19. How to make your ex regret dumping you! 

Did no contact for 2 months... found someone better 😀...

I walk for hours and hours. Hired a personal trainer - a great one - and have hit the gym and nutrition like my life depended on it. I've lost 36 pounds in just under 7 weeks. Not messing around :)

My ex seems fine falling in love with a new girl. I blocked him on everything for my mental peace. This is going to be the year committing myself to all of my various goals. Your videos are so helpful!

Beautifully said. Ever since my break up.. I've been working on myself and focusing on what I want.. it feels good. All this time away has helped me to understand myself better.

Helpful? That’s an understatement. Thank you for being so straight to the point and being honest and realistic

Great advice I’m tired of caring and loving someone who clearly doesn’t care and I am working on me!

In the beginning I was a mess. It’s been 5 months. Your videos have helped and I have learned so much. I learned after the breakup that the guy I was with was a narcissist. No matter what you do won’t help this situation. I have totally new activities now that I never thought of taking up. I am going to watch this video and it’ll be my last video. I have completely healed and my soul tie with him was finally cut. I am thankful for everyone for giving me the knowledge I lacked. I see myself as a ALPHA FEMALE with feminine energy. I love myself and quite honestly. I got through with faith, praying to God. I love being single and celebrate, continuously working on myself.

Thanks for doing this and making us strong Rory. I would've been miserable without people like you, specially you and DG. ❤ I found my self-respect again. I can't forget 8 years worth of memories but I can now think about and work for a future without him if it comes to it. thank you ❤

This is the first video I have heard of yours. You gave good solid advice. I have subscribed and look forward to listening to more. Thank you!

I've been doing it for the last two months post break up. I'm slowly feeling much better and feeling my worth as a woman. Thank you for this advice. I'm the mountain! I have to remember those words 😊

This is the best advice I've ever heard, its a win win for yourself!

This is helpful to be strong on sleepless nights, thank you 💗

Watching all your videos and Craig Kenneth's videos is showing me that I literally have been doing everything wrong these past 3 months. 😩 I hope I can still redeem myself.

Thank you Rory and I feel tons better after listening to your advice and it is GOOD, SOLID advice!!

Of all the coaches I have watched.I like the way you give your advises to your audience.You are very straightforward and your voice is incredible .Am like meditating while listening with my eyes closed😊coz your video is worth listening,It's nice to listen to your powerful,convincing voice. Am on a no contact and I didnt even send a birthday greeting to my x.It was his bday yesterday.He said he is going to mail my stuff and still didn't receive it. Thank you Love chat and more videos!!

Thanks your videos are always real, effective and amazing. Keep it up ❤👌

Your words hit and made me think. He broke my heart. In 1986 and before Nov when I left got pushed out of his life. I live him and this is the worst I've ever been. He is in a thing with another and I moved away from area. It's been 4 months and the pain is relentless but after hearing you realized mistakes. Moving on with ur suggestions. Ty. Subscribed and 2 weeks ago NC. It hurts but not as much as daily betrayal. Ty again. Whatever the universe decrees at this point. Jacque w

I was with my ex for 3 years and we were due to get married this year and unfortunately things turned sour. Since the break I’ve made it my ultimate goal to focus on myself and my happiness. I’ve joined the gym and I’m learning salsa. I’m also looking to focus on my mental well being. Thank you for the video.

You sound like the Narrator for "The Sandlot". ⚾

Really great talk!

I look forward to your videos you’ve been such a breath of fresh air for me I’m going through hell but trying to be steady and logical bad habits are hard to break

Great video!!! Thank you 😊! I am at the point of " who cares?"

Im doing most of this..posting positive..making new friends..helping ppl..doing humanitarian work..look what he lost..💝💝🎈🎈😃😃

Wowwww...great messages thanks💕💖💕👑

Be the person you could not be when you were with your Ex... profound

He just "liked" one of my posts..not reaching out to him..its been almost 2 months of No Contact..

All great advice!! 💝💝🎈🎈🎈

Learning jujitsu is helping me get over my x I didnt think of her today at all

Most most most most important and bestest advice number 10 8:07

Im starting counselling..next..the gym!!

Great advice.

It’s almost 4 months of no contact but i still love him at the same 😞

still fresh from breakup - i spent my time listening to your video makes me feel better i am traveling right now i just cant stay at home makes me god damn crazy .. yes i am no contact right now

Great vid!

Another good vid. New sub ❤️

Im a fan!! I'm applying all.. Thank you

I had in the past a rebound relationship and I felt terrible when I break up with her not because I loved her but because I hurt her feelings just because I was stupid and didn't think about this girl's feelings... So after that I promise to myself never being on a rebound relationship.

Thank you!!!😍

Thank you so much sir I hope one day he will come back to me.

Could you make a ”success story” video?

Lol I definitely said merry Christmas to my ex. I was told it would be good

Im actually doing good 👍. I miss her a lot but I won't reach out until she does. It's weird because I want her to contact me to see that she still cares or something but It's about to be 3 months and if she tries to get back together today I will have to say no because I still want to improve myself. I'm like 2 weeks away from buying my first ever car, and getting my license, I'm also learning the piano 🎹 I'm getting decent at it😄 And of course I've been on the fit grind 💪. I feel like all of this is going to turn me into the man I always wanted to be. My breakup happened 1 week before quarantine so I just imagined if we would've stayed together i feel like our relationship could've ended bad. To anybody who's having a tough time try thinking about it like this "it may be a blessing in disguise".

Number 10 should be n 1. I liked

I like this

You gave me the answer I have been searching for and there are no videos on. 4:20 Deaths in the family. I let our 13 year anniversary pass a few days ago but am struggling on her fathers 8 year anniversary of his death. She knows that I am thinking of him and her and I don’t need to reach out. I can always make that clear at a later date if things turn around. Thank you for this video.

am glad I found ur video.. my problem is my ex and I attended the same high school and we in the same association where we support each other in terms of grief and joy. we wish each other on the page when its birthdays... how do I stay away..I have started the no contact period.. he seems to lead me on and off sometimes tho.

ThankU very much

So true 🔥🔥

For me is been 3 years my partner walk away from me after coming from Paris France for two weeks . One day he when to work and never came back . No closure at all and leaved all his belongings and never pick up and also block me from social media . Is been hard to let go .

Her divorce trial or final divorce hearing was today. I didn’t break no contact after she asked for space. 6 days of no contact. Working on myself. Me time.

Into NC 35 days. I got kayak, so i have tan, was fit and i even feel better now, and yes i started to work as a volunteer at the food bank. And i feel better even though i miss my e so much.. we were togehter almost 7 yrs.. and attraction failed.. in general relationship (ldr) was good, interestinf, fun ,even distance was not issue, but attraction failed and i was dumped 35 days ago.. took if seriously didnt beg, and immediatly started NC....lets see.. i just feel heart broken in general.. and i miss ex so much...

Been 3 months since the break up. 2 months since I pushed her away with everything you caution against doing. I've been hitting the gym, mountain biking on average 90 miles a month. I've journaled for 2 months straight. I'm currently getting my career in a better place. I started this journey by seeking out how to get her back, found myself instead. If she comes back (a big maybe) I may consider it, but I'm not focusing on that anymore, I've been falling in love with the process instead.

She is not my ex yet so I'm doing this right now :D

Happy New Year. I need your advice because for 3 weeks now. I have been apart with my girl friend. She has practically blocked me in all social media networks. I tried using another number and she end the call and block that too. I tried meeting her in person she was smiling like nothing was wrong and talk to me well. When I meet her in school she looks at me unconsciously and some accidental touch from her even when she ask me to stay far from her but still come close to me sometimes and still won't unblock or talk to me on the phone. Am so confused with her behaviour. Finally I send a friend to meet up and talk to her on my behalf but he came back saying she said she is not interested in me anymore. What does this mean and what can I do. I miss and love her so much and It was a new relationship of about 3 weeks before things went wrong?

Gold.

Please do a long distance break up and get back together one!

I think He left me because he was irritated and bored but he never gave a reason why he broke up With me...and he made me specifically clear that even if i die.. Don't ever come back.. is there any chance of getting him back?

Please make some topic about LDR relationship the advantage and disadvantage and how to handle and cope up woith LDR break ups. I’m in a 2yrs relationship with a guy from UK and still don’t know if we could meet in the future.

I’m in desperate need of some advice and acknowledgment

They say contact is everything but then say no contact?!?!?

Can you do a video on when it’s too late to do no contact I’ve been broken up with my ex for 3 months I just started no contact even though I feel it’s too late for the 3 months we communicated everyday she was hot and cold told me she loved me still but just can’t be with me the day I went into no contact I found out she’s seeing someone else and it hurts it’s probably too late for us to fix things so I’m more or less doing no contact to heal. I haven’t said anything to her about knowing I just ghosted and she hasn’t reached out it is what it is

what if there in a relationship now? can u do a video what to do if there dating again and moved on? or do one what if they take you for granted?

He reached out to me in a chatty email. So surreal. I told him all the awesome things happening in my life. Ha ha.

My ex wife knows exactly what she was doing or not doing. we use to joke about seperating and it end up happening. I am so done. I will always care for her but will never forgive.

What about crafting I really like crafting with pictures &

He misses me but doesn't want me or reach out to me😢😢 Plz help..its been almost 3months

I’m blocked from her phone, snap and Facebook. Does this apply to me? I’m getting to the point where I don’t care. But just curious.

My ex broke up with me at the time that my back went out on me. How can I focus on myself if I can't even leave the house due to injury

My ex 9s rebounding with a rebound. What should I do?

But I already did that man I jumped into a new relationship and btw she has a new person Am I screwed

Can you talk about when it’s too late to get your ex back. Or how to know when it to late? Please!

What instrument do you play? I am thinking to play my cello again :)

Been In full Nc For 2 weeks although it's really 28 days already. I did an NC recount for accommodating a message of the ex in terms of a song 😂 he's sent songs twice. I felt like I should have ignored it because he was just poking around if I'm still there. He's reached out thrice but I'm doing full NC to recover and just get past everything. If he says something significant then I'll say something back.

What is my ex live in a different country, and no FB, no insta, didn’t have any social media ... He will didn’t have any idea what is going on with me ..

Let him know. That u on the market and u going to found someone else. And that person is going to take his place. Here in the two months.

She still checks my instagram stories. What does this mean? and I don’t check hers is this a good strategy?

What if my ex wish me on my birthday or other holidays, shall I reply them back? Or ignore it?

can you do a video with how to be okay with your ex sleeping with other people?

I'm glad you said the bit about Birthdays and other social events as his Birthday is coming up soon. One question... Should I avoid going to the same areas that he goes to even if I'm there NOT because if him? 🍒

What if the dumper had good reasons.?

Guys, please help me. I just cannot understand my ex. We broke up 7 months so far….he is still friend on social media. I let him watched my story for 2 months after breaking up, and it annoyed me of checking if he watched my stories or not. And yes, he mostly watched it. He didnt post anything on social media since we broked up. Didnt message me either. I just dont know what is he thinking …. Thank you guys for helping

No contact from more than a year

With magnets or I mean my own magnets with pictures

Split 1mo the ago 20yr relationship, basically worked on myself since then lost over 2stone &a past course for new job overseas, we still communicate due to house &o my 2boys, when we meet other day about these things as she offered to meet up my mate said big boy pants nick 007 not 001 the old. Nick would talk on phone rather then meet up, she asked me about new job &a other things so I answered I also asked her how's she is but never come across as omg talk to me 😂, but we da have a laugh about things then we parted said goodbye to each other, so I will continue no contact, I must be honest I still have feelings for her but also these things iv done to move on have really worked & I'll continue to do so, when she was talking I did think blimey how am I going to work at also 300ft up so my mind is on other things 😂

A friend of mine who is also my ex friend (3 moths since the breakup and no contact) asked why my ex was so depressed and crying all the time and stuff like that and so on, she told her it's nothing and she's doing just fine, my friend insisted and asked her multiple times until she said that its something she doesn't want to talk about, and the conversation went like this. Suddenly she asked my friend about her boyfriend and then she said (what about mike?). My stupid friend said "mike who?" Because her brothers name is also mike. My ex retracted the message and said "nobody". What does it mean? And what should i do? Please help

I stopped using social media...is that good???

Does quarantine count as special days?

I feel like even though she’s with a rebound for 2 months, her friends don’t like me for the reason we broke up (argument) and they have met her rebound coworker. So all I can do is continue my social media presence and hope she eventually becalmed curious during NC

YOU are all kinds of awesome...just sayin

NEED AN HONEST OPINION HERE! PLEASE! Because I feel stupid now. A month ago my ex dumped me. I took it with dignity, said what I had and we parted. We didn't fight, cheat or anything .. but I'm the kind of person who would stay okay with that person. To be clear, I DON'T WANT HIM BACK, I'm just not used to losing someone completely when there's no reason. Another reason that I wanted to stay okay with him was because we met in military, I lived trough some one-in-a-lifetime moments with him and he was so special to me. As a person, not as a boyfriend only. During no contact I unfollowed and deleted him from instagram because it was hurting me seeing him and it was my way of getting over him. Yesterday I saw he took down all his likes on my photos so I texted him u.u I told him why I unfollowed and deleted him, that it was my way of coping with break up and that I didn't do that because I have anything against him (I didin't want him to think I did if out of revenge or anything). Also, I told him everything that hurt me during break up (I was already at the bad place, lost my job etc...) and I asked him if I did anything wrong to him or it's just that he usually stays in bad relationship with his ex gilrfriends. He, of course, ignored me. And that's why I feel stupid for even explaining myself. But I had to get that burden off of my chest and if I didn't send it I'd probably be like "Maybe I should've sent him" today... Did I just humiliated myself here? U_U

My ex like my photos while she with someone else aka rebound, but still watches my stories since the beginning of the breakup. Talked to me before she enter the rebound i never reached out. I was with her for 18 months. After 2 months she rebound and looks bad she gain weight and is unhappy. I prayed for her when she did me wrong.

Ok but if he blocked me on fb how will he know I am doing good? He won't see my posts 😔

TBH still don’t know what to do..my ex and me dated for 1 year and 4 months and then out of the blue he said he wanted to take a “break” to focus on himself..I said ok and then two days later I saw he unadded me on all social media..we were also long distance and idk what to do now

I was gonna get a Audi so she could drive it but then she dumped me Tuesday and Friday i was like fuck it so I got a srt jeep 😂 but what do you recommend she keeps looking at my Instagram stories and liking my pictures

What if he keeps texting me? It’s all statements about the day but reaches out daily so do I ignore him? Won’t that irritate him to ignore him

Did u get back with ur ex

Rory, what would you do if your ex called or texted to let you know her dog (that you were close to) or a loved one died? Would you offer to go over and comfort? Just talk on the phone to comfort them? Or would you just offer your brief condolences and end the conversation?

Topic with children

Wait what if I promised them I'd help find their dog and what if I just happen to find the dog?

He called me the day after his brother saw me and I had lost 35 pounds