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17 Pieces of Texting Advice That Lead to Commitment 

Matthew Hussey
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When you’re texting with someone you like, do you struggle to know what to say next? Or maybe it feels like you’re in a texting rut, and keep having the same conversations . . .
Today’s video is a mini toolkit for these exact situations, with 17 high-value texting suggestions that restart attraction, lead to a date, or just bring you more emotional connection.
Use these practical messages to inspire better communication in any dating situation!
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▼ Chapters ▼
0:00 - 0:24 - Craving Conversation
0:24 - 1:00 - Adorably Demanding
1:00 - 2:09 - Playing Games About When to Text Back
2:09 - 3:40 - Only Sticking to Text Communication
3:40 - 4:19 - Being One-Note
4:19 - 5:21 - Talking About Everything Except Yourself
5:21 - 9:00 - Being Too Passive
9:00 - 11:48 - Case Study: Creating a Deeper Connection
11:48 - 12:26 - Add a Human Detail
12:26 - 13:19 - Shorten the Timeframe
13:19 - 13:54 - Create a Shared Reference
13:54 - 14:19 - Use a Pattern Break
14:19 - 15:18 - The Intrigue Compliment
15:18 - 16:35 - The Accelerator Text
16:35 - 20:15 - Case Study: Don’t Do All the Work
20:15 - 23:03 - Equal Investment
23:03 - 24:56 - Creating Momentum

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@WorldTraveler29
@WorldTraveler29 6 месяцев назад
Why do we need to play all these strategic games? Why can't we all just be transparent about our feelings & desires and just enjoy each other's company? Dating/relationships have become exhausting 😕
@abag55
@abag55 6 месяцев назад
bc men like games. they love sports and video games. play w them or be lonely :)
@Grindtesque
@Grindtesque 6 месяцев назад
@abag55 What?! No we don't! I thought women were the ones who liked these!
@katiakay
@katiakay 6 месяцев назад
And fake.
@Charlie1943.
@Charlie1943. 6 месяцев назад
Because guys are generally stupid and only understand game-playing.
@Ginger-wv6nr
@Ginger-wv6nr 6 месяцев назад
Dating is a way to improve ourselves.
@pix1chick
@pix1chick 6 месяцев назад
"Respond to your reality, not to his reasons." The best advice for those low-investment time-wasting guys. SO GOOD!!
@obtuseangler768
@obtuseangler768 5 месяцев назад
You don't need to be like that! I'm watching this not because I'm into texting or online dating, I'm here because I'm trying to decipher what a woman was thinking when she texted. Women don't like investing in men either. I take care of myself so I must be shallow and like to sleep with lots of bimbos right?😂
@zmcleod
@zmcleod 5 месяцев назад
And for low investment time wasting gals
@realitylime4896
@realitylime4896 2 месяца назад
There are nice guys, like me, who deal with interim the ladies too.
@ambertrufley6594
@ambertrufley6594 23 дня назад
Sick of these games. Dating in 2024 is awful.
@rhinoskin7550
@rhinoskin7550 12 дней назад
It's OK to stop playing, I think.. but may take a lot of understanding both sides and finding a person with similar values.
@cocohitchman3209
@cocohitchman3209 6 месяцев назад
Texting is generally where it fails even when the dates are going well😅. I’m starting to elevate to phone calls as it’s more intimate and vulnerable it’s better quality of communication. Texting ruins building a real connection
@LanaClarkLC
@LanaClarkLC 6 месяцев назад
Agreed. Texting is great to start a convo to a call.
@cocohitchman3209
@cocohitchman3209 6 месяцев назад
@@LanaClarkLC yes for these purposes
@hannahmason6742
@hannahmason6742 6 месяцев назад
Good point and glad it’s working out for you. I will bear it in mind and try and be brave in the future
@ShyXoxo1920
@ShyXoxo1920 6 месяцев назад
Exactly. You can’t build a real connection via text in my opinion. I can see using it some of the time but phone calls, voice clips and video chat should be used to bridge the gap in between in person dates.
@cocohitchman3209
@cocohitchman3209 6 месяцев назад
Calls or even video calls are definitely are better than texting but yes these are fillers and just check-in’s. You should be meeting up for dates/activities in public places not their home. Because the call/text becomes emotional less boring after a while if ur not spending time together . That’s a common failure in the connection not progressing.
@katherinegraham3803
@katherinegraham3803 6 месяцев назад
The conversation with the woman trying to set up a date and the guy replying days later with an old man emoji has lived rent free in my head for years.
@vipmonicake
@vipmonicake 6 месяцев назад
Years??
@katherinegraham3803
@katherinegraham3803 6 месяцев назад
@@vipmonicake I just checked, and that video originally came out six years ago. Okay, so saying it lives rent free in my head might be overkill, but I have definitely thought of it from time to time. She was so straightforward in her interest, I hope she found someone who was willing to act the same way towards her.
@cup_o_TMarie
@cup_o_TMarie 16 дней назад
Yes👏It made SUCH an impression on me that the gpa emoji always reminds me of that.
@lilyflower9218
@lilyflower9218 6 месяцев назад
If he is not genuine it won’t matter how good you are at texting or anything else
@esteban489
@esteban489 5 месяцев назад
Also valid for her
@danzilthard.7248
@danzilthard.7248 Месяц назад
@@esteban489 The difference though is that generally Men get punished for being genuine or showing vulnerability. Women don't and are in fact ENCOURAGED to become adept at such things.
@aphrospice
@aphrospice 21 день назад
@@danzilthard.7248 you are out of touch, men use that agasint women to get sex out of them
@grats1738
@grats1738 16 дней назад
​@@danzilthard.7248exactly!
@rhinoskin7550
@rhinoskin7550 12 дней назад
​​​​​@@danzilthard.7248Dan is correct. Trying to open up will undoubtedly lead to a woman leaving because now, he's unstable with his feelings.. Then, that happens over and over and over.. so instead of getting practice to become better, we are rejected. That's how I've been trained and I wanted to believe 2 people could help make life better for each other. I still want to believe it but the reality is currently saying otherwise. I will only be of value when I am healed, have enough emotional strength to internalize everything, and can provide financially. As a man, wanting to be kind, nice, helpful, compassionate, etc doesn't get a guy anywhere with men or women. Men have incentive to be jerks, it's fucked up. When a woman gets emotional or is struggling, 5 dudes wanna save her. A girl I was dating needed to move a travel trailer that was stuck in the mud. 3 other guys and I were there to help this woman who "doesn't need a man".. Who finally got her out? A man whom provided for his wife who had a jeep with a winch.. there are exceptions, no doubt but more often than not.. I'd pay to see 3-5 women rush in to help a guy out with something just to repair myself 😂
@tammy_99x93
@tammy_99x93 5 месяцев назад
The funniest thing about my situation is that when I started seeing the guy I am now seeing, he was actually the one that said I hate texting, it's so impersonal. Can we talk? And I was the one like ugh I hate talking on the phone. But now we talk on the phone constantly and I've grown to love talking to him instead of texting😂
@SS100.
@SS100. 6 месяцев назад
Single life is so peacefull. Never give up on freedom and being independent.❤
@olive_046
@olive_046 5 месяцев назад
I agree
@Omen465
@Omen465 4 месяца назад
Same, im not against a relationship but im also not looking for one and im not gonna play all these stupid games. Ive been alone my whole life im used to it
@LaraCameron05
@LaraCameron05 3 месяца назад
Aye! Aye!
@subtitledEN
@subtitledEN 3 месяца назад
Okay, but how do you get laid?
@TravelGalWithNoPlan-gm6ci
@TravelGalWithNoPlan-gm6ci 5 месяцев назад
I am ready to communicate authentically. I am ready to go all in. I am willing to risk getting my heart broken in order to feel that much love again.
@annstar2793
@annstar2793 6 месяцев назад
That’s a lot of work. Texting has messed up relationships. It was so much easier in 1998.
@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool
@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 6 месяцев назад
we have too many options now!
@cjsparkles1667
@cjsparkles1667 6 месяцев назад
AMEN!!!!!!!!!! I remember when people would just call and say hey let's hang out. then they'd just see you. damn cell phones have made things such a mess.
@user-rl1be2bf6r
@user-rl1be2bf6r 4 месяца назад
It was easy in 2013 and precovid
@chonkydoge1113
@chonkydoge1113 4 месяца назад
Meanwhile in 1998: Letters are messing dating.
@kissmegoodbyenow
@kissmegoodbyenow 2 месяца назад
E-mail and phone calls. Service members could still stay unnoticed via email and phone calls. Oh and today EVERYBODY is famous online, not for any talent, just for selfies. Crazy world we live in.
@Kaycee-mr5bb
@Kaycee-mr5bb 6 месяцев назад
Watch his/her pattern. Energy does not lie. Most importantly be content by yourself because the people that belongs in your life will stay.
@marks2997
@marks2997 25 дней назад
The last sentence is plain silly. If a woman puts up barriers, and makes it difficult for no reason, he will disappear whether he belongs in your life or not. Bad advice.
@brennam954
@brennam954 17 дней назад
@@marks2997 You misunderstood what she was saying.
@obg3260
@obg3260 6 месяцев назад
Thank you, I really needed this, I was stuck in a texting phase where it started to look like we were calculating who's turn is it to text back, truth is in the beginning I was playing hard to get, but when I started to open up he started to text like a granpa so It's getting boring and I gave him a lot of chances to ask me out (note i was the first one to ask him out), I sincerely am too old to play games, so i might as well move on to the next person!
@R.James.
@R.James. 6 месяцев назад
You act like you are a prize. Why this entitled mindset of 'giving a man chances'? Where does this stem from? How about stop acting so delusional and just ask someone out from the start if you are into him instead of 'waiting' for some nonsense reason you've been thought. You are not special.
@inneelvina6614
@inneelvina6614 6 месяцев назад
On the same boat
@bolt9110
@bolt9110 6 месяцев назад
what does texting like a grandpa mean?😂
@victorportable3892
@victorportable3892 3 месяца назад
U asked him out and he didn't say yes?
@LyonPercival
@LyonPercival 3 месяца назад
Lesson learned! Next time don't player hard to get. (Instead be mindful and observant of redflags as the defence, not being straight up confusing)
@paulroberts841
@paulroberts841 4 месяца назад
I like to let her talk about herself 70 - 80% of the time, and let her ask about me so she feels listened to. Which is an element that is generally missing from later stages of relationships. The one I recently started talking to has proper blown me away with how much she wants to know about me to the point where it's naturally almost 50-50.
@d4darwin458
@d4darwin458 6 месяцев назад
When the dating world needed him the most he appeared
@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool
@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 6 месяцев назад
😆❤
@selfless-esteem
@selfless-esteem Месяц назад
When the student is ready
@motherflipper4480
@motherflipper4480 6 месяцев назад
This is why Matthew is the best! His advice worked to ignite my floundering relationship. It's been 15 months and it has continued to get better, more meaningful as time passed. And, I had made some big mistakes that I needed to rectify. It's working out beautifully.
@-niemand-6848
@-niemand-6848 6 месяцев назад
I used to watch your videos from the comfort of no love interest, no texting or flirting going on. Currently I‘m dating someone and now this is so much more relevant but also kind of annoying because I‘m actually being confronted with everything that I‘m not doing yet or that I could improove😭very helpful thoo, glad I discovered you when I was like 16😂😂😂
@Mizzyvee
@Mizzyvee 5 месяцев назад
Yea I just started talking to someone like a actual respectable man & wow the dynamic of how he is , it’s so great I’m really enjoying my text , phone convos before bed haha I was in a toxic relationship so I feel I didn’t know this even existed 😅 a real man with morals and respect , he definitely is chasing n doesn’t care he is , he’s someone that goes for what he wants n he knows what he wants . It’s great
@KaliPuppies
@KaliPuppies 5 месяцев назад
Apply these tips when you’re interacting with friends and family first, so that it becomes YOUR way of communication. Then it will come natural to interact like that with a special one.
@ruchibaldia8056
@ruchibaldia8056 3 месяца назад
HEY MATTHEW!!! I have been following you since like 2012 somewhere, I never met a single man with the STANDARD U SET FOR ME!!!! I THINK I'M GONNA DIE ALONE LOL 🤣🤣🤣 honestly, I never stopped following u it gives me a single satisfaction that i am at least not in a abusive relationship and never settling low!!!!
@alikhalil2863
@alikhalil2863 6 месяцев назад
Gotta appreciate the creative part of this video. It’s very well done! Thank you a lot for all the effort, you’re amazing!❤
@Dimesamone94
@Dimesamone94 6 месяцев назад
Ommmgggg. I just applied one of his texting tips and it worked 🙃 Me and this guy’s conversation has been dry until now. 🙌🏾
@nexusobserve
@nexusobserve Месяц назад
i am so fed up with trying
@ozzydominguez3
@ozzydominguez3 6 месяцев назад
I honestly am so happy I found this channel. Just wish more women knew about it. This content is exactly what I want out of my partners but many people don’t know how to communicate properly. I even take some of this advice for my own sake. Thank you Matthew
@user-ur5fo9sf6k
@user-ur5fo9sf6k 4 месяца назад
You Matthew are a true blessing for the society. We need more people like you. So simple and natural, but effective and useful advices and tactics. Spreading positivity truly. Great 👍😊
@dawnhight1675
@dawnhight1675 6 месяцев назад
I've recently gotten back on a dating app, after a couple years off. This video came at the perfect time because sometimes I have no idea how to respond in a way that gets their attention. This is VERY helpful
@soukainajadid6757
@soukainajadid6757 6 месяцев назад
This sounds like so much when I don’t have any energy left for dating 🙂
@esteban489
@esteban489 5 месяцев назад
Then stop
@danielle4976
@danielle4976 6 месяцев назад
Matthew is literally a genius - I'm so glad I found this channel :)
@Jayl__
@Jayl__ Месяц назад
The editing is superb wow! You’ve really up your game these days. I’ve been married but somehow this got suggested to me. I have bought your previous program about texting. It works and it was more fun for myself too. When you’re taking texting lightly and allow yourself for honesty, flirting and being a bit more assertive, it get things going and you can filter the men to the most potential.
@Roroedits7016
@Roroedits7016 6 месяцев назад
Oki,I'm turning 22 this 19th of November..& I just confessed my feelings to my long term crush who got out of a very toxic relationship at the beginning of this year. Told him to take his time and not communicate with me until he has a decision about me in his mind. Also told him 'i know what you are capable of and you wont waste my time' After taking a few days, He reached me today. I hope this video will help me. I love all your videos.💚💚💚
@user-fv1ek9mg5q
@user-fv1ek9mg5q 6 месяцев назад
Omg I’m so happy for you dear , happy birthday in a advance 🤭🎉❤
@Roroedits7016
@Roroedits7016 6 месяцев назад
@@user-fv1ek9mg5q heyy thank you so much dear😊
@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool
@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 6 месяцев назад
good luck and happy early birthday! ❤
@Roroedits7016
@Roroedits7016 6 месяцев назад
@@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool thank you dear✨💚
@lesleymay6757
@lesleymay6757 28 дней назад
Well ---- what happened???
@jaymarx8927
@jaymarx8927 2 месяца назад
This is a good dating advice site at least 50% because Matthew is so adorable and on point that I forget about the guy I was texting ☺
@workinprogress3085
@workinprogress3085 6 месяцев назад
I tried the send a flirty voice message to mix up just sending text (in my sexy sultry voice 💅🏽) and it worked. He liked hearing me and replied back sooner and we've been both sending texts all day 😜🎉
@dishartbyanacani
@dishartbyanacani 6 месяцев назад
You can't build an entire relationship through texts, it's a bridge of communication/stay in touch with your love one and depending the type of situation texts work. Is important to identify if is long distance relationship or your traveling and can't see them, communication via texts is fine. In all situations real interest you make the time for it, including phone calls, videocalls or even see them in person. Also is very important to know the other person in how they communicate and express themselves.
@magnoliaflower3310
@magnoliaflower3310 3 месяца назад
Thank you so much. I really needed this a lot. I'm really into this guy who lives on the opposite side of the world. Texting is all we are doing.
@elainemorris8145
@elainemorris8145 6 месяцев назад
Brilliant advice, thankyou so much x
@ChocolatePheonix
@ChocolatePheonix Месяц назад
Love and appreciate your commitment to your content and videos, Matthew!
@zulynavarro7032
@zulynavarro7032 4 месяца назад
sadly I think I going to be single again after like a century. this is the best ,it brings you up to speed on now days dating. No dating for a while maybe never but I do enjoy watching your advise all the time thank you.
@KarmaCifer
@KarmaCifer Месяц назад
As a dominant woman that usually does the chasing, the advice on not compensating over the lack of interest and laziness of the other person is really good. It's incredible how the things switch when you start tuning into their same level of energy. Very useful to avoid man-childs and people looking for a mom instead of an equal partner.
@Steff579
@Steff579 6 месяцев назад
This was great!! Thank you so much!!
@mandyinseattle
@mandyinseattle 6 месяцев назад
So many good points, and these can be applied to any kind of relationship.
@adanaryjacques7776
@adanaryjacques7776 6 месяцев назад
I agree. In and out of text conversations 👌
@marlyberryo4441
@marlyberryo4441 5 месяцев назад
This is an amazing class, thank you teacher Matthew I learned a lot with you and this video!
@clairewolf6013
@clairewolf6013 6 месяцев назад
This video is a masterful combination of all of your fun longtime inside gags... We've got monkey and the lip synchronization. The Twilight phone... Love it!
@user-it8ie6st3b
@user-it8ie6st3b 6 месяцев назад
Hi Matthew, Thank you for sharing such valuable knowledge about texting. You are a truly great coach. Thank you for doing such a wonderful job to help women who need the help!
@tsuyu1181
@tsuyu1181 4 месяца назад
I love that I found this channel. ❤ Wish I found this earlier but what happened happened. 😊
@Arthur-Morgan42069
@Arthur-Morgan42069 25 дней назад
This is honestly super valuable for someone who doesn't know how to text
@meloniebotley1486
@meloniebotley1486 6 месяцев назад
This was informative and good.
@abantorprolaap
@abantorprolaap 6 месяцев назад
Please send him texts that go with your personality. He is dating you, not a dating coach.
@CW-fh2ql
@CW-fh2ql 2 месяца назад
I LOVE your humor!!!
@gabrielam3625
@gabrielam3625 6 месяцев назад
As always Matthew knows what’s up when it comes to texting.
@rosilanesnyder3986
@rosilanesnyder3986 6 месяцев назад
What an incredible content. Love it ! Thank you 👏 ❤
@gregvanpaassen
@gregvanpaassen Месяц назад
I'm glad you're here doing this, Matthew. I can avoid everybody who follows your advice.
@shay3223
@shay3223 6 месяцев назад
Hahaha absolutely loved the Twilight Phone segment. Had me cracking up throughout 😂
@mailaeagan9545
@mailaeagan9545 Месяц назад
I was talking to this guy on the dating sight for a couple of weeks. Today we finally met. But we didn’t really talked about ourselves instead all about his friend, his job etc. After he took me home and told me he’s gonna take me to a hockey games next time . and I got a message from him saying ,He enjoyed meeting with me. Lol
@CaspianHere
@CaspianHere 5 месяцев назад
I truly appreciate ur advice, thank you.
@marilynoverton8142
@marilynoverton8142 2 месяца назад
Great content! Thank you so much, Matthew!
@RivyO
@RivyO 6 месяцев назад
I had no idea how helpful this would be
@mirembeleahaisha
@mirembeleahaisha 6 месяцев назад
I have really enjoyed this. It's informative and educative
@marielehmann9299
@marielehmann9299 3 месяца назад
this is such a great video, so informative and helpful!
@chloe9714
@chloe9714 2 месяца назад
Amazing advice❤ thank you matt
@pimpumpame3864
@pimpumpame3864 6 месяцев назад
The Twilight Phone is such a classic now 😂
@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool
@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 6 месяцев назад
🤣
@denikkaray4699
@denikkaray4699 12 дней назад
Good tips thanks for sharing
@anna_tarapygina
@anna_tarapygina 3 месяца назад
granpa emoji suspense is my absolute fav !
@officiallyblahblah
@officiallyblahblah 5 месяцев назад
Really good advice and I’m happy to learn that it’s aligned with what I started doing when I got back into dating recently. Paying attention to the investment the other person is making and being ready to let go when it’s not working is such a power. And also gives us the time that we can spend on the ones where the investment is mutual😌
@heyitsjujuu
@heyitsjujuu 3 месяца назад
I definitely text a lot and we were texting for about 2 weeks and I sent him a text like finalize our date or we'll end up meeting in 02/2026. He picked me up and we had our first date together.
@finderskeepers4327
@finderskeepers4327 3 месяца назад
Good clip, one of your better clips lately
@jenp.6735
@jenp.6735 6 месяцев назад
Great tips. I hate the texting rut.
@Audrey-yu6fq
@Audrey-yu6fq 4 месяца назад
Amazing advice...you are the best
@MohammedIdrei
@MohammedIdrei 6 месяцев назад
haha i love your content man .. i really get information from you getting a quality life .. specially when it comes to social tools and messaging ..
@RedRoyce
@RedRoyce 5 месяцев назад
This was really good Mathew. I'm an older man and do text but have been out of the dating world for a few years now. Trying to fix me from a cheating wife before dating. Text is used as an ice breaker and a little teasing but your right it has to lead to a goal if you want it to. I'm an outgoing person and don't have trouble talking to women really but I am rusty on my game of funny banter and teasing with flirting. This gave me some ideas so thank!! I do best face to face but text is a good way to find out if she is even interested and if so I'm going for it even if it's just a coffee.
@Account-br9kc
@Account-br9kc 6 месяцев назад
I do many of these things naturally, I am just naturally interesting
@SharonKing-xo7mk
@SharonKing-xo7mk 6 месяцев назад
Thank you so much!
@LizaLavolta
@LizaLavolta 20 дней назад
If someone said im craving our conversation I would honestly feel like they pulled that out of a dating book or had AI write it. It doesnt sound like a human being talking..
@shaminahnamutamba2356
@shaminahnamutamba2356 6 месяцев назад
My best coach for the previous 7 years
@eloise-rw3sj
@eloise-rw3sj 2 месяца назад
Have you watched this guy and stayed single for 7 years?
@amampathak
@amampathak 2 месяца назад
dude this is gold content
@lucianodoriaphotography
@lucianodoriaphotography 13 дней назад
Love the message exchange at the end! So funny ;) thanks for sharing this!
@tamishamckenzie4590
@tamishamckenzie4590 Месяц назад
Great texting tips! Thank you!
@JesFos
@JesFos 6 месяцев назад
Crazy thing is i usually do text like this. Im very emotionally involved to show vulnerability, but my reason is to see if they are receptive. My trouble is, finding guys im interested in to be receptive. I delete more than anyone worth investing time in.
@vania698
@vania698 6 месяцев назад
Thank you very much!
@evolu5144
@evolu5144 Месяц назад
An ad for St. Jude's hospital came up with this video. It's the first time I see them mention HTRT. It's heart breaking to want to know how a child with that is doing yet needing to keep your distance from a family friend that no longer communicates with you. The father is the best friend of an ex who at times was abusive. A 12 year relationship that was never right, never whole. Now I'm repeating similar mistakes with a new 1 year relationship that feels even more empty, even though the first 3 months were on fire. Never felt more passionate, then after those 3 months it all came crashing down when I did. I fell at his place and slammed my head against the wall. (Fell when getting up, my leg was numb and gave out) He didn't react well (he thought I was in denial from a possible MS diagnosis) and never took me to the hospital. Yet I still stayed for a year after that. In every instance the night ends with him spooning his dog. Even the night I fell. It actually gets worse after that.
@m.g.4830
@m.g.4830 6 месяцев назад
This was such a funny and informative video to watch with the examples but also with Monkey and the Twilight Phone 😂😂
@Bettysuesue
@Bettysuesue 6 месяцев назад
This is really good!
@mpghealing4384
@mpghealing4384 Месяц назад
Great advice! ❤
@katsybo
@katsybo 4 месяца назад
This should be taught in middle school. Thank you!
@suzy8455
@suzy8455 6 месяцев назад
I love Monkey!!! He gives awesome advice!
@richblessed2195
@richblessed2195 6 месяцев назад
Very helpful thanx
@anna_tarapygina
@anna_tarapygina 3 месяца назад
revealing the story ppoint is great
@adongoemmaculate1669
@adongoemmaculate1669 2 месяца назад
Wow I enjoyed this
@isabella8208
@isabella8208 6 месяцев назад
I met a what I thought was a great guy on Tinder who was really into me. Like telling me he thinks about me all the time. Then I created a fake profile on Tinder and he starts talking to the fake profile. Why? Why did he pretend to be very into me (constant compliments, photos letting me know about his day, saying he is getting distracted thinking about me) then talk to other women and organise to meet up. Matthew, please make a video about this!!!!
@juliafisher5844
@juliafisher5844 6 месяцев назад
You don't know this bloke ... it's not against the law to be chatting to more than one person in fact its a great idea while you're getting to know people so you don't invest in someone you don't even know... why would you be testing someone you don't know ? Or even do know ?
@rosebud4525
@rosebud4525 6 месяцев назад
Keeping his options open or not ready to settle down.
@louisetaylor6952
@louisetaylor6952 6 месяцев назад
It's calling Trying to be a Player...
@vforsejrv7801
@vforsejrv7801 5 месяцев назад
Bad sign that you are doing a fake profile. That is a bad start. The first secret from him…or you will tell him that you are spying on him? He will run away…I would do the same.
@JENALYNE
@JENALYNE 4 месяца назад
Pretty helpful!!🎉
@kimmicake5570
@kimmicake5570 6 месяцев назад
HAHAHHA omg the scenes with the person shooting from the bush crack me up so bad 😂😂😂
@Mel-wq9wu
@Mel-wq9wu Месяц назад
Thank you for this jift
@lauriegenie
@lauriegenie 6 месяцев назад
So great, so great, thank you! :)
@axentelivia
@axentelivia 6 месяцев назад
just be yourself, think, feel and don’t depend on anyone.
@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool
@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 6 месяцев назад
great advice ❤
@unduesafe
@unduesafe 3 месяца назад
0:43 I love her aim
@vaultedeel
@vaultedeel 2 месяца назад
Really impressed with the nerf head shots and his lack of wincing lmaooo
@andreah.6432
@andreah.6432 6 месяцев назад
Why do I always fall for guys who are not responding to me Matthew? I'm in a same situation as you described - texting back and forth, not inviting me out, he knows I like him, he said he likes me, messages are fun but that's it. We are in our 40s!! I give him hints I'd like to have a man like him (in case he is shy) when he reveals something nice about his personality. But when I do it, he doesn't reply for week even tho I see him online.... I go on other dates too, don't wait for him but - how to date when around 40? It's sooo hard.
@nelecras9622
@nelecras9622 6 месяцев назад
So why aren't you straight forward confronting him, in a polite, respectful but curious way (cause ya Wanne know/NEED more clarity goddang!) With this situation that's been going on for some time, I guess 🙄 You know how I feel about you. I've literally said it even! I am interested in you in a romantic, serious way. Are you interested in me that way? Cause I need more clarity from you. And see what he responds 🤷 It's as simple as that, brave, beautiful, strong woman that you are, that should be no effort 😏😉 Don't stay afraid of the answer... To avoid discussing important issues with someone. It IS something that NEEDS to be done, otherwise it wouldn't bother you 😕... You deserve to know so ya can finally let go of that hovering fear that's always there! Keeping your mouth shut 😔 Even if your worst fear, rejection by him, comes true.... How unfortunately and disappointing it wil be ... You no longer live in fear! 🤗 Truth comes out, one way or another, sooner or later, Why prolonge your path of agony for peed sake?! Don't punish yourself that EXTRA , when you're already having it emotionally very hard... Stop te confusion And put an immediate hold 🛑 on letting your insecurity be fed, my love. ❤❤❤ You ARE brave You WILL get through this Emotions pass... 😇 Not one stays long and always. You are worth it! Remember that ❤
@cristobal.palmero4919
@cristobal.palmero4919 6 месяцев назад
How olds he?
@SalamSinjab
@SalamSinjab 6 месяцев назад
Thanks amazing
@honeyg2461
@honeyg2461 6 месяцев назад
Because Matthew gets it, I bet Audrey didn't have to do this much work.😩 A lot of these men simply don't. You as a woman will put all this work (and yes, this is WORK) into trying to concoct "excitement" with your text messages only for him to still ghost and move on to the next. Then, he returns 2 weeks to a month later asking, "how've you been?"... What a joke!🙄🙄
@Ryan66437
@Ryan66437 6 месяцев назад
Totally cracked me up dude 🤣, I'm that guy cooking the soup.
@Mariam-qu9hm
@Mariam-qu9hm 6 месяцев назад
Thanks for the video!❤❤ Though it's late lol
@503NastyNate
@503NastyNate 2 месяца назад
Imma need more if those texting play by play videos 😂😂
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