the goal posts constantly when their answer doesn't work. It causes the whole appeal to it to fall apart the younger people feel more like equals and hopefully see through the facade, humility is better than arrogance and it's what everyone should practise.

Thanks Richard. Please remember, at age 11, your daughter is going though a lot of chemical changes that are directly affecting how she feels. I think one of the best things we can do with our children is take the time to sit in stillness with them (i.e., meditation). I think it's so important to make peace a priority for our households. As fathers, it's one of the best gifts we can give our children. Sending you tons of peace brother.

Dr. Christian Conte thank you sir. We've also considered doing Yoga together. A few minutes of daily meditation will also be added to the routine. Really appreciate your content and the quick reply. All the best!

Richard Smith I know exactly what your talking about my son may need IEP he's always on the border of what to know for his age group.Not sure if its my very slim chance of schooling before school or he really can be behind in speech.He excels in other things, we will see what the teacher will say.What advice can give me they expect alot nowadays for 4 year more than what I remember back when I was in school.

Richard Smith Some schools punish kids for acting out but sometimes there can be more what's going on.

Just curious if you implemented these changes and how they are working. It was really great to see your thoughtful response to the issues your daughter is facing and the ideas you had were great. Please can you update. We are all learning from each other. TIA

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Dana Carter who would actually Do that??

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Thank you so much. Definitely sending you much peace for sure. Very grateful for your energy.

Thank you so much for your kind words! Sending you and your family all the best and tons of peace!

Single mothers get shit for being the parent that stayed.

No they don't, they get shit for being bad parents

@@siphesihlengubane3181 exactly

Yesss for real!!!

Says some loser with no kids lol

100% I believe that with all of me. Sending you all the best and tons of peace!

Thank you. Yes, it's so true; and aside from research supporting that (which it does), it makes a lot of sense. When our children understand the link between their choices and consequences, it gives them a better understanding of their world. Thanks so much for watching. I wish you much peace!

Muchas gracias!

Paul Chan As a child I found this to be really true. I found it much easier to follow a rule if I had a clear explanation of why and I was more likely to stick to the rule.

Thanks for your kind words, brother. You can do it for sure. Yes, it takes effort, but my goodness is that effort worth it. Your son needs you so badly. Sending you all the best and much peace!

Thank you. Your words encourage me to put the foot forward. I want to be a better father. And am willing to make this work.

Dr. Christian Conte and huyuu

Joshua Kent Bless you and your family. We need more men like you and this good Dr.

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Thank you so much! Sending you much peace! :)

I have 5 kids too. It's not easy!

same. my mom was better then my father, but still not very healthy in behaviour

Thank you so much. I really appreciate your kind words on these videos! Sending you much peace!

Dr. Christian Conte Absolutely! And Thank You! Much Needed! ☺✌

It shouldnt. They should be able to admit when theyve done wrong whether caught or not. If you spank for anything less than purposeful infractions, then maybe they hv cause to resent it. But not if you rarely do it. Just like picking your battles. You let it go, and let it go, and this time its not happening. Bc if you dont get thru to them society will and much more harshly.

@@cconroy1677 nothing wrong with spankings from time to time

I got disciplined but I got revenge (the brutal way)

Notice how u read this like it was sarcastic

@@nebblets And ADHD too

That's such a tough predicament. It sounds like you don't have a lot of options in that situation other than making a great effort to do your best in regard to your own parenting, and make sure you take time every day to have conversations with your child about why you do the things you do. I think it's so important to talk to our children and help them understand why choices, consequences, consistency, and compassion are so important. Sending you all the best and much peace.

S B I would just say this: if you can catch those parents in a good moment, try and see what their goals and dreams are for their children. If they open up to you, have a real heat to heart with them, but be prepared to be vulnerable too - you don't want to seem as a know it all. Over time, they will see you as a friend and allie in parenting the children so you can drop little hints in future that u have found useful. Pick your moment though. This also works for couples too - I should know, it worked on me! Good luck👍

S B your only their to baby sit not to judge the family

thanks it helpes a lot

S B Lol dont let thé babysit your child.

Thank you SO much! I appreciate you saying that a ton. And please call in the show anytime I can ever be helpful for you! Definitely sending you all my best and tons of peace!

100%! Discipline is tough, so please be easy on yourself! The fact that you're reaching out and looking to be more effective speaks volumes to who you are. The most honorable, greatest, and most difficult job in the world is parenting. That there are conscientious parents like you out there is a gift to our world, your children, and ultimately, everyone with whom your children come into contact with their entire lives. Definitely sending you and your children all my best and tons of peace!

@@DrChristianConte Thank you for your kind words! I appreciate your work! You are a blessing! I wish you and your family continued prosperity!

Lucille Wickliffe-Ewetuga He doesn't look intimidating to me. He seems approachable and level-headed, in my opinion.

christianbethany Agreed, he doesn’t seem to carry himself as someone who would want to solve problems with his fists, listen to his words and you’ll see the man is all about reason.

My 4 year broke the tv, his dad said I should beat him, I spoke to him about his actions. I'm torn between my belief and his dad's.

Thank you so much! Sending you much peace!

Yea nigga. That was some hood rack shit.