You will make it, 2022 will be your best year. YES YOU! Make meditation and positive thinking a habit you do every breathing moment and watch your life transform almost instantly.
@@ibabechanel What in the entire world that you see on a daily basis says 2022 will be any better than the previous 2 years??? Please, enlighten us all. Anxiously awaiting your undoubtedly moronic hububb filled reply.
What in the entire world that you see on a daily basis says 2022 will be any better than the previous 2 years??? Please, enlighten us all. Anxiously awaiting your undoubtedly moronic hububb filled reply.
At age 73 I've been through a lot like so many other people have, widowed after 42 years of marriage, lost a beloved daughter last year to this deadly Covid19 at age 41 as well as two beloved cats along with other ones over the years, lost my late beloved mother to cancer when I was 21, apt ransacked and robbed in NYC many moons ago before I got married, lived through an apt. fire, have a mild form of MS and partially blind in one eye, and that's just some of the things I've gone through.....can't get me down! "I shall not be vanquished"..the late Rose Kennedy. "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger"!
Aloha Brenda, from Naalehu in Hawaii! Good 👍for you! And for the fact you shared this w/the world 🌎 . At this difficult time every miniscule piece of positivity adds to the balance of Good overcoming Bad...or Evil ...in this present state of the world. I totally believe that if you put the Good intention out there it counts...whether anyone notices or not...it's the forward motion that matters 😊 let's not slip back into the past darkness...stay in the light...just posting this inspired me to post mine. ✌Linda
Number 8: You're generous. Others are not your competition. I love this one! Even when I was strapped financially during the Great Recession, I helped a homeless woman and gave money to my church. It paid off when I myself became homeless just two years later. God was preparing me for the coming storm.
To the *incredible person* seeing this, I wish you all the best in life❤ don't over blame yourself, accept things and go forward. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn the skills needed and get after it, all the keys to a happy life is in your hands. Keep pushing.
A mentally strong person knows what integrity is...."doing what's right even when no one is watching." and is more concerned with "what is right not who is right." They admit mistakes, apologize and try to make amends. They don't lie for personal gain. They tell the truth even if it makes them look bad. They are not afraid to be disliked. They are merciful.
Walking away from someone or something you put your heart an soul into it, can be one of the most difficult an heart breaking that one can experience, but the amount of growth and strength one can get from it, is enormous.
Very true. You kinda reminded me of my near death experience seven years ago. It was one of my biggest experiences in my life that made me stronger than before. It forever changed me and I am glad I'm still here apparently it's wasn't my time yet. I hit all of these points in this video. There were some things that I had that I never knew I had until that happened. I had no idea of how strong I was but it was more than I ever thought. No wonder my younger sister unlike my older sister always kept telling me I was the strongest out of all three of us.
Just because someone carries it well, doesn't mean it's not heavy. Always give yourself space to rest and room for mistakes. The more effortless you can do it and make it seem the greater your reward at the end of the day. You'll recharge faster. Carry your water well and with dignity. It helps you and people who see it more than you know. 👍🙏
I’m mentally strong!!! I can overcome anything, I admit all my flaws. Set backs don’t discourage me. I know that as long as I’m breathing I can do whatever I need to do. One day at time!! I don’t compete or complain, just focused on my part and help everyone that I can to accomplish their goals. I walk away to scape to come back stronger 👩🏻⚕️👩🏻🎓🤓♓️
I've always viewed such qualities as "independent." Some admire this attribute in others while some do not. When someone is a free thinker, they're often accused of being "dogmatic, " "overbearing," "rigid," etc.; but the fact is that you trust your own judgment, based on past experience , research, and advice from those whose judgments are "tried and true." Didn't know self-will and personal responsibility for oneself was considered a feature of strength. Thanks for the info.
If you’re struggling, stay strong. You *are* strong- that wasn’t a mistype. You’re strong because you feel this way everyday and haven’t given up yet. You’re here. That takes effort, and it gets better 💜✨ I have carried the burden of depression, anxiety and ptsd since I was a pretty young kid. Due to my therapy, self training, discipline, effort and never succumbing I answered yes to almost all of these.
I suggest a book called dirty genes. MTHFR is a good one for the struggles you describe. This book changed my wife's life. Gave her answers she needed to heal.
Thank you & Glad you're doing well & also to the other commenter- Thank you as well -I took a screenshot & plan to look up that book & make time to read it as I have several great books to read to help improve my life & thinking & how to deal with difficult people- Stay Positive-Spot A Liar-Blessings For Women- Gratitude workbook journals & more-mostly regular paperbacks too except journals but things have been so overwhelming that the time to just sit & read hasn't come yet but..... I know I have it & can do so it during an insomnia night or a night laying down reading instead of dwelling in my head or when when listening to music that helps me or waiting at a Drs.appt instead of stressing over things I have no control over
People had me believe that sensitivity would cause me harm as I could be easily upset. But then it occurred to me that a lot of people who are insensitive would lack empathy. I used that "weakness" to make sure I wouldn't go down the same road as...those people I just mentioned.
Having sensitivity is really more of strength than a weakness but it's good that you aren't going down the same road as those who you mentioned that counts as something. 😄
This is actually reassuring that though I feel like I am many times walking the precipice of total mental breakdown I am actually stronger than I thought. I can clam at least half of these qualities but need much work on the rest. This makes a great guide to self awareness and self improvement. Thank you...
Think this does sound right. Worked in 4 countries on my own w/out knowing anyone there, just followed my instinct. Left home at 17, self sufficient, no probs, managed everything fine. Never accepted help from my parents, felt what they earned was theirs. Felt if I couldn't do it solo, then I didn't deserve it, so accepted no handouts from them. Put myself through University in a different country; 2 undergrad degrees and an Masters. Took one night off per month for 7 yrs. Olympic focus on completion, and worked right through all my courses and managed finances fine, yep struggled at times, but handled them. No whining. Had 2 jobs simultaneously for years while attending University. Still doing the same. Still more classes and Edu. Wanted to meet someone with similar vision/focus. No short fuses, or whining. Loves big dogs. Didn't happen.
Just one very important thing you lack, dear friend...humility...such arrogance is not attractive. Drop that, and you will meet the lovely soulmate you deserve. Best wishes.
Affirmative. What does not kill you , makes you stronger. Habitually finding the smallest silver linings when things go sour are game changers to push through when the shizzle feels bone crunching and you don't know if you are strong enough in the hardest moments. It is also true that it is always darkest just before the dawn. Not giving in to lizard brain fight flight matters too. And yes, it takes gonads to walk away and not settle, especially if settling becomes a mere path of fearful least resistance.
I find it so amazing that many people have grown up with many insecurities and thinking that everyone else is so normal, only to find that upon closer speculation, most people are so dishonest, lack integrity, lack emotional security, and often, within the first ten minutes of speaking to some people, a significant amount of them will tell you a lie about something, even if they don't have to. that tells you that you are not only stronger, but morally better than most people. You also find that many people you almost perfect and are often jealous, and the integrity and honesty you exhibit is very intimidating to many.
It’s a sad commentary, but at the same time it reflects on ourselves, how well adjusted we are and how rare that is. Confidence and the pursuit of happiness is simply living life on our own terms and uplifting everyone around us and always take pride in our daily efforts and never feel any guilt
I am stronger than most. I have survived many things and learned from them. I have walked away from people and/or situations if I felt danger or my individuality threatened. I made choices between right and wrong no matter the temptations. I am proud I was strong enough. I am at peace with myself.
After being gaslight by my decedent husband for years, I had a tough time, and these help me see that I am recovering. I was described by my friends and family prior as with these attributes. I would have never thought that anyone would go to this length to fool me.
Every point makes sense. I did well but with a couple that need serious work. Perfect timing to watch this. My mind was receptive and I was able to accept the weaknesses I saw. Now to patch those holes. Thank you for the insight!
Yes...i am.. for years ive been in depression from 1998 -- 2017...but ive learned to forgive and let go of the past ,not bcoz its a responsibility but i want to grow into a mature person. Yes learn from mistakes but never dwell in it..thank you , i like your videos. Keep it up!
I think it’s possible that I’m just a lot stronger than I give myself credit for. I understand my weaknesses , I believe I am good at knowing when to admit defeat or accept when I’m wrong .
I got 10 out of 14 things on this list. I am a bada** and I will continue to do what I want and need to to become who i wanna be! Infertility is the hardest thing i have been going through but I haven't given up! Thanks for this video!
I do dwell on my mistakes, but only because I hate making serious mistakes, and want to make sure the same one doesn't happen twice. I think my greatest strength is being able to suppress initial panic, take a step back, reassess, and start solving the problem. I will predictably melt down AFTER the crisis is averted. Until then, I am all about problem-solving.
Mentally strong person knows how to accept challenges in order to grow and be matured. Got my strong- wiiled from my mom.. i know how to balance my emotions with logic and having a strong moral uprightness in life with our Lord's grace & Mercy.. Thanks for ur nice video.. 😍
More important, I couldn't be stronger were it not for all my friends, associates, families and enemies I couldn't have done it without every nuance, and stripe allowed by my God and Saviour. And my Mamma's remarks though resented at the moment, " what don't kill you, only makes you stronger." You had a point Ma💕🌷🌹🌷
I'll admit years ago I had fallen into a few of these misconceptions, mostly thinking that being mentally strong means being emotionless, it was hell and I was wrong, but I know better now, I'm not exaggerating when I say I had to pull myself out of that filth filled rut and climb for a better state of mind, now that effort has payed off in being able to better relate to some of the traits in this video.
It takes years to get stronger, but if you look at pain, loss, change, as inevitable it loses its power. Life hurts sometimes, but it’s a good ride…hate, revenge, unforgiveness just makes you sick. Hating yourself for mistakes doesn’t work either. The only thing I found that worked for me was accepting who I am, what I can accomplish, and how I can serve someone else on the daily if I can or when I can. I found peace within just by letting go, and especially of toxic people. I found that part of life the hardest, but even with that I just don’t go around toxic people… that is when I can. What I found the absolute hardest is letting go of jobs that I liked due to toxicity, but even then it works out better in the end.
He’s definitely right about the first one as someone who is born with very low vision and watched it fade away before even graduating high school that was some hard times. But here I am six years later still alive. I don’t like to say that I’m strong now because I don’t believe it but I’d rather just do the things that I want to and not care if it’s seen as strong or weak
Let me tell you about my day yesterday. 1. I woke up and my heater had stopped working sometime during the night. It was 63 degrees in my house. So, I went and checked on my thermostat and it appeared to be okay. I went and checked the main unit and tested it to make sure it was working. Then I changed the batteries in my thermostat, pressed the reset button, and my Heater started working again. ; ) 2. All of a sudden my Cell phone stopped working, and I couldn't dial out, or send txts, or anything else. So, I did a little bit of trouble shooting myself, and my phone started working again. ; ) 3. Got a notification from my car insurance company that my mileage meter wasn't sending out a signal. So I went and reset the device, and it's fine. All of this occurred before noon, and I was up at 9 a.m. I had everything working by 11 a.m. Oh, and I never freaked out over any of it. I would rather use my energy, and my brain to fix stuff. So I never let stuff like this stop me. I keep going, and fixing my own issues and generally say nothing about them. I just had to share this with you all to let you know, Stuff happens to Everyone. It's just a matter of how you deal with it that makes a difference in your own life. Peace, Love, and Rock n Roll! BTW: You are very loved.
Brainy Dose, in some ways I am mentally strong, however I see my weakness also. Just like many comments below. Being up in years cause one to go through all types of growth. Life teaches us all kinds of lessons. For me I'll be 65 years of age this year, I still need to grow more. Thank you, for this video.
If you have specific goals in mind stick to your plan and screw what other people say. You will get where you want to be and all the jerks will still be in their rut. I left a toxic job and never looked back. You can do it.
I am mentally stronger than I thought. This video is really amazing, I thought letting go of something was my weakness, but this video is right about saying that you are set free. I liked this video and thank you so much for making me feel that I am mentally stronger and not worthless as others think
Life certainly does have it's ups and downs. Life is full of lessons we must learn in order to grow. I've been through much myself but I realized that most, not all, were because of the decisions I have made and most of the "downs" were caused by letting my emotions take over my logic.
We don't get do-overs in this life!! If we mess up or something doesn't work out as we'd hoped, we must leave it in the past and move on~forward. DO IT TODAY ‼️‼️
A few times I've been told I'm scary, been described as a chocolate with hard outer and soft inner, a lioness who will 'fight' for who matters most to me, a person whose path people wouldn't want to cross, my brother has described me as ' they wouldn't want to hear what my sister will say' 🌞... I speak with truth only and as kindly as possible and am blessed to say that those who described me as scary changed their lives for the better. People need to know though, that even the strongest of us do cry. Maybe my strength has come from just being me and also from circumstances that lessons were learnt but I will thank my dad for he said ' whatever you are going through, hold your head high and smile' ...... love and hugs to all
I'm Mentally Stronger than most People, That builds me Confidence. I'm becoming Strong, and fearless. I don't have to seek my parents and my Friends a approval. I lead my life, because I'm a independent Young Man.
Mentally strong people accept challenges and count their blessing instead of their burdens, which helps them keep life in perspective. If life throws you a curveball, and you quickly get back up and adapt, then you are a mentally strong person. In fact, you are mentally stronger than most people ❤️
I know how mentally strong I am but I'll always believe that everyone is equal,but it's not my charge to save anyone,but I always try to leave everyone feeling a bit stronger
Take risks,be humble,be patient, accept life good AND bad ,and make things happen that's mental strength if you build that up you'll be very optimistic and sturdy emotionally and mentally
Most of the qualities given here describe me but not necessarily 100%. For me, my mental strength came from dealing with mental illness. I've had some dark days that give me empathy towards those who commit suicide, or harm themselves in some way, because I can relate to what they were feeling. When I was a teenager, I once considered suicide. Then I rejected it as a solution to anything. I've never attempted suicide, nor done harm to myself. I decided that no matter how bad I feel, and no matter how messed up my life is, I would never give up. I'm 55 now, and have never done harm to myself, and it will stay that way. I served in the US Air Force, earned a college degree and got my career started. It wasn't until after all that that I went for professional counseling. I was diagnosed with bipolar mood disorder. My life, despite the problems, and some dumb decisions, has turned out quite good, and I've turned some of those bad decisions around to make something good of them.
As a 53 year old, I watched this video out of curiosity and I was right. This is geared towards the young and the first subject is wearing a hood over his head. A “style” for young men the past 10-20 years and a sign of a rebellious teenager. And all the subjects are obviously young people no older than their 30’s. If you’re a neurologically typical person, once you hit your 40’s, you don’t give a flip. You accept yourself as you are and just live your life.
I'm loving my daily brainy dosage from your channel friend! You just keep dropping brainy science on me like it's hot! And it is indeed! I've often felt such loneliness as that long distance runner in this marathon called life! Yet I'm so reassured & reinforced by this video! Thank you for it! Cheers mate!
Its truly amazing to know our skills n capabilities, and YES how wonderful n Unique We are despite the trials and tribulations...Look forward to more of these videos...... perfect 10 to all those who contributed to make this HAPPEN!!
I am subscribing to your Channel just based on this one video. I'm not going to pretend 2 have any of those qualities, but I do strive to achieve most if not all of them. Thank you for this video. I'm keeping it on my home screen for future reference and encouragement.
Absolutely Right Guidance given in the video Responsibility is the best one solution for secured and Joyful life,especially with life partner to be an official, we should start to act the guidance we are Delivered💯 👍
You don't hold grudges is special because it is only possible with kind hearted person's ability to forget and forgive and be ready always for fresh start or new beginning. Thanks
@@khemessediallo7837 That's what's called ultimate excellence on which foundation HUMANITY and mankind rests so you are much ahead of our cognitive development that has taken so far. Just be like that and cherish the same and celebrate that. Thanks a lot for being so good and great.
In being true to myself, I do not devote any time comparing myself to others. I do not know what it is like to walk a mile in their shoes and vice versa. As far as forgiveness it does not mix well with good boundaries. If someone has done something horrible to you, it is ok to not engage with them. Acceptance in who they are is a better approach. 🤔❤️🇺🇸
