I know it is really hard to stay in No Contact in 30 days but it worked for me, my ex reaches out to me after 2 months and said that she still has feelings for me. I hope my comment will help you to have more motivate to stick through the No Contact. THANK YOU BRAD !
You're welcome. Don't forget to check out my other videos if you're not getting my guide so you'll know what to do next after the "no contact" period, to contacting your ex down to re-attracting, and what to do in between those phases and how to transition to actually getting your ex back. Here's a quick overview: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-7JtmVbDkblw.html Best of luck!
Whoa whoa whoa...give us some more info here. How long were you guys together? WHY did she break up with you, HOW did she do it, and did she swear she was done with you? Come on....help us out please.
@@anthonyjesus6151 just in a relationship for 2 months, she broke up with me because she had no feelings anymore, she did not swear anything but she blocked me for 2 months
Yeah got divorced like 2 years ago but still have been close after. My ex moved to another state but she has come back to visit a few times and we took a vacation together. We had basically in a long distance relationship for awhile. Then here recently she kinda started talking less and finally told me she had met someone very recently and was devoted to that person, I’m still completely in love with her and it’s hard. I let her know how I felt but she ended up blocking me for a while a couple times cause she didn’t want to hear that. Guess I just hope she comes back one day and I’m a better person for her at that point. I still love her so much…
Don' t worry about when or if they will be back , that causes resistance and slows things down even stops it all together, focus on yourself, live your life and keep your vibration high, this will literally bring them back 💗💗💗
True! A couple of my vids discussed that. Here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-obBIttQSak4.html AND ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-4Qe-4A-CpVY.html
Never lose hope. A narcissist always comeback after a breakup. Have patience they will contact you 💯 just make sure to focus on no contact. Trust it. It's an effective way to get your ex back. Thank you for this video really help me a lot to ease the pain I been through.
If they're a true narcissist, you'd want to stay away anyway. Be careful though as there's a fine line between someone with NPD versus one who just makes selfish and immature choices! Whatever the case, space is always needed. You're welcome.
Sorry to hear that. If that's the case, then yes, it's best to really contemplate on moving on. This vid is for you: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-4Qe-4A-CpVY.html
@@BradBrowning it the case only reason it took me so long to move on is I was in her kids life since they was born. I never want them to feel or think I abandoned them.
This is probably the best sign list. You're really helpful, brad. I wrote the signs down and realized that most of them apply to my situation. The quiz also confirmed it. Thanks again for another great video, Brad. 🙌
You're welcome! Hey, you never know who else can use some help, so if it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it!
Hey Brad thanks so much I watched this video, and applied the No-Contact, and it had taken roughly around 3 months, then she had messaged me, saying something about wanting to get back together and trying again. This was super helpful tysm Brad!
This is why I've dedicated a separate channel for marriage-saving tips. Check it out here as well as the other vids from this platform: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-dr2JTi_bCRU.html
I hear you. It's never easy and would feel like the biggest betrayal and I'm sorry to hear you're going through this. The 30-day "no contact" rule can work for you in the following ways: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-zw0ChuXCEmw.html Your ex is diverting her attention to someone else, which is the easiest thing to do and is really just his/her way of coping. If anything, your ex is suffering, too, even though it may not seem like it. Discussed that here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-7KE6nb4-ndA.html So that's what you ought to be doing too. Here, watch this: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-gUBNd6pDINM.html so try to put your focus elsewhere because your ex is likely rebounding and you're only wasting precious minutes of your life worrying about something that's out of your control. Watch this: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-TBtb34gy6zw.html Now lastly, keep in mind that your ex is suffering too, even though they try to cover it up. Discussed that here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA
Hi Brad! I'm in a bit of a sticky situation: my ex and I broke up a couple days ago and we both agreed that we will be in a no contact situation as emotions were running high and we wanted to heal from what happened. We were going through a couple months of rough situations as we were long distance for a little and got into small, but frequent arguments. Additionally, he was transitioning into a new college and told me that he wanted to try living college life single and who is out there. However, he kept telling me that he has no intention of actually getting with other people or talking with other girls; just he wants to see who is there. He told me that we can call in a bit to get some closure and emotionally heal and grow and maybe (hopefully) be friends and even date again afterwards. He keeps telling me that he loves me, wants to be with me if our situation was good, and that he would always cherish me and that he doesn't want to disappear from our lives and would always be a part of each other. He just told me that for right now, we can't be in contact so that we can process and heal separately. Would we have a good chance of getting back together? (We have been together / talking for almost 10 months, and have really good sexual chemistry).
The fact that he wanted to be single just to say he wants to see what else is out there is a huge 🚩….he had probably been thinking about other girls for quite some time and will probably think about them even if y’all were back together. He isn’t too focused on you. I would move on and talk to other people but have fun around mutual friends. They will talk about you especially if other guys have shown interest. Good luck, hope it works out the best for you 🖤
We’ve completed NC and now we seem to be really good friends. Sometimes I’m not sure what to think about how he feels about me. He’s starting to be a little flirty with me, tries to make me laugh and we have a lot of fun together. But sometimes he ignores me as well. It’s driving me crazy and I’m not sure what to do!
You're on the right track, assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part. Be sure to check out my other videos for more tips on how to go about this, especially this: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Here's a short infograph to guide you in each process: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-7JtmVbDkblw.html Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to ensure that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com
Sorry to hear that. A divorce may be in order so you are officially free and be able to marry someone who truly loves you and values you. Don't be stuck in this situation or in any situation really. Life's too precious for that! :-)
I recently screwed up & cheated on my girlfriend almost fiancé….it wasn’t anything physical but through texts of flirting…i was taken advantage of through a person I grew up with & thought I could trust, but took advantage of me during a low point & I egged it on..for attention..I feel like absolute trash & regret everything… I absolutely love this girl with all my heart & wanted to much in the future & now she wants nothing to do with me at all as if we are strangers. I’ve manned up & faced her & her parents & let them know how truly sorry I felt/feel. I’m in loss & I’m trying to do better & be better everyday as I know God has a plan for me, but I seriously regret life right now and just want her back.. Ik with time it might work out but who knows maybe down the line we can end up together but I truly felt as if we were soulmates which sounds pretty corny but this girl is my ideal woman in my life.. I’m truly sorry Mary.. I love you forever & always, & always unconditionally..
If you're sure you want to fix the relationship, the best thing to do right now is to take responsibility and admit to your ex that you've effed up and try to be patient and sympathetic with what your ex is going through and just disappear from your ex's life for a while, because right now, you are a constant reminder of the pain and your ex needs to heal from that first. And saying sorry is not gonna fix that right away, it takes time. By cheating, you're automatically putting the ball in your ex's court and have lost privilege to take your power back in all this. It's up to your ex now and how soon they can forgive you and move on from the incident, not necessarily from the relationship although some people do that. With that in mind, these may help: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-f0F8q2IIgtE.html AND ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-qnE192fUKxI.html Whatever you do, make sure you avoid doing the stuff here that will only push your ex further away: y2u.be/jikW4YYC9yo
Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved.
Thanks for the new video Brad. There's a problem, every time she comes back after a breakup but then a few days latet she will start to fight and everything falls into old routine, she hangsup on me over the phone, and I block her and initiate no contact....😔 This back and forth cycle is so toxic and exhausting, how can we make ex treasure the relationship more without keep stepping the lines by saying or acting meanly?
Don't block her. Try to work out the issue instead? Also with on-and-off relationships, oftentimes this is a sign of underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. It may be time to put things into perspective while it's still early because in 12 years spent as a relationship online coach alone, I find that a breakup is often NOT just one person's fault, so look at the roles that you've BOTH played that led to the breakup and if the issues have a chance to get resolved, and how to go about it. In most cases, the problems that led to the breakup can be resolved, but in some cases, it can't. So take time to evaluate, okay? However, I have to warn you not to ask the reasons from your ex. This is what I've discussed here along with other stuff that might help you, so this is a must-watch: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-zqAEi9PbEAA.html But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot. Good luck!
My ex and I ended a 6 year relationship 3 months ago. She moved back to her home state and within two months started seeing someone. The first month we were in constant communication. Month two she started to resent me. Month 3 new relationship.
Wait for a better time before interacting with your ex, however, don't wait around doing nothing. Take a leap of faith on a new path as well because you never know where life can take you, which may be better without your ex. Use this time to heal and prioritize yourself. But if it's been more than a year or so, make sure to check the signs if your ex has moved on, here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-ZyJRphwDca4.html This should help guide you on what to do for the time being: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-hlikXIfMYN8.html However, make it a point to be really productive with your time being apart. Follow the tips here to help guide you further: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-gUBNd6pDINM.html AND ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-WVFZVqFDFV4.html&ab_channel=BradBrowning now when the time comes where your ex is free or is constantly contacting you, check out my other videos here in RU-vid to help you with a lot of texting tips as well as when to give up trying. Good luck!
Funny how you mention jealously makes them want us back. My ex immediately started dating after and tbh, yes I was jealous but it was a huge turn off for me because how can someone that cared about you so much just move on easily?
Yes, jealousy is only effective if your ex is expecting you to be heartbroken and desperate after being dumped. In other cases such as your recent experience, jealousy can have the opposite effect. Sorry to hear about your situation, and I hope you move on and find someone better! Cheers
This whole video applies to me ,but honestly I just living my life my ex has been reaching out to me and calling me frequently. She doesn't have actual reason of calling me ,been telling me about her life and etc when I don't even ask either . And she was the dumper btw I'm keeping my distance and seeing how it all plays out
Great! Don't forget to check out my other videos if you're not getting my guide so you'll know what to do next after the "no contact" period, to contacting your ex down to re-attracting, and what to do in between those phases and how to transition to actually getting your ex back. Here's a quick overview: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-7JtmVbDkblw.html Best of luck!
Good! Looks like you're on the right track, I supposed? Don't forget to check out my other videos if you're not getting my guide so you'll know what to do next after the 30-day "no contact" period, to contacting your ex down to re-attracting, and what to do in between those phases and how to transition to actually getting your ex back. Here's a quick overview: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-7JtmVbDkblw.html Best of luck!
The "no contact" rule usually comes naturally to the dumpers. Learn the 3 basic phases I teach in my Ex Factor Guide. It helps to learn the basics of my 3R system here first, so you'll have an idea on how to go about it on your end: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw
He is with another woman now and both families involved to take next step. But he is still helping me out financially. He says he really want me to become a successful woman. What is his intention. Does he really care about me or is he doing this for his ego? Please I need help
It could be for both but I don't personally know him so it's hard to tell. What do you think? If you like to share more of what's happening because I definitely need more information than what you've told me, I'm here as a coach to help guide you at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
So if my ex stays she wants to stay friend with me even when I tell her I wanna move on and she still interest that we be friends and she also check up on me? Sorry guy this is the first woman that I have ever loved I cheated on her and realized what I lost.
If you're sure you want to fix the relationship, the best thing to do right now is to take responsibility and admit to your ex that you've effed up and try to be patient and sympathetic with what your ex is going through and just disappear from your ex's life for a while, because right now, you are a constant reminder of the pain and your ex needs to heal from that first. And saying sorry is not gonna fix that right away, it takes time. By cheating, you're automatically putting the ball in your ex's court and have lost privilege to take your power back in all this. It's up to your ex now and how soon they can forgive you and move on from the incident, not necessarily from the relationship although some people do that. With that in mind, these may help: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-f0F8q2IIgtE.html AND ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-qnE192fUKxI.html Whatever you do, make sure you avoid doing the stuff here that will only push your ex further away: y2u.be/jikW4YYC9yo
Ya know your statagy of no contact only works when you don't have kids involved. When theirs kids invited the no contact rule doesn't work. You have to contact them and still see eachother for the kids. You also have to get along for the kids. Your stuff works for per kid stuff
I know and I've discussed this in my other vids. It's going to be tougher than usual with kid/s involved and/or usually other responsibilities still tied to your ex, but it's best you do limited contact or what I call the dynamic "no contact" rule. Prepare for an uphill battle but if you play your cards right and depending on the extent of damage done, it can actually still be salvaged. Try to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be by applying the tips here as much as possible: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-GTjEAGJWTuA.html AND ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-dDZrnNh8LOg.html
I lost him.. only cuz i couldn't control my brain from rampaging before my periods and i couldnt even tell him why i did what i did. Being an 18 year old i didn't even know hormones could do that much to you. I really do think he was my soulmate. He understood me like no other. I wish I'd have told him when i realised. But i didnt want to pose it like i wasnt in the wrong. It was really me. Just not me at the same time. Im deeply sorry my love. And you have my heart forever. I love you. Always and forever.
Sorry to hear that. This may help you process or deal with the breakup efficiently: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-7zp7SFbeCRU.html but if you find yourself needing more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com or get my Ex Factor Guide if you want to try to get your ex back in the best possible way, at www.breakupbrad.com Take care!
Good, thanks! Don't forget to check out my other videos if you're not getting my guide so you'll know what to do next after the 30-day "no contact" period, to contacting your ex down to re-attracting, and what to do in between those phases and how to transition to actually getting your ex back. Here's a quick overview: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-7JtmVbDkblw.html Best of luck!
Hello ,I have no contact to my exbf ,since June 26 until now ,last msg me ,don't disturbing me anymore ,and he block me ,what I will do,I love him so much.please help me.thank you souch
@@cheme5887 what helped my through no contact (six months here) is I asked a question about what I didn't miss about the relationship. So what do you not miss about the relationship?
We barely had any contact prior to the full breakup. She hasn't given any of these signs, and I'm not sure she would. Wasn't in her nature to post much on social media when we were together. Everything is fresh, but none of these signs have existed. Been no contact for 3 days. I don't plan on ever reaching out again even though I love her and miss her like crazy. We left on good terms.
The first path towards moving on and getting an ex back follows the same route and here's how to tell you're doing it correctly: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-f7zuXk-sVsI.html Anyways it's always best to take your time in deciding first so there'll be no regrets in the end. As I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved. It's your life and it's your decision.
We broke up early January this year ....it was a hard time for me but up to now he still texts me ,calls me ,say he loves me ...yet he still dated the girl he cheated on with ....I want to move on even though I feel some feelings fr him
Stop entertaining him since he can't give you the commitment you deserve. Watch this, too: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-35Pxw6ZuD_M.html
By watching this I’m realizing that these signs mostly apply to me, and 2, maybe 3, apply to him. We still live together for at least the next 6 months, and frankly I’m not really sure he wants me back since he said i killed it during the breakup with what i said. He said he still wants the best for me and loves me and wants me to improve, but that i won’t have a future with him. His best friend says I shouldn’t worry and should give it time, but a lot of these signs are hard to see since my ex is very good at hiding his emotions and acting like things are fine. Im considering coaching with you after my therapy session today, and I scored a 71 on your quiz. Should I even try and pursue my ex? I was the one who initiated the break up and said horrible things to keep him away, only to realize my emotions got the better of me. Anything helps, thanks brad.
I fucked up so hard man. I didnt lash out but I told her I was seeing someone after she reached out a week later, she was hurt by it why did I even say anything I'm such a mess rn. It's been 2 weeks since then and I'm so torn about just moving on.
You just mentioned it was a rebound relationship? It typically lasts less than a year and your ex has previously came out of a long term relationship. Those are the common signs but not guaranteed since I've mentioned in my previous vids, a rebound can actually work out but rarely.
I knew my ex gf wanted to reconcile when mutual kept talking about her to me. She was just too proud to approach. My ex gf and I were doing well but she slowly but surely started disrespecting me . I called her out on it and she left . She must have expected me to chase but I just stopped all contact. By the time she called me . I was over her and was dating other women.
@brad browning, my woman broke up with me. The reasoning was that she loves me but isn’t in love with me. Please help. It’s tough to think about rational reasons why. It’s only been a few days but her birthday is today and she asked me if I wanted to have a couple drinks with her tonight when she gets home. Sidenote: I live with her and her family. How do I handle this situation
It's a different set of rules if you live together. Do limited contact with your ex where you only discuss the essentials. Apply the tips here, too to help you out further: y2u.be/thVReUI9Vzs AND y2u.be/STL7ru4uSQk I know it's hard, but lots of folks have managed to follow the tips and succeeded. So if they can do it, then so can you! Good luck and be strong!
Yes, employ the 30-day "no contact" rule first. Here's how you can tell it's starting to work: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-T4Sz6DiWRsQ.html Though make sure you follow the tips here as well: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-xgR03RcU8mw.html AND some recent tips here: y2u.be/FLeP1eRCkCk Lots of folks seem to be oblivious about it, so here goes: the 30-day "no contact" rule, once COMPLETED, is just the first phase for most people (unless your ex sincerely wanted you back and it's shown in their actions). This would also help guide you on what to do after the "no contact" rule: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-BAhMrmw3Sms.html Anyway there are two more phases to go through if you want an ex back, and the third is to rekindle/rebuild the attraction with an ex. Learn the basics here: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw
Hey brad. I have a bit of a weird situation. My ex and I broke up about two months ago since we started to fight and argue more and more as time went on. After we broke up we were still friends and saw each other frequently. We eventually decided that we wanted to try to restart and do things right instead of going too quick. We got to the point where she would tell me “I love you” “I miss you so much” “I just want to be closer to you..” but she hen not even a week later, she starts seeing someone else and being so distant to me. She told me that she doesn’t want to be with me and that she only sees me as a friend. Is this true or just her way of coping? Do you think she really meant all of the “I love you” recently?
Sorry to hear that. I know it's harsh, but take it at face value because she's already seeing someone else...and continuing to deal with her will only lead to her stringing you along, so it's best to let go for now, all things considered. Make her prove her love because if she really did mean those words, she will come around sooner or later after you play your cards right and basically get on with your life. Wait for a better time before interacting with your ex, however, don't wait around doing nothing. Take a leap of faith on a new path as well because you never know where life can take you, which may be better without your ex. Use this time to heal and prioritize yourself. But if it's been more than a year or so, make sure to check the signs if your ex has moved on, here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-ZyJRphwDca4.html This should help guide you on what to do for the time being: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-hlikXIfMYN8.html However, make it a point to be really productive with your time being apart. Follow the tips here to help guide you further: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-gUBNd6pDINM.html AND ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-WVFZVqFDFV4.html&ab_channel=BradBrowning now when the time comes where your ex is free or is constantly contacting you, check out my other videos here in RU-vid to help you with a lot of texting tips as well as when to give up trying. Good luck!
My ex reached out to me twice by sending some of my things that he ended up taking by mistake. I'm in no contact, so I've no idea what my ex is up to. I've not seen him in six months and my plan is to stay in no contact forever. I'm not a stalker, nor do I have social media.
The first path towards moving on and getting an ex back follows the same route and here's how to tell you're doing it correctly: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-f7zuXk-sVsI.html Anyways it's always best to take your time in deciding first so there'll be no regrets in the end. As I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved. It's your life and it's your decision.
My ex and I dated for 11 months, and the entire time we dated and before that she was best friends and extremely close with another girl. While she was with me she came out as bi, and eventually forwards the end of the relationship she admitted she had feelings for her friend which basically led to the breakup. Three days after we broke up she started dating her friend. I am wondering if this is a rebound or not considering the unusual circumstances? Please feel free to respond even if you’re not brad I need some insight on this
Sorry, man, but chances are your girl has been at least emotionally cheating on you. Discussed that in depth here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA There's no easy way to say this but the answer is is to move on, especially if your ex doesn't seem to be regretting their actions and asking to get back together. Most of the time, a lot of people would move on, but a few would still fight for the relationship, so this all depends which side you're on and what your views are. But take into consideration about what I’ve mentioned here, too: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-m27TLeyUmwg.html There is no right or wrong answer here because it is your relationship and it's personal to you. Make sense? Anyway men and women cheat for different reasons, but if you think your ex is worth it and if there's been a genuine connection between you two before the cheating happened, then try to see the roles that you BOTH played that led to all this mess and see once and for all if it can be resolved or not, okay? Really take your time before deciding though and be sure not to make any hasty decisions from an emotional place. Take care!
Woah bro that's crazy man my ex is extremely close with her best friend but I doubt shes bi i bloody hope she isn't because everytime i asked she denied it but by gods grace she isnt bi and she was friends with this girl way before I got in the picture anyway
You can do it but try to stay strong and avoid any shortcuts. I suggest to reach out to your ex only after the 30-days straight of "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-7PcfGeJqUYo.html including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-t6I5k55pnCE.html but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com
Hi brad. Ive got a difficult situation. Me and my ex (18 yo both) were together 2 years and we broke up 3 weeks ago. We had little amounts of fights and discussions and everything was going well. Our last discussion had been 2 months before our breakup. And she decided to end our relationship because she was exhausted and those fights we had made her feel bad at times she doesnt see me for who i am only for who i was. i havent talked to her and we broke up 3 weeks ago, said she wanted to break up and she needed time on her own, i told her its ok. everyone tells me she isnt coming back but she clearly misses me. and i have respected her space and time since then we only spoke once. what do you make of this situation? what should i do?
Hi there! I appreciate the time you took to write to me and I would really love to help, but as what I've been telling anyone who posts super long comments, please try to keep your post short. I only have limited time to give free advice since obviously my coaching clients take first priority, and I'm trying to cover as many comments as possible. Feel free to sign up for my coaching program so I can prioritise your situation at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Lastly, you can also visit my other videos to check if there's anything you've missed that you haven't followed. Here are the basics: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-aeGNPBdpnsI.html Thanks for your understanding!
You should move on with your life. Start making new friends and going out and having fun! Make sure you have fun around your mutual friends because they will talk about you around her. You have to let her know that other women like and want you, make her a little jealous but not too too much lol. If she messages you again be calm and cool. Don’t be mean to her just be kind and caring. Every situation is different and so is every woman. Only you know the right thing to do
You're right. Your ex is most likely lying about the reason of the breakup so try not to fall for that. Discussed that here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-ZuHWCWeG1xs.html However, the bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-aeGNPBdpnsI.html and the golden rules here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-1kJ1ybuFIHE.html
Hey Brad, my ex and I had a break up once before and we got back together. This time I’m worried we won’t get back together… I’ve reached out, and asked mutual friends, and everything. He is now dating someone new and won’t respond at all.. it’s only been about a month..
Sorry to hear that. An on-and-off relationship often signifies underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. Read this first to know what to expect when you have this kind of dynamic in your relationship: bit.ly/1HjcagC But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot!
I'm not a fan of being passive. Why wait for your ex to run back to you? :-) I never said the "no contact" rule is supposed to go for weeks or months on end. I only said it's for 30 days in about 80% of my videos, didn't I? :-) Anyway getting an ex back, just like anything that's worth having, takes work, so make sure he's/she's worth it. Anyway the "no contact" rule is just the first phase. Here is the step-by-step process: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-7JtmVbDkblw.html There are two more phases to getting an ex back, and the third is to rekindle/rebuild the attraction with an ex. Learn the basics here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-aeGNPBdpnsI.html and to initiate communicate, this is the vid: y2u.be/XonMtLFo000
Unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-5UT92IB5ugs.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-aeGNPBdpnsI.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-D1GpR5MApQk.html Good luck!
my situation is really complicated, i was hoping you (or anyone) could give me some insight: we met and clicked instantly. we live just over an hour apart so from the very start we knew we really liked each other when we were willing to take turns making the drive every single weekend. we both constantly told each other we were the best relationship we’d ever had in every single way. we were the EPITOME of a healthy relationship to the point that people all around us were asking us for relationship advice. we stayed in this period for 5 months (2 months talking, 3 months dating) and would only have small disagreements that we ALWAYS worked through together and came out better than before. i thought we were gonna stay like that forever. then, about 2 weeks ago, we had a rough day when stress was high and he was getting irritated w me because of our stressful day. even though it stung a little i told him i understood because i did but he kept apologizing and saying he’s been feeling awful for getting irritated with me lately and after a long convo we worked it out. i decided to come back over the next day to give us a better day together, but not even an hour in he took me upstairs and ended things with me, saying a mixture of “maybe it’s just not a good time for me” and “it’s not fair on you for me to snap at you like this” and even “maybe we just have different personalities.” but we kept going back and forth on what we should do before he decided to end things with me. he very clearly did (and i know still does) love me a lot, and we even agreed that we want to be friends no matter what happens. he was the one who established a “no contact” rule that we’re doing right now, because he thinks we’ll be able to be calmer when we meet up again to talk about it. my question is, how do i get him to see that i think we can work this out? we have absolutely no issues or bad blood between us and i know we care about each other more than anything. how do we have that conversation about getting back together? he’s also said that he needs to be on his own for a while (no hookups or anything) in order to heal, so i know it won’t be any time soon. i just want to have some sort of idea of whether or not us getting back together is plausible
Sorry to hear that. You can't get him to think anything. It has to be his choice. The first step, however, is to give each other space, so employ the 30-day "no contact" rule first. Here's how you can tell it's starting to work: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-T4Sz6DiWRsQ.html Though make sure you follow the tips here as well: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-xgR03RcU8mw.html AND some recent tips here: y2u.be/FLeP1eRCkCk Lots of folks seem to be oblivious about it, so here goes: the 30-day "no contact" rule, once COMPLETED, is just the first phase for most people (unless your ex sincerely wanted you back and it's shown in their actions). This would also help guide you on what to do after the "no contact" rule: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-BAhMrmw3Sms.html Anyway there are two more phases to go through if you want an ex back, and the third is to rekindle/rebuild the attraction with an ex. Learn the basics here: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw
Amazing video Brad ! I have a question I know from my mutual friend that she talking about me and she said that I don’t look at her IG stories or anything (am in NC) Is it rude to not watch any of her IG stories ?
Not rude at all to love yourself first and heal. Why continue to monitor/watch her when it's only torturing you because you're being reminded how you're already broken up? Take care of your own mental and emotional wellness first.
I and my girlfriend met about 5 yrs ago. It was a long-distance relationship, so it didn't work out well. We rediscovered ourselves when she started her masters program at a college in the city I live in. We started building our relationship and started discussing settling down and building a family. I got a shock of my lifetime when she told me, "I'm sorry, but in 3 weeks' time, I'm getting married." And that person happened to be her ex. It was as if it was a joke, but it happened. I'm so devastated and heartbroken. I don't know what to do.
Sorry to hear that, man. How long did your relationship last with her? It looks like she's been interacting with her ex this whole time, if they came to a point where they're getting married. Consider moving on from this as you deserve to be in a much much better situation, yeah?
He took me off all his social media except fb when we broke up. Haven’t heard a single word from him. His family still follows me on social media and engages with my posts
Depends on which phase you're on. Never skip the "no contact" part! Watch this to get an overview on what steps you ought to take in each phase: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-7JtmVbDkblw.html Best of luck!
My ex broke up with me 13 days ago i cheated on him (by lying to him that i was hanging out with my colleague after work) we have been in a relationship of 7 years and it was my mistake but i really love him and i want him back i tried talking begging convincing him but he is not in the mood to listen, but when i text him he talks casually with me but is angry! Should I do no contact or should i just keep talking to him casually i want him back and i know he loves me a lot so do I! Please help me😔
Let him cool his jets first. If you're sure you want to fix the relationship, the best thing to do right now is to take responsibility and admit to your ex that you've effed up and try to be patient and sympathetic with what your ex is going through and just disappear from your ex's life for a while, because right now, you are a constant reminder of the pain and your ex needs to heal from that first. And saying sorry is not gonna fix that right away, it takes time. By cheating, you're automatically putting the ball in your ex's court and have lost privilege to take your power back in all this. It's up to your ex now and how soon they can forgive you and move on from the incident, not necessarily from the relationship although some people do that. With that in mind, these may help: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-f0F8q2IIgtE.html AND ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-qnE192fUKxI.html Whatever you do, make sure you avoid doing the stuff here that will only push your ex further away: y2u.be/jikW4YYC9yo
When someone behaves confusingly, always look at their actions because they always speak louder than words. I understand how you feel though and the emotional roller coaster ride you've been on. Whatever her deal is, make sure you back off to give her the space she needs to make up her mind as it's deeply stressful to you on the receiving end. Take time to heal and be independent on your own first. Watch this: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-zw0ChuXCEmw.html
Hi Brad. Thank you for answering my questions. Im currently on a journey to win back my gf that Ive been in relationship for 4/5 years. It was almost like marriage, we loved each other and she was always happy and desperate when we apart which gave me confidence that she loves me . We had some major arguments during relationship that lead to brake up . She never told me that shes done with me or anything like that , just said that she needs to find herself and little time away from me and wont be texting me which I sad okay and havent talked to her for 30 days . After that day I texted her to see if shes willing to at least talk to me and she replied quickly "Hey , Im fine thank you" , but as I asked her to set up a meeting she responded briefly and stubbornly "No , I am busy and have responsibilties to take care of , thank you for asking me" . After day or two I sent clean slate text and apologizing If I was crossing her boundries couse Im aware of how she feels about us. Should I continue "No Contact" strategy or try something else ? Thank you so much !
Maybe she felt you were lying because you didn't follow through? When do you plan to propose to her though? She could've gotten tired of waiting or she has has some issues with you that you may not have noticed and it's very important to address that but I need to know what's really going on between you two so whatever the case, you'd benefit by working with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
My ex broke up with me 2 months ago, then we spoke after those 2 months and we got back together,but as friends, and keep going out every week, and sleep together, When she broke up with me i entered a friend group she all ready was in, So i introduce my self to the group and got around 1,400 likes of women, then i keped posting but just a posts like: "Have a nice day everyone" She texted me and said she was bothered by my posts,. I think she was jealous,and havent talked to her since 2 weeks ago, she got mad, Should i text her back? Should i wait? Should i ignore her?? Please help!!!
Ignore it. She has no right to be jealous since you've been broken up for months now.... and she needs to realize that you've already broken up. With that said, making your ex jealous is okay, just don't go overboard with it, yeah? Check out my other vids. Subtlety is key. Good luck!
I am listening since February all your video and others coach nothing happen I try a lot of strategies I hear in your videos nothing happens now I get into silence because we still live together and it’s hard to move out ,but nothing happen nothing I will give up on everything no more watching video
Take a break from social media to refresh your mind. Watch and take the tips here to heart as this may help you process or deal with the breakup efficiently: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-7zp7SFbeCRU.html but if you find yourself needing more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com or get my Ex Factor Guide if you want to try to get your ex back in the best possible way, at www.breakupbrad.com Take care!
How long has it been? 30 days or so isn't really cause for concern. However, if your ex has ghosted you or blocked you everywhere where contact is impossible and you can't text/call/email even though a lot of time has already passed (i.e: more than 6 months), then I'm sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but it may be over for good. It's one of the things I've discussed here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-FP8YmErEOW8.html
Great! :-) Your situation is also very delicate so once you start to see some progress with your ex, then don’t go at it alone, especially if you're in doubt or don't know what to do next. Sign up for my coaching program so I can help assess your situation clearly, look at all the other factors at play and see things you might have missed, then guide you accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
She always block me and unblock me.It has been 9 months of our breakup.so i thought she wants me back in her life so i mentioned her in my new tiktok account.but she again igonre me why?
Too much publicity. Try to be a little subtle when it comes to that to not put your ex under any pressure, yeah? Watch this first to help set your expectations: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-OzVymYnQFTk.html and look out for the signs that your ex has moved on: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-TnZzeEIPEik.html If you see only one or zero signs, then this vid is for you: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-9LC1ewgBkIQ.html If the conditions are right, then make sure you tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms It's important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-aeGNPBdpnsI.html and the golden rules here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-1kJ1ybuFIHE.html
I break up with my bf now im really hurt bcus now he is cheating on me😭😭😭😭😭i tried to beg him but he does not want me back..im going to do this i blv it will work for me bcus i still love him and i want him back into my life😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
If you ended things with him, then that's not really cheating? Not sure what happened, but if you dumped him, apply the tips here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-8wq6u-esNOY.html
Hi Brad, I’ve been watching your videos and I found them really helpful but I’m not sure if it’s to late for them to help me. I didn’t live with my ex. My ex stopped communicating with me, like he wouldn’t tell me stuff and he would keep things to himself. He ended our 7 year relationship with no explanation. I tried no contact but it was only for 10 days because I was scared that I was losing him. We met a couple of times and I did get very emotional and he seemed concerned. He wanted to remain as friends, I did this for a couple of day’s because when the texts got few and far between, I told him I couldn’t do it anymore. He sent me a text saying he understood and he was there if I needed him. That was a couple of days ago, does this mean I’ve lost the chance of us getting back together?
Really sorry to hear that. I understand your frustration and pain. Seven years is a long time. Also reminds me of the 7-year itch! When a breakup happens, most of the time this means he has lost attraction for you, hence, it's a bad move to be friends with him. You need to cut off contact for at least 30 days first. Silence is key and here's why: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-zw0ChuXCEmw.html If you continue being friends right away, the boundaries won't be clear and you're technically both free to date other people. Wouldn't it be pure torture if your ex dates a rebound in front of you because you're only "friends" now, don't you think? So it’s not a good idea, especially if you want this ex back. Watch this video so you’ll know why being friends won’t lead you anywhere you wanna be with your ex and how to get out of this trap, at ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-pv_cjzhVKAY.html AND ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-yd6pvNVeHjI.html but read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, along with free bonus materials for texting. Good luck!
Yes sir, I blocked him but he used another number just to contact me and talk to me and calling me always, he is jealous if I talk another man. And all of these signs is with us, 100% po sir, and I admired you ♥️💖❤️ a lot,
My ex broke up with me and I'm 6 months pregnant with our child. We had a difficult long distance relationship (I had to return to the US for medical reasons). Since he told me he wanted a break he contacts me all the time asking about our unborn baby. How should I go about this? Should I just do no contact until the baby is born?
If he wants to take an active role, let him. It's going to be tougher than usual with kids and/or usually other responsibilities still tied to your ex, but it's best you do limited contact or what I call the dynamic "no contact" rule. Prepare for an uphill battle but if you play your cards right and depending on the extent of damage done, it can actually still be salvaged. Try to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be by applying the tips here as much as possible: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-GTjEAGJWTuA.html AND ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-dDZrnNh8LOg.html
Hi Brad, I go to school with my ex gf (we dated for a year). I’ve been in no contact for 30+ days now after begging for a month. Yesterday was my bday, and today my ex gave me an expensive gift in class, my mind went blank and I quickly responded a “thank you very much” and went to my own seat. I felt like I was bit cold? Should I text my ex to show her my thanks? Im still in no contact tho
A simple thank you is enough. I don't think it's a wise idea to be talking to her just yet, considering how you've begged profusely. Give it AT LEAST a month where you work on yourself and get back your confidence. Best of luck!
It’s only day 4 today and my ex texted me because my birthday is in a couple days and he got me a gift he said and he asked if I want it so i don’t know what to do now i haven’t texted back.
Me and my girlfriend broke up 3 months ago and she recently reached out to see how i was and I didn’t respond immediately. I actually waited maybe a week and a half to respond and when I responded i was very casual seeing how she was. She told me she’s talking to another guy and that she is happy but realistically i want her back not just because she is with someone new but because i have been missing her and i asked should we try to pick up our pieces and fix our relationship and she said no I am 100% over you. What should I do if i want her back?
Don't you recognize an opportunity when you see one? :-) Your ex is opening the lines of communication which is a perfect opportunity for you to transition into phase two. Since you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule, and assuming you've done the "no contact" rule properly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-XonMtLFo000.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-aeGNPBdpnsI.html Good luck!
@@BradBrowning I got blocked 4 days ago she said before that, that she wanted to be with me and if I've been talking to other girls then I said to her to think about it for 48 hrs because I want her to be sure then after the 48hrs she said she isnt interested anymore and that day she got nasty to me for no reason and blocked me again 😑, it's crazy she said to me the day I spoke to her that apparently I caused myself to get dumped because of causing arguments most of the times and it wouldn't be like this if I wasnt argumentative what should I do?? You think she will unblock me? Today was my mums anniversary 6 years since my mum passed and my ex didnt unblock me and even check on me...
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Is it appliable on a lesbian relationship as well? I'm just asking because I'm aware that men and women act different in many kinda situations when it comes to feelings.
It happens but I'm sorry to hear you're goin through this. IT may be time to completely move on from this. I suggest you get my Beat the Breakup e-book. I made sure it takes a wholesome approach so everyone can relate to it (including spirituality) and I spent a lot of time writing this and have given it careful thought, so I guarantee you'll find something useful in it to help you out in life. Check it out at www.beatmybreakup.com Take care!
My ex and I were together for 2.5 years in a long distance relationship. He said he doesn't feel the same anymore and only feels a friendly response towards me. for awhile before breaking up and I sent your good break up last and his response was "it's fine , I know this will be good for you in a long run, so keep doing your best" seems like he wants me to move on Is that bad for me?
Sorry to hear that. The distance will always be a major culprit but I also understand that the pandemic isn't making things any easier. Is this long distance scenario temporary, though? Because if it isn't, then may be as good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-GQY4N04uvtA.html AND ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-5nfWRJRrnAs.html However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Crying can be therapeutic, so go ahead and do it as it releases some of the sadness away. Be careful you won't go down into a spiral though so make sure you take time to heal and tend to your own life, okay? Focus on yourself and your goals. Employ the 30-day "no contact" rule first. Here's how you can tell it's starting to work: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-T4Sz6DiWRsQ.html Though make sure you follow the tips here as well: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-xgR03RcU8mw.html AND some recent tips here: y2u.be/FLeP1eRCkCk Lots of folks seem to be oblivious about it, so here goes: the 30-day "no contact" rule, once COMPLETED, is just the first phase for most people (unless your ex sincerely wanted you back and it's shown in their actions). This would also help guide you on what to do after the "no contact" rule: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-BAhMrmw3Sms.html Anyway there are two more phases to go through if you want an ex back, and the third is to rekindle/rebuild the attraction with an ex. Learn the basics here: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw
My bf broke up with me without telling me, starting dating a girl that once was a friend of mine.. i was told i need to move out and live with my parents for a while so i dont get him in trouble.. his family still loves me, bf sometimes comes around and talks and hangs with me when his new girl aint around.. his family says he still loves me but hes still with his new girl my ex friend... i still care about him and wish him restful sleep... i feel like shes making him miserible but he trys not to show it
Sorry to hear that. It must've felt like double the betrayal. The 30-day "no contact" rule can work for you in the following ways: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-zw0ChuXCEmw.html Your ex is diverting his/her attention to someone else, which is the easiest thing to do and is really just his/her way of coping. If anything, your ex is suffering, too, even though it may not seem like it. Discussed that here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-7KE6nb4-ndA.html So that's what you ought to be doing too. Here, watch this: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-gUBNd6pDINM.html so try to put your focus elsewhere because your ex is likely rebounding and you're only wasting precious minutes of your life worrying about something that's out of your control. Watch this: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-TBtb34gy6zw.html Now lastly, keep in mind that your ex is suffering too, even though they try to cover it up. Discussed that here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA
How the hell so many ppl experience their ex professing their regret to them while mine says she want me to let her be 😢. The only thing she did from the list is she told me she will be remain single for a while and work on herself.
It's probably because you reached out to her way too much when her attraction level for you was already at an all-time low. Never do that. Okay? Focus on and work on yourself first too and always strive to become a better version of yourself.
3 weeks ago my girl called me while I was in a meeting, and I couldn't pick up immediately, she started texting me saying I was cheating, I immediately video called her while I was in the meeting, she hung up after 10 seconds. We've been together for 6 and a half years, and because of her past she has major trust issues. Usually I fall to my knees begging and trying to convince her I would never cheat on her, but she has such a hard time believing that. This time when the accusations came in I just said "ok". I texted her on xmas, but no reply. Today 3 weeks later, she blocked me on social media. Roller coaster of a holiday season. 😮💨
If she can't get over her trust issues after being together for six years, then that's really on her, man...unless you've caused her to question your loyalty recently. Otherwise she needs to work on herself. No amount of being in a relationship can help do that for her, unfortunately.
Hello brad so me and my ex is still living on one roof after break up but she is seeing someone else already. Is there any chance we can be together again?.
I know it's tough but now is a good time to know yourself more and find that strength to accept the breakup and be independent of your ex in any way that you can. Do the dynamic "no contact" rule or limited contact. You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-GTjEAGJWTuA.html AND ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-dDZrnNh8LOg.html As to your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique, so I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Best of luck!
Im now 2 and half weeks into no contact with my ex and today at church I noticed her looking at me a few times. I did last week also. Before I started the no contact she couldn’t look at me for some reason. We split on good terms as well.
It's awkward for her, too, considering how fresh the breakup was. Here's what you can do on your end, though: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-dDZrnNh8LOg.html
Hello'' I am with my husband since 8 years. In the Last 2 years we have heart each other for stupid things but those mistake have been repeat over and over. He have work all time von stop until he habe burnout and i have Stress all time and didnt now how to make things better. Now he have decide to go out of home and live somewhere and told me that i will not divorce with you cause we have to heal each other but we are all time im contact he care about me and i and we comunicat better but he still is indifirence with me and tell that until i heal he will not come home and say me how will Gona be our relationship. Now i ask my self why he have to make that if he is joking with me ? I dont know his intetion?
Sorry to hear that. While I certainly need more information to know what's going on between you two for sure, I suggest you check out more marriage-saving tips which you may find useful, check out this new channel I've dedicated solely for this purpose. Here's the link: y2u.be/dr2JTi_bCRU
Play your cards right anyway and start with "no contact" rule. Don't forget to check out my other videos if you're not getting my guide so you'll know what to do next after the "no contact" period, to contacting your ex down to re-attracting, and what to do in between those phases and how to transition to actually getting your ex back. Here's a quick overview: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-7JtmVbDkblw.html Best of luck!
The 30-day "no contact" rule can work for you in the following ways: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-zw0ChuXCEmw.html Your ex is diverting his/her attention to someone else, which is the easiest thing to do and is really just his/her way of coping. If anything, your ex is suffering, too, even though it may not seem like it. Discussed that here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-7KE6nb4-ndA.html So that's what you ought to be doing too. Here, watch this: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-gUBNd6pDINM.html so try to put your focus elsewhere because your ex is likely rebounding and you're only wasting precious minutes of your life worrying about something that's out of your control. Watch this: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-TBtb34gy6zw.html Now lastly, keep in mind that your ex is suffering too, even though they try to cover it up. Discussed that here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA
Are you guys on good terms now? I say that reaction is not bad. Most exes pretend like they didn't see you even if you'd literally bump into each other!
@BradBrowning no I still haven't heard from him he sent me a invite to his event coming up. But still ignoring me when I text or called. He just text me and said he'll call me when he gets off work but it never happens.. A week later he invited me to his event through text.
Hyy , My ex was crying when I told him that I can't talk to him as friends and he said that we two are incompatible to be in a relationship then I said okay I agree with you and he can let me know if he changes his mind and then I went straight away into no contact rule , 2nd day of no contact he texted me but I ignored his text as it was insignificant ... And it's day 16th now , he have not reached out again . Please reply what should I do , please help , I'm not contacting him ...🙏🙏
Don't let the breakup consume you. Easier said than done, I know, but you have to be mindful of that. I suggest you employ the FULL 30-day "no contact" rule and be mindful of the tips in the following videos to help you out: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM AND make sure you don't make the number one mistake here: y2u.be/1cBpNrDDHnw So once you've completed the no contact phase, watch my texting tips on how to re-establish contact with your ex. This is only one among the many texting tips posted across my channel. Start with these: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-XonMtLFo000.html AND y2u.be/RggluigF74E but if you're still lost about what to do despite the tips sprawled on my channel, then you may want to sign up for my one-on-one email coaching at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!
Brad my ex started to show suspicious behaviour with her phone causing me to be paranoid and start to get really bad suspicious behaviour from me to prove she was cheating, and I caught her with another nan in her bed and now she is playing the victim saying it’s all my fault, I’m in day 3 of no contactv
That sucks, man. Really sorry to hear that. Being cheated on is truly one of the biggest heartaches you could ever experience, relating closely and coming second to grieving for the death of a loved one. There's no easy way to say this but the answer is is to move on, especially if your ex doesn't seem to be regretting their actions and/or making a solid effort to get back together after giving each other some time and space apart. While the situation is truly painful for you, it gives you the most growth as well so take that time to rediscover yourself and your own strength in getting through this. So really, my suggestion is to heal from this and be open to new possibilities. You ought to apply the tips here but it's really up to your ex to learn: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-4Qe-4A-CpVY.html if you want to find out what your chances are, however, then feel free to take the free quiz on my website at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
Hi Brad. My ex broke up with me the other day after eight years of a harmonious relationship and raising his two little boys. He is ten years my age (53) and feels time is running out, that he still needs to explore some stuff. He has been very emotional and keeps in contact about me with a friend of mine. He wants to take six months (perhaps) shorter, for himself and me to grow and develop and we made plans to at least text every Tuesday (just a couple of lines to stay in contact) and then after a while he wants to rebuild our friendship. I asked him if he can see us back together again, but he doesn’t know this. What is your idea about our chances of getting back? I have made no drama and respect his wishes. Out break up has been very loving and heartbreaking for us both. Thank you so much in advance! I miss him terribly.
What were the issues in your relationship and how did you two went about resolving it? As to your chances, I say generally it's still fair game unless you see most if not all the signs that your ex is over you. Here's the vid: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-ZyJRphwDca4.html and especially if those signs prevail over a prolonged period of time. If you're asking about your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique, so I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Best of luck!
@@BradBrowning Thank you for your reply. I guess the main reason for breaking up is that after all this time he did not feel that so called 'spark' any longer even though many more important things like trust, care, a deep rooted love etc have grown. I also think I have grown too codependent because of some mental health problems that suddenly came to front. I quit alcohol and tobacco as a result for over a year and have changed a lot. Perhaps I've changed too much...We never had any real issues and since there are kids envolved that I love dearly I am quite shocked. He is ten years my age (53) so midlife could perhaps also be a part of all this. I will def take that quiz....
Hi Brad I need some help, so my gf left me about 2 weeks ago (Sep 11) and she broke up with me because she said that she lost feelings for me and now has feelings for another guy and 2 days later she and him start dating (Sep 13) I’ve been trying to get her back by talking to her but her bf made her block me, what should I do?
Sorry to hear that. Wait for a better time before interacting with your ex, however, don't wait around doing nothing. Take a leap of faith on a new path as well because you never know where life can take you, which may be better without your ex. Use this time to heal and prioritize yourself. But if it's been more than a year or so, make sure to check the signs if your ex has moved on, here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-ZyJRphwDca4.html This should help guide you on what to do for the time being: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-hlikXIfMYN8.html However, make it a point to be really productive with your time being apart. Follow the tips here to help guide you further: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-gUBNd6pDINM.html AND ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-WVFZVqFDFV4.html&ab_channel=BradBrowning now when the time comes where your ex is free or is constantly contacting you, check out my other videos here in RU-vid to help you with a lot of texting tips as well as when to give up trying. Good luck!
Just play your cards right based on my videos. Once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-XonMtLFo000.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-BAhMrmw3Sms.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-aeGNPBdpnsI.html Good luck!
ure videos are amazing brad they helped me alot i watch your videos all the time your great at explaining things and ure the best so helpfull keep up the great work 😘
Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-GQY4N04uvtA.html and/or ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-5nfWRJRrnAs.html
I don't understand the concept of dating around when you are trying to get your ex back. So many coaches say that or friends say date around move around. It's a hot girl summer get out there and have fun. What kind of fun are they talking about? Because this day and age when you meet somebody that claim they like you after 3 months they like you enough to want to have sex with you. So do you just date around have sex then leave then date around again? Have sex then leave like what's the purpose in dating around? Occupying your time with a human being that wants nothing but sex from you? no one is genuine these days. No one wants real fun. Good times and amazing conversations.
There's more to this than just rebounding. It's all about pre-selection, which I've discussed in greater detail in the first part of the video here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-fO9EePCzRj4.html The aim is to increase your confidence by socializing and to subconsciously know that there is life outside of the relationship/breakup and to get out of the tunnel-vision mentality most people have after a breakup that only their ex can fix it. In other words, it is to help yourself process the breakup. So interact with people. It may be just on a friendship level, camaraderie, bonding over a new sport/hobby/activity, etc. and not restricted to just dating, perhaps I should've emphasized that, too, as I can see how it can easily be misconstrued. But if you do get around to dating someone that you truly like, then that’s good, as it would help to let you not seem desperate to get your ex back, which most exes can sense from a mile away, mind you. Anyway thanks for your input! :-)
Ex reached out to me after five months and the Clueless me fuckd it all up and pushed her away, after a year she texts me 😂 hard buh the no contact really does the magic
Hi Brad! My gf broke up with me yesterday.. our relationship was literally prefect if together in person, but there was some distance between us for few weeks because she had exams,… so she said that it doesn’t work because we don’t see each other that much. And that was it… what should I do
Focus on your respective studies first and let her miss you. Is this your first/serious relationship? If yes, then this vid is for you: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-7KE6nb4-ndA.html
Hi sir so basically my girl broke up with me the other day but she still wants us to be friends, but she always FaceTimes me and asked if we could meet, and she asked if I could go to her work and get a job or something and she says stuff like “your so cute” and stuff like that and how she missed meeting up with me and all but she did say “She doesn’t want to give me the wrong impression she will come back” and she did say she misses talking to me in a friend way or something like that
Don't do it, man. She's lost attraction for you and it's a terrible idea to be friends with her. You need to cut off contact for at least 30 days first. Silence is key and here's why: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-zw0ChuXCEmw.html If you continue being friends right away, the boundaries won't be clear and you're technically both free to date other people. Wouldn't it be pure torture if your ex dates a rebound in front of you because you're only "friends" now, don't you think? So it’s not a good idea, especially if you want this ex back. Watch these two videos so you’ll know why being friends won’t lead you anywhere you wanna be with your ex and how to get out of this trap, respectively at ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-pv_cjzhVKAY.html and ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-sS4V4IOcOgs.html but read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, along with bonus materials for texting. Good luck!
