16 Personalities Speed-Dating Each Other 

The wordless 10 seconds of the INFP’s experience had more rewatch value than most movies.

I'm an INTP, and I just realized by watching this sketch how many times I was bribed into a social outing with the promise of food. I draw the line at speed dating though.

I love how INTP and ISTP bonded over how out of place they felt at the event, they're definitely each other's ride or dies!

🙏❤ 0:00 ESTP INFJ 1:02 ENTP ENFP 1:48 INTP ISTP 2:40 ISFJ INTJ 3:52 ESFP ENTJ 4:48 ENFJ ISFP 5:55 ESTJ INFP 6:23 ESFJ ISTJ 7:18 Credits

My wife is an INFJ and I'm an ESTP. The Brad and Becky relationship is top notch. I can certainly identify with Brad's interest in divulging the details of his gun fight with his brother. Although, my wife has taught me the benefit of being a deeper and understanding person. I'm really glad she's in my life.

ISTP: Abandons speed dating at the first available opportunity. ESTJ: Leaves speed dating once something more important arises. ISTJ: Makes it through the entire speed dating session, but complains the whole time. ESTP: Scares everyone else away, ending the speed dating by proxy.

The way ENFP relates to and tries to look at the "supposedly" positive perspective of the ENTP is VERY accurate. Top notch as always :)

I experienced the INFP's emotions in real time. I've been there. 😭😅

Yay, the beginning of the Brad and Becky Chronicles! I'd really love an entire spinoff video detailing their entire relationship, until their inevitable breakup. As a fellow INFJ, Becky is certainly on my level!

The INTJ - ISFJ one is basically every pretty much all the irl conversations I've had, especially with my mother. Me just dying inside after talking passionately about some topic I've put a lot of thought into and am excited about just to get a complete non-answer or obvious "I'm not really listening to you" comment. Or interruptions about some complete tangent (like the toothpaste thing). These sorts of conversations just drain me. The death stare was very on point. When I find someone who can actually speak on my level, it's like such an overwhelming sense of mental stimulation after all the suffocating drivel I have to endure. -.- I really do adore such people when I find them.

OMG BRAD AND BECKY- love it! Also omg the ENFP-ENTP skit- I love the distinction between Fi and Ti. It’s so much fun the ENTP defo came to troll people. As an ENFP I’ve always wanted to do speed dating not for the dating but like friendship- the only issue is I’d want to stay and talk when the buzzer goes because I get swept too into the convo!

As an INTP, now that I think about it, every awkward situation i've ever put myself in just happened because my friends promised me food

ISFP here. Given how many times my mom has suggested online dating to me, she probably wonders why I'm so resistant to it. It's because of how high-pressure it is (just like speed-dating). I want romance to develop naturally with a woman I meet in the real world. I don't want to rush into it or try to force it. I just want to go with the flow and let feelings develop where they may.

I see the wig budget continues to increase as well as your ability to probe into my deepest nightmares and psyche. - Sincerely, an ENFJ

That was the nicest I've ever seen the ESTJ

Ok time for a wild Dear Kristin's Cinematic Universe Nessay deep dive that will hopefully make Meg (and Kristin) proud. *Brad and Becky* So we know Becky is not the only INFJ in the DKCU. There's one Samantha who tried to date a Tim ESFP in "Interacting on Valentine's Day". An Olivia in "Two types in the workplace". There's also a male Fred INFJ in "Valentine's Day" who asks out the Not-Dog-Park-Girl ISFP. Brad is also not the only ESTP. I'm pretty sure Becky lives with a roommate ESTP Jerry (+ all other 14 types lol); the ESTP is called Larry in "16P Getting Arrested", furthermore there's an ESTP Amy in "16P Interacting as Newscasters". It's hard to tell them apart though because no matter their identity or gender, for some inexplicable reason they all look quite identical 😏 So, given how many dating skits there are, I think it's possible to assume that anytime Becky or Brad are not mentioned by name, it's not them. The alternative would be to assume that Kristin hasn't really thought this through with her inferior Ni. Buuut, both would be lazy alternatives. Let's try to piece this together somehow. I do find the INTJ's idea of transcendental realities quite realistic but won't acknowledge it for now. In any case, the first dates of Brad and Becky go terribly wrong. Brad is just... too bold and brash for Becky. In fact, "How to make INFJs feel loved" may be directly made for him. 😉 Without further ado: Assuming that Kristin's videos are not chronological, one timeline from Becky's perspective might be: Brad and Becky first meet in this video. She has previously been set up by the ISFJ and ENFP in "Valentine's Day", who both ultimately decided against Boo and tricked... um no, "persuaded" her to go not on a blind date, but on a speed date. This is due to her Fe wanting to please her friends, and because her relationship with the ENFP in "Dating Each Other" and the INFJ in "Dating Their Own Type (part 2)" didn't work out. Plus, the INTJ in "Around their Crush" never even got around to confessing his feelings and was instead busy slipping, on rainy days (jk). Becky's way of asking people out (16P asking someone out) evidently could be... improved. Maybe she could ask her cacti for advice. 😆 Thus, being desperate for true love~, she accepts. Here she meets Brad whom she immediately dislikes and rejects. Buuut she still remembers him, while Brad immediately forgets about her. Unsurprisingly, she doesn't find her dream partner whilst speed dating. Some time later, he coincidentally joins her in her marketing job (16p at a Winery where Jenna is the INFJ) or maybe she joins him, and they don't really talk to each other, but Becky keeps an eye on him while he doesn't notice her. Her initial dislike diminishes and turns into interest and admiration. Incidentally we also know she doesn't like her job, as she says in "Psyching Themselves Up in the Mirror". I'm not sure if her job is in marketing, but in any case it's connected to what Brad does officially. Unofficially, he's a criminal 😧 Then at the winery, they start talking probably after Brad "purchased" the grapes in the supermarket (scene with INTP). Becky doesn't remind him of their speed date where she so brutally rejected him and doesn't mention they work in the same large corporation (INFJs like being mysterious 😶‍🌫). Brad promptly asks her out on a date, which actually is more like attending a party with his mates. She gleefully and obliviously accepts the "first" date, which is actually their second one considering the speed date. So they go to the party on the same day where they play lots of beer pong (16p as friends, the convo between ESTP and INFP). Becky hoped for a traditional 1 on 1 romantic date so she is not happy of course, but Brad is. "At the End of a Bad Date", Brad says "So that was great, we should do it again sometime." and Becky lies "Absolutely." She tries to retract her words and reject him, but doesn't catch him down the street in time. So she decides to give him another chance. _I would like to state at this point that Brad is very casual with dates, and also not considerate or sensitive towards other people's feelings, if it wasn't obvious yet 😛. It's very much possible he's dating .... maybe not 16, but still multiple people at the same time as the subtitles say during the previous scene. After the end of this bad date, he doesn't even remember if her name is Becky or Becca (again 16p as friends, the convo between ESTP and INFP). Also on the next date that is coming up, he literally has "mates coming over in half an hour"._ So they end up on a second date where they play badminton with each other (16p dating their opposite type), which is her "literal nightmare". Despite all this, they become a couple. Being the idealist that Becky is, she can't help falling in love with what he _could_ be as a person. Also remember that by now, she's desperate to make a relationship work. But of course, like with her previous partners, it doesn't work out. 🥲 Becky's "way too slow to be her true self around him" (Through the Eyes of the ESTP). She also learns that Brad is one of the most wanted criminals in Australia (16P Getting Arrested). Since he's also the friend who is most likely to get arrested (16P as Friends), he breaks up with her to 1. keep her safe (let's just ignore the part where he has supposedly framed Becky in "Getting Arrested" 👀🤐) and 2. because he was never as much into her as she is into the ideal image of him she's created. My guess is, he likes her about as much as all his other dates. 😆 Now, this hurts Becky a lot and she is lamenting the breakup during the scene in which a different ESTP (Jerry?) tries to troll her in her room and sees her crying 😢 (16P on a Sick Day). I also suspect this is around the time she answers the questions in "16P Answer Questions about their Dating Lives", saying "He's with someone else now, but she'll never love him as much as I did..... do." and "[I will be dating again when my ex comes back to me]". So she's clearly in denial aaand also doesn't know about his polyamory. _It's also entirely possible this interview happens much much later during a time when she's single. I don't think it matters a whole lot where we place it in the timeline._ You can see in "16P Interacting at a Party" - which happens right after the breakup - that she has not moved on, that "her soul is crumpled in sadness", and that she is very much still in love with _her_ Brad. Since she created a dating profile on UrMyType (16p Writing Online Dating Profiles) even before they played badminton with each other, she tries to use the app to make him jealous. We know that at the end, Brad apologizes for not having been sensitive before and he (kinda) makes peace with her. He explains he's only on UrMyType to make friends and that he's not dating at the moment, which um... honestly I find pretty hard to believe sorry. But sure. _But hey, I hope you find someone you're compatible with, Brad (maybe the ISTP in "16P Dating Their Similar Type"?)._ After the party, the next scene is probably 16P Trying to Get a +1 for a Wedding. Becky rejects Brad's offer to be his +1, but still wants to go to Jared and Bethany's wedding and try to impress him and win him back. We don't know what happens during the Wedding, that's a video Kristin would still have to make, but I'm keen to watch Becky, an extremely reluctant Jill, and an ESFP (Kristin) acting as an ENTJ acting as an INTJ and an ISTP. 🤯 So yeah that is the puzzle piece that is still missing, hopefully I've covered just about everything else 😄 After the wedding, Becky seeks out more people and meets a Sean through UrMyType, whom she dates right after the "16P Getting Ready for a Date" scene where she tries to talk herself into being more realistic with her expectations, but that relationship also fails. (16P Texting Their Ex, a video that is only accessible through patreon or through a certain clue). But now she's started dating an ENFJ (16P Dating Their Similar Type) and it looks like that relationship might finally work out, since the ENFJ also reciprocates the psychoanalyses of Becky (16P Flirting)! Yay! *fingers crossed* 🤞 So that was fun! I probably misinterpreted some scripts, missed some relevant scenes... and I took more and more artistic liberty with each edit haha. I have no idea how dates or romantic relationships actually work, having never been on or in one. But I hope my timeline makes sense 😎 I wonder now how Brad's perspective could look like. Dating multiple people at the same time (one plot point I leaned quite far into) while being a high-profile criminal sounds like an exciting story with lots of potential, not that Kristin condones either 😅 I know that before dating Becky, he dated an ISTJ (16P Dating Each Other) but breaks up with them shortly after (16P Interacting on Valentine's Day). I do still hope the xSTP couple works out, they could be literally partners in crime. 😈 (How much time did I spend on this? Yes. Do I consider myself a hardcore fan of something for the first time ever? Yep. Do I have a life at the moment? Nope.)

for some reason I just feel like the intp's friend has a crush on them and just asks them favors so that they can have a valid excuse treat them to dinner

This is eerily accurate for ENFJ.... I'm dead inside just thinking about cycling through small talk

LMAO!!! OMG That's how we often act, even if on a date. haha 0:59 Ni had gathered enough at the point.. Watch that Fe switch turn off to let the TI talk... BRILLIANT facial reactions! I've been told I scare others when something causes the Fe to yeet out.😂 Brad practically disgusted Becky at this point having Zero care for how others felt she was SO DONE. aha And Brad the poor ESTP oblivious to it... was like....I WAS SHARING though. 🤣You understand INFJ much better than you think....or than you care to reveal Krispy....I'm onto you... hehehe Oh and the conditioner reference... 😂Hope you had a wonderful vaction! Welcome back and thanks for the laughs!

You know, the ESTJ doubling back for the conditioner is actually quite the complement from her. Estj's value efficiency and to take time to do that is really something

Teenage INFP male here, I agree again with the ISFP/ENFJ. It ALWAYS takes me several months to almost a year MINIMUM before I begin to think about being in a relationship with someone I know well. Also, this pretty much sums up exactly why I'd never speed date or blind date, being pretty deep and all...

Kristin just really wants to give The Sound of Music a go, doesn't she?

Somehow I knew that the inevitable use of wigs would be Kristin's next evolution

Can we appreciate all the magnificent wigs for a minute?

As an ISFP, my facial expressions listening to the ENFJ matched Kristin's portrayal of the ISFP. It was amazing.

Kristin the third time you sing Favorite Things can it be a full cover pleeeeease? 🥺 You're such a good singer and we need to hear more of you. I'd pay extra for them covers. Especially with a certain someone on the guitar. I'd even donate my left kidney to Sanitarium 🥺

00:00 so this is how Becky and Brad met each other. One could argue that these are not the famous Brad and Becky from the 16 personalities interacting at a party video from last year but they have the exact same mbti personalities as that video, this can't be a coincidence. That can only mean that kristin's videos are not necessarily in a chronological order. Interesting

Aww I would love to hear INTJ talk about their books! Just don’t expect me to have too many pre-formed opinions😅 -ESFJ

I completely relate to your ENTJ portrayal. Poised, unrelenting confident go-getter. Gosh I love being an ENTJ !! And a female one to top it all !! ☀️

As an INTP, I would probably at least try to make the most of the situation by seeing how many participants I can weird out.

Wow scary accurate. My enfp friend forced me to go with on a speed date night. He liked every girl and was extremely enthousiastic about the night. I was just trying to let people down softly and was exhausted from the small talk and people pleasing. I can't just be myself in such a short time or I guess talk about myself I am full blown presenting and focussing on someone elses feelings. And it's so short I can't even talk about interesting things either. It was defenatly a nightmare. Especially with all these guys who struggled to even keep a conversation going.. It felt like I was their pep talk coach inbetween the next person and I wasn't there at all for myself. I figuered the high pace was just not for me. - enfj.

The "if i had a dollar" hits very hard as an enfp

The ISTJ couldn’t bring her goggles because the person she just broke up with borrowed them without asking and broke them!

00:00 ESTP - INFJ 01:05 ENTP - ENFP 01:53 INTP - ISTP 02:40 INTJ - ISFJ 03:53 ESFP - ENTJ 04:50 ENFJ - ISFP 05:55 ESTJ - INFP 06:24 ESFJ - ISTJ

Thanks Kristin (?), Am i the only one whos always can guess my mbti type before the promp shows up? And i always right lol -ISTP

¡Hello! Im an ISFJ. While i actually like philosophy and enjoy reading philosophy books, it is true that i tend to consider it as just the abstract and way too far from real perceptible consequences. Even if they influence reality, we still get used and comfortable with reality as it is and get on with what we live in our particular lives. That is what has happened in history i believe. Plus, the arrogance of the INTJ would turn me off. However, listening carefully while smiling and responding "oh, wow!" its pretty much me at...any "conversation". :'D I must say i love how Kristin have mastered the ISFJ smile with the head moving and everything. Just loved it!

I'm an ENFP/J, and I have not had nightmares about small talk. And I totally would have been like the ENFP, finding something good in what they said despite not agreeing with them. And I thought the ESTP's interest in fun experiences and strategy were endearing. I wouldn't play paint ball with him without setting yp some ground rules first, so I don't have to go to the hospital, though.

Well this is just brilliant! ... Ahem, sorry... What I mean to say is: To the extent that it's reasonable to evaluate videographic content in terms of objective quality, I would argue that this video performs quite well on most of the parameters that one might normally employ in order to determine brilliance. - INTP

Honestly... I really wanna know how continues the estp's story jajajajajjaajajajajajaj

1:49 As an ISTP with an INTP sibling I can confirm that this is how our interactions go. (When we aren't being siblings and trying to kill the other, that is) as for the food part. Yes. If I had nickle for every time I tricked them into doing something for me in exchange for food I'd be rich.

One day i would love to see infp being badass in your video 😂 Your acting is really really awesome especially the infp one caught my eye! brilliant acting.

OK THE ESTJ INFP INTERACTION, DID YOU HAVE TO CALL US OUT LIKE THAT 🤣☠ "being of its own" hahahaha I'll take 6:18 as the actual reaction you had on Discord. It's canon to me

Love the fresh new looks! You nailed the ENFJ, that really is nightmare fuel.

I loved INTP & ISTP together

The INFP's going to be very hurt afterwards

Wow, you really nailed the INFJ. That is basically exactly how I would be in that same situation (INFJ). You also nailed the ISFJ, and the ENTP trolling everyone was a nice touch.

I love that the INFP and ESTJ are in a skit together.

I love that ESFJ referenced ENTP. Some guy let me talk on for a whole minute about my kale salad recipe before turning on me and calling me a peon for the government Because it kind of shows that entp is just being an asshole as usual and ESFJ was just talkin about their fave dish

The ISFJ one was so well done because i did not understand a word that came out of INTJ's mouth hahaha!

As an INTJ I had almost the same conversation once, not being able to understand then how one can be not curious about the implications of transcendental reality. Now I know how different people can be ^^"

As an ESTP, this one was definitely relatable. XD I would much rather start out talking about something fun than something deep right off the bat, because that's how I can see if they're a fun person with a good sense of humor. If not, then it probably won't work out anyways so why waste time getting all vulnerable and everything lol

I actually enjoyed ESFP and ENTJ’s interaction in this 😆

As an INFJ, I always listen to what the other person is saying, especially if its important to them. I definitely prefer deeper conversations but I understand how that makes a large amount of people uncomfortable 😂I might try to redirect but if they don't follow I just intently and genuinely listen. However, I always get people to open up 😈❤here's some warmth and empathy! ya sucker!

The INFP one was absolutely hilarious

ENTP here... I have a friend who is an ENFP.... we've had conversations almost identical to the ones in the skit.

The ENFP and ENTP were goldennnnnn!!!!!! AAaaaAAaaaa. XD also, poor little INFP * wants to hug her * -ENFP

ENTP "What are your core values?" ENFP 'Sings Mama Mia'

*Oh god, please INFP!* Resist the hopeless romantic inside of you! Don't set yourself up for crushing dissapointment!

And now I existential crisis because I don't know I am ESFP or ESFJ!!! 🥰💝🥰💝❤️ How to live? Haha (read the message in Kristin's voice)

lmao my ISFJ butt would never,; I simply think a few minutes trying to get to know someone simply isn't enough for me. That being said, if I had longer, I would have talked to the INTJ about what makes someone a good person cause I feel that would be a fun convo. Simply put, I do think about those things from time to time, but feel they don't have any real impact on reality as I'm living it now so I don't hang on to tightly to the what ifs. Its when someone brings up something that could affect the way I see my past that I'll spend ages thinking about it Also good on the INTJ for actually talking about what they like! I've seen too many portrayals where the INTJ barely talks and I feel like its bit inaccurate. They are fascinating to talk to, but I don't think they view me the same way.

Infp. Just like the younger me having crushes at a drop of a hat. How accurate

As soon as I heard the name Becky, I immediately knew it's going to be INFJ with ESTP.

Another comedy 💎. Just the thought of speed dating drains my social 🔋 Slow messaging? 👍

That was fun! To see the origins of B&B, the IXTP duo, ISTJ's mum and the ESFP look was very cool actually, Kristen could pull this hair-colour off really well! ...but to be fair being an ISFJ with a lot of INTJs as my closest people analysing various matters and concepts for hours and having perfect connection, the only part I sympathised in this part was the pointing out of the toothpaste stain...sorry... And being a published author myself, I had a déjà vu because I had many conversations similar to their with my ESFJ mum trying to get any thoughts of her after reading my books and try to see if she caught any of the details, symbolism or philosophy in there.... but all I get is a very vague positive reactions without any actual deep thought in it...😢 For an author just a compliment without elaborated thoughts on the work isn't enough...

As an ENTP I was disappointed to be trolled by ENFP 😅

the isfj bit is sooo accurate, my isfj friends have no thoughts about what i sayy😭😭

The INTJ one was too accurate. From leaving our stoic shell to rant about some deep, philosophical concept to the look of impatient concern when our words are met with half assed smiles and glazed over eyes to the multitude of expressions of crushing frustration in our arsenal that we deploy almost always on accident when we realize we’re talking to what essentially is a sentient block of wood with little to no introspective or abstract thought.

That interaction between the ENTJ and the ESFP. I can't even, how many times I've met a girl at a bar and that conversation plays out.

As an ISFJ I don't really think too deeply about anything, but I love hearing people talk about how deep things can affect one lives =v= there are times when I can understand. there are times when I just can't get on with what they're saying. TvT

I loved the ISTJ - ESFJ part lol

Lmao I love the istj's obsession with her goggles😅

16 personalities movie night or at movie theater

Imo, ENTJ and INTJ should be flipped

She nails the types with such accuracy so regularly, but increasingly she does me (ENFP) dirty! What was that nonsense? LOL

THE MOST ACCURATE REPRESENTATION OF MYSELF! - ESTP

It's so great to participate in this journey with Kristin's films. So much fun, so good acting, so great insight, curiosity and understanding of interpersonal relations, MBTI, and so much playfulness in all of this. So much passion. It's so enjoyable to watch. Cheers, Kristin, and thank you!

lol. again, I feel like we ISTPs are given a raw deal here . . . we can converse with strangers one on one without being rude, it's usually not a problem - it's just a matter of remembering we're in a social construct & follow the rules. True, a speed dating scenario would be off-putting & uncomfortable, but if we were forced into it, we'd probably fire off quick, single words & make a game out of it to see how the other side would respond. And yeah, we'd probably want to leave ASAP lol. but once again, you nailed the INFJ, my ex-wife, whom I recognized immediately, lol.

I enjoyed the INTP and the ISTP deciding to leave together, but separately. They are just completely done peopling.

Oh my god the INFP is it. You win.

The blue wig tho. Girl, you are WORKING it 😂

Isfp's was great!!

Oh, ISFJ. So naive.

Yep, that ENFP was 100% me, even the slight annoyance 😂 well done 😊 I actually never went speed dating and never will (as I met my soouulmate) but it seems fun if I'm in my social mood (like in the vid). If I'm not, I'd just sit there quietly, waiting desperately to find someone to actually comnect with, I'd guess..

as an infj i would just let estp keep talking even if I had no interest in it lol

I'm now convinced you're either stalking me or watching my life in a Truman Show type scenario. Your INTJ writes books (like me), wears a top hat (like me), discusses philosophy (like me) and scares/confuses the crap out of ISFJs (like me).

A prequel! Now we have to start putting kristin’s videos in chronological order

great hat choice! - ISFP :)

Love the INTJ narrowing of the eyes. That is my "run, bitch" expression.

Are ESFJs interested in MBTI or am I the only one? Unless ESFJs just don't comment, maybe that had something to do with (least for me) alot of times feeling misrepresented. 😕

Make a series of each type dating the 16 types

The call-back of the ENFP singing "my favorite things" was fantastic! I'd love it if you did more of that in the future!

Mint. No idea what that means but I think you'll take it as a compliment. I offer it as one. Mmmmmmmint.

This ISFP would have actually LOVED to skip the small talk and jump straight into deep personal details with the ENFJ! That's literally the point of dating anyway... And if you've come to speed dating, doesn't that imply that you want to ditch the preliminaries??? I guess I'm not a typical ISFP... I blame my extra-developed Ni from being around a lot of INFJs! ❤️ Fun skit though!! Tons of amusing and relatable moments!

"Some guy over there started listing off all the books that he's written" Is that a reference to the INTJ? And is that reference a reference to the INTJ podcast you posted with INT-Joe?

After the virtual reality rollar coaster line, I thought "Ah, my intellectual brother, I feel your pain." Comments like that just suck the life and the joy out of you. It was still hilarious though. Great work Kristin.

INFP’S lowkey accurate tho. if someone said that itd be head over heels too

Who else was like "Maaan I want to join the conversation with the INTJ soooo badly!!" I LOVE theological exchange. Kristin, is there any Chance you tell us what your PhD Theses you earlier mentioned was about, how the title is? But honestly, what a great video, you really made me laugh again, thank you so much!

Poor estp. I’d have been interested in the story of how they ended up in the hospital lol

Oh my god Brad and Becky!! Wait i kind of do want to know the strategy though… -INFJ

I take it the only ones that started dating each other are. ESFP and ENTJ ISFP and ENFJ (I know it ended before it got good, but you can pick which ones you liked most at the end of it.)