15 Signs You Have A Strong Intimidating Personality 

This happens to me often. 😣

@@lorrainemounts2416 Examples?

Yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Nailed it!

My situation to a tee!

Isn't that the same?

@@nvmffs it is, he's just trying to confuse the retards

Red Breaker lmao XD

That's exactly it. When a friend told me I was intimidating when we first met I was floored. I always see myself as a pussycat.

@@nvmffs nope. One implies you are doing something to them. There other implies that this is your own issue.

You got that right!

Mannn…….

Agree well sAid

You “said” a mouthful, honey! 🙌🏽

Liars I can't stand. It is rare I call someone that though. The rest of em I just tolerate, and if it goes on to long I just leave and get on with my own life.

Oh yes they do. They dream and fantasize about your downfall and are giddy when you stumble or struggle. That is a tough thing to come to terms with but true nonetheless.

Very true.

Thats so me

It's a double edged sword. Saying that ppl are "jealous" makes you look like an ass. NOBODY wants to admit that they covet you. Maybe being in this situation just be kind? I've noticed sometimes trying to communicate things ppl simply DONT want to hear it.

That’s good thanks for sharing that

Aha. Exactly

Yep.. lol

I was looking or confirmation :)

Really, I was really curious. And the first one just made me laugh and I was laughing all the want through.

You have a point. I want to see the extent to which I intimidate ppl

🤣🤣

my core philosophy is pay the least tax possible because the govt just waste it

@@bradford_shaun_murray They should at least show you where they spent it.

It’s like in youre in my head man 😂

I wondered why I have so much envy from other women - they first start to envy, then being mean… all I want is good, - reasonable, beauty, fairness. Now I understand. And more - why I have only few friends, all with strong personalities themselves, not easy characters but honest. We are not pleasers.

Beast Dawg 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

Right!

The sheep go the wrong way

Beast Dawg...i really like what you said and that is nothing but the truth..well said..well said.

Beast Dawg I’d go with the crowd in the wrong direction so that I can lead them all in the right direction

Yeah n all my fam blocked me. Stand as a figther nothing to lose 💪

You're exactly right.

Yes! I don't have the energy for that.

Fr

well said

L James I think you hit the nail on the head. If you are high performance because you dont waste time on a lot of trivialities you are liable to suffer conspiracy, a lack of cooperation, sabotage, and spotlighting of any minute failing, sort of revenge at your being good, an attempt to cut you down to size to diminish their own lack of competence. There was a song in the 80's by Adam Ant that that speaks of both feet, describes the situation well.

Agreed...

ikr? i have an aunt who is a shrewd businesswoman and really loves her money. she posed as our friend and family in helping us in acquiring a new home (since her business is buy-and-sell of real estate) because being my mom's sister, my parents trusted in her. right after my mom died and just a day that we were going to move in our new home, she stopped us and claimed it was her property. being a law student that i was, of course i didn't buy that bullshit. because she can't contend with me and my legal arguments, she succumbed to emotions and started playing victim that i was foul mouthed and rude towards an elder and spread slanderous remarks about me in my mother's side of the family. I don't think i'm "that" intelligent as portrayed here. but one thing's sure, i know the legal arguments against this as well as certain friends involved in bad activities. i think i am intelligent to a point where she just disappears and nobody's gonna ask why anymore, since days in court gives her a fair chance and she didn't give us a fair chance of dealing with my mother's death and decided to take our property, our home, away from us by being manipulative and obviously arguing outside of the law. but meh.. maybe i'm intelligent to let it go instead to not face trouble? one thing is for sure.. she'll have her day.

@David Christ i really intend to tie her up to a chair and make her talk though and throw her away without her credit cards in places far away from the city. i think it's enough that i know she is evil as fuck. thanks too for the suggestion of being more educated.

I pretend to care when they have talked to me. I pretend by going "Yeah" or "Okay". While laughing at them in my head. Their bullshit is always humorous. I never talk about me to those kind of people, so I don't give them sources they thrive on. I only show them, that I don't trust them. Haha

Always!

That's true :) What about your family? Does she accept you with your strong personality? :) I'm just curious ^.^

This was one of my best lessons and changes I did for myself , it takes a lot of discipline and thought to do it . Being comfortable with yourself by yourself takes time

@@niiwei1373 ofcrs, they're my family and they know me better than anyone, they knew i also have a soft/kind side depends on the situation. Some of my relatives have strong personality too so yeah.

Yea that’s even harder to find...smdh

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I LOVE THIS.

I mos def understand you on this

well, from my experience i can relate, that you can tell them to wait until you figure out a solution. I can also relate the fact that I have a highly advandced analitical thinking. and most of the times i give them good advices. but when not sure i warn them that i can't guarantee good resaults.

Soffy true

Not if you're strong enough to have boundaries in place . There are so many pitfalls to being inately "strong". There are those who think a faux nihilism or standard narcissm passes for a strong personality . It's tricky b c those who fall into that category are usually just lashing out due to their own lack of a backbone , esp with regard to family . They need attention and compassion , if it's accepted , and hopefully someone to love and guide them through life's confusion . There's nada inherently "strong" about not asking for help or not being able to control your strong personality depending on the situation .

Right, then we also end up with weak men. I notice all my ex's have one thing in common. They all basically grew up without their mothers for a big part of their lives. Smh

You have smart dad.

Well said

The people that don't like you are envious,or jealous.These are toxic people,and should be eliminated from your social sphere.

Exactly. Your dad is right.❤️

Just like my dad tried to tell me when I was a teenager, "Some people don't want to be friends". Now, I know why.

Same

Woow u r lucky u have a friendship of 13years 😶🔥🔥 I also have a good friend, we are friends from 2019 till now and maybe forever

They get highly offended

Yes smh

Gossip is just pure empty, idle and shitty talk. Nothing more, nothing less.

Yep, so me. Gossip is stupid and shows how insecure that person is who gossips the most.

Yup. Its crazy how some People (many) really dont have anything else to talk about. Ive always found it boring and also a little bit uncomfortable.

@Mauricio Labra He was the one I heard it from.

Fresh quote

So true

Nice one!😅

Haha I like this.

I think you left out part of your sentence.

@Francis Earl: Bro, I want to thank you immensely for all of that. It's not as if, you need my approval; I value, appreciate, and agree with the majority of what you said. With the exception of: You being #Annoyed someone is #thoughtful and #considerate. That part is yo business and I will leave that entirely alone. You are who you are.

Thank u for this comment

@@socorrodetejas2709: you are surely welcome.

I salute you. thank you for that wonderful fact

@@preciousmicahp.basadre332: Wow! I am truly humbled.

Same thinking lol....😂

Aquarius Goals👍

I can relate to you

Qurban Ali yesss

I don't like to be around people who are stupid

right! You've said it in a nutshell! Only something that manipulators will find a problem with. As real down to earth individuals will see said sane and balanced persons behavior for what it is. It's interesting how problematic individuals stay putting spins on things that they want to go their way. They eventually reap all that they've sown tho. Whether or not you sit back and wait for it............You're better off living your life in the wholesome and adjusted way that you are, as there's nothing exciting or interesting about being front and center to watch others reap from whatever fuckery they've sown.

DachiiXO Hmmm! No.

DachiiXO yes beleive me yes. This is me and i work with the grand pumba of narcissist and she hates my guts

Jaded Cynic ha ha ha ha ha well thank you for telling me. I knew it was wrong lol 😂

True!

Lol I get what you mean but this video also shows how childish grown adults act 😂🤣

Exactly

How to mature.

True. Totally

yes and no. not every adult has a code that they stick by

Sure!

I don't believe people with strong personality aren't humble. Arrogant people are not strong..without diving into all the psychology, i just don't believe that u can be a stubborn Arrogant man have a strong personality

Marshall J 👎

Yes. So true. My father tried to teach me that at an early age. RIP However, it didn't sink in until much later.

People with strong personalities are never seen as humble .They are humble but that humility is invisible to people around you

METTI1986LA same....it’s just exhausting!!

Same. I hate it

I am in awe of fake people! I simply can't believe no one has told them how fake they are. I guess it's up to me to do so!

Fake people make me wonder about the sentence.

Same

I feel you. I always get the phrase "you're quite intimidating and should work on yourself" when I get into discussions, but in reality I just got the better arguments.

Same here 😊

I'm a virgo and the description above is 100% consistent. I often had problems with men, they couldn't handle it.

how many strong people have you been around ?

Yes. Everyone gets my respect. The level of respect is determine by the person and I speak my mind. I have a saying, " If you are telling me something I can't safely repeat, then don't' I only want information that have meaning and can be shared to help another person.

I have a strong personality yet people ignore me or dont pay attention :v

Sometimes

Do You Realize that Being Around Someone That is Afraid of You is Like Walking on Eggshells And Can Get Really Awkward

Hear, hear!

Except if you're having a BDSM session with a veteran Dominatrix. Oh fuck... I forgot my safeword again.

Exactly!

you can have a strong personality, but you must also be respectful to others. My late Gram, had a strong personality, but she did not understand the word no when it was said to her. She had no friends, she always used guilt on her family when she wanted to be with them.

Facts.

How can it not be used against them

The point is,they don’t care

Same. I take that as a sign that it may be time for me to be the boss.

Because they are narcissistic. I worked for a company for 10 years where my boss was constantly threatened. Put more work on me to get me to submit. He would say, " If you make me look good, I'll make you look good If you don't make me look good, I will guarantee that you won't look good. " Typical of a boss that is intimidated by your attributes.

My boss literally envies me. He even hates the fact that I can throw a ball of Paper into the 🗑 from across the room. I have a bad habit of doing it all the time 🙃 And I’ve caught him looking to see if I will score .... I hardly ever miss. He always has a disappointed and slightly annoyed look on his face when it actually goes in and smiles on the rare occasion that I miss. He lies to me constantly about simple things (eg. if he forgets or is wrong about something ) as though I can fire him. WTF?

All my bosses saw me like that in a way :/

@@neeksweeks 😂😂

@KA NE Me too!

I resonate with your statement

Meee but I have to get alone with them sometimes

I seconded

Me too

Sounds like me, we work ourselves into a situation where we are nearly indispensable.

I like your name lol

That has happened to me. I figured out she is a narcissist, though.

Narc population is increasing exponentially these days..

@@dhrubajyoti14 yes indeed

I was married to one and didn’t know because of his subtle manipulation and constant need for attention. Yep, we’re divorced!

Only a narcissist would call themselves "a strong, intimidating personality".

Indeed😇🙏

Only if you a lot of "friends".

Yeap! live that every day

or maybe they are nice and make funny jokes that other people don't like

Amen lol 🤣

This is my new mantra ❤

Peter von Feldt I am truly blessed that i am used to those people who know how to run well with leadership.

Not everyone is SUPPOSED to be a leader. Everyone holds a role

This is the snowflake generation. What do you expect? Money for nothing and your checks for free??? Why not? We deserve it, no? Just be incredibly entitled and agree/brunch with the boss.

Actually traits and behaviors really aren't needs. When someone stands in a light (as in really is a certain way vs they're just ***behaving and pretending to come across in a certain light) these aren't traits that they picked up from where ever. More than likely this is who they are (whether or not they're in a position or you're experiencing whatever part of their character.

The word needs more Alfa males " & empathy "

You're lucky!!

Must be a wonder woman 🙂

Awww so was my Mom. RIP She was a Pisces too. She could really read people well. 💓🙏🏽

Cassandra Thao the president ( Donald Trump) has strong personality too

oh this's so cute..

You're pretty with an infectious smile so that makes sense. You must also be above 6 ft with a very athletic build. That is a lethal combination that intimidates most people. Just be patient with them 😌.

In a world of information for the asking, ignorance is a choice.

So got damn accurate

There is much misinformation pretending to be information as real information in the world

Information also creates confusion. Not everyone has high literacy

That’s me 100%!! That’s part of the reason why I’m a teacher

...Completely untrue.

Yep 💯 It’s how others react to this

Even when it gets hard bih that’s the best part of it. I feel blessed to truly keep my head in the game while feeling impending doom 😂😂

That’s me

True I am at peace but I'm never content with myself not because of others validation but for my own self goals for myself for instance me working out even tho I'm already built and pretty fit I'm still not satisfied and want to be better that applies to everything else in my life as well.

I agree... the story of my life! I'm used to it and love my (quiet) me time!

This has got to be the best comment I've seen in ages😂😂😂😭😭😭 I love you sir

Immaturity doesnt discriminate w/ age

Sadly, I’ve met a ton of old people who lack critical thinking skills and several of these signs are really just critical thinking, having the ability to withhold judgement while you adequately evaluate facts... or properly recognizing the difference between one’s mind’s hypotheses and patches of conflicting evidence (cos lets face it, there’s often big gaps in what we can know for fact)

Exactly. This video should be titled "How to become matured". I have 11 of 15 of these signs and I can see my insecurities slowly go away. A few months ago i would have had 0 of these signs.

@@Sigma3095 Amen to that, I used to have less signs because of my damaged childhood, but I had such a strong willpower, and never had the actual desire to truly fit in if that would mean compromising who I was.. But being like that, it being my true nature; resulted in, the rebel I was, going against the mainstream, looking for my identity, growth and healing being my goal and now there are only details, but mainly each point applies to me.. Mostly completely, sometimes like I mentioned there are the details.. I just came across this video today, and may I say I didn't realize to the full extend why I was so intimidating to the wrong people.. They literally envied me or/and wanted me out of their way.. They tried and sometimes succeeded in bringing me down, never fully understood why. My favorite is expression was; what is it?! Are they jealous about MY LIFE?! Really?! Few years ago I understood they were jealous of how I dealt with my life or how I had traits they desired.. I had intuition there must be something going on.. And being so considerate of others, I never truly understood why I was intimidating.. Until one day I understood it was probably because I had some things or traits they desired, like; not caring what others think, or because I loved being alone, to fill up my energy battery.. Because I had strong intuition or was able to solve problems or was creative at solutions to ease life or simply enjoy life, my positivity or intelligence, or even my energy.. I did challenge them to do better, and I sensed a wide range of respons to that.. In different people, often even in the same person.. But now thanks to this video I understand it even better, this was the missing link to boost my confidence.. I am proud to be the lone wolf who is a critical thinker, who, now even stronger, doesn't care what others think, unless they think I did something hurtful to them, that I want to solve and heal them and work on myself to avoid it in the future, that's still the exeption.. But other than that hooray to the ones who want to become better, not better than someone else, but better than they were yesterday.. To the right people we will be an inspiration to develop/grow (like they used to be for me when growing up, I loved them, never envied them), or more so, awaken these traits as well, to the wrong people we will always be a curse in their eyes.. Makes it easier to spot where we belong and what/who to avoid.. Goals are looking even more within reach now, then they ever did before..

I learn infinitely more from correct applications - from victories; and everyone should learn in that manner. Mistakes only tell you what not to do - not necessarily what to do.

@@yankee2666 Both perspectives have their merits, indeed. Learning from mistakes is just to narrow the choices.

This is the secret shortcut to a better life!

...and from fables too😉😇👍

We are thesame. You have said it all.

Atleast we make a team😀😀😀

Same here and i like it that way.

Happy Facts,....yah, same here...

"Happy Facts Lifestyle.👍🏿😗🙂😎👍🏿."

HandOverTheJewGoldKyle indeed

I’ve had quite a few people myself try and bring me down. Or telling me to not go all out and stay in a lower level. It’s a shitty feeling.

@@forrestkimball6477 People often hate what they can't be. You may also notice they try to say you have it easy or are spoiled if you are in a good spot in life. They don't realize you are there because you have worked hard and avoided problems that they were too short sighted to think about. Envy is an emotion of the selfish and stupid.

I know this for sure. Ever since I became very physically attractive I see people look at me like they either jealous or they want to get to know me.

As long as you have integrity you should not be bothered by others

pink diamondz ditto

Same

Introverts can relate 💗

I know. I feel like I'm better off alone I hate fake people

@@paige172 hahaha

And you are awesome!

Srecko Bogavac 😂😂😂😂👍

I'm not dead 😂😂😂😂👍

SuperDeut4 😂😂😂

You are awesome.

Trying to show off!!! You Gloat! You failed!You lose ! No Strong Personality for you!!!

I was raised the same way and raising my kids the same as well! People misinterpret high standards, which should be the only standard, not doing things half-a$$.

You have it GIRL JAN WILLIAM INGROFF JAN YOU HAVE IT BE THE WOMAN YOU WANT TO BE. GOOD LUCK. B.I. VALLEJO CALIF.

@@supportiranianfreedom4982 you're rude. They were just sharing their experience ╭━━╮╱╱╱╱╱╭╮ ┃╭╮┃╱╱╱╱╱┃┃ ┃╰╯╰┳━┳╮╭┫╰━╮ ┃╭━╮┃╭┫┃┃┃╭╮┃ ┃╰━╯┃┃┃╰╯┃┃┃┃ ╰━━━┻╯╰━━┻╯╰╯(btw if u can't read what it says, it says "bruh"

Kudos to you

That's me

Yes! It just comes naturally like breathing.

So true, i relate to this

When you piss everyone off because you do what you say and you say what you do. Love it!

You too!! Same here its a good thing it just means we can't be touched because we are the truly gifted special kind of people.

Well said .

@@seeleygirl6178 Thank you! ❤️ 🤗 🙏🏻

Because some knows you're very capable, they are worried they might miss out opportunities. That's those people's inner issues though. Sadly, not everyone has a well rounded cognitive development.

So well said, relate to why do other's, tear people down, the idea of just being happy for other's is a foreign concept, you want to be the best you.

Perfectly said, and God bless you! 🙏❤️

Very good description of myself ☝️ agree😊😊

well i don't know about humble... just kidding

@@racheltii5365 lol I'm having a blast in these comments sections😂

@@arisa373 frrr

Sounds like me

same, good luck

ki ki Arrogance intimidates, good character doesn’t.

Prisoner FN-24601 Personally I wouldn’t go as far as to say a good character is threatening or intimidating more perhaps provoke, irritate even confuse those with less virtuous characteristics. I still believe a strong intimidating personality without good character borders on arrogance, lack of self awareness, some get off on it as some of the remarks indicate.

Right, it just seems so many ppl lack self esteem & are very intimidated or insecure & then they start projecting negative energy all day everyday 😩

Love it!

I like having someone who loves me. Anyway I lived by myself for a long time so I learned how to be alone.

Yup

It's a matter of quality vs quantity. I'd much rather prefer to have a few good people than a dozen bad ones

Nicolette Smith, So, you’re a fox and you went to school, 🤔. You old sly fox you.

Mfs say I’m aggressive at work and I literally could be asking how they day was😭😪

I can't say always, but is has been said,, lol. But the rest totally.

This is the reason I came here. Now I am okay with what I am.

I can never change who I am cause my power won't let me and we draw like minded individuals to us. Iron Sharpens Iron

Jasmin Marie I love your kind !! Wish we can be friends ;)

Amen to that. I would not live in Holywood for all the tea in China mate. Thats why I like country Australia, because folk there are rea. What you see is what you get, and if you dont like it... Piss off they say hahahha.

@@strikemaster1 I stand with you, I'm a proud lone wolf, the only thing that I seek in life is success, not boyfriends and all that jazz.

@@TheWarHorse100 If you do indeed stick to that very wise motto... you will have the success you seek. Whatever success you have though.... always include your Creator God in that success, or else you can loose it as quickly as you gained it. Peace.

Jasmin Marie true as a. Warrior fights for what they stand for

I agree everyone gossips and I don't want any part of that

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Yeah

Makusuweru San same here , often im n my own because I’m not toxic or a needy follower lol

@@LizADiaz-bs2vn I've always said, "Where there's a group, one person is thinking too much and everyone else is not thinking enough"

I was never told I have a strong personality , I was always led to believe the opposite by others opinions and circumstances I encountered. But listening to this video made me realize I do. Because everything said I identified it in the way I do things.

@@trecehannah8955 You could still have a strong personality.You know.

I believe I do

@@trecehannah8955 HEY. . BE BLESSEED

true!

. .......

Wow. So well said 😍

Fiona Wellington, truth.

I believe that if one lacks moral integrity then they also lack the ability to be compassionate, considerate & selfless. My elderly mother fell victim to a morally foul individual who took everything that my mother worked her entire life for. EVERYTHING! The last thing that's this foul person took from my mother, which was the only thing that Ma had left, was her life😥I think that this foul person truly believes that quantity gets you everything. Re.,respect, admiration, social status, etc.....It's too bad that she 'just doesn't get it'. Quantity IS NOT quality! Moral integrity is a MUST HAVE & it looks so well on people! Those who have absolutely no conception of this quality are the ones that hurt children, abuse the elderly, have relations outside of a commitment & on & on & on.....I wish that I could change these type of peoples but I can't. I can't have my Ma back either😳

I totally agree 😊

magenta44 Exactly. Have you ever experienced those times when "the rules only apply to them" but not you? For example, you are labeled a very opinionated person with low tolerance for rudeness yet you're frown upon (within certain circles) but if they do the same thing they're excused as having the right of being free to express themselves and learn from their mistakes? (Yet, you're expected to know better and be better?) They can disrespect you but if you feel hurt you're just being too sensitive? And if you say half the things they said you are the one who crossed the line? I've been told that it's not what I say, it's how I say it. (I'm well spoken and educated; wanted to be a writer. I say what I mean and mean what I say) But, I've been told I sound to proper, and that I shouldn't show how much I can do because it seems intimidating even if I do smile? Yet, Why can't people show grace and empathy instead of demanding it? I find it interesting when Self-Acceptance is such a huge thing now but tolerance and mutual respect tends to be bargained away. It's sad really.

They use mean words to feel better about themselves. You don't need to eat that all up.

Uh, I think those that say hurtful things (without having a valid reason to do so) really are just saying things with the intent to hurt you. I mean the reality of experiencing these types really is obvious. As they're either consciously keeping the company of those that want to and will continue to continuously hurt them or they're broken and do not know how to exist without hurting others that are not like them or have not allowed what they have allowed to happen to them.

magenta44 Thx for the teaching .

@@beachblues2155 They sound like jealous people trying to dim your shine. Pay them no heed - they're toxic.

I've learned to become my very own best friend.

amen

Now it's not a a choice for me but a way of life....smh

When you start loving yourself more, people will start wanting you more

@@noaccount7595 lol what is this? this is just....weird

That’s me! 🤣 A whole lot of the people I go to school with are so annoying and hang out with annoying people, so why would I join in?

@@zango3134 why do you find them annoying lol anything positive????

@@weshouldtotallyjuststabcea1382 because they only care abt impressing ppl and getting popular. It’s SCHOOL.

@@weshouldtotallyjuststabcea1382 they also laugh.. but like super loudly to get attention.. and it’s MY PET PEEVE

@@zango3134 OOPS I THINK I SPILLED THE TEA..

Of

Of

Almost. I stay connect with my family and friends that I lost touch with by using social media.

This is as close as I get to social media...

Wrong. You recognize the benefits of social media, use them to your advantage but you're not a slave to them.

Maret Villa you are right

I deleted my Facebook Instagram and Twitter a year ago, only RU-vid. Life has been better.