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Good comment! A lot of guys look awful in t-shirts; that kind of shirt draws attention to a man's body when he's overweight. T-shirts are for guys, generally younger ones, in good shape. Otherwise wear something over the t-shirt. I'm old enough that I do!
Wear solid black or navy tshirts or casual shirts with dark jeans or chinos. Gonna work very well. During winters, try leather jackets or bombers. Don't wear too many hoodies... Everyone does that. Try buying chelsea boots... They are amazing.
_Aqeel _B I will say good taste for classy women but what I see in public places is different. I think women like men with trendy styles, I see many gilrs with guys that have the Urban look (like puff Daddy) loose fitting with timberland boots and of course men with poor dress taste who wear sneakers, cargo shorts and sport jerseys
But they are common among women. Dress how she describes and you'll turn heads. If your clothes are sharp enough then even a guy with an average face like me notices a difference in how people act.
Guys! chill. My comment is not promote hate, I just find what she said funny and irrelevant in modern society where the much more educated will look beyond these materialistic things. I wear a suit and tie only sometimes but I meet girls when wearing a simple tee shirt and jeans in Birkenstock sandals. Again, Chill and don't hate, its not healthy. My comment was only to poke fun and humour.
Sadly yeah but I think here's it's more like Hey dudes this is what we like take it or leave it. I personally think men should be allowed the same, not telling us to wear it but letting us know and we can take the advice or not. Personally if my BF tells me he likes something on me I'm probably going to wear that article of clothing out from wearing it so much around him. No need for ladies to be stuck up, accept the opinions or not, nothing wrong with it.
Maybe. I wonder about this a lot. I'm a woman who thinks suits are just so drool worthy but also I wouldn't care if a guy flipped burgers for a living. I'm more concerned with the person who I'm bringing into my life rather than the money they have. Money is a quick fix to some problems sure but it doesn't fix everything and doesn't make a good relationship. Other looks that I think are hot aside from suits are the plaid button up shirt splitting wood with an axe look, the relaxed gamer in a geeky T and faded jeans look, the kilt look, and the well put together fantasy medieval LARP kit look, especially a good hard kit look, mm a man in armor marching home from a day of fake battle is sexy LOL but regular suits are nice too. Honestly the most important part of any relationship is that they love everything I cook HAHAHA ;)
Totally, but they are in deep deep deep deep deep deep denial about it. Never tell them you know, they will instantly attack you and invalidate you. Like Maven jut up my comment :) "I wouldn't care if a guy flipped burgers for a living" Made me laugh so hard I'm still shaking. I hope no man swallow that crap, this is so freaking dangerous.
@@ThereIsAlwaysaWay2 I'm sorry. I don't know how that's dangerous 😧 like I get that a lot of men take pride in providing and we should be supportive of them and their asperations but honestly as someone who has lived under the poverty line for 90% of my life I've learned there's more important things in a partner than how much money they make and I've learned that you can be super happy without money and super miserable with it. In my current situation any additional income would be a great help. I'm not looking for a millionaire personally. I'd rather someone who has a lot of free time to spend with their family as that's what I value in life. But is it really dangerous to tell guys that? I don't want to steer people wrong in some way I can't understand.
@@ThereIsAlwaysaWay2 A guy can't earn less than me. And trust me honey. It's more humiliating for the guy than it is for the girl. Your delicate male ego can't handle that shit
Yeahhh... I didn't mean to imply that the clothes should carry the day, but I also think my personality and sense of humor are pretty on point... And I don't really feel like I've gotten my foot into the door. Oh well. Of course, it's hard. And of course, you're not going to have an answer for me, I'm just some random guy commenting on RU-vid. I'm just frustrated.
Daniel Hakimi I think there's many guys like you very few men are lucky with the ladies. Dressing decent helps but barely gets you on the door, so it does help to a point, having game is probably what separates the players(girls calls this personality) from the boys. One important factor is probably not even you, is where you live, some areas there is just more men and than women, so supply and demand play big factor here. Thats why I love to travel. I'm more into classy styles like what Ashley promotes and while travelling Central America, I met couple Thailand ladies and all were attracted to me, they couldn't believe I could be single.
Yes, this is weekday NYC office worker fall style, oddly very specific. Misleading title. This look appeals to similar office worker women/men or women/men judging men by what they think they may earn. If you're a guy trying to appeal to women/men into trendy fashion, probably not helpful to dress like this though some chasing dudes with money may still go for it anyway. Always a few alternative fashionista types with high earner corporate conservative looking guys in NYC.
She forgot to mention that you also need to be wearing a Ferrari, Merc or BMW while having your stethoscope hanging around your neck, Doctor. It's always all about the $$$$. The women even wrote a song about it: Ain't Nothin' Goin' on but the Rent. Don't kid yourself. It's all about the $$$ for women, just like it's whether you find a chic physically hot or a turn off. If she turns you off, you'll never date her. Poor men are like that for women; a sexual turn off.
Women of the view asking Norm McDonald: “you’ve admitted that your lazy and you’ve read only 6 books in your life...what kind of woman do you think would be attracted to you?” Norm: “ well....I have a lot of money.”
Nailed! There's an old cartoon from decades ago. A man is talking to a woman in a bar. He says: "I'm not really this tall. I'm sitting on my wallet." A lady I know did a stint on front desk in an expensive London hotel. A bedraggled looking, unshaven traveller proffered what was, in those days, a gold Amex card. She made him wait while she discreetly contacted Amex who said "Give him anything he wants and smile." It was Jimmy Connors at the height of his fame. She was just a girl from the Outback on a working holiday. 😁
Yeah. Stereotype and manipulation of what is "manly". These woman hate when men stereotype woman. But they are just doing the same. This is really stupid. Shouldn't be judge by your dressed, but by your heart and soul.
good, 77thNYSV, some just cant. We wont be spending our hours trying to look like Beckham, it's just not worth it. The look she seeks, come from the money we could have, and that money cannot be gained, if we spend our time grooming ourselves.
A well rounded genuine girl will of course be attracted to a guy first, thinking he’s cute just how we think we see attraction first on a girl, I mean cmon who doesn’t want a beautiful girl by your side. Us men see Beauty first and then see if we’d make a long term relationship with them. Same thing with woman they see attraction first and then also see if they’d be with us long term or whatever you wanna call it. Just don’t fall for a gold digger of course lol, you can definitely tell a genuine beautiful girl from a gold digger lol
You can be a LITTLE fat, but not huge. Still, there will always be someone who's interested in you. Read Leil Lowndes book U.S.S. to learn how to spot women who are interested in you; then, just pick from among those who you already KNOW like you, instead of spending your life barking up the wrong tree. 99% of men have no clue when a girl's interested. It's cheap if you buy it used, and has handy pictures as well. You're welcome.
mason r, look up the term hipster. That's a completely different look. What you mean here is the preppy look. Also, what do fitting clothes have to do with money? I can buy a fitted $1 white t-shirt and still look better than a guy in oversized, baggy brand clothes.
When she says ‘women’, she means women like her and her friends. I go for alternative chicks, who like to think outside the box, have interesting conversations and don’t care for prescribed fashions. I personally find people who cannot bear the idea of dressing for *themselves* a massive turn-off.
Not all girls. My beautiful gf has been with me eventhough my wallet only has 1dollar and my car doesnt have aircond. I am very lucky. Find a girl with beautiful heart if u can. U will not regret. Beauty and money do not last forever. :) cheers
You can put a daper suit together forr $100 or less. Alot of these out fits are under $40. Don't hate on her for your ignorance. If you want more outfit ideas or where and how to get them cheaper watch Teachings Men's Fashion. I'm only working part time job right now as a cook and I have outfits like this.
That is one of the funniest damn things I've heard in a long time. sitting all by myself and actually laughed out loud. That's rare for me. But yes. What happened to manly men? Does she really speak for all women? Her comments are stupid because women are just as varied as men. I assume some woman still want a man to be old fashioned masculine. I'm gonna go eat some meat with my hands and slay a dragon.
Yeah, no kidding. Why are the most impractical garments always the favourite. You can barely even fit your keys wallet and phone in a lot of those slim fit jeans. Stuff falling out of pockets all over the place, leatherman scratching the phone until it's unreadable. Bent over to fix something and tear the tight shirt and pants in half. It's just not going to work.
+Ashley Weston whoa what has "Fiends, family, work, mental, emotional and physical health" to do with a watch, you can't tell by looking at someones watch what their status is on those subjects. that makes no sense.
Eugene what she was trying to say was if you got on a nice time piece chances are you got a little money...broke guys can't afford to spend a lot on accessories
how are T shirts, or a nice dark jeans, or a v neck sweater expensive? even a nice watch you can find some cheap ones online. Why do you all just focuse so much on the expensive things, there are as much expensive things that are on this list, and most men should at least have most of these, even though you don't have to wear them all the time
It's called invest in a decent suit or two. There companies out there that offer suits for decent prices. Man, I work full time at Wal-mart, which even I could make a few of these changes in my wardrobe.
Actually she has a point on this topic. It's a fact. If you aren't dressed well enough, or at least decent, you'll not turn any heads around. This is true.
Andrei Piatra alright how about some real insight. this list is from someone who obviously isn't in touch with the real world. and most she's talking about is men with "big money" which honestly sounds like she's getting at. But let's move past the money part. For all we know maybe not the case. So, let's say a man dresses this way, bet his chances are still low and won't "turn heads". Because, in this day and age most women have headphones in (usually without music) so they are not talked to or just straight up looking only at their phone for "insta-likes". Back again, let's say that's not the case either. Who dresses in mostly suits? nobody; not even celebrities. it's not particular in the slightest bit. "going to store" *puts on suit* a list from a out of touch person, who thinks everyone lives in a city and loves playing dress up, and going out to bars. To talk about how "adventious" they are. real people don't have money to buy a suit for everyday, and real people don't care to wear suits everyday too busy doing work and letting their personality shine through. And if you are only into the look of a dude in a suit than you can keep being single. cause looks fade, but the vibe of an awesome person will always come through no matter, what they wear, where they're from, or how old. So, why this video if it's actually pointless? it's for tweens and teens, they boys and girls who don't know the reality of the world. Tell fill their heads of such things and so this chick can keep making money on RU-vid. it's about the views and the likes.
Sorry, mate, but men dressed in suits look good, even to other men. Suits work. If you can, can't afford it, if you like, dislike wearing one, etc, it's a different topic, but suits help men look good. Of course, we talk about looks now, and of course, looks do fade away, and hopefully there's more to a guy than wearing clothes. But again, suits work well on men's image, simple as that. Cheers!
Exactly, you can try these tips for a spark in interested on a female, but core should be what you are naturally, not these dressing tips. If that means the road will be a bit tough, so be it.
What I'm trying to understand is why a large portion of girls like such revealing clothing. I once had to put on Swim briefs in a pool that forced you to have them on and I felt so exposed and uncomfortable, I hated it. Do girls just like the exposure? Social pressure? Its cute? Is it really just as simple as being yourself?
Non Ya her i bet all her friends are fashionistas like her that want to talk about the perfect guy all day long that has the money flowing in so they can wear whatever they want. Once they get tired of the super afluent life and the guy theyre with, they just move on to the next...materialistic consumption at its finest! I agree with the other comment i saw, wear what you want and leave it all out on the playing field with your personality. Youll drive away these types of women and attract the one that counts...wow i wrote alot...
Yeah shock horror! Basically if you don't dress like you're a CEO of Scumtec then GTFO. I have no need to own any of these clothes, I mean where do you wear them? Just nipping to the shop so will throw on a tailored suit.
But, T-shirts and jeans were fairly high on the list. Besides, it's not like the amazing looking clothes for women are cheap. Suits are expensive due to the nature of how they are made and tailored. But, people pay that money _because_ they know that suits look amazing. It even matters for making first impressions to other men.
I'm a four at best, but I'm tall and in shape. And, I learned what this video's author told us, a long time ago. Even I know that I don't know everything, which is why I watched this video. Read Leil Lowndes U.S.S. to learn how to find the woman you want.
Oh, my GOD!! That would be such a ghastly, blood-splattered spectacle. Women would be horrified! No thanks, I think Brad's face needs to remain right where it is - on Brad.
No you don't. Seriously, give it a try, as most (not all) women are more likely to like a man for things other than his looks (as long as he isn't obese) than men are to do the same.
What does a girl likes in a guy from a man's perspective? 1. Big wallet. 2. Good shape (good in bed) 3. Confidence (controls her emotionally and physically)
Not true. the phrase 'girls just want to have fun' is oddly, correct, at least, in the short term. Show a girl a good time, and she'll want to go out with you again, at least until the fun stops. Then you had better have a job, decent prospects and assets to keep her interest, because women are always shopping for the long term goal. There's only so much fun you can find to do when you're broke.
@@Atkafası-31 fvck the wallet all women are not the same all I need is a thicc cock that's all I need & yo all those that needs a big wallet to have girls I feel sorry for them✌
Badly fitting orange sweaters... That said, just as we look for different things in women - and I expect some to find her very attractive - so they look for different things in us. She, and her friends, may consider those things to be what they are attracted but others may find other things catch their attention. [edited due to typo's]
reychop_EXE there is a big difference between a homeless man and a middle class man that presents, women want equality yet expect men to do all the traditional things for women but won't except the other side of a traditional relationship
Well, she's a celebrity MEN stylist. It would make little sense for her to give an opinion on how women wears. That said, it's not just bout money. Suits make a man appear tidier. If suits are only about "money" then how come men are expected to wear suits at wedding? Or any formal event? Suits is not just about money. It's about a man who want to send a message that he takes care of himself and is attentive to the details around him. He's not just a man who showers and put on any t shirt. He actually put some thought into how he presents himself to the world. This is why most businessmen gravitate to suits. Because in corporate first impression matters. It was only until later through its popularity with businessmen that it got its "rich reputation". But back in the day, everyone wears one. It's dying in the modern world because everyone wants the instant mentality. And this is why I think the video gained so much hate. It's because it hits a lot of people close to home. But rather than be offended, why not take the video for what it is? An advice on how to dress better? She literally gives similar advice as alpha m and real men real style. And I don't see people complaining to them.
Oh and I do believe that not all women are created equal. Some women still prefer the chivalrous men. Remember that it's the vocal minority that becomes the face of "feminism" these days.
@reychop - I see you making basically the same comment a few places here. Yet men marry women who do not contribute one whit to the financials ALL. THE. TIME. If a woman marries a man that makes less than her she feels like she has been screwed over by fate, and her man is a looser. You are tying to make this sound like the sexes are the same in this regard. They clearly are not.
Any rational and logical living creature would want a partner that benefits them and their offspring. Health and good genes give you a nice body and healthier children. Everything else translate to money. If you're successful, skilled, educated, smart or good at networking it shows in the form of money. You know, basic skills that are essential for living in a society. So yes, basically women want a guy who has the basic skills and lifestyle needed to make and save money because that usually means the person has what it takes to be a suitable partner and a good father.
That's what I took from this too. Just the same,I'm still waiting for the pants down to the ground crowd to finally be dumped into our harbor with their moose hunting jacket pals.
David Beckham has a style of his own. Ashley’s opinion has nothing to do w his style. Beckham has been really stylish (for a guy) since the 1990s when he was playing for Manchester United
Exactly. Same in Florida. Looks like something you'd find in New York with that sweater vest and oversized looking coat. Never see that here. Hardly even see dress shoes and suits unless people are working.
Yeah, even our winters are light jeans and vans... my girlfriend was telling me to buy a thick sweater to wear with a peacoat, forgetting that under all that it would be hotter than August in Jax beach.
Thing is you wouldn't be like every other guy because in fact a lot of guys do not dress nice. You'd actually standout and it feels good to wear clothing like this.
@@hyunjii2502 she probably only asked her girlfriends probably only 20 locals (other video stating asking her girlfriends) to her all with a similar stereotype opinion. It wasn’t a global survey of millions of women and what they like and don’t like also depending also on where they come from. Many opinions are made up of what people see on TV and in the movies.
(Women love:) Clean shirt, new shoes, silk suit, black tie, gold watch, diamond ring, cuff links, stick pin, top coat, top hat, black shades, white gloves....They come a running just as fast as they can, cause every girl's crazy 'bout a sharp dressed man. - ZZ Top
love how the standards for what makes an attractive men’s outfit is literally just basic competence. “a nice fitting shirt.” LOL. “just put cloths on” essentially haha
I don’t care if anyone believes me, but I AM a millionaire that got that way through hard work and saving - and I don’t wear any of these things regularly. I found a great woman that loves me for me even though I wear old sweatshirts and don’t sport $5000 suits (though I have a few and they are nice). She doesn’t know how much I have and loves me for me - and I know it because of that. I’ll take her any day of the week over a gal like this one that is looking for a David Beckham look alike. Guys, don’t fall for it. The most beautiful you is a man who is kind, generous, gracious, knows himself, is happy with himself - his beauty comes from within. Then find a girl that loves you without the trappings - and you found a goldmine of long term happiness.
" . . . I polled my friends . . . " and so that is what you get. Your friends always tend to like similar things. What you have are a bunch of city-type girls who are attracted to city-type guys. This should be, "How to dress like an attractive young urban male professional".
Kevin Conklin Right? This list is so skewed towards that demographic that it completely leaves out us normal women who prefer our men to be... well manly.
You can't even afford a plain t-shirt and some well fitting pants? Even nice looking watches aren't that expensive if you know where to look they can be around $30 or less.
Well-fitted is a pseudonym for low-key rich. There is literally zero reason a man making under say...200k per year would EVER wear a suit on a random weekday. Compound that with "well-fitted" effectively meaning tailored and she might as well say "women are most attracted to a man wearing a different 2k outfit every day." On down the list...if a woman makes any comment about Omega, JLC, or Tudor, RUN. No woman who isn't a goldigger knows this shit. Fact.
Speak for yourself pal. Many well put together men wear well tailored suits all the time in the median income range. You imply these items of clothing are for the wealthy when all of them can be achieved through some diligent saving. By the way, wearing a well tailored suit makes you feel powerful and helps drive your ambition so it's no surprise the most successful men all wear them, you should give it a try sometime.
AJ: That's asking a LOT these days. Our office is overrun with shit bags in baggy shorts, flip-flops, tats and ear gauges. And, of course, the requisite fat guy who loves anime and lacks personality so he always walks around in a fedora.
