What Makes Your Ex Miss You? 

I pretty much made all the mistakes in the first 2 weeks after I was dumped after a 10 year string along relationship. I was angry, distraught and embarrassed. Honestly, I wanted to throat punch him. In the beginning I stooped to new lows when I begged him back and texted ridiculous things. Somehow, I stumbled upon Brad, invested in his program and to be quite frank, it was the best thing I have ever done. I became a much better person overall. In the end he did come back and we were able to work through all the misunderstandings and there were a decade of them to amend. We now have the best relationship I have ever had. Making myself the best person I could be during the breakup was the single best thing I could have ever done.

We wont even probably get back together, but your videos motivate me so much. Thank you Brad🙏🏼

My Ex’s grandma passed away couple of weeks ago and now she’s reached out to me.

I know everyone has unique situations and caveats to the lessons that you teach… and I guess I am no exception. I need to know if the personal coaching is for me. I need to schedule a consultation. Thanks Brad for all the free info and lessons that some are semi-known to a lot of people, but when you’re down in the thick of emotional hell…. Well, cognition and objectiveness is not my strong suit when my “sky is falling.” You present the info and speak in the best of Canadian ways to make sure you’re insistent, knowledgeable, helpful and polite.

Brad knows how to talk .. thank you for the clarity. Well spoken

I didn’t beg my former girlfriend after the breakup. She had sent me a happy birthday message after the breakup. Almost a week to the day of the breakup. I sent her a message about five days later. Told her I wasn’t angry. Just wished it would have went differently. Then later sent her a few pictures of her and I together. Told her thanks and left it at that.

Thank u brad ,u videos are much useful ,please go on with flow do more videos for how to win over ex after break up .

Thnk u so much Brad. All ths worked out for me after a terrible breakup with my x last year. I kept listening to ur utube and followed ur advice.We got back together n happier that 🙏🏾❤️ever.

Great videos Brad.. but just the fact I keep watching these videos and others show that I care 100 times more as she never would have done the same if I broke up, instead just go to the next guy.. (even she do MANY of these things you mention, jealous etc) pretty sure many can relate and I challenge you all to ask yourself if they are worth it at all.. how much WORK is this guys? Omg

I’m going through a breakup now. It sucks. It hurts. I have hope for the future but i don’t see it being possible. I’ve been watching your videos Brad to help alleviate the pain a little, with the idea that maybe, i can still hold on to the 1% chance that i could get him back. That he still misses me or cares.

Your videos have help me so much. My breakup 💔 was unexpected for me.Yes me had a few fights like normal couples but not crazy. A week before he asked me to move in together in the winter and I was so excited 😊. A few days later me had a silly fight and he was like I can't do this anymore. 2 days later he comes to my house we had been kinda talking but not really and I knew he was going to say it.He came to my house and he said I can't do this anymore its too much you stress me ,you are jealous you don't let me go out with my friends you get annoyed etc. I was in complete shock and hurt. I have never hurt so much in my life we have been together for 3.5 years. Yes I know I can be a bit jealous but that is my own insecurities 😕 and I know I have to fix that.I could never say to him not to go out with friends he always thought I got annoyed. And sometimes I would push him to do things but it was only because I cared about him. Now he lost his mum less that a year ago at 56 years old and he did not grieve properly. And he would say to me when he broke up to me .You will be hurt for a while but you will be okay bit I will never be okay again after my mums death.He compared everything to his mum. I know he is in so much pain and we went through her illness and death together and I don't know why he pushed me away. I am doing the no contact we broke up on the 20th July and he called me 6 days later then nothing until the 16th September on my birthday and said happy birthday and then I asked him how he is and he was talking about his mum and that he is not ok. It is coming up to his mums 1year anniversary and I want to go to it but will text him first to see if he won't mind .But it's just so hard as he is grieving so bad .And I know he is hurting about that more than us.💔 And I am giving him his space and have not contacted him bit it is hard in this case as he is also grieving. I just don't know what to do.😔 .

Hey Brad, been watching for a while since my break up and there's been a few times contact was broken but not by me but it didnt seem like there was any signs I had some mental health issues I went to see the doctor for and really focusing on myself to change but it's been recent since contact was broken should I start from the beginning again and wait another month but go full no contact this time then yeah try to pull what you said I already know what i would say theres been ups and downs anger throughout the relationship but in my Opinion it wasnt all bad that's for sure and I had alot of demons that was even affecting my happiness when I was with her and I was afraid to get help but now I did and been focusing but I dont see any signs and tbh man I really loved this girl and I wish I did something sooner but you cant wish all I got is now and I'm scared but thanks for always uploading it helps get me through the day I just want to be the man that I'm supposed to be.

Thank You very much Sir

It's been almost one month with limited no contact due to the apartment which we have been arguing about quite a bit now, he has openly expressed how he hasn't missed me at all and that he was relieved it was over, he was already thinking about the breakup for two whole months and I had no idea, so by the time he broke up with me he was already at peace that this was the right decision and he couldn't stand me any longer in his life even though we never fought or anything! He went straight cold the day after and never discussed what bothered him in our relationship, only during our recent argument about the apartment did some information surface.

No other way, no contact no contact no contact. Let them miss you 😘 one day he will miss me 🤗

Hey Brad How are you?? Thanks for the help

Thinking of getting back to your Ex it's a waste of time, learn to let go, if you are in this situation and you are looking for videos for guidance, you are full of potential , there lots of good people out there who will give you attention , invest in yourself , time and energy..! Learn to control your mind and realize that nothing is permanent so a breakup is part of life..!get yourself good books, meditate ,start a business or a hobby. Wish you happy and health, you will be happy again, life is a wonderful possibility.

Hey brad, thanks for the great videos! I had messed up by being a little needy. I then sent her a clean slate text that wished her well. After that text I started no contact. She didn’t respond to that message that wished her well. I heard she’s talking to someone from one of my buddies. I’m one week into no contact.

Hey brad, great video ! what do you suggest if after one month of no contact, my ex says he misses me a little but he wants space? I initiated the conversation

Hi Brad, what would you recommend I say if she asks if I’m saying these things /doing these tactics in order to win her back?

Goodday Coach Brad I'm from Philippines. I have a question is there any hope of second chance even from a toxic relationship.

Good morning Brad. My mind says get a new phone. My heart says I want my old phone back.

Hey Brad, how can I hint to the positive memories, whilst maintaining as little contact as possible?

I was born and brought up in a Hindu family in India and she is a strict Muslim family. After so many unforgettable moments with limitless discussion about the future of our relationship, now she left me by pointing out the religious problems for herself to come with her parents only after more than one and half year of strong relationship of ours. She is the first and the only love of my life, i love her so much and she will always be in my heart forever. I am 22,she is 20 in ages. I am 6'2, she is 5'7 in heights. And I was thinking that I finally got my soulmate in my life but unluckily she has changed after uncountable numbers of loving memories that we've made and tough times that we've been gone through together. True love is not for everyone in this cruel world of divided religious cultures and beliefs.😭😭 I wish if we were born in irreligious society.😥

so we both agreed on a clean slate but it seemed like she didn’t want it. she also said she doesn’t know if she wants this anymore but is willing to give me a chance to show that i’m willing to change and the relationship won’t be so unhealthy.

hey brad, I’m not technically broken up, but we’re on a break and seeing where it goes and if he regains his feelings. How far should I treat it like a breakup and are a lot of the rules the same? Do I take practice in the 30 day no contact still?

Hi Brad!!! So I feel like my situation is very unique.. but basically my ex and I split so that we can work on ourselves then have a fresh start together. We relied on each other too much we both lost ourselves so we needed to work on that separately. It’s been almost 2 months of no contact BUT only last week we did have a conversation about how we’ve been. He did mention he wants to see me when the times right, when we’re both ready. But he won’t be ready until he can cope with it all emotionally. I think it’s the same with me, I need to be comfortable living within myself before I can see him again. Otherwise I’ll fall into my old needy habits. Have you ever had a situation like this? How long roughly do you think we will both need to be able to emotionally handle the breakup so we’re able to reconnect? Do you have any thoughts? Thank you so much ❤️

Hello Brad Love the videos! Top man! Quick question: I broke up with gf 2 & half months ago for slapping me in my face then I came back to try talk things through and 2 months ago whilst at my ex girlfriends, my ex girlfriend called the cops on me whilst I gained access in her house and she had me done for harassment and burglary, when the cops come I said to my ex girlfriend 'THIS IS GOODBYE NOW THEN" and the charges were dropped by the police due to insufficient evidence... I have not heard or seen anything of ex girlfriend for 2 months now mate Brad is this relationship completely officially over now mate? Thank you

I love watching your video. So this 61 years old guy unblocked my number last night after no contact of 4 months. He said “hey, how is it going?. I don’t even want him anymore, I am more happier than ever. I can’t believe I fell hard for old dude from gym. I’m 30 years old and I fell for 61 years old. Im an idiot. I was hurt, crying, begging and pleading for him to come back. Lol I’m such an idiot. Brad… thanks for your video. I’ve moved on and I’ll ghost him for good…. His lost, he weren’t there when I needed him the most.

Hey brad , I made a couple mistakes. We are on a break and I’ve been trying to figure out why we are , I ask questions and did all the stuff Was not supposed to do. I didn’t know you had videos on this . I’ve been watching your videos , I think I lost her trust cuz I kept trying . What should I do ?

Sounds like playing games to me. Let those exes go. 🎉

Thanks Brad, I have been watching all your videos. I separated from my ex about a month ago and I miss him more than anything in the world. My ex said that he needed space to get ever me because it was too painful so I k now he misses me, however he said he didn't want to see me for 6 to 12 months and he's blocked me on messenger and texts so how do I contact him? I will follow the rule for no contact for next 30 days. I am worried he won't want me back as he had jealousy issues and told me not to contact him and he hasn't contacted me at all. No one was unfaithful and we were together about 4 yrs I am devastated.

Good day Brad, I'm on my 5th day in this no contact rule, but I've communicated with her friends and mom about how I feel because of the pain and regrets. We broke up because she wants someone in her life that will always stay and I am away. Last December an old friend of her have been communicating with her and later this January she confessed that she has feelings for him already but I am the one she loves. After that we had many hot n cold conversations because of me being jealous and angry of the other guy and eventually we broke up. This feb 24 she posted that she's already dating that guy and described it as Imagining finding both love and friendship in one person. I love her so much and I am in so much pain. Do I still have a chance of getting her back? What should I do? your videos have been giving me hope and am thankful for it.

Hi Brad, I love your videos. My ex bf just broke up with me like 2 weeks ago. We were together before the pandemic like 6 months and after that the pandemic and the border closed he flew back to his country. Its been for like 2.5 years that we never met. Last month he started to the breaking up conversation that made me so shocked bc he never said it before and like I know he didn't have any affairs or see someone else out there. But its about the distance he told me that he can't do it anymore and he can't have an emotional connected with someone who is so far away. It doesn't work out for him and he thought he could wait. But unfortunately he can't bear it now. Also he have lost some of his feelings for me bc of the distance. If we didnt have this situation it won't turn out or become like this. He said he was really love me tho. He said I'm really amazing and he still want me in his life or keep contact. He said it breaks his heart too. Also everytime we talk about it he said he cried a lot and he missed me even when we broke up now. And he said he has to focus on his work to make him feel a bit better not super sad for our breaking up. Also he just started his new work and he easily stressed out with it. I really hope that I can be there for him but I can't. What should I do ? Will I get another chance to get him back together again? I really really love him. And we were really good together. And its the covid that ruin it right? I hope you can give me some advice. Really thanks for that.

Will these work if you want them back as a friend only? I'm the dumper cuz it wouldn't work out long term (basic incompatibility, not arguing etc., all good memories). But would vibe very well as friends. On radio silence currently.. Will she reach out for friends?

After 27 years of marriage, divorce and then 5 years of dating, the part I can no longer figure out is why someone would want their ex back in the first place.

I did everything wrong! Just didnt want him to think i didnt care and gave up. I contacted his friends, his mom, I've sent every desperate msgs begging and apologized many times. He's basically ghosted me... the only msgs I got back was him losing his crap on me for telling one of his buddies that I was going on a date but it didn't work out. He was upset I contacted his friend and seemed very jealous that I was already planning on going on dates.. Even though he hasn't talked to me in 2 weeks. I send him msgs every day and get nothing back so I will try NC now.. There's really nothing more I can do or say anyways. It's probably too late after all the damage I've done at this point 😭

Not always.

Hii Brad.. your videos are very helpful for my relationship especially no contact rule. Yesterday me and my husband brokeup with each other because of discussed about our past relationships in the fight. Initially we both shared about our pasts now it became big problem for our relationship. I can't getting how to stop digging the past. He truly loves and i do love him more but every time we got any fight, he brings the past into it. I love him a lot and want him back. He blocked me in everything after the fight 😭 and saying his ex is better than me. How can i handle this situation

Hey brad, I broke up with my own ex recently, however it was only for one reason - that we couldnt really see each other often physically because she was restrcted from going outside too often, we only saw each other a maximum of 15 times in 8 months.I might have messed up by asking her obsessively about if this or that wouldve worked out but at one point asked her if things would have worked out if i moved to her school to see her more often and she said it could have in the past. and to add to that in in the final breakup message she said that "maybe in the future but not right now". She has been really nice because she is a good person in the heart. She said she wouldve cried if she told me in person. Please tell me your opinions on this, is there a chance well get back together?, Should i start doing the no contact rule straight away?

Hi Brad! I’ve been in contact with my ex for a year since he broke up with me. It’s been difficult for me not to contact him and I’ve made the mistakes you have mentioned in the video. I’ve chased him like crazy and we have seen eachother in multiple occassions. He enjoys the time we have together but he won’t commit. He has the best of both worlds and I’m over this situation. Is it too late if I just vanish from him life? Could these techniques make him come running back? I’m not sure if it’s already too late… What donyou think?

bradd braddddf i am so done with my life honestly its been 3 months we were fighting for 2months straight i tried convincing her i tried everything we argued and etc but then i saw ur vids i used no contact for 22 days and it didnt work ig it didnt go as planned i need your help yesterday i sent her a letter again and she was like sorry no ive been overthinking about u but same decision i dont wanna get back and i said aight im never coming back i tried everything 🙂🙂 idk what to do? should i go no contact again or what

Hey Brad! So my ex and I broke up last year around this time and she periodically does the indirect-direct text message. She is in australia and I am in the US so we still can't travel to each other. After sending an accountability letter in june and her waiting two weeks to reply saying that she has found happiness again on her own and moved on, she text me 3 weeks ago asking "are you happy?" I did not reply to that message. I should also note that she blocked me on social media but has made a burner account to look at ALL of my posts and stories everyday. What would your advice be moving forward as I still would like to pursue a relationship but I don't think she as moved past the break up yet.

Hi Brad I've been with my girlfriend for 6 months I'm 15 years old she also goes to my school and she recently broke up with me and I'm not really to sure what to do. if you could help me towards this that would be awesome :)

Hey Brad, I've been watching a lot of your videos recently and they're really amazing. I broke up with my gf today and I'm left feeling like I want her back. She's told me she still loves me but that the relationship I have with her is not something she wants right now. I was too clingy and dependent on her before, but now that I've changed it's too late to get her back. It's her first relationship and my third, and we were both very passionate with each other. She's said she doesn't want me to disappear and I said I'll leave WhatsApp untouched, but will unfollow her on other social media platforms. I've met all her family, and all her childhood friends. I don't want to lose her, and I'm scared that I will, and that I came off too strong saying we should just break up (but I felt like she was going to say it anyway so I thought I would say we can mutually agree to break up, and she nodded very sadly). She cried but I tried to show her my fun and playful side every now and then to show that I'm different to how she thought I was before. I did make her laugh quite a lot, and I know she doesn't want to let go of me. She's told me she still loves me and I know I still love her. We broke up because of poor communication and I want to get back with her. Should I really be not talking to her for 30 days, when she's going to be busy with friends, studies, and everything else? (And if she messages me a normal message asking how I'm doing, should I even read the message, or just leave it on unread?) (Really love the videos. Keep them coming!)

Hey Brad hope that all is well? I have just broken up two weeks ago and cut story short we have got a baby boy together! We have got a 3 year old son. She says she loves me but she is going with her head . Did you recommend any of your videos to help me get her back Many thanks in advance

Hi! I’m on day 34 of NC and it’s going pretty ok. The problem is we had lots of problems during our relationship and we couldn’t fix it so I told her we should stop talking. It ended up with her blocking me everywhere and this is the first time in eight years that we’ve had more than a month with NC. Should I go for 60-90 days? Will she ever come back? Because we had a very turbulent ending where I told her I never wanted to hear from her again. I might have made a mistake but I think it was the right decision. Edit: I need to add that we had a breakup few years ago and it ended up with me coming back to her. Maybe she’s expecting the same thing to happend this time again? What do you think?

Hey Brad, how about if I see her every day because we work together, what should I do then. Thanks, Antonio

alright, i need some advice, my guy. Recently, my ex broke up with me because the long distance was getting hard (it was a long stretch we had to take from not seeing each other), and we began fighting more often. I would say that the fighting was mostly due to my own mental health taking a dive and her stress from school. And before that, we were having some problems, mostly because i was sacrificing myself to do what she wanted (though I was still happy and content to do so)(this was about a 1 and a half month span that i did this) It was bad timing for a chemical imbalance. We were together for almost 7 months and the good definitely out weighed the bad. We stopped contact for a few weeks after breaking up, then at the beginning of October, we began talking again. I recently just spent four days with her and it felt exactly like before (amazing), and i could tell that she was missing it all just like I had been. I have definitely learned from my past behaviors and I'm ready to fight for her, but I'm not sure what to do now! I found your videos, hoping they would give me some incite, but I really don't know. I want her back, but the timing just isn't right. what can i do?

Hi Brad! I hope you will answer my question. I have this situation where we were in long distance relationship and just broke up. I asked if he wants to come back and take a break for a month to heal and see but he said it could driving us apart and there's possibility meet someone else. But he agreed to do a month break. Should I just let him go? Because he knows i wants him but he isn't sure what he wants so that's why he agreed to do no contact method.

Brad she is doing unlock and block daily😂but i make his father my friend trust me❤

Hey Brad, I’m in a bad situation, my girlfriend broke up with me 3 weeks ago, im trying to use no contact, but today i saw an Instagram story of her with another guy. “The guy she told me not to worry about”, I dont know if i shoukd continue no contact or if i should break it. Looking forward to your advice.

She left me for someone else i dont think were getting back together but i can always hope

brad I am wanting to subscribe and also maybe get 1 to 1 coaching but i have a question having watched your videos all of them my partner and i emigrated 6 years ago to a new life i have lied many times and made mistakes and rove her away and then in august she sold up and went back to the uk where her daughters and grandchild live. in your video if they moved 2000 miles away you said it prob def over she came back afte the 30 day rule in november for 3 weeks but then she discovered something about me and went back to the uk and we didnt even text she blocked me and changed her phone then yesteray she sent me a email describing why she left is it worth doing anything

Hi Brad. I’ve been watching your videos for the past few weeks. I’ve been with my gf for just under a year. Suddenly she called for time out saying she wasn’t 100% (a break) know she’s been under stress etc with family and son. I’m meeting her on Friday (uk time) to have a “talk”. Do you have any tips or videos how can avoid a break up?

My seperated wife is truly broken. She wanted a separation about a. Year ago. I did everything wrong, begged, pleaded and so forth. We communicated daily for months. Even when she got a bf shortly after separation. They broke up in April, she then really opened up and would communicate heavily with me. Shortly after she got a new boyfriend and she became super hateful towards me. They broke up in August, I was in no contact. She reached out wanted to take the whole family and do dinner, we hung out a few times with kids involved and she said, I really have changed. Shortly after, she now has a new boyfriend, now she wants a dissolution and is very cold, not hateful, just cold. I'm back in no contact.

I think he went right to someone else the same day we were together last. He said he’s happy 😞

Hi Brad, I have a question. My ex and I broke up over a year and a half ago and we have the same friends so we run into each other everywhere. Is it too late to start the no contact period now? / would it even work if he says he’s indifferent towards me now

Would sending happy memory photos be a good or bad idea? Thanks

Surely if I send him the good reminder message eg the example you mentioned he'd think that I still want to be with him and I'm not over him...wouldn't that be something not to do? Shouldn't the goal be to seem like you're not focused on getting them back, so reminiscing on romantic memories would give him the wrong signal

Brad. How u doing bro I can use your advice

Hey Brad I need some advice quick! So I dated a girl for a few months 4 years ago when we were 16 and 15. We ended it bc she didn’t feel quite ready but hung out for 2 more months but she still wasn’t ready so she told me to move on and maybe we can cross paths in the future. A few months later I started dating a close friend for 3 and a half years. She left me for someone else but both of our feelings were leaving. I’m glad that relationship is now over but I realized I always had my first ex in my mind so I texted her a few days ago and we caught up a little and she asked me how we were and I told her we’re over now. She seemed happy to hear from me after 4 years but then stated answering my texts about a day later now but Ik she’s busy. If I want her back and go slow 4 years later and she knows I dated someone else for years and heard she missed me during that time, what do u think is the best way to get her back slowly since I don’t want her to think I’m just acting like I miss her or using her?

The problem in relationships is that same body will immediately be in another relationship when their is a break up

I’ve been in a relationship for 7 years, maybe I was blind to the signs. But I thought this was the most productive year of our relationship. Turns out she found someone else to replace me. She didn’t cheat but he was lined up as soon we broke up. She has little experience with men, and my friend Luke said that lack of experience causes lack of perspective. We talked for a few days after the relationship. I did get desperate and we did talk for a few days post break up. but I plan on employing the 30 day no contact rule. Do you think I still have a chance?

? What about if my ex started dating someone else n I give him no contact what is going to happen do i still have the chance to get him back me

hey brad me and my gf have been broken up for 2 weeks and ive made the mistakes of contacting her and writing love letters. is it to late to start no contact an recindle the relationship?

Hey brad, She broke up with me a month ago and got into a rebound. But her room is full of things that i bought her and i gave to her, if i go no contact will those reminders help me in the long run?

What strategies can you use if they have a boyfriend?

What if Ex is having surgery, should you break no contact to wish them well?

Hi Brad, me and my ex have been messing around since 6 or 7 year's but we been staying together for 3 and I'm the one that brought him and his mom back together with each other and also 3 of his kids also back into his life because the baby ma before will not let them come over and I think all I did and more for him to do me the way he do soon I told him to get his stuff and leave cause of a bad argument he went to this girl who is younger than him I believe him and her has this plan and he had been talking to her for it to be this easy for him to move with her. So what do I need to do

As soon as she broke up with me she said "but we can stay friends...if you want of course"

It's been one month since I apply the no contact rule, and I think she knows that I apply it, because someone told her, and now I feel like she is mad and missing me at the same time. What should I do? Should I continue the no contact rule or start to talk to her?

Hey Brad , Hope you're alright and everything is going well with you .😊 Every time when I see your videos believe me or not it helps me a lot to be calm and motivated . I'm also appling "no contact" strategy for 3 weeks. But the real issue is I have to see my ex often 4 times a week at private tuitions and she also sits beside me. What should I do at this type of scenario? I'm just disappointed to find out what should I do. Please help me brother I need you 🙏 Thanks again for your motivation and suggestions 😊

Hey brad is it ok if I only let my ex text me first since she broke up with me. Like why should I text her first and chase her when she can😅 and when is it the right time to text my ex

Hi brad. My ex and I were in a long distance relationship. And every time he fail to chat me for days due to his busy schedule I get mad. I told him not to talk to me what he did he blocked me to other social media accounts. The last thing he said is goodbye and i love you.. Do you think he’ll miss me and come back to me even if we are faraway? We don’t have mutual friends btw. So I don’t have much idea of what he is doing now.. aside from studying.

Hi brad, my ex gf an I had been together for 7 years and separated the last 2 years but we were still in contact over the last 2 years. Ive recently have been trying to get back togeather but she said she has started talking to someone else and i should move on. But she still found it in her to do a quick meet up last week, emotions are high and stressed, what could i do?

Hi sir, I hope you will answer my question. She break up with me some days ago. We text normal good morning and good night, Not more. Is this messages are good? And she is very sad because her uncle passed away. She texting about it. Is this a good sign? Or I need to start no contact. There is any chance?

We were together for 5 years, we’ve been split for two weeks talking from time to time. She began sleeping with one of my friends a week after we split up and is with him all the time now. She told me she talks about me all the time to him. Yet she tells me she’s not ready to see me again yet and claims “when she’s ready to start dating again she’ll give me the first chance” Not sure if I should employ no contact or if that would be a mistake and to keep trying to talk to her and keep on the pressure? She also said something about still going on dates but not dating anyone just yet. Not sure what to do.

Hey Brad, I really need your help. My bf and I broke up on October 22th. this was because of our mental health. We are both struggeling with issues and it has affected the relationship in a bad way. He told me that he 'misses the happy Zoë'. Right now I am trying to focus on myself so I can be myself once again. And I started the no-contact rule on November 1st. But I really want him back. Can you please help me....

Hi Brad, i broke up with my bf three month ago and a month later we tried to figure it out, he was trying to win me back however something happened and we broke it up again, this time I want him back but I have a feeling that he has already moved on, he told be he want to try again but that he doesn’t have romantic feelings for me and scared of hurting me if it doesn’t work out. I’m goin back home for a month and intended on using the no contact rule during that period. But im scared it’s too late.

What if you live together - and there isn't an option of not. Is this all still applicable? Just continue doing normal stuff around the house, but just try to not have much contact with them? Isn't it kind of impossible for them to miss you if you are seeing each other every day?

I can't purchase your course.

What if she’s doing the no contact to me and wants me to reach out to her ? What if she wants to see me work hence why she’s not speaking to me?

I failed no contact when wee first split because she wouldn't actually tell me that she didn't want to be with me. It also didn't help that she has a friend that is hell bent on making my ex actually hate me and to isolate her social life. I have told her before that her friends were toxic and are only around when our relationship was in a rut, and I feel as though that her friend manipulated her into planning our breakup. I came to that conclusion because both times that we have split up she was behind her smiling at me while my heart was being broken and my Ex cannot see that she isn't a good person at heart, and that she is only around to make me seem like a terrible person. Is there any way to help her realize that and she was the reason we broke up?

Should i prolong the 30 day no-contact for like a week or so? I've done a lot of begging for about a month or a bit longer after breaking up.. is 30 days of no-contact enough then (reason of loss of attraction was months of annoyment, jealousy, controlling, all that kind of stuff)? Or should it be prolonged (long-distance aswell, but that's not the reason for breakup) He was the one who insisted on staying friends etc and wanted to continue talking, and when I didn't speak to him for a few days, he got a bit annoyed and concerned i guess.. and when i said i hadn't cried in weeks he was like.. "you got over me.." (seemed weird about it) but then i broke the no-contact (didn't know about it yet), and started the real no-contact just a few weeks later.. and haven't heard from him since his last message after I began no-contact (on good terms, i sent him a positive message but didn't say that I was starting no-contact). I have 11 days left at this point

Would u guide? We dumped each other twice bt got back. Now, we have mutually broken up but have not blocked each other and she watches my status as well. Is there any chance again ? We loved each other so much and we broke up just 2 days back.

Hi Bard. She contacted me after no contact, for the first 2 weeks she's acting distant and kinda mixed messages. But start from this week she instantly becomes so positive to me, like all of sudden she talks to me like we did before, jokes around, and even sends me 50s of the voice message about her life. I can see her tone and emotion is so uplifting now that gives me a sense of unreal and worry. What sign can this be, like 5 days ago she nearly respond to my message and was very cold. And I feel it's still hard to have a breakthrough at the moment because I don't know when it's a good time to suggest back together. Thank you

what do i do if my ex was supposed to meet up during my period of no contact and he asks to meet? Do i ignore it and only reply after no contact?

We just ended the lease together 😔 was sad we cried last night but no negative post on social media time to grind and focus I told her I love her and I will give her space don’t hesitate to call me if need me we have a 2 year old so I have to speak that way but I don’t plan on contacting her since she wanted the break up it’s emotional but I have to deal with it and focus on my career She will definitely come back we don’t have any physical abuse and I never raise my voice and very great financially I just lacked time love attention and I made a cheating mistake but I admitted to my wrongs and proved it which is always tough but once your honest over it you’ll also feel better and so will she if I lied with her having evidence it would’ve been nothing to come back from we can still laugh and joke but I choose not too I don’t want her as a friend and she knows it 💙

What about if he has a female friend/roommate who does all the things I did? Example camping hiking travel but nothing sexual or physical touch

What about a 40 year together, 35 years married and then he left you for another woman, so he's already filled your shoes?

Hey, me and my boyfriend broke up around 2 weeks ago and I rlly did show signs of desperation and obsession and asked him to take me back and all and he said he had made his decision and didn’t want to get back together so I just let it go and I removed him from my socials yesterday too and I started the no contact phase yesterday but today he messaged me asking if I like his close friend because his close friend seems to like me a lot, I replied asking why he cares and that he said he doesn’t want to communicate with me and now I’m waiting for a reply as he is sleeping rn … after this conversation ends should I restart no contact because I love him a lot and I really want him back

Quick question about no contact! My Birthday is on the 20th and he has a big surgery on the 26th. I just started no contact 48 hours ago. If he reaches out do I ignore him? I feel like I should wish him luck with his surgery as well. I know I can keep it together until then, but I’m worried about the big stuff??

Mr. Browning I have a question for you Sir. If she emails me (I have her blocked on everything else to keep me from reaching out) that she misses me, how does this sound as a response? I do too, but I'm giving you what you wanted? It's only been around a week since I started no contact. Thank you Sir

Okay I totally understand the concept of no contact. I'm very good at that naturally ghosting people. BUT wtf do you do if you have a child togeather? I'm I'm the position where I know for a fact my ex/baby daddy doesnt have to feel the pain of not seeing me because we have to see eachother once a week when he gets my son. What should I do then? Should I have my mother do the exchange and not be there instead?

Hey Brad, I broke up with my girlfriend like one week ago and ive been watching your videos and i want the faster way to get her out of her rebound and get her to take me back the only time we snap each other is for streaks and she seems a little to happy with said rebound and i know she still has feelings for me we where together for 6 months and i would like to use your one on one coaching but i dont have the money but i bought you break up guild and i know im going to get the result that i want if i follow it but i feel like the one to 2 month thing wont work based on what happen in our relationship i want the answers but it seems no matter what i do i cant find them, but she still tells me love you and stuff when she wakes up and its hard to just sit back and watch because i really lover her but i dont know what i should do

Hi Brad, my name is Kris my wife and I did not break up yet but on the verge not really so much to do with our relationship but I have kids with an ex and my current wife doesn’t get along with my kids so nine months ago, I wind up getting custody of them we been livening separate for nine months and she’s getting lonely because my ex is supposed to take them back soon so she’s giving me an ultimatum that if she doesn’t take them back soon, she wants out but she still shows all the signs that she doesn’t want out. The sex is great. We still go out we still talk and I use your advice when she gets mad I don’t engage I keep calm. What do I do in this situation?

Hi Brad! Just some questions.. How to not end up in the friendzone after no contact? Also is it smart to treat your ex like an acquaintance after no-contact? And during no contact, can i subtely brag about my new life to our only real mutual friend (a family member of his with who i chat from time to time- ofcourse not mentioning my ex)?

Hey brad my ex and I recently broke up a little over a week ago after 3 years. I have had made mistakes with going back and forth about the break up and lashing out. I did lash out because she sent me a new picture with a guy. I was hurt. But now we’re just not talking. Mutual friends told me that she said she will never get back with me and also apparently she just wants to sleep around and go to parties. Since she is in school. She always told me she loves me as I do to. Everything happened so randomly. So I’m just wondering if she will ever contact me again. We don’t have each other on Snapchat or Instagram either now

Do these steps still apply if they get into another relationship three weeks after breakup?