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13 Problems Only Highly Sensitive People Will Understand 

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Do you consider yourself a deep thinker and feel things much more intensely than others? If you answered yes, then chances are you’re part of the small percentage of people who are highly sensitive. Being a Highly Sensitive Person - or HSP - means that you are naturally predisposed to process and perceive information on a much deeper level than most. You’re also likely perceptive, empathetic, intuitive, and self-aware. HSPs are also emotionally intelligent and incredibly creative, passionate, people.
As you can imagine, though, feeling and processing more intensely has some downsides. So without further ado, here are 13 struggles only Highly Sensitive People will probably relate to
Suggested video(s):
Understanding the Highly Sensitive Person
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6 Types of Highly Sensitive People
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Credits:
Writer: Chloe Avenasa
Script Editor: Denise Ding & Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Nida - / chubbynida (chubby.nida@gmail.com)
Chubbynidastore - / chubbynidastore
RU-vid Manager: Cindy Cheong
References:
· Aron, E. N. (1996). Counseling the highly sensitive person. Counseling and Human Development, 28, 1-7.
· Killgore, W. D. (2010). Effects of sleep deprivation on cognition. In Progress in brain research(Vol. 185, pp. 105-129). Elsevier.
· Aron, E. (2013). The highly sensitive person. Kensington Publishing Corp.
· Sand, I. (2016). Highly Sensitive People in an Insensitive World: How to Create a Happy Life. Jessica Kingsley Publishers.
· Zeff, T. (2004). The Highly Sensitive Person’s Survival Guide: Essential Skills for Living Well in an Overstimulating World. New Harbinger Publications.
Special thanks to ChubbyNida: / chubbynida
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Комментарии : 21 тыс.   
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 4 года назад
What's one thing that you regret not doing more often in life? Comment below. Also special thanks to ChubbyNida: @instagram.com/chubbynida/ for animating this.
@somedude5422
@somedude5422 4 года назад
Committing myself to losing weight, feel like a bunch of shit for it today..
@Rachel-sq8ki
@Rachel-sq8ki 4 года назад
I regret not letting a dude down easy when he asked me out. Poor dude ☹
@poppingalaxy1577
@poppingalaxy1577 4 года назад
Publishing my book when I had the chance
@ballsfartpissmychannelisdead
@ballsfartpissmychannelisdead 4 года назад
Losing weight
@ropamagwera1272
@ropamagwera1272 4 года назад
Surprisingly I like Gore and Violence Also like change......especially when it comes to food, guess it come with my passion to cook
@mAi-ge9pw
@mAi-ge9pw 4 года назад
Sad: cry Angry: cry Frustrated: cry Stressed: cry Argument: cry And the list goes on...
@mAi-ge9pw
@mAi-ge9pw 4 года назад
@@hollyneedham4243 It's nice to know that just my simple comment helped someone to feel better 💜 don't be ashamed of you feel. Have good day :)
@tatiannatorres
@tatiannatorres 4 года назад
happy: cry
@mehakverma7043
@mehakverma7043 4 года назад
the story of my life
@alexn.1446
@alexn.1446 4 года назад
Omg same, while I'm actually a rough person
@nothintoreadhere6168
@nothintoreadhere6168 4 года назад
Mood
@tiyaganguli362
@tiyaganguli362 3 года назад
The most worst feeling is when you understand other's feelings but no one yours
@eddielaiche5129
@eddielaiche5129 3 года назад
I FEEL THE EXACT SAME WAY!!! I feel like I’m always in the position of helping others with their problems or feelings but I rarely get the same treatment back. Or also when you tell them how you’re feeling they don’t really know how to help it, but you can easily understand what they are going through and help them. Sorry for the long reply
@tiyaganguli362
@tiyaganguli362 3 года назад
@@eddielaiche5129 right
@thewiserthebetter2760
@thewiserthebetter2760 3 года назад
I can feel you
@nataschaebinger7989
@nataschaebinger7989 3 года назад
Yes... So true, it's sad, sometimes
@chlbr3
@chlbr3 3 года назад
This comment made me cry because it's so true
@dawn2941
@dawn2941 10 месяцев назад
My family: “Stop being so sensitive, toughen up.” “Stop crying, it’s not even a big deal.” “Stop overreacting to everything.” “It’s fine, you’re just being crazy.” “Hurry up. If you’re this slow at everything you might as well become a homeless person.” Also my family: “Why are you still crying?” “What do you mean, you don’t want to go with us?” “Why don’t you like us?”
@manamejefffffffffffff9337
@manamejefffffffffffff9337 5 месяцев назад
This was me too. Then life decided to teach me the lessons they were. I'm still sensitive, but I know how to take pain as well.
@jennieosborne3530
@jennieosborne3530 3 месяца назад
I can live through some things but there has to be a limit. You can only take too much.
@xlimitx0725
@xlimitx0725 3 месяца назад
I can't relate more..
@billfarley9167
@billfarley9167 6 месяцев назад
She nailed it for me. I'm now 90 years old and have been able to integrate all these traits over the years into a solid entity. It's been a rocky road over the years, but understanding myself and the whys has been a blessing. Peace everyone.
@loving_lioness3518
@loving_lioness3518 2 месяца назад
🙏
@dw13479
@dw13479 3 года назад
I hate it when you finally stop crying and someone asks if you're ok and you just start crying again
@oknoob5317
@oknoob5317 3 года назад
Soo true, Like i stopped crying and all the tears come again
@keonajoseph8171
@keonajoseph8171 3 года назад
Ikr sometimes they should just leave my alone I feel better that way but later I will cry again because I thought it was embarrassing😧
@izaytseva450
@izaytseva450 3 года назад
Same
@kaexewires7531
@kaexewires7531 3 года назад
that's literally me on my school in the past, that happened to me A LOOOOOONG time ago!
@faithhowe7070
@faithhowe7070 3 года назад
One time I was so upset that my friend hadn't even opened her mouth yet I could just see it in her eyes and that was enough
@kayemma443
@kayemma443 4 года назад
Anyone else get stressed when someone is angry around them (not even at them, just in their presence)?
@anaflaviarchs
@anaflaviarchs 4 года назад
Hell yeah. Or when someone is happy, suddenly you feel happy too
@maninderkaur1851
@maninderkaur1851 4 года назад
Totally!!
@dominika4880
@dominika4880 4 года назад
+1
@Robidu1973
@Robidu1973 4 года назад
That's immediately putting me on Red Alert. I don't even have to see the situation evolve - it's this eerie feeling that lets my neck hair rise.
@amandamoro4554
@amandamoro4554 4 года назад
YES
@Silksh
@Silksh Год назад
I am highly sensitive. I have great friends that I grew up with and still are friends. What I realised is I can't take jokes. I don't know how to differentiate between jokes and mockery so I tend to take offense when they are just foolishly joking around. I know how it feels like to me so I don't do the same to other people. I don't want to go out often because it's tiring to feel hurt all the time.
@yeahyeah5138
@yeahyeah5138 Год назад
this is me!! even if it's "jokes" to them, i get hurt lol
@kadurahtutorials
@kadurahtutorials Год назад
Same here. Some people can be way too insensitive. Last week old man at the fabric shop grabbed my hand and put scissor close to it when I was just helping him for him to cut the fabric as he directed. Then he laughed so hard that he wouldn’t cut my finger. That was not funny at all to me.
@myththefrog
@myththefrog Год назад
One of my best friends is like "oh best friends make jokes" or whatever, like even if I'm hurt. Someone let me know if this is or isnt okay. I already confronted her about it, but she's continuing to do it.
@Adamantian9
@Adamantian9 Год назад
@@myththefrog its perfectly fine :) having boundaries is necessary in socializing. what isn't okay is that your friend is being super inconsiderate, yes friends joke around but friends should also respect each other & their wishes. like the above video i don't they can quite understand what it's like to be highly sensitive so they probably don't think its a big deal. but if they really are your friend they should consider taking this more seriously.
@mayulinnntv9679
@mayulinnntv9679 Год назад
@@kadurahtutorials I'm very sensitive and I think that would give me a heart attack
@keeleywalker5295
@keeleywalker5295 Год назад
We can sense the atmosphere the moment we walk into a room, or if there is the slightest change in mood, even if only between two other people, we feel the tension and become unbearably uncomfortable where others would not even notice. It is also harder to receive love - in my case it’s always “what’s the catch?” or hold back because the more reliant we feel about someone, the more severe the anxiety of how we will cope when it inevitably end. Also, or certainly in my case, HSPs annotate and will not ask for help.
@falgunithacker1481
@falgunithacker1481 Год назад
Yes it happens , it feels like we care abt the other person so muchh that we want to be there for them , but smtms we become overcaring bcoz we observe a slightest chng in them and other hand it even hurts bcoz some people can't feel the same way you do and they will never understand . Smtms we even expect someone to feel and understand us and be there for us just like we are there for everyone just because we feel so deeply
@elenalatici9568
@elenalatici9568 Год назад
Asking for help has always been a huge challenge, even something as basic as asking someone to help me move a heavy piece of furniture. Since early childhood (am now 76 😱) I learned to be self-reliant and not let on that I needed anything. Thanks for this. I discovered years ago when Elaine Aron first came out with HSP information that I was an HSP, but it helps to be reminded. It's easy to fall back into the feeling that something's wrong with you, especially when someone close to you flat out tells you so. 🙏🏼🤗❤️
@guiseppe36749
@guiseppe36749 Год назад
how tf is this so spot on? I both 'sense' people really well, but don't understand them in any way... very confusing.. but I can't believe everyone just lies all day.. ?
@Yeettube2777
@Yeettube2777 11 месяцев назад
Yeah
@DoofenSpyroDragon16
@DoofenSpyroDragon16 9 месяцев назад
Oh, absolutely. I relate to all your points 👍
@noleenafahy
@noleenafahy 4 года назад
the most annoying thing ever is crying when you're mad/frustrated :( it doesn't even mean you're sensitive because you can't control it
@TanyaVerma
@TanyaVerma 4 года назад
Exactly like why can't my eyes stop crying for a second
@sarahelize7883
@sarahelize7883 4 года назад
I ALWAYS have to cry like I can’t hold it in
@duskstudio1353
@duskstudio1353 4 года назад
Yup yup yup yup yup OML THESE ARE MY PEOPLE!!! AHHH
@duskstudio1353
@duskstudio1353 4 года назад
Sarah Elize same so that kids didn't say "oh there she goes againn" Or just pick on me I would cry in the bathroom and look at the mirror till my eyes weren't red anymore
@janiabmusic
@janiabmusic 4 года назад
I cry when I'm angry cuz I don't wanna hurt that person because I get angry easily too
@MrBlik-ky3cw
@MrBlik-ky3cw 4 года назад
The worst part of having HSP is the second-hand embarrassment. Even movies containing embarrassment kills me.
@filipefealves
@filipefealves 4 года назад
Exactly. I cringe so hard when it happens
@syahdaanandita
@syahdaanandita 4 года назад
yesss
@arianetutor9204
@arianetutor9204 4 года назад
I can't stand it too. Like also reading books that has a cringe content
@pawfium3556
@pawfium3556 4 года назад
I hate comedy movies for this exact reason
@dasampaguita9562
@dasampaguita9562 4 года назад
Am i the only one who experiences a tingly feeling in my gut when thing like these happens? And its very annoying
@chezkanovora1224
@chezkanovora1224 Год назад
I feel bad being an HSP, I feel that I'm a burden to other people. I can't explain myself when I'm being misunderstood. It's hard to be like this because I feel that I'm not as tough as them..
@Nothinghere728
@Nothinghere728 Год назад
Our best option : be quiet
@iheartkuromi8787
@iheartkuromi8787 Год назад
omg samee
@prjdibbu
@prjdibbu Год назад
@@Nothinghere728 Exactly ...that would be best option .
@beanicecookiedwoohoo5503
@beanicecookiedwoohoo5503 Год назад
I relate to this so much
@prodbyvandal
@prodbyvandal Год назад
@@Nothinghere728 exactly
@emmaseirrren
@emmaseirrren Год назад
When she said “empathetic” in the first 30 seconds of the video I thought she said “pathetic” and my heart sank 🥺 THAT IS HOW SENSITIVE I AM 🙊
@SiniSimon
@SiniSimon Год назад
🫠
@naduec0re
@naduec0re Год назад
+1
@Bretsnjev
@Bretsnjev Год назад
Same here :')
@Kaiya637
@Kaiya637 Год назад
I feel like she called me fat.
@jamest4652
@jamest4652 Год назад
@@Kaiya637 fat that was a joke
@sochidala8093
@sochidala8093 4 года назад
*Somebody calls me ugly* My brain: Don’t cry, don’t cry don’t cry My eyes: IT’S RAINING TEARS HALLELUJAH
@bravequeen4650
@bravequeen4650 4 года назад
Someone said "f*ck u" To me Me: 😔💧😢
@th3lostw4nderer
@th3lostw4nderer 4 года назад
Same--
@easytoslip
@easytoslip 4 года назад
but then the moment you realize their comment says more about them (they are ugly for saying such a thing!) than about you (likely not ugly, at least your heart is capable of feeling; some people have hard unfeeling hearts and let us have a moment of silence for how pitiful their lives must be...)
@igravestonei
@igravestonei 4 года назад
Me: *uno reverse card*
@BrotherTree1
@BrotherTree1 4 года назад
@@easytoslip That doesn't mean that it doesn't hurt though...
@anarchiona
@anarchiona 4 года назад
my teacher: raises their voice a tiny bit at me me: DONT CRY DONT CRY DONT CRY DONT CRY
@sineadbarrett1132
@sineadbarrett1132 4 года назад
monkeybarzzz frrrr
@Oak7565
@Oak7565 4 года назад
Been there before :(
@daughterofvermillionhouse
@daughterofvermillionhouse 4 года назад
Haha poor u smolbean 😂yeah ive experienced that bfr eventhough i tried to look unoffended then the teacher was like "oh nonono dont cry-" pft
@sen4845
@sen4845 4 года назад
i can relate fjebrjdjrj
@echobucket6813
@echobucket6813 4 года назад
Omg me I’m like “ act like nothing happened, act like nothing happened, they just asked you to stop talking, it’s ok, they’ll forget it, calm down calm down ARRRGRGRGRR”
@Ticklethatpickle283
@Ticklethatpickle283 Год назад
Here, in this comment section, idk why but i feel safe. I feel like i can relate to almost everyone here. Ive found my people
@nayrabcl
@nayrabcl Год назад
I wish I could also find my people in real life , I feel so misunderstood and alone..
@Amy-cm3wb
@Amy-cm3wb Год назад
@@nayrabcl me too!!
@katien.6356
@katien.6356 Год назад
@@nayrabcl me too but I guess it’ll be hard to find our people in real life because we all try to hide it 🙁
@seanpanigel5494
@seanpanigel5494 Год назад
my psychologist said this is a wonderful trait to have, but it also led me to have social anxiety disorder. it has it's great qualities, but it's definitely not all roses and flowers, and can lead to a lot of emotional stress.
@miyaiun4723
@miyaiun4723 6 месяцев назад
Hi. If you have trauma it can potentially lead to depression if not dealt with it. With too much stress and all kinds of other factors it can get you în a tough spot. Take care of yourselves în all ways possible without forgeting about your souls. Wishing you all the best.
@rosalindarcher6060
@rosalindarcher6060 Месяц назад
It’s a complete curse if you ask me. I’d rather have the emotional range of a teaspoon, I reckon my life would be much easier.
@kukiii3742
@kukiii3742 3 года назад
worst things is that you can't let go of embarrassing memory, whenever any embarrassing memory from past pops up into your head you start cringing and beating yourself over past.
@CynthMzannar
@CynthMzannar 3 года назад
so true.
@emilymarshall7778
@emilymarshall7778 3 года назад
Yeeeeeesssss
@catwizard5847
@catwizard5847 3 года назад
Yessss
@adyhottie
@adyhottie 3 года назад
I mean, if hsp's experience these am i an hsp because i can't stop thinking about something embarrassing that happened so long ago?
@emilymarshall7778
@emilymarshall7778 3 года назад
@@adyhottie bro same. I thought I was the only one😭
@zubaidaqwertyds9371
@zubaidaqwertyds9371 4 года назад
It’s both a blessing and a curse to feel everything so very deeply
@toast8062
@toast8062 4 года назад
@i n it's because you can feel so deeply that it's a blessing. In a way, I guess you have the ability to really look into the beauty of things that many people would overlook. At least that how I think :p but yeah I'm not even sure if I'm an HSP myself, this just sounds a lot like me, but yeah, being in touch with your emotions and stuff could suck at times, but it really can be wonderful in the sense that I'm able to feel a lot? I'm not quite sure how to explain it but uh, it's just very peaceful I guess...when your not overthinking something you did years ago LOL
@magnetisemplayz3839
@magnetisemplayz3839 4 года назад
@@toast8062 hsp are so soft lol. I have an extreme lack of empathy and sympathy so I'm not even close and I'm proud of hit.
@toast8062
@toast8062 4 года назад
@@magnetisemplayz3839 yeah we're pretty soft lol. That's kinda where the problematic part of it comes in. When you can't let go of anything smh ✋😔
@zubaidaqwertyds9371
@zubaidaqwertyds9371 4 года назад
It’s a blessing because you are more compassionate and empathetic while a curse because sometimes you’ve had too much of it that it may become toxic
@morgane_cv
@morgane_cv 4 года назад
@@toast8062 it's very true! It is a blessing because it is like seeing beauty in a simple leaf and that is happiness because you find beauty and positivity in everything. You love life.
@innovizeuk
@innovizeuk Год назад
Many HSPs are on the Autism Spectrum. I always thought I was just sensitive but now at the age of 26 I am realising that I'm an autistic female and I learned to mask my behaviour extremely well. Remember, autistic females have different and more subtle behaviours so RU-vid or google symptoms in females specifically if you are a women :) hope this helps someone out there!
@Sophieslazy
@Sophieslazy Год назад
I will surely do that! Thanks for the tip! One can never learn to much about those subjects! If I'm not concerned, at least I'll know better and will be able to remember useful information if needed one day!
@sandfang
@sandfang Год назад
That's interresting! Can you explain a bit more what you found out they have in common? I cannot see the parallels and similarities clearly yet but I think you're onto something -
@SergioBlackDolphin
@SergioBlackDolphin Год назад
Same here. As a man. Even less represented.
@Yeettube2777
@Yeettube2777 11 месяцев назад
​@@SergioBlackDolphinWe need equalized representation. Autistic men need to be shown & cared about just as much. Saying this as an autistic female feminist.
@Skoopyghost
@Skoopyghost 9 месяцев назад
I am starting to doubt my ASD diagnosis though. I think I am just a just HSP.
@PeriwinkleB
@PeriwinkleB Год назад
I’m actually crying right now; so many of my questions that I was afraid to ask are being answered. I was diagnosed as neurodivergent last month and was told I’m a HSP. This gives me so much peace.
@slimmanne
@slimmanne Год назад
​​@@whatslyssyt's not even a diagnosis... HOW TF DID THAT PERSON GET DIAGNO-
@jezbarredo9430
@jezbarredo9430 11 месяцев назад
It’s not a diagnosis. It’s a personality trait.
@lauraslade5308
@lauraslade5308 9 месяцев назад
they said they were diagnosed as neurodivergent. that can include autism, ADHD, and things such as OCD. @@jezbarredo9430
@aliceinwavyland
@aliceinwavyland 4 года назад
'A very small amount of people have HSP' Everyone who sees this video: 'Me'
@deemeetube
@deemeetube 4 года назад
I was thinking the same, then decided, nah. I multi-task well, think I'm good at problem solving, but I don't cry or feel much to see fake pain, what I'm saying is say people are gonna focus on the hits,woke they ignore the misses
@gems8582
@gems8582 4 года назад
Haha true but a lot of people who think they are HSPs have searched up the video or had it recommended to them...
@YunJaeGDLuv
@YunJaeGDLuv 4 года назад
No negativity here please. Bye.
@aliceinwavyland
@aliceinwavyland 4 года назад
@@gems8582 That's a good point this was reccomend to me and another person I know 🤷🏼‍♀️ so I hadn't thought about that
@aliceinwavyland
@aliceinwavyland 4 года назад
@@YunJaeGDLuv who is being nagative? I think someone might have HSP
@bam9480
@bam9480 2 года назад
don’t see a list yet so- 1. you can’t function without sleep 2. you can’t stand loud noises 3. you often feel emotionally exhausted 4. you scrutinize social interactions (noticing small social ques) 5. you’re easily triggered by violence 6. you have a hard time moving on 7. you’re uncomfortable with change 8. you don’t react well to criticism & conflict 9. you don’t do well under pressure 10. your boundaries are easily crossed 11. you’re your own worst critic 12. you require alone time 13. you’re often misunderstood
@get8bit
@get8bit 2 года назад
14. You are hungry several hours after eating. 15. You often wish you had more money. 16. You require a jacket or sweater in colder weather. 17. You think "mean people" suck. LMAO. This is the dumbest video ever. This crap could apply to anyone.
@hera4462
@hera4462 2 года назад
Okay this is just me at this point
@vistakay
@vistakay 2 года назад
@@get8bit I couldn't make it halfway through this video before I started to look for comments that call out this videos bullshit, yours the first I've seen.
@zackfoster8946
@zackfoster8946 2 года назад
@@get8bit gotta agree with u.
@bibliosmiia
@bibliosmiia 2 года назад
@@get8bit well at least be courteous about it instead of calling someones animation dumb and calling the information crap :/
@oanacehan169
@oanacehan169 Год назад
All true. Discovering HSP was a huge relief for me. For so many years I believed I was wrong for being so different. Now I am grateful for my gifts, even sometimes it's still hard. Once we understand, we can move forward! Thank you for this video! 🙏❤
@katien.6356
@katien.6356 Год назад
Same here, huge relief. I’m spending time reading the comments to confirm that I’m not alone.
@nadaelnokaly4950
@nadaelnokaly4950 Год назад
saaame check my comment ❤
@veni5126
@veni5126 10 месяцев назад
Yeah I don't know anymore, doing what do I spend more time lately. Being glad that I'm sensitive and that I can understand what others go through easily, or wishing I wasn't so sensitive, because it's really hard as I often feel down for hours or days after hearing a hint of criticism
@SentimentalSerenade
@SentimentalSerenade 10 месяцев назад
"As a highly sensitive person myself, I can totally relate to these 13 problems! It's tough feeling everything so deeply and being easily overwhelmed by sensory input. But at the same time, being highly sensitive can also be a gift - it allows us to appreciate beauty and connect with others on a deeper level. It's important for us to recognize and honor our sensitivity, while also finding ways to manage it in a world that can be overwhelming at times. Thanks for sharing this insightful video!"
@dominicksebastien2254
@dominicksebastien2254 10 месяцев назад
It's a gift and a problem, like any other trait. Some of these problems can be lessened, I managed to not take things personally and, very important, to say no. Others, I doubt can ever be solved - like needing quite alone time. My biggest concern was always being accused of being lazy when people can't understand that dealing with interactions, others'emotions and social setting exhausts me, us, more than others.
@billfarley9167
@billfarley9167 6 месяцев назад
You judge them as problems. Your life will be more content and much happier when you come to realize these are positive traits. The key is to integrate them into your daily life and use them in a positive way as you mature. I'm now 90 years old and an HSP. Life is a blast.
@netfelixandchill5329
@netfelixandchill5329 3 года назад
I hate the fact that I overread people’s body language..like just sensing their tone gives me many impressions and I start to make conclusions
@ankitsawner2538
@ankitsawner2538 3 года назад
"I start to make conclusion" and the problem is many times conclusion is right (either bad or good )
@senroillust4114
@senroillust4114 3 года назад
Yeah, it does sucks
@juezaneunice4193
@juezaneunice4193 3 года назад
mee
@davedowden
@davedowden 3 года назад
JESUS saves, helps and nurtures. He told me to stop judging others lest i be judged. It's a trait that can be trained for the better and love of others ♥️
@zenants4802
@zenants4802 3 года назад
me too :(
@terrifictofu3639
@terrifictofu3639 4 года назад
“Your very presence makes this world a better place” cries
@necforce
@necforce 4 года назад
opps, i posted just before reading your comment xD but hey^^ *no longer cries but smiles :-)*
@wowiwowi6788
@wowiwowi6788 3 года назад
I nearly cried because of your comment. Jesus, what an exhausting World 😂😂
@peachylemonade4319
@peachylemonade4319 3 года назад
The funny thing is I actually teared up XD whats wrong with me 😂 lucky I didn't cry cuz my mom is here. She hates it when I cry especially cuz i cry too much over little things.
@NoName-ld7gg
@NoName-ld7gg 3 года назад
Ikr. I can’t take the slightest of a compliment.
@iromishuka
@iromishuka 3 года назад
terrifictofu36 OH MY FKN GOD Y E S
@BabyChili1
@BabyChili1 Год назад
I have this thing with noises. If the tv is on, my husband is listening to music and then gets on the phone talking loud, I have to turn one of the noises off and go to my quiet spot. It takes me 10-20 minutes to regain my composure and come back out of the room and maybe continue the tv or whatever. I get scattered and frazzled easily. I tell my husband “ Nope! I can’t to three. Turn that off or I’ll turn mine off.” I can’t really do concerts anymore, too much stimuli. I don’t understand the need to all crowd together and have loudness from every direction. I also have a preconceived notion of how things should turn out and they usually don’t go that way and I’m constantly let down. Oh and I noticed that as more and more people get around me, the more I can’t focus and get nervous. I love one on one friendships, groups are to scattered for me. I do admire people who do associate in groups. Recently, if I see violence on tv, I turn the channel, it’s just too much. Society has gone wild. The news isn’t in everyday in our house, I have to take a break from it often. I want to laugh, and find it hard to find truly funny comedy anymore.
@lilols5299
@lilols5299 Год назад
That video popped up in my recommendations and It's a weird feeling to finally be able to put a word on a bunch of feelings I had for so long. I'm not sure being HSP is such a good thing in our society, it felt so bad for so long, always feeling misunderstood and tired because of the strength it takes to confront the world. But I'm still trying even if it feels like I'm alone.
@cinnamngirl_
@cinnamngirl_ 4 года назад
it’s all over when someone asks if you’re okay-
@smoothsashimi7048
@smoothsashimi7048 4 года назад
I burst into tears immediately. I tell myself to hold it in but I can’t😭😭😭
@JesusChrist-mu3lr
@JesusChrist-mu3lr 4 года назад
Me: * almost cries * Anyone: Are you okay? Also me: aw _heeeeeeell_ nah
@desertlove3350
@desertlove3350 4 года назад
or do you need help? I make a joke, "Yes, I need a lot of help." But I'm not kidding. 🤍
@nightsky1423
@nightsky1423 4 года назад
once my math teacher asked me if i was okay and before i could even answer i got a panic attack and had to leave class
@twilightlight_
@twilightlight_ 4 года назад
It's so weird that when someone actually asks that we tear up a bit, and then when we actually say what's wrong, we feel like we're just bothering them. Atleast in an introvert's perspective.
@stefcervantes
@stefcervantes 4 года назад
And when you get told “Oh, you’re going to cry again”; it’s the actual worst.
@rinabeana_
@rinabeana_ 4 года назад
FACTS
@hugodeandres8618
@hugodeandres8618 4 года назад
That’s relatable to any person. I am certainly not a HSP and can relate to that whenever I have cried and I have been told that
@katerina9159
@katerina9159 4 года назад
Hugo de Andrés we take different meaning to it because we do it all the time without being able to control it
@beth7132
@beth7132 4 года назад
“you’re overeating just stop pls” - me “you’re the one who started crying!”- person
@sensitivekitten2929
@sensitivekitten2929 4 года назад
and being called a cry baby because someone yelling makes me panic and cry....*sad cat noises*
@yousername16
@yousername16 Год назад
My therapist told me it's a wonderful trait to have and I'm just wondering for whom? Being highly sensitive in a burning world is just a self destruct button. People consider you as ignorant when you tell them that you can't handle watching /hearing the news so you limit the intake extremly. It's only a bliss for others but rarely for the highly sensitive person him- or herself.
@veni5126
@veni5126 10 месяцев назад
I wonder about it too. When I'm feeling down, when someone tells me one bad thing about myself, when someone tells me I could have done something differently, when someone wants something from me and I try explaining them I don't want to, but end up saying yes and then being mad at myself. Being sorrowful that no one understands me. Wishing I wasn't so sensitive. Worrying about everything little thing that happened. Putting the blame on me while justifying others. They don't have a problem pointing things out when I do something wrong. But when I, after being silent for a longer time, finally say that what they do is not okay, they're so surprised. They suddenly feel attacked and find me unreasonable. Yeah how often I wish I was different. Or maybe for others to understand my point of view. Why is it that I can understand them and justify their actions while they just can't or find me unreasonable. It would be just so much easier if no one was sensitive. I mean why would I care about those little things? Why don't others care? Why can't I not care? Does it make the world a better place? Does it? What does it give me that I notice the smallest changes in people's moods? Right but it's about me, not the world. Honestly at the moment I don't see how is it good for either; me or the world
@vprovisngkate3853
@vprovisngkate3853 10 месяцев назад
​@@veni5126THANK YOU
@user-xd2ct5sm3h
@user-xd2ct5sm3h 9 месяцев назад
I'm not sure about being highly sensitive, I think my nervous system was tripped by trauma as a baby, I was sick. I don't see it as a blessing cos even if you see or sense problems what can you do really? Road to hell paved with good intentions. 😢
@rosalindarcher6060
@rosalindarcher6060 Месяц назад
Personally I wouldn’t wish it on anyone
@ramsanders6941
@ramsanders6941 Год назад
I relate to a lot of these as an autistic person, and my neurodivergent friends share and talk about issues like these. Most of them tie in with sensory overloads/sensory issues in general, as well as the general issues caused by autism and other neurodivergencies. Some of the ones that I experience personally, like needing excess alone time, are caused by masking too much and needing to wind down after sensory overloads, meltdowns, or just being with too many people for too long.
@PokieGirlForever1
@PokieGirlForever1 Год назад
A lot of people tried telling me I was just a HSP my whole life. I'm not. I know that lol. I've always known that. Since I was born, the talk about possible autism didn't really stop, it was constantly hinted at and redirected with my other comorbidities... my psych finally said its time to get evaluated, they've exhausted their resources.. I'm sure hearing HSP to someone either not or on the neurodivergent spectrum (but not ASD) can be helpful but this drives me up the wall sometimes because this actually downplays the intensity, frequency and life long hindrances of my own "behaviors" mainly avoidance, and the issues I struggle with daily. My providers trying to label me as HSP didn't help anything but exasperated my issues.
@lisahuala102
@lisahuala102 3 месяца назад
if you need the alone time, it's not excess. It's necessary for YOUR health and well being.
@heeseulchoi197
@heeseulchoi197 4 года назад
When you are a highly sensitive person, an introvert, and have social anxiety. Boom! Game over
@spray322
@spray322 4 года назад
Sounds like me :)
@heeseulchoi197
@heeseulchoi197 4 года назад
@Theuniverse Isaniceplace It's very nice to meet you too
@takoyaki799
@takoyaki799 4 года назад
Yep that's me☹️
@embry7173
@embry7173 4 года назад
And Cherophobia for the cherry on top
@harrystyles9990
@harrystyles9990 4 года назад
Hey twin
@s0natagrl
@s0natagrl 3 года назад
When you're the ONLY highly sensitive person in your family and nobody gets you. Its a lonely life.
@sandyalwaysreal3889
@sandyalwaysreal3889 3 года назад
🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️
@Dark_Ladies
@Dark_Ladies 3 года назад
Relatable
@ioputz
@ioputz 3 года назад
Isn't wrong
@sonator14
@sonator14 3 года назад
Yes
@netra7383
@netra7383 3 года назад
And if they're toxic it's worst
@GreatLee05
@GreatLee05 4 месяца назад
I can honestly say I check many of these boxes. The things that I can most definitely relate to are: I get emotionally exhausted easily, I scrutinize social interactions, I have a hard time moving on, I’m somewhat uncomfortable with change depending on what it is), I don’t react well to criticism or conflict (this is a big one for me), I don’t do well under pressure (I get overwhelmed easily), boundaries are easily crossed (I have a hard time saying no), I’m my own worst critic, I require alone time (my famous phrase is, “I need peace,” & I’m often misunderstood (100% on this one!) I often feel that I have to explain myself because I’m very much understood. It’s exhausting & frustrating, & many times it leads to conflicts. This is because people think I’m complaining, when all I’m doing is trying to explain myself. I truly am a kind hearted & friendly person, but over the years I’ve become more introverted because it’s so hard for me to get others to understand me. I also feel deeply & always go out of my way to help others. This often leads to people taking advantage of my kind nature as well as confuse my kindness for weakness. That’s when I get mad at myself & wish I could be less sensitive & have the ability to say no when I need to. 😔
@elizabethhannah4704
@elizabethhannah4704 Год назад
Hello, here I am, an HSP. I have learnt to love and accept myself, warts and all. I am so fortunate to have entered my 7th decade, reasonably intact!!! I love using humour to lighten up my day and to watch others smile and chuckle. Thank You for this information, it leads to further insights.
@Nicky-td5so
@Nicky-td5so 3 года назад
Whenever I’m sad and trying to hold back tears. Then someone try’s to comfort me BAM! Full on waterfall down my face
@oogabooga-ye8ez
@oogabooga-ye8ez 3 года назад
YuP my eyes be like “Turn on the Niagara Falls!-“
@flashpointcyber260
@flashpointcyber260 3 года назад
me too
@shanashana6655
@shanashana6655 3 года назад
Same
@tinatiara2924
@tinatiara2924 3 года назад
my god are u my soulmate?
@w1975b
@w1975b 3 года назад
happens to me too, and other people crying either I will start crying or have a hard time not crying
@infjguy123
@infjguy123 4 года назад
It's possible that my eyes start building tears in seconds just by listening a melodious music of guitar or piano
@DiamondsRexpensive
@DiamondsRexpensive 4 года назад
Acoustic guitars, get to me too. Even if the melody isn't sad or anything.
@tudonostrinques7532
@tudonostrinques7532 4 года назад
Me
@s0ulsisterr
@s0ulsisterr 4 года назад
omg i thought i was the only one
@hannahcroft7708
@hannahcroft7708 4 года назад
I used to cry at certain songs for no reason and it scared me how they triggered such an emotional response
@aaliyah4681
@aaliyah4681 4 года назад
omg my sister plays the violin and whenever we go to her concerts all of the orchestra lives sound make my eyes well up
@sherierodrigues1569
@sherierodrigues1569 Год назад
Not being able to relax more, instead of being wound up and afraid of the outcome. Less afraid, 73, and I'm getting there, better late than never. If I had 1 wish, it would be that no one had fear in their lives. Its crippling. Hugs and a Merry Christmas to all. Sherie Rodrigues from Australia
@TheOnlyRyanDBD
@TheOnlyRyanDBD Год назад
I think one of the best parts about this video is that it has revealed a community in all these comments, one that many of us more than likely never knew existed! It seems there are many of us in the same boat, a refreshing feeling that brings!
@sincerelyissie2725
@sincerelyissie2725 4 года назад
if someone comforts me while i’m already crying mAKES ME CRY EVEN MORE
@aliciahayhope2252
@aliciahayhope2252 4 года назад
Me to! Then I feel bad for crying so much so I try to hold it in then it gets worse and then I feel even worse for them sitting there while I cry I CRY EVEN MORE!
@jessicas253
@jessicas253 4 года назад
Same here. But that's mostly because I feel dumb for crying and someone being so kind to me while I'm feeling like I don't deserve it, breaks down all the dams.
@butterflybeans2854
@butterflybeans2854 4 года назад
Broooo I feel bad, so I’ll cry, and then I’ll feel bad for crying, and then someone will notice, so I’ll cry more because it’s embarrassing for me, and then they’ll try to comfort me, which makes me awkward and so I cry more because I feel bad because I know they won’t be able to comfort me, and then they start trying to comfort me by touching me (hugging, rubbing arms, other stuffs, etc etc.) aNd I HATE being touched when I’m emotional, so I get irritated and angry at them so I cry more, but hey it’s not their fault they’re just trying their best, they’re trying to help you you ungrateful mcnugget! So I cry more because I feel bad because I just swatted them or maybe even scratched them/hit them because being touched while emotional makes me uncomfortable and irritable, so I might have hurt them because of my past trauma, which wasn’t even related to them, but anyways I feel bad for maybe hurting them while they’re trying to make me feel better, and then i just think back to the trauma and then I get uncomfortable and angry and shameful and embarrassed, and viola, I cry some more. I really hate being an HSP lmao
@cmcphotography1
@cmcphotography1 4 года назад
Then they say "Stop crying" as if it would do much
@Iloveyou-hi8jj
@Iloveyou-hi8jj 4 года назад
same
@donika73
@donika73 4 года назад
The worst thing is when you're doing just fine and something happens and someone tells you "oh no is she going to start crying again" and then just because they said that you start crying.
@hiklight
@hiklight 4 года назад
Yes. that's right.
@cora.makes.art.1960
@cora.makes.art.1960 4 года назад
I HATE IT WHEN THIS HAPPENS IT JUST GIVES THEM MORE THINGS TO BULLY YOU ABOUT AND IT’S JUST JDHFJHSJWHFISJS
@irisel9329
@irisel9329 4 года назад
never related to something more
@nonochangbinno
@nonochangbinno 4 года назад
i relate to this too, i hope people can stop being so mean. stay strong
@camilacisternaalonso5096
@camilacisternaalonso5096 4 года назад
@@cora.makes.art.1960 same:(
@kelam710
@kelam710 Год назад
This is most definitely me. Combine this with mental illness (which I have) and life can be a struggle.
@gloriaborger952
@gloriaborger952 Год назад
This really hit the spot! I am extremely sensitive and although good at hiding it, I have been working on myself for awhile. but it's really nice to know many others feel the same as I do :) thank you for this video!
@MissParker.
@MissParker. 3 года назад
1. You can’t function without sleep 2. You can’t stand loud noises 3. You often feel emotionally exhausted 4. You scrutinize social interactions 5. Easily triggered by violence 6. You have a hard time moving on 7. You’re uncomfortable with change 8. You don’t react well to criticism in conflict 9. You don’t do well under pressure 10. Your boundaries are easily crossed 11. You are your own worst critic 12. You require alone time 13. You are often misunderstood
@magalynoel8752
@magalynoel8752 3 года назад
me thinking everyone was like this o_o also I appriecate how soft and low her voice is it's really nice and soothing
@indigo3610
@indigo3610 3 года назад
I agree to 12 of the 13 facts in this in my case.
@Bonkeyable
@Bonkeyable 3 года назад
That is a better description than most people just saying "crying". I think if you cry all the time that's something else.
@narayaumar3130
@narayaumar3130 3 года назад
Wow, it is the most accurate things I ever related to
@calamitystonez
@calamitystonez 3 года назад
Hahahahaha me
@peachygal9971
@peachygal9971 4 года назад
“Are you thinking of a mistake u made, it’s okay” Me: starts tearing up
@celinegautreaux8703
@celinegautreaux8703 4 года назад
No no nooooo!!! Don’t tear up! 🥺🥺🥺
@christinemott2878
@christinemott2878 4 года назад
yes
@Gigi-we8hm
@Gigi-we8hm 4 года назад
me
@clintdona4586
@clintdona4586 4 года назад
nicole morales literally happened to me yesterday
@trishnasethi024
@trishnasethi024 4 года назад
I thought its jst me ...bt thnk god u r here
@jayliu7786
@jayliu7786 Год назад
HSP people are perceptive, empathetic, creative, compassionate, intuitive and self-aware. 1. Can't function without sleep 2. Can't stand loud noises 3. Often feel emotionally exhausted, frequently absorb other people's feelings 4. Scrutinize social interactions, over-analyze 5. Triggered by violence 6. Have a hard time moving on 7. Uncomfortable with change 8. Don't react well to criticism and conflict 9. Don't do well under pressure 10. Boundaries easily crossed 11. You're your own worst critic 12. You require alone time 13. You're often misunderstood.
@patataum1757
@patataum1757 Год назад
No cuz I was sleeping few hours the last months and I thought I was burnout, I’m changing that slowly
@patataum1757
@patataum1757 Год назад
Nah cuz why is this so accurate it hurts
@jayliu7786
@jayliu7786 Год назад
@@patataum1757 hsp people are special, it's great knowing that you are empathetic and compassionate
@jayliu7786
@jayliu7786 Год назад
@@patataum1757 having a steady sleep routine, like going to bed at the same time and getting seven hours of sleep is helpful
@ramzar7615
@ramzar7615 11 месяцев назад
@@jayliu7786 Are HSP's clingy (in a good way) and affectionate?
@beanicecookiedwoohoo5503
@beanicecookiedwoohoo5503 Год назад
I never realized that this really could be it! I struggle with ALL of these things but i just figured something was wrong with me. I feel so relieved but overwhelmed at the same time to know it wasn’t just me not doing anything right. Thank you so much for making this video, just learning about what’s really going on with myself helps so so so much.
@twmedia-film
@twmedia-film 4 года назад
I’m not depressed, I’m not suicidal, I finally realised, I’m just highly sensitive. Thanks for this video.
@amaluceafarul
@amaluceafarul 4 года назад
same!!!!!!!!!!
@hugodeandres8618
@hugodeandres8618 4 года назад
OMG, everyone has ‘depression’ or is ‘highly sensitive’ but no one has a proper diagnosis. We just trying to be cool and different at any cost
@darkix3455
@darkix3455 4 года назад
Hugo de Andrés some people could not but a lot of people do have a professional diagnosis, whether it be from a doctor or therapist.
@charlies2160
@charlies2160 4 года назад
Same! I never knew this was a thing but I knew something was up and I realize I definitely have hsp
@kyravanmeijl731
@kyravanmeijl731 4 года назад
Hate to break it to you, but being HSP can actually trigger those things very easily. I am still depressed sometimes and I really was suicidal, but knowing how to deal with yourself helps making you feel better.
@rumisanes
@rumisanes 4 года назад
“Your presence makes the world a better place” My sensitive dumbass: _DONT CRY DONT CRY DONT CRY DONT CRY DONT CRY DONT CRYYYYY_
@rakshanamahendran5514
@rakshanamahendran5514 4 года назад
r a y I can hear this 😂
@ahnrho
@ahnrho 4 года назад
Wait til someone tells you this up front, in-person.
@thememeguy2195
@thememeguy2195 4 года назад
Peter Parker: Ahh, little snowflake Jr gonna cry?
@sassyytea
@sassyytea 4 года назад
funny cuz I actually cried
@fernandadealencar1158
@fernandadealencar1158 4 года назад
lol me, i feel you. i mean, i truly feel you dude.
@SuDzD
@SuDzD Год назад
I deffinetly relate to the majority of these things and the message at the end saying ”your very pressence makes the world a better place” really just hit diffrent for me especially as someone trying my best to make it better where i can. To all brothers and sisters who are HSP Keep up the good fight, You are not alone we understand eatchother. Much love from Sweden 🇸🇪
@francoisbroukx1244
@francoisbroukx1244 7 месяцев назад
I'm a man, 68 years old. The way I learned I was "sensitive" was around my 7 years, being a boy ans sensitive is a good recipe to be bullied, as you said, I didn't understand violence and cruelty, so I became the target. As teen, I had mastered the art of "not crying", what ever happened, I also learned I could not hurt other people without hurting myself.I became stoic before I knew it was a thing. It didn't stop the bullying, I was a "strange" guy, I could "read minds". I was a "difficult child", so I've been expelled from 4 schools, not understanding, then, why. Later, as an adult, I got used to have perfect strangers telling me their life...and their problems. Why to me? When I ask to some of them: because I seemed a "nice" guy. My daughter, years later, told me I was HSP, The concept did not exist when I was young. Now I know, but I still can't stand more then 5 people around me. Saturation?
@candycottrell6469
@candycottrell6469 6 месяцев назад
I can very much relate to not hurting someone without hurting myself. My dream of being a nurse went out the door when I realized I could not even stick someone for a drop of blood in my one physiology class in high school. I struggle now in my martial arts class when we do moves that we should make our partner tap out. I can not do it, but now I see why. I related to this whole video.
@francoisbroukx1244
@francoisbroukx1244 6 месяцев назад
@@candycottrell6469 there is a way; "increase your pain threshold". Philosophically you can go for "Stoicism", in practice, when possible, I anticipated intellectually the coming chock. With time you can learn to mitigate, it is still not comfortable but it get easier.
@rachelee8801
@rachelee8801 4 года назад
As an hsp, I've spent my whole life feeling like I don't belong. It's lonely.
@thermrm
@thermrm 4 года назад
:( hugs
@dolorespallares2735
@dolorespallares2735 4 года назад
A life long by stander/opserver without ability to participe in groups, parties or small talk.
@scres87
@scres87 4 года назад
Sometimes I feel like I’m an alien Not from this world
@newly4293
@newly4293 4 года назад
i ghost wrote this
@evilpompom
@evilpompom 4 года назад
Want to not belong together?
@khadyndiaye5999
@khadyndiaye5999 4 года назад
SUMMARY 1. You cant function without sleep 2. You cant stand loud noises 3. You often feel emontional exhausted 4. You scrutinize social interactions 5. Youre easly triggered by violence 6. You have a hard time moving on 7. Youre uncomfortable with change 8. You dont react well to critisicm and conflict 9. You dont do well under pressure 10. Youre boundries are easly crossed 11. You are your worst critic 12. You require alone time 13. You are often misunderstood
@aabe1189
@aabe1189 4 года назад
Thanks! :-)
@shwetap8531
@shwetap8531 4 года назад
I'm ALL OF THEM
@Bella-qw4re
@Bella-qw4re 4 года назад
Shweta P Me too. 😫
@RoyalRock483x
@RoyalRock483x 4 года назад
Yeah that’s me.
@andreanygaard2277
@andreanygaard2277 4 года назад
Shweta P me too.. Well ups
@LeGeND-12
@LeGeND-12 Год назад
Wow. I’m floored . Now I know why there’s days I can’t literally take calls from people - even my closest friends and family.
@beckym8245
@beckym8245 Год назад
I'm constantly reading the atmosphere for changes, no matter how subtle. Then I go and analyse and magnify any changes I perceived. It's exhausting.
@timeapeterfy6058
@timeapeterfy6058 3 года назад
Most annoying is that I can't stand up for myself, whenever I face a conflict I get stuck, blocked and I can't even think of a single argument for explaining my point of view or just simply defend myself, and I am happy if I don't burst out in tears. And then when I am completely alone thousands of ideas and possible replies come and attack my brain....hello, where were you a few minutes ago??????
@janag600
@janag600 3 года назад
That's exactly how I react too. I get all blocked, can't move and can't even look the person who's yelling in the eye.. even if I know that I didn't do anything wrong. Then I either cry or have a panic attack.. or both 😓 And in the middle of the night I can't sleep because my brain then thinks of all the answers/reactions I should have had 🤦
@timeapeterfy6058
@timeapeterfy6058 3 года назад
@@janag600 I wanted to ask if you do anything to learn to take a stand, but than I realized that I don't either 🤣🤣 whenever I try to do anything it all starts again
@SwtTeaLdy
@SwtTeaLdy 3 года назад
TOTALLY relatable.
@chelseajo91
@chelseajo91 3 года назад
I am the same way
@thatbluegirl7528
@thatbluegirl7528 3 года назад
I don't like how much this relates to me😩
@ememntekpere2577
@ememntekpere2577 4 года назад
“you cry like literally all the time” “you are such a crybaby omg” “just get over it you’re fine. you cry literally all the time.” “jeez how many times do you cry in a day?” alright first of all, CHILLL😭😭😭😭
@roaeden559
@roaeden559 4 года назад
Same ,spent my whole life being called a crybaby but you know it's good,it's cool 👌🏾😭
@myheartwillstopinjoy8142
@myheartwillstopinjoy8142 4 года назад
When I was a child, I was always told "stop crying", "ugh, she's gonna cry again", "there's no reason for you to be crying right now", til I became numb and I couldn't cry anymore in front of anyone ... Now that I'm an adult, I'm slowly but surely reconnecting with my crybaby side, and letting it come back to the surface :)
@iamadreamer3149
@iamadreamer3149 4 года назад
Fortunately I hold my tears back pretty well in public so I can avoid stares, questions and awkward attention in general. But then people think I am alright when I am not really.
@eloize.m2439
@eloize.m2439 4 года назад
I got BULLIED in elementary school for being crybaby
@welcometovibespace5596
@welcometovibespace5596 4 года назад
*hears that phrases* *cries even one hour more for Heart that and feel there something wrong with me*
@wendyluber4309
@wendyluber4309 7 месяцев назад
Once when I was in fifth grade a friend that lived in my neighborhood had been sick for a long time and came back to school on the day we had a test. I sat next to her and was so worried about her being able to do well that I glanced over to see how she was doing. The teacher thought I was copying, I was not. I was so upset. She embarrassed me in front of the entire class and I was mortified. But how do you explain that you care so much that you were worried about her and who would believe you! She changed my seat right then. But being so sensitive I didn’t say a thing. I couldn’t believe she would think I would copy, much less copy off of someone that hadn’t even been in school for weeks. I am now in my 70’s and have never forgotten this. Just lately have been watching things about HSP’s and am so glad I finally understand that being sensitive is not bad, just different. Always was told I was too sensitive and emotional like it was a bad thing. But, learned to appreciate my sensitivity. My skin was even sensitive when I was very young and I remember that some clothes actually hurt to me because some seams would bother me. I loved the story about The Princess and the Pea because I felt that at least someone understood and was like me! Bet the person that wrote that fairy tale was a HSP!
@SharonCullenArt
@SharonCullenArt 9 месяцев назад
All 13 . One of my biggest issues are socializing with friends. I want to but after a couple hours I need to get away. A wedding on Saturday almost broke me. I knew so many people at the wedding and enjoyed it but I struggled so hard. Now that I’m getting older, watching friends, neighbors, family become I’ll and die, I’m lost . My dog died a year and a half ago and I have a 10 month old puppy but a, still grieving horribly over that loss. I still cry about the loss. Being the baby of my family, I fear the loss of my siblings and being left behind. I hope God knows I can’t handle it and takes me first. The older I get the more difficult it is.
4 года назад
I cry when someone else cries I cry when a teacher even raises their voice a little bit at me I cry when I dont know the answer to something because it feels like I let the freaking teacher down I cry when Something is to loud I cry at every emotion but not happy Its so annoying but i cant help it the only thing that makes me the most happy is making my own songs and playing the ukelele Update: lol I am indeed a high sensitive person, I got it checked and have now a therapist :)
@ennycho8431
@ennycho8431 4 года назад
yeah it's really unfortunate :( also that is a really cute hobby, playing the uke and making songs 😊
@hobivuitton
@hobivuitton 4 года назад
Omg same like earlier this year my teacher caught me wearing AirPods and they were disappointed bc I’m one of the quiet respectful kids and I started tearing up 😭
@mattyspratt9906
@mattyspratt9906 4 года назад
hell yes ukulele HSPs (also yup i can second all of that -the feeling of letting people down especially, even if yk they're chill)
@Marissa-ky1it
@Marissa-ky1it 4 года назад
I cry when the teacher hardly yells at me even tho I try to keep it in
@sofiawood5784
@sofiawood5784 4 года назад
My math teacher cried one day bc she was disappointed in how loud our class was and I started crying too :/
@ambercollins7681
@ambercollins7681 3 года назад
What sucks is when you avoid people because you don’t want to feel everyone’s emotions because it affects you.
@tia67ca
@tia67ca 3 года назад
I was taught by a therapist, to picture yourself holding a mirror that is facing away from you, and then to picture someone else emotions bouncing off the mirror before it can touch you and going back to them. It takes practice, and it takes patience with yourself, but it really does help me. Hopefully it can help you and everyone else that has HSP.
@ambercollins7681
@ambercollins7681 3 года назад
@@tia67ca thanks for sharing this with me! Hopefully it will help.
@TK-ij2xi
@TK-ij2xi 3 года назад
There are crystals for that. I carry amethyst or tourmaline for just that reason.
@createyourreality1111
@createyourreality1111 3 года назад
Yes! I need to limit my time around other people because I pick up too much.
@hannahpierce2831
@hannahpierce2831 3 года назад
Yes totally
@majoymajo2020
@majoymajo2020 Год назад
I really felt when she spoke about:. " you are your worst critic" and that HSPs normally just say yes although they want to say no ,due to their compassion with others
@daughterofvermillionhouse
@daughterofvermillionhouse 4 года назад
I think the most hated things that a HSP heard is "stop being so sensitive!" "why are you so sensitive??" Edit : really??? Omg hsucjsbd- *hold sobs* thanks guys ;-;
@stevensanchez2032
@stevensanchez2032 4 года назад
Basically saying why are you still living
@sqwooshymooshy5312
@sqwooshymooshy5312 4 года назад
In kindergarten I was crying because I misheard directions and had to redo a worksheet and the teachers were like WHY IS IT WET?
@ashleysophia5839
@ashleysophia5839 4 года назад
yeah when someone says that it makes me even more sensitive
@Aditi001
@Aditi001 4 года назад
True
@lilathomas9043
@lilathomas9043 4 года назад
I hear this so many times that I start telling this to myself when I feel bad..
@ellahatesela9056
@ellahatesela9056 4 года назад
does anyone else literally just start crying when someone else cries, like u just take their emotion in and just start crying with them
@alyssam9266
@alyssam9266 4 года назад
yesss the empathy is real lmao, applies to all emotions and so secondhand embarrassment is through the roof
@MsElinorh
@MsElinorh 4 года назад
ella hates ela yes, so embarrassing! I don’t even have to know the person very well.
@chip3386
@chip3386 4 года назад
I cant watch a movie drama without crying...
@sparklingdaisy3169
@sparklingdaisy3169 4 года назад
Yes. I don't like crying because when I was growing up crying was a big no no. My dad told me one day that I'm not a womanly because real women don't cry and are strong emotionally.
@nataliaturner4845
@nataliaturner4845 4 года назад
I've had genuine instances of that where it was totally involuntary, but I've also had instances of being very insensitive. I clicked on this out of curiosity and I see a complete overlap with my INFJ personality type & ADHD/RDS symptoms, but I just don't feel comfortable claiming to be HSP bc there is a lot about my personality type & disorders that get in the way of being consistently empathic (lack of theory of mind, low EQ). Definitely a part of me that I want to cultivate & be more in touch with tho!
@lucileofvenus
@lucileofvenus Год назад
I have ADHD and have heard that a common attribute is emotional sensitivity. People called me a crybaby in middle school constantly but now I feel like I can understand myself more instead of feeling embarrassed.
@tesscovello9820
@tesscovello9820 Год назад
My therapist recently told me im highly sensitive and it has made SO MUCH sense since.
@merlex5044
@merlex5044 3 года назад
My girlfriend is highly sensitive. Taking notes so I can take even better care of her ❤️
@siriasouza5264
@siriasouza5264 3 года назад
That's sweet
@ziarrahshabazz9443
@ziarrahshabazz9443 3 года назад
So sweet omg 😢💕
@starie3498
@starie3498 3 года назад
Awww
@gravityarts_lhf3234
@gravityarts_lhf3234 3 года назад
You learning this will definitely help you, hsp are misunderstood a lot.
@deestefmorr
@deestefmorr 3 года назад
you are wonderful.
@maxinefloresta4765
@maxinefloresta4765 4 года назад
Me: *cries into my small mistake* Everyone: *you're overacting stop crying* Me: *cries even more*
@junkyupedia7348
@junkyupedia7348 4 года назад
Same
@sunitajain1336
@sunitajain1336 4 года назад
100th like.. Well, *SAME!!* 😖😭😭
@hana_stars
@hana_stars 4 года назад
I CAN RELAAAAAAATE
@thefoolsfavorite
@thefoolsfavorite 4 года назад
That's why I always hide it..
@anto-yf5dd
@anto-yf5dd 3 года назад
Saaaaame
@jellynax
@jellynax Год назад
In my friend group there are two highly sensitive people actually, me and my friend. Everyone always is sympathetic and thankful towards my friend because they’re more obvious about it, while I try to hide it more. Most of the time though it feels like when I do bring this up people just think I’m seeking attention by copying my friend…
@marlstarl8791
@marlstarl8791 4 года назад
Something I want to point out: this is a matter of personality not an illness!!
@liviahibberson9760
@liviahibberson9760 4 года назад
I do wish it was an illness so i could have something to blame it on.
@bellacurry6450
@bellacurry6450 4 года назад
@@liviahibberson9760 mood
@puffcatco
@puffcatco 4 года назад
@@bellacurry6450 BIG mood.
@Foxmagik
@Foxmagik 4 года назад
It feels like an illness
@lg2608
@lg2608 4 года назад
My brother always says that I don't have personality... I'd never understand what does he meant...
@sugarandpie9123
@sugarandpie9123 4 года назад
*"It's both a blessing and a curse to feel everything very deeply."* Edit: OMG!! 1.3K likes!!! Thanks everybody!!
@Jz_jimnie
@Jz_jimnie 4 года назад
I agree army 💜
@taetaechimchim930
@taetaechimchim930 4 года назад
Mhm 💜
@sugarandpie9123
@sugarandpie9123 4 года назад
ARMYYYYY!!! Guys!!! We're literally EVERYWHERE!!!!!
@myamohammed8223
@myamohammed8223 4 года назад
Same omg ARMY
@chickennugget6172
@chickennugget6172 4 года назад
Same, let’s go army!
@Hotasice77
@Hotasice77 Год назад
I see something people who are not sensitive don't usually see because I am highly sensitive. It was hard to embrace that I was born with the sensitivity overwhelming me but eventually it got me to think that the creativity that I have is related to the sensitivity and I appreciate that :) and I am willing to do something good with it for the society..
@jewelzw
@jewelzw Год назад
I felt these deep in my soul, with the exception of two: I love horror movies and eating at new places. So nice to feel seen after 40 years of hearing “don’t be so sensitive”.
@themagicfarawaytree21
@themagicfarawaytree21 Год назад
That's exactly what I thought! I actually find comfort in gore and spooky things
@gahbrielluiz
@gahbrielluiz 4 месяца назад
Same hehe
@bhuvi_78
@bhuvi_78 3 месяца назад
@@themagicfarawaytree21same lol
@pallmellia9134
@pallmellia9134 4 года назад
My best friend is an HSP. She makes everyone around her happy. She is sunshine of mine and my friends lives.
@lu3791
@lu3791 4 года назад
But at the same time those people are nervous and shy, depressed and hurt
@azraiseatingnoodles02167
@azraiseatingnoodles02167 4 года назад
you're a really good friend for mentioning her :]
@miljenko4209
@miljenko4209 4 года назад
Hmmm all oversensitive people i know sre bitches
@isle_of_avalon7856
@isle_of_avalon7856 4 года назад
@@miljenko4209 they may not being meaning to be.
@miljenko4209
@miljenko4209 4 года назад
@@isle_of_avalon7856 oh they sure as hell are believe me and what if ghey werent to its their problem theyre hypersensitive i wonder if there is some gore-ish treatment like yk beyond scared straight but they had to like butcher and catch animals
@sarahboland6412
@sarahboland6412 3 года назад
ive found my people, and everything makes more sense lol
@staaaa9154
@staaaa9154 3 года назад
same ✊
@AveryPoo25
@AveryPoo25 3 года назад
CORRECT😩
@magdalenawalczak2262
@magdalenawalczak2262 3 года назад
same here !
@lotusivy9480
@lotusivy9480 3 года назад
Same. It only took me going through some rough friendships/relationships
@Mimmitambaa
@Mimmitambaa 3 года назад
This is so true!
@Antroid_Prime
@Antroid_Prime Год назад
So I'm an HSP, that explains a lot of things. I recognized myself in all the signs described but over time I learned to deal with most of them, or rather ignore them. Example: I dropped everything artistic because I was never satisfied, I stopped making new friends because the older I got the less I understood the people around me "how can you be so insensitive" or "why they don't understand that" were sentences that were going around in my head all day long. Now I work with headphones so I can't hear others, I live alone and don't want to go out with my colleagues or go see my friends. Fortunately with the internet, I pick up less when I talk to them. Sorry for the big text it's google trad and I don't know if everything is correct.
@hjordisbackman8365
@hjordisbackman8365 Год назад
i have watched a lot of videos like these talking about things like hsp and other traits and i usually relate to a lot of it, but not all. i actually really enjoy concerts. so i don’t think i’m hsp but i still feel this big urge to have a name for what i am feeling, because i’ve always felt really different and misunderstood because of how i feel :/
@snowisia
@snowisia Год назад
i feel you! i think you are still hsp! i am too and I LOVEE CONCERTS i feel the concerts on such deeper level, the music AHHH i feel emotions of others around me who enjoy music as i do, it fucks me up when people on concert are pushing me etc but the feeling of music going throuigh my body is worth it, i feel extremly connected with the artist and 0people who vibe, i become music. i think this is highly sensitive :) i feel like on drugs days after lol
@hjordisbackman8365
@hjordisbackman8365 Год назад
@@snowisia yes that’s exactly how i feel about concerts too! they make me feel alive through the music and it’s crazy liberating somehow. thank you for your comment, i feel like your reply made me realize more about myself, i really appreciate it! ^^
@snowisia
@snowisia Год назад
@@hjordisbackman8365 im so glad i could help!
@wasabi3645
@wasabi3645 Год назад
I have HSP (we know it since my childhood cause my mum has it too and it was really obvious), and I also dont relate to eeeverything in these videos! For example, I love concerts and parties (but only for a certain time, after which it can quickly reverse) and I also like true crime! So you can still be HSP even if you dont relate to all of those things, these videos are never proof anyway, cause everyone is different :)
@zoea.320
@zoea.320 Год назад
i also relate to this and agree with what everyone is saying!! you are so valid & if you feel like HSP describes you well and makes you feel validated then that’s what matters.
@feliiihh.
@feliiihh. 4 года назад
"you're so dramatic! Why do you always cry?!" So yeah i defo relate to these
@Loverboy-lw7xy
@Loverboy-lw7xy 4 года назад
Exactly
@shanadang364
@shanadang364 4 года назад
Yes, I have people telling me that all the time as well. I can understand for u.
@chelseahollis4423
@chelseahollis4423 4 года назад
Yeeeeesssss. Then when I have people telling me to "just stop, you gotta stop crying so much". Uhh sorry but that's pretty much telling me to stop being who I am. Yes, I would not like to cry at the drop of a pencil but i am who I am. Change all I want but I cant stop how I feel.
@assassingamer9088
@assassingamer9088 4 года назад
I don't know this video said there are lot less ppl have this personality. I thought I'm just an introvert.
@th3lostw4nderer
@th3lostw4nderer 4 года назад
Yeshhh
@leoniepattison3081
@leoniepattison3081 3 года назад
I think that's me. I try to help people, worry about everyone, then secretly wish I could run off to a deserted island to escape.
@mooya3887
@mooya3887 3 года назад
i feel exactly that way as well.
@juliasephaka8033
@juliasephaka8033 2 года назад
😂😂😂😂
@mooya3887
@mooya3887 2 года назад
@@juliasephaka8033 ??
@juliasephaka8033
@juliasephaka8033 2 года назад
@@mooya3887 that's the story of my life trying to fix others "s problems mostly trying to make everyone happy while inside I'm dying and overwhelmed,most of my days I'm indoors alone that's where I can be myself and have peace of my mind I laugh because it's very hard to be me seriously I sometimes wonder why God created me this way😭😭
@mooya3887
@mooya3887 2 года назад
@@juliasephaka8033 ohh. i was just wondering why you were laughing, because i thought you might have been making fun of this. i have a reputation of being an innocent, quiet, nice girl. i am slowly changing and breaking that barrier. i can speak up for myself and others now, and im so much more direct. be yourself. if people dont like that, who cares. you'll be happier that way in the long-run. also, im not religious, but i don't think God created you to be this way. imo, it's more like He made you this way so you could grow?
@Biincg
@Biincg Год назад
This video is just EXCEPTIONAL........ I am literally choked!!!!! Every-single-point described me! I didn't even know I was Highly Sensitive..... I knew I was empathetic and sensitive to energies, but that is.... WOW! Thank you so much!
@glindathegoodwitch3385
@glindathegoodwitch3385 6 месяцев назад
Thank you for highlighting the attributes/problems in the transcript portion of this video.
@virginiarc7
@virginiarc7 3 года назад
Having social anxiety and being HSP at the same time ISN'T A JOKE, MAN
@ami4hc
@ami4hc 3 года назад
Relatable
@bettydejong6649
@bettydejong6649 3 года назад
Exactly feel you.
@Markovichful
@Markovichful 3 года назад
Really important to work on that, otherwise you won't reach your full potential as an hsp'r but ofc ur aware of that. Try an energy healer, you will be amazed.
@Maria-um4qu
@Maria-um4qu 3 года назад
I feel you!! Omg. I'm hoping to overcome this anxiety
@Markovichful
@Markovichful 3 года назад
@Emperor Hirohito you probably are hsp. Hsp'rs feel someone elses energy when someone looks at them. So you will know someone looks at you without even looking at them. If it gives you anxiety, you can best work on your posture (so you will stand stronger/better in your own energy). Try to find what the cause is of the anxiety, so why are you anxious, judgement? What kind of judgement, and why again. Write it down or talk about it (only then your conscious mind will understand it).
@yan-xc7xd
@yan-xc7xd 4 года назад
“Your very presence makes this world a better place” being told this means so much to me
@nebroskitheraut6705
@nebroskitheraut6705 4 года назад
How tho😂
@KilleRoy_NL
@KilleRoy_NL 4 года назад
I knew it was coming because your comment was already shown, but same all the same. I almost teared up at work, jeez.
@sidharthapatra4296
@sidharthapatra4296 4 года назад
Just give a hug to the person who told you and say thanks.
@CinaGD
@CinaGD 4 года назад
Same
@carlabranca7335
@carlabranca7335 4 года назад
sign that i'm a HSP your comment made me cry... how lucky you are to have that person in your life!!!!
@x0xNakax0x
@x0xNakax0x Год назад
I was diagnosed with HSP and high IQ a few months ago and this video is so spot on it makes me uncomfortable. I should send this to everybody I know!
@kamayawilson7868
@kamayawilson7868 Год назад
Wow I really feel understood now! For months i’ve been thinking I was depressed or that I have anxiety problems but now I know i’m just an HSP, as much as I don’t want to admit that i’m a sensitive person I am. People tend to say i’m overreacting with things that are actually very hurtful to me and I never understood why I get so hurt over them because there small things. My mother always tells me to toughen up and she always wonders why I act and feel the way that I do. But I have came to a realization that this is just simply who I am. Sadly I can’t change it but at least I can come to terms with it.
@mrvanilla3581
@mrvanilla3581 4 года назад
If you raise your voice- even a little bit I. Will. Cry.
@_froskkk_58
@_froskkk_58 4 года назад
Sameee, i hate crying in public because i feel so weak when i do, and i feel like people expect me to be strong.
@camilacisternaalonso5096
@camilacisternaalonso5096 4 года назад
@@_froskkk_58 same I feel so embarassed, the worst thing is that when I start crying I can't stop
@Robidu1973
@Robidu1973 3 года назад
@@_froskkk_58 That's why I have stopped caring about the opinions of other people some time ago. In this mode you are putting additional pressure onto yourself, which you should avoid by all means. The best thing is staying true to your heart instead of warping yourself into some form that isn't you (and which you most likely don't like, either). Once you stop doing that, you are going to notice that you are feeling much more balanced, which in turn should be enough to reduce your need to cry. Nonetheless there's nothing wrong with crying since it is a natural way to express your feelings. Besides, who is the stronger person? The one who is suppressing his feelings, because he has to prove everyone that he is strong or the one who has no problems expressing them and doesn't give a damn about how others are perceiving him?
@mrvanilla3581
@mrvanilla3581 3 года назад
@@sierra5798 And when someone asks you if you're okay, it only becomes worse😂
@no.850
@no.850 3 года назад
I've become very good at not crying-even if I really want to. I'm pretty sure it's bad but whatever
@stephaniewilliams7992
@stephaniewilliams7992 4 года назад
Remember " Having a soft heart in this cruel world is a strength,not a weakness."
@sugativa
@sugativa 4 года назад
@@hanyatauaja3228 bruh. Bruh
@shinah1958
@shinah1958 4 года назад
@@hanyatauaja3228 orang nya komen apa anda balesnya apa lol. Gak nyambung
@shinah1958
@shinah1958 4 года назад
@@hanyatauaja3228 lol you're asking ME if i can speak english or not lmao. Well sorry to be the one telling you but why don't you check your "Grammar" again
@hanyatauaja3228
@hanyatauaja3228 4 года назад
@@shinah1958 ?
@hanyatauaja3228
@hanyatauaja3228 4 года назад
@@shinah1958 what happen dear?
@mariaconjuring5227
@mariaconjuring5227 Год назад
I lost a guy friend at 2021. It is been a year had passed and until now I'm still hurt what he had and her sister done on me, they even cyber bully me in wattpad just to make me I am the bad peson to his brother's followers. I tried to forced myself that they are the one at fault but mostly I am too, because I believe in his every lies even some are true, I don't know. Now I understand why I am still holding to our past even it's been a year. Even my mother gets irritated when I still can't forget my past with this friend. I know myself now, thank you for creating a video like this. I am always not lost because of your videos.
@carolameyer4363
@carolameyer4363 Год назад
It's amazing how the discovering of being an HSP has changed my entire perception of my personality. I am no longer something that needs to be 'fixed'. I've always enjoyed being empathetic though, and truly connecting with people. But it does make connecting all the harder, as I find I can only truly form bonds with a fare few people. The rest I find too loud, or that we completely misunderstand one another. This video hits the nail on the head for me, except performing under pressure and taking criticism. However, this is due to me being a designer and web developer.You can't be in the design industry and not take criticism, but this took a lot of practice and I'm proud to say criticism washes over me little water off a duck's back now
@hspsperspective
@hspsperspective Год назад
i totally agree! accepting criticism is what am currently working on as well lately..
@youllneverknowmyname
@youllneverknowmyname 3 года назад
Things HSPs can relate to: -overwhelming stimulation (lights, music. Etc) -thinking inanimate things have feelings -overthinking others words/emotions -being uncomfortable around major emotions (anger, sadness, etc) -great at reading body language -love being alone at times -others dictate your feelings (how others feel is how you feel) -easily falling for tv characters -feeling like no one can help how you feel -you hate change -you’re neutral in fights -stress is 100x worse for you than others -you cry for everything and anything -you might be more artistic -movies move you more than others -you have a hard time saying no -people enjoy being around you -people say you’re a great friend -people come for you for advice even if you have no experience in what they need help for
@MrEpiclost
@MrEpiclost 3 года назад
yess. i get so stressed when i put my music on in the car but and my parents start to talk loudly to overcome the music. in the end i just turn off the music hahah
@laura-sandy1492
@laura-sandy1492 3 года назад
You'll never Know my name OMG how do I relate to practically all of this 😂
@pheonic7777
@pheonic7777 3 года назад
Ok but thinking inanimate things have feelings.... my mom used to joke and say that my stuffed animals were upset and I would always be like NO IM SORRY
@sleeeepyy_
@sleeeepyy_ 3 года назад
the inanimate objects have feelings thing though _are you reading my mind_
@jshii1564
@jshii1564 3 года назад
true..
@anrijupiter
@anrijupiter 3 года назад
So am I not the only one that thinks about mistakes and all the embarrassing things you’ve done years ago in the middle of the night for no reason and start crying? And you have to calm yourself down like “why are you still being so embarrassed about it. It literally happened five years ago. It’s okay. Nobody’s remember it.”
@chennyx06
@chennyx06 3 года назад
No your not the only one
@geanbean1305
@geanbean1305 3 года назад
That’s so me 😓 I do it all the time, then am fine in the morning, but I still get so upset at myself for ever doing that thing, but usually it was when I accidentally hurt someone (emotionally), or did something I shouldn’t of, or didn’t do something I should’ve, and I feel so bad about it, and I always tell myself that “everyone is human and messes up”, but that never makes it better, and I can never let it go, and usually end up crying myself to sleep just thinking of how I’m not good enough, or how awful I was. But at least, in the morning I usually forget about it. Sorry I wrote all that, I hope that makes sense😅
@brindha6008
@brindha6008 3 года назад
Same happens to me :(
@_shreya_9795
@_shreya_9795 3 года назад
My stupid mind can't help but imagine a 1000 emotional stories and cry for no reason ..even in my dreams I keep wishing a happy ending ..wth for??? Sorry to annoy you
@_shreya_9795
@_shreya_9795 3 года назад
I even cry in dramas a lot
@kaylaegan2878
@kaylaegan2878 Год назад
Ive never found so much security in a video this is so helpful with understanding my own HSP behaviors/ Sensory processing disorder. I AM SO inclined to be super aware of everything going on around me but i rarely take a moment to actually process what im taking in or reflect. thanks Psych2Go
@mahatai9904
@mahatai9904 Год назад
This video completely described me apart from trying new things. I like trying new experiences, restaurants..etc but I do get overwhelmed and tired very quickly and need a break. It makes me really sad that my husband and other family members that are close to me don't understand this and struggle to let me have the break/rest that I need in order to function without them judging!
@katien.6356
@katien.6356 Год назад
Same here, I have to keep telling my husband that all my feelings are real, I’m not faking it when he accused me creating dramas or giving excuses for not doing chores
@leosvideos2002
@leosvideos2002 4 года назад
A question to you all.... Do you people ever feel like you want to save or change the whole world around you, you want to have more social interactions with people about feelings and thoughts and you are very passionate about the beauty of the world but somehow you drown in your own thoughts and can't step out of your brain? Like, actually doing passionate things to make people smile or the world better but you're overthinking so much that you're exhausted? You never really feel that people REALLY understand you, as you think you're alone with this HUGE galaxy of thoughts in your head? Like, really feeling alone because you have noone in realife who is like you but is finding comfort in yt comments, where I don't see the people behind them? Did you ever feel like this text could be wrote by you and you have a strong boundary with a stranger that could be anywhere? ... This was not supposed to be this long but at least you might guessed by now that I am an extremely sensitive overthinker. :) you are not alone with this. I love you ppl. Edit: hey I'm so happy to see you guys feeling the same as me, this proves to me that these thoughts are not wandering in my head alone:) there are more of our kind.
@koulisdeframbouase
@koulisdeframbouase 4 года назад
oh my god. It's so accurate it becomes creepy :') I'm happy there are other ppl like me in this world ❤️
@kadenevans7290
@kadenevans7290 4 года назад
This is so me glad that someone can actually relate to how I feel
@liamp6491
@liamp6491 4 года назад
You have to reign in your mind. Having a sensitive and fast mind means you can drown in your own thoughts and emotions, sit still and contemplate things for 20 minutes a day and try to control your mind. You will be a puppet to your thoughts and feelings if you don't slow your thoughts down and challenge your emotions, you can do the things you want but only if you act according to how you know you should and according to plans you make. Don't allow whims and fallacies to control your actions.
@mrsslibby6857
@mrsslibby6857 4 года назад
These kind-of thoughts have a lot to do with why I have depression. Wanting to change the world but feeling like you can't really change anything. Wanting to do and be better but feeling trapped by your own mind.
@merimeri5558
@merimeri5558 4 года назад
I have never related to something this much in my life... Wow
@AngelCakez
@AngelCakez 4 года назад
"You are your worst critic" Me, remembering all the stupid stuff I did years ago: Yeah, you think? XD
@mai8013
@mai8013 4 года назад
5:42 this honestly triggered memories from years ago related to some of the item they drew and now I just feel embarressed xD worst critic who, I don't know her xD
@SallinKari
@SallinKari 4 года назад
"I think you are giving me too much credit. If I was better at criticizing my actions, I wouldn't have messed up all those things."
@sweetnsourchick1761
@sweetnsourchick1761 4 года назад
Years ago? Try decades!
@saloni22815
@saloni22815 4 года назад
This sshit hurts
@MortalKowboy
@MortalKowboy 4 года назад
As long as we truly learn from our mistakes, we begin to grow. 🙏🏾
@hanneklapwijk8354
@hanneklapwijk8354 Год назад
This made me cry. I relate to this so much and it is hard to not feel like a failure because I can't just function normally.
@Janillo2782
@Janillo2782 10 месяцев назад
For me, sensitivity and human warmth are sacred.
@Janillo2782
@Janillo2782 9 месяцев назад
thks for the thumbs up!!!!!
@earthsteward9
@earthsteward9 4 года назад
I notice people confuse it with a lack of self confidence
@Clara-jz3yv
@Clara-jz3yv 4 года назад
Yes, all the time. it is so annoying, but it is what it is when they cant relate...there are so many other things that people cant understand like sexuality when they dont have the same one themselves.
@VasantNShanbhag
@VasantNShanbhag 4 года назад
Ikr! 😭
@kb-st4vg
@kb-st4vg 4 года назад
Honestly, and it’s annoying bc I do have self- confidence I’m just not open and loud about it. So people think I’m not and confuse it for me being sensitive and think that it’s connected to not being self confident. It’s annoying ngl
@earthsteward9
@earthsteward9 4 года назад
HSP people also tend to follow the carpenter's rule of "measure twice, cut once" which others see as a lack of confidence. I also think many people will tell another person they lack self-confidence as a way of gaslighting them so they can manipulate them
@tragisscott
@tragisscott 4 года назад
yes. eg, because I take a bit more of time than others measuring literally every bits of everything, I make decisions slower and there- I would always be the loser. but that's okay.
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