169. Infatuation 

Happy 23k! We did it everyone! You're a fantastic community and I am very lucky.

Infatuation often plays a big role in the dumping process, because we think we lost the most precious love we've ever experienced, and I think that's why we tend to suffer more than it has to be, over a year my ex left me, now just the memories remain, the pain has gone. Empower yourself not your ex, show to yourself what you're capable of, thank you Rory, I remember that email coaching a year ago, I was crushed, now I'm still working in my 5 goals, and life looks great. God bless you! 🤟🏽✌🏽

Spot on! Two months of flirting. She was in rebound mode and I was infatuated. Three months of mad passion, sincere commitment promises, love hearts popping, she’s the one! Then two months of what am I doing? Who is this person and who am I? I thought it would pass and the heart popping would come back! She longs for her ex and wants to split and I’m left high and dry..... or am I? I understand now it was a fling. I also understand that I seem to get into this cycle of being the night in shining armour who rescues helpless women from the hooded claw.... only after the heart popping happiness I ALWAYS get dumped. That means I’m the greener grass 😕 I’m the rebound 😔 so I need to break the cycle! 😃👍 Again Rory a fantastic video! Keep them coming ❤️

Great topic! After my last breakup.. I feel so much different about my approach to the next relationship. So much more patience, watchfulness, caution and making sure I see what I know I want.

Impeccable timing, Rory. 5 months post break up, my ex finally just got his stuff out of my house after breadcrumbing me the whole time. I met someone new that I kinda like and it's scary! Exciting though. I thought that breakup was gonna kill me, it didn't. Thanks!

That is how I found your channel, thank you for the reminder Rory

Another great video Rory and very helpful as always. That's why I love following the love chat very diverse. Every time I think what else could you possibly talk about and you continue to blow my mind. 👍

Love hearing you and Dating Guy. Can't wait to stop listening to you guys. That's how I'll know I've fully healed. I still can't believe I'm going through this.

This is precisely what happened in my last relationship. The only difference is that I stayed in love with him and stayed 'infatuated' with him up until the last few weeks. He didn't. He suddenly seemed less enthusiastic with me. He did continue to love me and care about me, but that dwindled away quickly and he needed more and more time to himself. And then 2 days ago, he broke up with me. I feel like I've lost everything.

Hi rory. Can u do a video on reconnecting the right way with an ex?

Hi Rory, great points as always! I just wanted to request, for a second time, a video on the topic “they left me for somebody else”. In this video can you explain the implications in this scenario, and how it compares/contrasts to rebound scenarios and monkey-branch scenarios, and the approach to take if you’d like reconciliation, and whether the likelihood of future reconciliation is equal in these scenarios if the correct steps of personal development are followed. Thanks !

Exactly my issue in my recent relationship and subsequently the reason for it’s demise. Like an airplane that’s flying too fast and suddenly catches fire or gets shot down... it spirals out of control leaving a plume of flame and smoke as it plummets to the earth below.

I’m always excited to hear the next topic from you :)

3 years ago, I met a girl who was infatuated with me. She slept with me despite being married, and told me she loved me within weeks, and then continued this for a year before getting out of her marriage. She promised the world to me and then last year, she cheated on me, and finally at Christmas, she dumped me, probably for somebody else. She wrecked her husband's life, and now mine and she still keeps going and I'm looked at as this bad guy. Odd how looks are the most important thing to humans.

Video suggestion: dealing with an ex who has commitment issues

This hits soo close to home, and I was naive to all of these new terminology; this was very helpful indeed

Another great video. Thanks bro

So true Rory,sometimes emotions take place. sometimes Learned the hard way.

Hi Rory, what should you say if your ex is quizzing u about seeing other ppl?

Great video, and just in time for me.

One of your best vid to date. 👍

There's is girl at work that constantly tells my boyfriend that she really, really likes him and can't help it. Also admitting that she is infatuated with him. He is constantly curious about why she likes him but she tells him that she doesn't know. She is aware that we are in a relationship. She also tells him to imagine scenarios of them being together, nothing inappropriate. My boyfriend used to tell me about it but now tells me he will keep it to himself because he doesn't want me to be bothered by it. I spoke to him about it but it usually leaves him frustrated and angry. So I stopped bringing her up for months, however, I saw her recently standing by his office door talking to him when they have nothing to do with each other. I didn't bring it up. She also admitted to me that she's infatuated and can't help it. I don't know what to do.

I think that's why we have so many miserable married couples...

Gaaaahhh! Can't wait for your book! Will it ship to Mexico?

You are good coach !!

Thank you Rory.

Video on how first love, kiss, sexual relations. Affects reconciliation?

Is it possible to get your ex back when all the relationship was an infatuation?

Rory, can you do a video on Narcissist and the signs. How to heal after?

My boyfriend left me about a month ago after 5 years together... he reconnected with an ex girlfriend from 12 years ago and he was cheating with her... he says he loves her and I know he’s just infatuated with her. He’s hopeless... he gets it wet, he falls in love. He told me he loved me within two weeks of dating me my response was “thank you, I love me too” but I told him I wasn’t ready to say that but at the same time I really liked him and I knew he didn’t really love me, he just thought he did. I’m just tying up loose ends with him currently once that’s done I’m going no contact... hopefully he snaps out of his drunken haze while I’m in no contact

Any advice for someone who's girlfriend dumped them but we still live together

My ex gf jumped in a relationship 3 weeks after break up.. I have been in nc since break up almost 3 months bettering myself, hitting gym harder, taking care of myself and being more social.. she wished me happy birthday then 2 days later she blocked me after i posted having good time with friends lol.. i do miss her sometimes but i guess she found someone better or just the puppy love storm hasn't hit yet

will your book ship worldwide Rory, will you have a digital version

Thank you!

Rory can you plz do a video on getting over a narcissist ex girlfriend. It has been tough could really use your insight, I am a huge fan

Are you doing the live chat today?

Can an ex still come back after infatuation?

Perfect timing

STTNG fan here. First!

When does infatuation expire?

Would you say this is directly related to rebounds?

My ex has heard that I had an interview for a job in the town she moved to and apparently she isn't happy and is annoyed but the interview was for a job that is a step up in the chef world from what I was doing before the quality of food on the menu is better it's just now iam confused as to why she is being like that when she says she moved on from it all? And no iam not considering the job due to her in fact the job is in the opposite direction where she lives from the train station? Anyone care to weigh in with any insight?

Make a vid where you explain how you should act if you go on date with your ex

Never are they ever worth that … you only have to know how woman work briefly to know that’s no worth it at all

Yeet!

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