Yeah... The sad part is (as an ISTP), sometimes I really just feel like a cameo in other people's lives, not a main character. Don't really care about Valentine's day in particular, but you get the idea.
Honestly, despite being an INTP, I actually related more to the INFJ, here. Finally working up the courage to ask an honest question only to be completely misunderstood and left utterly baffled. If a person gave me flower, I'd be much more likely to accept it well enough but spend hours considering the possible meanings of such a gesture and whether I should reciprocate the other person's sentiment, only to find that they walked away several hours ago. Person: *gives flower* Ne: What the hell? She just gave us a flower! Ti: What? What does that mean? Si: According to past experience, it's usually given as a token of affection. Ti: Token of affection, eh? Why would this person have affection for us? Si: We literally saved their life once, remember? Ti: Would that necessitate affection? Si: It does usually... although, not always romantically. Ti: However, when coupled with a romantic gesture, like this flower, the possibility of romance has accumulative force. Ne: Guys, you're in a loop. We need to come to decision. She's looking at us expectantly! Ti: Ok, ok, don't rush me! How do we feel about this person? Fe: Umm... I... err, I actually do like them, since you asked. I certainly wouldn't mind if we went out with them. Ti: You don't sound very confident. Are you sure? Si: Remember what happened the last time? Are you sure you can go through that again? Fe: Y-yes... it's worth the risk. I think. Ti: Ok, it's settled then. We'll agree to go out with them. Ne: Guys, she left. Ti: What? Why? Ne: She gave us that flower hours ago. Ti: Oh... what time is it now? Ne: 2am. Ti: We've been standing out here for 6 hours? Ne: Yup! Ti: ... shit.
...and this event will be further Ti-Si-looped for days (weeks? months?) to come. I was also wondering about the INFJ being maybe INTP but when binoculars came up, "yeah, that's INFJ".
Kristin knocked this one out of the dog park again! So many laughs! Boo should be paying her double as she takes so much trouble to make it part of the videos literally no-one will ever try to fast forward for fear of missing out. She just needs to put on her ESTJ persona when conducting negotiations! 😄
The ISTP's average word count in the prior two videos was 14 - 28, then 0. The ISTP's word count in this video? 14. For a holiday famously on the 14th. #TheDearKristinCode
Ooh chatty this time! Maybe you could extend your spreadsheet to also track the other 15 types?! My guess then of the chattiest top 3? ESFP (singing/soliliquying), ENFP (tangenting) and ENFJ (psychoanalysing). This guess doesn't include inner monologues obs otherwise the introverts are in with a chance! 😄
And, if you add the numbers in your comment, you get the number 70. And this is a video of Valentine's Day, in which everyone is spending time with their significant other, which I do not have. So you substract that and get the number 69.
I'm an INFP who knows the Beatles at least, but has definitely been in the situation of trying to figure out how to perfectly place me hand to signal that I want to hold hands. It's too scary to ask lmao
@@absolutelypointlessvideos707 you think that pop culture ignorance is your ally? I was born in it... MOLDED by it. I didn't know what Britney Spears looked like until I was already a man! And by then, she was nothing to me but an interesting case study in in the complex legal issue of conservatorship laws!
@@FalconOfStorms Nono, its definitely no ally, it's just relatable. I have to google famous celebrities just to try and rber what they look like and what they've done, only to forget later because I'm not genuinely interested in them, even though I'd like to have some conversational piece with people who are.
I was really needing the laughter that the INFP at the ending gave me, it was so funny, and the entire video was really good!! It cheered me up in a bad day!
Fi identity is like “I don’t care what everybody else thinks, imma follow what I believe in” Ti identity is like “I don’t care what everybody believes imma follow what makes sense to me”
This should be called 15 Personalities on Valentine's Day because we're missing ISTP. 0:00 ESFP INFP 1:00 ENFP ISFJ 2:50 ENTJ ENFJ ENTP 4:45 ESTP ESTJ 5:15 ISFP INFJ 6:57 ESFJ ISTJ 8:45 INTJ INTP 9:43 ENFJ INFP 9:50 Boo and Subscribe 10:00 Random Stuff (Where did ISTP go?) As someone Ti Ne Se Fi, my primary INTP (Ti Ne) wonders where my secondary trait ISTP (Ti Se) is, and my tertiary ENFP trait (Ne Fi) feels like I need to share this.
As an INTJ, I can confirm that authenticity and honesty are valued. I would much rather be told the truth than flattered, so that I can be more certain when someone says something that is claimed to be the truth. Constructive criticism is 100% more appreciated than false praise, as it will help me improve. I may be single on this Valentine’s day (just as all past Valentine’s days), and doubtless many of you who have watched this video, and perhaps read this comment, are as well. Nonetheless, it is important to be cognizant of the fact that every person has positive attributes, and things to contribute. No one is perfect, everyone can improve, but no one is completely worthless or useless either. So take solace in that fact if you want, and don’t forget to be grateful for all the things you do have, especially family and friends.
As a fellow INTJ, I say that nothin' beats clear, reliable information that I can take at face-value and put towards some sort of practical use right away. ...Does Hallmark put that on a Valentine's Day card?
Can we all give an award to Kristin for the ENFJ getting shocked and gasping as she holds onto the railing for support when the ENTJ tells her she used the poem as kindling 🤣
i am noooooot kidding i'm ENFJ and i had a crush on someone who liked tea so i sent her tea of her favorite flower and my favorite flower tea it was the height of delta, so i asked the seller to write the note for me instead and the really cute seller went all out with special paper and even added hearts to it my crush went "aww she's a really nice friend!" *slapped* the note *on the sink* near their trash and made tea she reeeeeally liked the tea and it was cute that she tried my favorite tea first, but i was so ✧ *affronted* ✧ by the note situation to fully process it
Loving the J/P interactions. Shows how different they are. Would’ve liked an INFP/INFJ interaction but I guess that would just be silence + inner monologuing.
I agree!!👍 Kristin was on point. That ISFP is so me..I would definitely play naive (to someone close only) or jokingly play around like that, and then come clean that I was joking. (Being oblivious to someone liking me happened in High school, now I'm more aware)
God, INTJ vs INTP was epic. We're lucky that you're part of the 0,1% of ESFP's interested in MBTI and psychology, you guys surely know how to entertain us. Most MBTI youtubers know an awful lot of things related to personality or typology, but most of the time they lack the comedy skills that you possess.
That surprise INFP ending was cute! (And sadly accurate.) But, I tell myself that each day I can't help but be a different person from yesterday. And each experience, interaction, and thought propels me to another version of myself. The ideal me, who rises bright and distant like a mirage, just out of reach and fading. (Not fully being facetious.)
Yesss!!! Finally an INFJ-ISFP couple! Those are my husband's and my types, so that was extra fun to see! The specifics of course varied (neither of us are actually dog people, although we adore our playful goldfish), but the part about them knowing each other since childhood and the INFJ having a crush on the ISFP that entire time -- totally accurate to us. 😊 I'm also confident that he Facebook-stalked me countless times before we were dating -- although to be fair, I was stalking him as well! And ours is the only relationship I was ever in that began with a natural and easy friendship rather than awkward infatuation and trying to read between the lines... This was a fun one, Kristin!! Thank you!
Yep, INFJ finally just blerting it out because they can no longer keep it inside anymore. Guilty. Running hundreds of love simulations. Guilty. Now scared out of mind that truth is reveled ie vulnerable. Guilty. Childhood friend for 20 years. Guilty. ISFP as a option? Very intrigued, shall now go stal--erm research one.
@@ShawnDavid91 Hahaha! Well some of us are more reclusive than others -- I'm more on the outgoing side -- but the general trend is that we are often outdoorsy and artistic, so perhaps places like a particularly beautiful nature park, an art class (especially the hands-on, 3D things like pottery, cooking, even woodworking), and generally just look for us in places that are particularly pleasing to the aesthetic, without being particularly risky (our tertiary Ni usually keeps us in check from bungee jumping or skydiving, lol that's kinda ESTP territory)... These are all generalizations, and a lot of these probably apply to INFPs as well as other types, but hopefully it's a bit of useful info if you are truly interested in an ISFP companion! It's a toss-up whether you're going to find us well-dressed (feeling the fancier side of our Se) or in total comfort garb (the Fi seeking solace and authenticity), but please know that while we do care a lot about how things look for ourselves, we don't necessarily impose that onto others in our lives, so you don't need to feel any pressure to "become fancier" -- just be you, and that authenticity is likely to draw us in... Best wishes on your search! Oh and a final note -- there are quite a few ISFPs who are not as "findable" due to being strongly homebody types, but most often the desire for adventure and a change of scenery will draw even those ones out on occasion!
The different locations in the skit, the continued comedy in the subtitles. Kristin you've completely upped your game. Thank you for the amazing content. You're incredible and I always look forward to your uploads🖤
The binoculars in the bushes hits me hard. That's how I stalked my ESTP crushed in high school tho. Please don't get me started about the time I climbed up the trees 🤣🙂😆
ENTP here, always battling between me being extremely independient and not needing a partner... and having my Fe moments were I am like, if only I had a partner need someone to connect to, lmao.
You know, despite being an INTJ, I managed to be quite romantic. Of course, I dedicated myself to studying how normal people behave in those situations for a couple of years before trying it myself, but still!
Hahahhaha! ISFP here. The ISFP skit reminded me that one time someone kept telling me that they were very attracted to me because of my patent leather wingtip shoes (apparently a shoe and daddy fetish?) so I gave them my shoes to take home. :)
I loved the ISFP skit! I love showing people pictures of things that I like. I appreciated the accurate portrayal of the ISFP sense of humor combined with their sense of what's going on. I laughed the whole time! I love all of your videos btw! I've been watching for months. (ISFP 💕)
I was on a 1st date with INTP, conversation went well, we went through our question checklists and then she suddenly told me she liked me. I was like, ofcourse you do. She pointed out I didnt say I like her back. And instead of saying it back, I said "well Ive known you for 60 minutes I am not sure I like you yet". But she took it with humour and we dated for next 3 months. Looking at the flower skit reminded me the cute awkwardness she radiated. I am an INTJ.
I really like how you handle INTJs reaction to absurdity. Our default assumption is that there must be some concrete reason for it and we try to concretely identity local facts to make the situation understandable. INTJs usually do not reject new information off hand that is unusual.
That INFJ/ISFP interaction had me dying inside. Good lord. 💀💀💀💀 (Also, if there is a country out there that regularly uses phone numbers as long as the ESTP’s, I am praying for you. 😔)
OMG, I've done your INTJ exactly as you did it, it's so spot on! I also relate to the awkwardness of your INTP when they're caught off guard, I guess that's spot on too for an INTP.
I don't know if Peter Sellers was a fellow INTP, but I remember from my Muppets DVDs that when they had him on he asked them not to do the interview bit with Kermit. "I'll play any character you want, I'll play Queen Victoria, just don't make me be myself." During the interview with Kermit, when Kermit tells him he could just relax and be himself his reply was "but that, you see, my dear Kermit, would be altogether impossible. I could never be myself. You see, there is no me, I do not exist. There _used_ to be a me, but I had it surgically removed."
The ENFJ at the end definitely took me off guard! Hilarious! And only before that I thought that leaving roses aren’t my thing, it’s strange 😅😂 gotta admit, there’s something about ENTPs 😏
I felt that INFJ “What did I ask?” Moment in my bones. Hahahaha Normally that kind of thing happens when I’m on the phone. Once, I called the mechanic to ask about my car. The exchange was basically: Me: “Hi, this is ___. Just calling to ask about *mechanical issue*….” Guy on the phone: “Sir, we don’t sell ice cream here.” Me: “What?” *click* I did not call back. Too many question marks, no viable path forward. Lol I questioned reality for a solid fifteen minutes as I tried to figure out why the mechanic thought I was asking about ice cream.
@@dearkristin The best I can figure is that I must’ve mumbled into the phone. Lol But as an INTP, this is simply the pièce de résistance of a lifetime of awkward and bewildering phone calls. It’s beyond parody.
Infj - infp had me laughing. Kristin, thank you for bringing out the ISFP's humour, "I always see you in the bushes w/binoculars"🤣🤣 I knew she knew.. (SE). I have played clueless with an ENTP friend.. -ISFP
Had to laugh so hard from the last part. The INTP grabbing the rose like that, the ENFJ coming out instantly and the INFP responding to the identity crisis. Brilliant 🤣
Your ISFP skit is the greatest psychological thriller of the decade. You are the greatest skit youtuber of all time, and the funniest youtuber of all time. Hope you and your family has a very Happy Valentine's Day, Kristin!
@@dearkristin I loved it. It's so complex that I had watched it multiple times and I want to watch it more. It was a big contrast with Frank James Valentines video where I burst out laughing but yours engaged my brain. It's like the difference between The Godfather and the Godfather Part II. I think Godfather the greatest movie of all time for it being more universal where everyone can see the incredible cinematic craftsmanship right way with the performances, music, visuals, camera work, etc (his skit wasn't thaaaaat good. haha) and pick up the theme of family and fall from grace right away, and it's the same deal with the Vito Corleone segments in the Godfather Part II where they're great but I'm way more interested in the Michael Corelone segments in Godfather Part II because of the uniqueness and complexity. Or another analogy. Your comedy hits on so many levels like early Simpsons where I never laughed out loud (stick with me!) as opposed to early Impractical Jokers where I kept bursting out laughing because I was so engaged in The Simpsons characterizations, rapid fire jokes, constant references, visual gags, continuity, etc. People look at me weird when I refer to something as being funny but I don't laugh because they think laughing is an indication of liking something but no. I actually laugh more to make others feel good. There's different types of comedy but skits with the ISFP and INFJ; ENFP and ISFJ skit; and ENFJ, ENTP, ENTJ were my favorite because it caught me off guard where things we're going compared to the hilarious ESFP and INFP; and INTP and INTJ skit that were easy to pick up right away. And you pointing out the visual continuity in the ESFJ, ISTP, and ISTJ skit was so awesome! I don't know if you liked the Simpsons for it to be a compliment but the reason why I thought those early Simpsons seasons in the 90s were so good because they were like this Valentine's skit where it had so much stuff going on for everybody. Also, was the ENFP a Blade Runner fan by chance? haha Take care, Kristin!
It's nice to see the INTJ-INTP couple developing their relationship from last year, even if there's been some backsliding on rose identification abilities.
The INTJ and INTP meandering in the garden is almost line for line identical to the first date my wife (INTP) and I (INTJ) went on 6 1/2 years ago. Spot on perfect.
as an ENFP, yes. I've alwys wanted to meet a robot. And yes, it's better to set people up rather than have dates. And yes, I thought of "Boo, more like Woo" joke myself. Yes I will show yself the door
I guessed the ENTJ, INFJ, ISFP, ESFJ and ISTP right, but got close to some others, like IxTJ for ISTJ (I feel like some types are harder to guess/more vague/just kinda different from what I'm used to in it... Wonder if it's the Valentines vibe XD) Tho honestly, as an INFP who has never had a crush, IDK what to say... I've had no experience whatsoever with liking someone like that, so I can't approve it for certain, but I feel like it might happen - v - The ENTJ, ENFJ and ENTP scene was *hilarious* XD I love the running joke of 'booby traps' in the UK captions Same comment for the running joke of 'kidnapping animals' in the ISFP and INFJ scene, definitely one of the uh... more *interesting* pairs in this XD The INTP and INTJ moment was kinda wholesome, honestly 🥺💞 ENFJ and INFP at the end tho 😂 Overall, once again, great video, I do not regret spending, like 30 minutes, watching it twice with normal and joke captions *and* analyzing it to write this comment XD Thanks for uploading, Kristyyy, hope you and everyone else enjoy the upcoming Valentines Day 💖
enfj - I'm not personally very romantic, I like skipping to the part where I can develop an emotional connection with someone without all the bells and whistles. Probably an unpopular opinion though. Edit: Ok so the Fe dom inability to express suffering felt like a personal attack, even though it was for ESFJ. I do my best ok? Also, infps, you can be little bran muffins
Istp, I can totally see myself with the minimal interaction that you presented. But I am soooo not cool , plus I’d be nervous, so all those bloopers at the end? Yeah, that’d be the real depiction of me. 😂
Just curious about the Intj line "You don't have to make puns to impress me, just be yourself". But isn't that type of Fe behavior what the Intp is all about? (At least in the beginning) That weird balance between Ti and Fe coming out in adorable and weird ways? I think Intp was being Intp at that moment. Perhaps the Intj was a bit quick to judge because they think they have everything figured out, or maybe Intj sensed the awkwardness of Intp and wanted to let Intp know it's okey! I know both types values authenticity a lot, so it was hilarious to see the intp have an identity crises.
If you don’t have the uk captions on, please, I implore you, *turn it on* Highlights- Enfj: “but... living!” Entj: “Yeah so that notion of ‘living’ is a concept that cheesy motivational quotes and social media has tried to sell you. *True* living happens organically when you risk your life in the face of booby traps.” Also Entj: “when I tracked the DNA it led me to a dog, so I wasted hours on a false lead. That was a stupid mistake, I’ll admit” Enfj: “you- you tracked the dog-?” Entj: “Yeah I ended up enrolling it in my school and it’s undergoing undercover-soy training as we speak” Enfj: *offended gasp*
Dear Kristin, You are getting so good at the nuances of each type and portraying them accurately without being super stereotypical while still being able to keep it super funny and entertaining. You are a master! And I was able to correctly guess almost every single one! I did originally think the ENTJ was ISTP, but then when he told her he was available, I was like... no. I actually thought you were gonna show the INTP alone at home on the computer or something, lol! That would have been the stereotype, but you did a great job with the whole navigating of the romantic social situation between INTJ and INTP. I love how they're so similar, but also so different. Like both of them are not great with the social norms, but INTJ is very methodical about it and seems completely detached from emotion, while INTP tries to muster something up from within themselves to try to do it "correctly" and not look awkward, and failing of course, but almost in a self-deprecating way. - intp (in case you wanted to know... you know... for research purposes)
You left out the next thought of the INFP, after "I wish I was a beetle right now . . ." " . . . and that someone would come along and step on me." Literally what I wish whenever thinking about all my blown (self-sabotaged) romantic opportunities.
