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Well... if you're married, it's the hub of your wheel. If your primary relationships suck, your career, and definitely your children will be negatively impacted.
There was a great meme with four panels over a boy’s life. In each, the boy would call out to his dad but the dad would say, “not now, son”. In the final panel the father finally says, “hey, son”. The boy’s response, “Ruff!” (Dressed as a blue dog)
A few years ago I did a little experiment. I told 5 friends my bank card wasn’t working and I needed gas to get home. Not one person helped me. Not because they are completely hateful. The reason for them Not helping me is because none of them had 5 bucks to spare. Most didn’t have a car. 5 bucks. At that point I realized why my finances were in disarray. I hung out with people who didn’t have shit and didn’t care. I was the average of my 5 closest friends. I had to jettison them from my daily life. Amazingly, my financial situation improved.
@@bluezy1 I don’t see them very often anymore. Several have moved. I just worked a lot and drifted out of their lives. Without me needing them to help me obtain drugs, they served no real purpose.
What your espousing and teaching was given to me for free on childhood/teenage fishing trips. I was blessed with an old school WWII generation father. The content of your lecture was everyday typical conversation with dad on a daily basis. What is considered as toxic masculinity today was wisdom in my family life. I wish the best for all of you.
you're very lucky! i'm 28, and would be better off today if i had this advice at your age. here are some other tips that will make you effective as a man: 1. always honor your word 2. hold yourself accountable for what is in your control (take responsibilty for your actions, control your emotions, such as directing your aggression constructively, improve yourself daily (especially when it comes to building your financial acumen), etc.) 3. be honest with yourself; you have to know your fears and limitations to conquer them 4. life has its ups and downs, so take life as it comes 5. practice self-defense 6. present yourself properly (good manners, acceptable physical appearance, showing gratitude to people who are good to you by also being there for them, etc.) 7. learn how to communicate as effectively as you can 8. help others as much as you like, but don't be afraid to confront them if they try to take advantage of you, and don't overextend yourself. 9. be ambitious in your own way. move forward and improve yourself at a pace that is good for you, but never shy away from competition. men are built to compete! 10. love yourself!!! yes, you should try to be the best version of yourself, but don't compare yourself with others. this also includes enjoying when you do manly things (building something from scratch, fixing something, (___)ing a woman damn good, even something as boorish as belching louder than your friend or male relative, etc.)
Facts!!!!...people don’t understand the point of a personal library , my mother told me this , if you read one book a month, you learn 12 new things a year ...which is more knowledge attained than a full time student
Rich Cooper and Coach Greg Adams are two voices I desperately needed growing up. I’ve read both their books and had to learn the hard way with a lot of the things they discuss. The importance of their message cannot be stressed enough fellas!!! 🙌👏✊
Those of us who had hard core, blue pilled manginas as fathers had to learn the lessons about women the hard way! I was lucky and had two sisters! I thought to myself, "What idiot would want to tie himself to that!" And my sisters were beautiful back in their time!!!
My dad never told me any of this stuff because he himself never knew any of it. He was the ultimate beta. Had I known the red pill info 50 years ago it would have spared me incalculable suffering
"Poor planning on YOUR part doesn't constitute an emergency on MY PART. and also, Poor planning on MY part doesn't constitute an emergency on YOUR PART. Still, we can work together if it is possible."
I had this as a bumper sticker in my tech office 17 or 18 years ago and I know even back then, some folks saw that as offensive but I didn't care, because of the chaos in the other offices it had to be done
I never realized how much fatherless boys/young men miss out. Seems to be more and more vids on this subject matter. My dad was fricken awesome, I appreciate that more as life goes on. RIP.
This is why I care so much about redpill/mgtow/men's rights. As a young man who couldn't get this wisdom, and paid dearly for it. I would spare every boy that, and I'm 100% certain the world would be better for it.
I grew up without my father even sending a birthday card my entire childhood. I grew up with a single Mom who was affectionate but abused alcohol and drugs. I married a single mother and raised her 4 year old daughter. I had 14 misrable years of marriage but stayed to care for "our" daughter. I adopted her at 5. I took her skiing, camping, surfing, kayaking, to Girl Scouts, church, Father/Daughter dances, taught her to ride a bike, rollerblade, change a car tire, how to tie her shoes, cook, ju jitsu, hook up speakers, use tools, do math, U.S. History, Psychology, Philosophy, Theology and a thousand other things. She was loved and treated as my daughter. Once we got divorced after my ex cheated on me, the daughter I raised for 18 years never spoke to me again. I was not invited to her college grad (which I paid half)or her wedding. To this day I would help her if she called me because I love her as my daughter. But I do resent the way she has treated me. I wish I had known at 26 I was nothing more than a rental/bank/nanny. If I had a son I would tell him to NEVER marry a single mother starting out. No matter how well she treats you before you marry, you will NEVER be her first priorty. At least when you have kids together with someone their first priority will be your kids! To a single mother you will ALWAYS be expendable. If you are a single man with no kids, find a single woman. Not divorced, not a single mom, not a woman with kids that live with the father. You will end up regretting it.
@Ismael Barrera I do feel like a strong male role model is pretty crucial. Something will teach those lessons and if not a respectable wholesome source there will be issues...
Same here he was hard working as fuck and worked with his hands as a builder. He now owns 5million worth of assets. He gave me nothing but hard lessons from a man. I respect him a lot now and we get on great
My father was a Marine and believe me he had no problem telling me most of this stuff in which I thank him for today I am a strong physical and emotional man that I am today
I didn’t have my real dad, just step dad that didn’t help me much. Thanks to the internet and all the great men out there for sharing their Wisdom and Knowledge that made me the great young man I am today. 💯🔥
My dad taught me a new lesson today. Know who you’re dealing with. Meaning know who they are, how they work because they might take advantage of you and take your money or jip you on prices.
@@jorgefigueroa2231 my mother was the domineering type. She treated my father like shit. He stayed for his kids. Subsequently, I've always dated these types of women. I truly didn't know any better. I'm sure I'm not unique.
I agree, it's incredibly important. There's some tips and pointers in this post for those interested: Finding Your Life's Purpose - www.reddit.com/r/MindOverMatterScott/comments/a114mp/finding_your_lifes_purpose/
I'm 30 and I feel I don't excel at anything. Did so many things, nothing I loved that much that got so much into it that I became an expert in. But I'm determined to find my path. Thank you for your content and this talk.
Just do the work bro. You don't have to love it and chances are you will hate it but that's not important for now - get the cash being expert at something and then deiverisfy into something you want to do or just early retire at 45. Wanting to 'love' your work is from listening to women give you life advice.
Don't wait any longer and jump on it. I had my first expert level job at 30 - I am now 37, mortgage and debt free and the plan is to keep working the job (i don't enjoy but get paid very well doing) until 40 and semi retire and just play sport/train full time.
I'm almost 50 and never had children. Over the last 10 years I have been slowly compiling a list of things all young men need to know. This is pretty damn spectacular I must admit. You young guys are very fortunate to have this internet thingy at your command. It can be the difference between a lifetime of regret and one of splendor. We will all have our scars and bad times, that is actually a good thing and makes life worth living. But suffering is the one thing you must avoid.
I'm 50 and just watched this video and made me realise i just flushed 30yrs of life down the toilet, no internet back in our day, and men rarely spoke of these issues, i hope young men take this guy's excellent advice.
Number 2 is a great point. Typically "success" is not one big break, it's all the small choices you make every day. The choice to not eat that candy bar, the choice to work out instead of going drinking, the choice to save and invest rather than buy that boat, the choice to study and learn new skills rather than simply watching TV. Every day. Consistency.
I'm going to save and invest and still get that boat. I work out and still go out drinking with friends and women. I study and learn new skills and still watch (some) TV. Everything that is in this world that I like, I go get. I'm drinking the good champagne and flying in comfort. I go out with the hot chicks no fugly's. It's all out there for the taking. You must put yourself in the position to get it. Why live an austere life when we are only here once(as far as we know)....?
@@rubydooby1679 If you can do those things successfully, hats off to you. You are an eternal being, whether you believe it or not. Subject for another time. I wish you well in your pursuits.
Great talk Rich. I became a entrepreneur at age 50 (now 61) after 28 years of working in fortune 500 world. As you mentioned it is hard hard work for the first couple of years. Absolutely worth it fellas. Also you talked about TRT, I started my therapy 3 years ago. One of the best decisions I ever made. Older you gets younger you back. After years of laziness I got busy working out 5 to 6 days a week and looked forward to it. Lost 50 lbs and now my physique has changed for the better. Like you said Rich lift heavy shit put it down and do it over and over again you won't regret it fella's.
@@karencourt5684 sometimes even the people you hate most have that golden nugget you personally need to succeed , in this case maybe the dude just took the golden nuggets and successfully applied it, it worked for him
Never to late. Wife and I both spent 43 years at a Fortune 500 company and retired. We then started our own S Corp and doing very well as professional organizers and retail consultants...
Most of what he said can apply to the mental health community. I do not have a family of my own or a big job, and "Life kicked my ass" anyway. The self-care required to live and survive trauma and depression of any type is of heroic proportions.
Same, what he told is real but im against people that are normal, im very far behind, why should i be willing to do the hard work that people can do easilly, and not just give up?
If you truly think about it for a bit, that's very incorrect. We live in a world where people, no matter their circumstance, are always hating and being jealous of people on several different levels. One man's winner is another man's loser. It's all contextual. Billionaires are some of the most depressed people on the planet, because they can't feel true satisfaction, and their fear of loss is actually increasing. They think more stuff, money, attenttion, etc, will make them happy, but it doesn't. they are screwed mentally. The real challenge in life is not to conquer the world, but to conquer the desire to conquer the world.
I'm in my 40s now. Looking back I can't think of one woman I've ever been involved with who brought anything to my life worthwhile. They were all a massive drain of my time and energy. Not to mention a financial sink hole. All of them!
I’m so sad for you, that you didn’t meet the right people, I am so shocked to hear the red pilled men, it’s sounds like something is very wrong in the US. You should try another country
It seems to me the money issue is related to the English speaking countries. It's all money related, marriages kept together by money, not by the pleasure of being married. To be honoust I don't see this a lot in the Netherlands, ok, people get divorced, but they mostly live on walking distance from eachother so that the children can walk to the other parent. My father was a kind of super alpha, and that was not a very pleasant situation, causing my mom raising me to be careful, turning me in a sort of beta. My sister tells me I was an alpha male when young. So if you're an alpha man, do raise your children the way you think is right, and I see this happening at home. I get angry at my son's, my wife says: you shouldn't do that, just talk it over... Do not defend them, let them defend themselves! And it appears I was right. They listen. I'm with the same girl () for 35 years now, and I see things on the 'market' have changed. I hope my boys can differentiate between a woman like their mother - who has a higher education than me, works 48 hours a week, does >75% of the household and cooks every evening, spends almost no money, runs twice a week and hasn't gained any weight in all those years, doesn't complain if I'm lying under a car the whole weekend and knows a man's needs- and the trash walking around. And I, well I look like Richard now 61 years of age. That might help... I just cannot imagine women in general have become bad in 30 years.
@@matthewnelson325 Ive got over 2 decades of dating and relationships experience racked up. I've lived with 3 different birds (as in 3 serious relationships) - 2 of them LTRs and the other lasted 2 years. I've had an assortment of short term stuff including flings, being the bloke in affairs, and all the inbetweens. So I think I have a decent amount of experience of being involved with women. Here's what Ive learnt... They DONT ever love you and care for you quite like you think they do. They will and certainly do LIE! Repeatedly. Straight to your face. No hesitation. They do and will cheat on you. Repeatedly. Without remorse. And when discovered, theyll think of a reason why they did it which will involve either an ex or you being the cause. They will coerce you and manipulate you with regards to money. She will gladly spend your money and receive it from you, but will be reluctant to spend her money back in your direction. And should she meet abother man that is financially more succesful than you, she will jump ship. Every time. So there you are. Now you know.
Great men have the wisdom to help others overcome their limitations. Weak men are experts at pointing out the flaws in others while telling you how awesome they are.
I notice this too. The most judgemental are likely the most insecure. The least forgiving also seem to have more that needs forgiving. Also in my experience, the least trusting are more likely to be liars.
There were a lot of red flags that I noticed when I was engaged.i ignored them because I was really in love with her. After 5 years of us being together,I realized she was never going to stop cheating on me so I broke up with her.hard lesson learned,but I learned it really well.
I had a great father in different aspects. He taught me humility and how to treat other people. Unfortunately he wasn’t a driven man and didn’t teach me how to utilize life and most of the topics discussed here. My mom left him for another guy and that was a turning point. I am 23 and have already struggled/struggling with substance abuse and depression, I let a girl hurt me. Thank you for this man, I hope everyone takes a lesson from this.
The J media and their religion have convinced white men to be weak, and it’s why often our women don’t respect us. Your father’s “Judeo Christian morals” resulted in him being cheated on and left. This is a hard pill for me to swallow but it’s true
@@robertwasinger2286 ^^truth right there-- you can worship God or you can worship women, but only one will take you to the Promised Land... The latter will drag your ass through a nasty divorce...
1. I spent age 15 through 19 homeless. On the streets, eating food out of dumpsters, stealing food from grocery stores, homeless. 2. At age 20 I met a single mother - she was bipolar and had a personality disorder, two things I neither fully understood at the time, nor was remotely capable of dealing with. 3. Within months she was pregnant with my first son. 4. We were married 10 years and in that time she had 8 affairs. In that time I did not cheat on her 1 time. I stayed to be with my children. 5. We divorced in 2008 after the economic recession. 6. After the divorce things really went to shit. 7. I nearly lost both of my sons to drug use - due to her manipulation and bullshit. 8. I have lost everything. 9. I nearly parked a round into the brainpan. I stayed single for 10 years, and I've just started a new family, bought a new house. We're three years in, and I'm ready to park that round into the brainpan again.
While it's not what you expected out of life, the struggles we overcome give meaning to life. Nothing is bad or good until we see the absolute finish. Check out Man's search for meaning by Victor Frankel. Wishing you better days ahead
Have you seen a professional counselor or psychiatrist? One not from your church, or someone you met at the gym, find someone completely detached from your life and talk/see them often!
I think this is the only video that covers almost everything from all areas, you don't need another motivational/self improvement video. It covers physical, social, mental, financial.. enough to get you in the top x% of men. Now go and take action, apply what you've learned
There are plenty of ppl who had no dads and they managed. Depends on you how hard of a toll it took. But don't expect sympathy just because other people have or had what you didn't. The most difficult challanges in life builds a person, either up or down but that depends on you.
When I was 18 I was a high school drop out. My dad had a talk with me. He said I didn’t have to go to college He said I did have to be fair Work hard tell the truth have integrity Pay my taxes, admit when I was wrong Do my best, go to work everyday, be on time And u will have a good life. Now I’m 59 and have my house paid off No drugs no debt never been arrested Traveled the world. Love my job. Walk every day big savings in bank. Still can do 10 pull ups Still can ride my bicycle 100 miles.
@@patriciacole8773 I have a 31yr old daughter. We rode bikes across Italy and China together. Now I have a 1.5yr old granddaughter. I got to see her recently. I tried to pick up my little granddaughter and she said No no. LoL
I’m blue collar making 60k per year driving a dump truck hauling clay to a tile factory. It’s plenty of money for a 36-year-old who has everything paid off and has no intentions of marrying or having kids. I may not be putting a dent in the universe, but I’m certainly putting a dent in the earth! 😂
Men in general are better off not marrying women or settling down because woken complain all the time and usually never really appreciate what you do for them. I know I was married before she was miserable and using me to get a higher status.
@karen court how is he a bozo, when everything he's saying is right?! yeah, there might be a touch of misogyny there, but he's speaking facts. can you disprove anything he's saying?
I don't recall my dad telling me much but he always let me watch TV with him, and he had pretty good taste in comedy. I was exposed to Monty Python at a very early age. I still love watching TV with him to this very day. Plus he went to church EVERY Sunday. That's a good guiding light I think.
Idk man, T.V. is mainstream sheeple brainwashing...and most mainstream comedy encourages men to be beta slaves to the system. Glad to hear it didn't consume your life and discouraged you from taking on any heavy worrior projects to make the world a better place.
My dad did what he did no regrets he did some good job 👏🏿👏🏿...may he continue resting if there was anything he was supposed to do i believe God would have given more time here on earth.
That's a great perspective. We all, at some point, must take responsibility for our lives regardless of our upbringing. Most of our parents did the best they knew how at the time. Some are gone now so the ball is in our court. Play ball!😉
I started working in construction at 18 and it changed my life you get a real perspective of hard work and get a killer work out, you become way hungrier for the world and make friends with older guys who yeah some are dicks but some will teach you how to work in roofing or concrete and you’ll learn from their mistakes it’s the best choice I made I lacked so much in confidence but when you learn how to break things and build things you become confident your body changes doing asphalt at 95 degrees will teach you how to value a cup of water I’m 22 now and I’m going to EMS soon and I feel ready and confident with my self also part of the no dads club *had to edit this * When you pass by where you worked and built a side walk or a roof you get a silence sense of pride
I lost my dad at 14 so he didn’t get to tell me a whole lot. But I know I’ve made him and my mom proud. I work at a company he did most of his life, and I honestly feel like it was my true calling. I want to start my own company and make 6-7 figures before I’m 30. 23 now and I’m hungry.
Saved my mind after back to back breakups. I really do think all men should be aware of this. Question everything of course. I know the thing that helped me was learning about the Soulmate myth/Oneitis and making ourselves the mental point of origin.
I’m a mother of a 16 year old son who has told my son most of what you’ve said. But felt as though he wasn’t really paying attention to me. I’m surely going to show him this video. And hopefully he pays attention to EVERYTHING..!!!
I've gone private. Love it. Accept myself and who I am today. Staying positive and don't like arguments. What happens when I do engage in one. The other person will look stup if thats what they want. I do choose who depending how bad they are as a person. My rights and my wrongs I understood it very clearly. Really it's not about neither, it's about you making the right choice. Even when you right but you have to be the one thats wrong. If it brings peace yes do it. Being right all the time you will never find peace
The hard reality is that not everyone is destined for greatness and/or FU money. Not to say you shouldn't try of course. Once you've gotten shelter and food and clothing quality of life doesn't change much.
My dad died a week ago and watching you talk about this , is a good reminder of what some of the things that my dad taught me about life. Thanks Richard for helping men out there , be men again. Appreciate this wealth of wisdom. #MakeMenGreatAgain!
Basically, what I hear is avoid people with problems. Good luck with that. Sometimes it's you that has a problem. You can sit there and stew - or you can go ask someone. Don't waste their time and have 'potential' answers with you, and hopefully you can be guided in the right direction.
With point#1. I'm guilty of being of something who complains a lot. Sometimes you don't notice how often or bad it is until you notice people avoiding you for it. I used to not do it that much. Idk if its just the higher stress of the worlds craziness these days, but I find myself being more vocal lately. I used to just use the excuse that I'm am speaking about what I honestly feel vs keeping it to yourself all the time (Especially in politics). Its just ranting about world problems doesn't help anyone, especially if you have no control over it. Don't know why it took me this long to reflect on it, but I am glad I am doing it now. Helped me find out I wasn't mentally is a good spot. The real pain is the guilt that this drove friends/family farther away from me. Not 100% sure where to go from here, but I am so grateful someone finally had the guts to tell me to STFU. Hopes this helps someone in some shape/way/form. Really opened up on this one
"losers make excuses, winners make sacrifices. Don't make excuses for your friends because they don't need them. Don't make excuses for your enemies because they don't care."
"Never stop gaming your wife." is probably one of the best advices I ever got in my life. Same goes for women, "Never stop gaming your husband." We could even say more and extend this advice to life in general. "Never stop with self-improvement."
Thank you Richard. Your book and your videos are helping me through a breakup (which I initiated) of a 2 year LTR, if it wasn't for you I'd probably continue the misery with her. I read your whole book in one sitting a few days ago when I got home from work. Didn't even realize it was 4 in the morning by the time I was finished. Bless this man.
Already found all these out the hard way. wish i saw this video 15 years earlier but Thank God( alhamdoulillah ) im doing okay at the moment and growing. this now is time for me to raise my 1 years old son whos gonna be (God willingly).inshaAllah one of the most manliest man on the face of this planet.
I wish I knew this stuff earlier. My father passed on while i was really young and I didn't have men that deliberately poured into me this wisdom. I'm learning this 4 years into my marriage.
42 in June and wish I had been taught this priceless information when I was younger. My father has never been around me much in the past and no man I've ever had in my life has been a true father figure and taught me anything of true value, until I found Rich Cooper and all of his Red, Gold and platinum pill knowledge. Thank you Rich for being here brother. Just ordered your book 👍
Probably because she, herself, is the kind of woman who tries to get all of a man’s love and money...so she was speaking from experience and warning you.
Totally accurate - If they think they've squeezed everything out of you (love or money), they will think that's the peak of the "relationship" and see it as to move on. You want them to always think there's more layers to you - more to discover
@@johannwilder1437 The reverse is also possible, she may be a woman who doesn't want to drain a man of his time and resources but is aware that most women (especially young women) are this way to some extent. Thus she warns the son to beware of this behavior and never let himself get taken advantage of.
Totally agree with you. You want stuff, work for it. Build your strength, get rid of losers influence on your life. Set goals and work for it. Find Friends that support your intentions to grow.
Thank you Sir, When you stared talking about money it triggered to me, with the money I was left over from the divorce I can make more money with no one telling me not to spend money. you can wish me luck but i don't think i need it. Thanks again!
I had the same thought, but I don't think I would've listened to his advice back then. Seems like you have to go through some shit first before searching for a new way of thinking.
Also: "son, don't abandon your daughter if you don't want to create daddy issues..." Very important, the mother-son relationship and the father-daughter relationship. Other then that, great talk. Good and usefull advice:)
1. Don’t let people make their problems your problems 2. J.O.B Just over broke 3. Do not get into LTR’s with attention seeking women 4. There are no cheat codes to life’s challenges 5. Stop ignoring red flags 6. Avoid women with daddy issues 7. Pick up heavy shit and put it down 8. Optimize your endocrine system as you age 9. Never allow the state decide 10. Learn how to deal with rejection 11. You will always lose money chasing women but never lose women chasing excellence 12. Make F U money 13. Treat life like it’s the only one you got 14. Don’t LTR a single mom 15. Haters are confused admires 16. You have 100% responsibility and 0% authority as a man 17. The burden of performance is 100% on you 18. Stop giving fucks to things that aren’t fuck worthy 19. You’ve started as a winner
This is such an amazing eye opener!!! Definitely helps me to do some self reflection. I am very glad you guys are doing this for our guys in this world. Thank you!!! God Bless you and yours!!! Don't stop!!! Don't ever stop!!!
As a 21 y/o, this is some of the realest information ive ever heard. Makes me mad that i wasnt taught any of this when i was younger, everybody always giving shitty advice that never worked and led to nothing and frustration. Nobody ever teaches you how important your Manlihood is :/
Hey man we're learning now. I just turned 23 don't look back wishing you learned sooner look forward and be proactive to make sure you don't look back and think the same thing.
If you are in your twenties then you are still young lol your not technically old till you hit 40. There are older men just getting this information and after divorce and drama. 20 is a clean slate and you get to learn from older mens mistakes.
Young men, take this advice seriously, especially the advice about choosing a wife or you could end up in my position. Business owner, making well into 7 figures a year, and I'm completely trapped. She is very aware she has the full weight of the government behind her and I will be destroyed if I get a divorce, which I desperately need. It sucks, guys. I can't come to terms with giving half of my business that I worked so hard for to someone who was not only zero help throughout the process, but was a massive burden, always trying to bring me down and belittle my accomplishments. Do not marry a woman just because she's a 10 physically. It was a huge mistake. You'll get tired of fucking the same 10 everyday anyway.
He’s basics saying men should step up, become the leader of their own lives. It reminds me of Jordan Peterson... taking responsibility. It is all true. But this is how it should be, it is normal for men to be men, because they can be leaders, they are capable of taking control of their own lives... we used to know this. My question is , when did we lost this and how do we get it back? How do we teach our sons that working hard in their lives is a good thing... change the “victim” mentality? How do we teach our sons that working hard for themselves is exactly what they are supposed to do ..? There are lots of words coming to mind right now ... proud, strong, independent, confident.. yeah Wishing everybody all the best Thank you for this , we need it
Inca la noi in Romania e bine, din punctul asta de vedere. Dar devenim din ce in ce mai "vestici" la problemele astea sociale, si asta nu-i ok. Barbatii intr-adevar ar trebui sa fie barbati ✌🏼
@@AlexanderGeorge Adevărat ... trebuie sa vorbim și sa spunem toate astea. Ca societate, ca părinți, ca prieteni sau familie . Trebuie sa ne ținem de valorile noastre , dacă nu, mai târziu ., o sa regretam . O societate cu bărbați slabi ... nu e o idee buna Toate bune !! Sărbători fericite ... multa sănătate și sa auzim de bine .
Women wanted independence. They got it. It screwed the entire system. The dating market. The job market. The family. Churches. ALL screwed. Why? Started about 60 years ago.... also became exasperated by the internet and birth control
@@yme3267 “Independence “ ... it is a very hazy term ; what is that ? Is it being capable to live by yourself? Ok, we can do that , checked. Do we want to live by ourselves? No family.. no children? No husband? Then ok .. it’s all good But how do we get independent and in a relationship in the same time? There’s the trick. The idea would be, even if you are capable to be independent and not needing anybody to live your life (capable to be self sufficient) which was the idea to begin with; even then, to CHOOSE to get into a relationship with another human being, it is a choice we make . Then we need to respect, appreciate, help each other be what they’re supposed to be. It takes strength and generosity. Being a good human being takes strength, and we need to acknowledge that. We constantly learn , adapt, understand what it takes to fix the screwed up system. And then we need to be honest enough to start fixing it. It will take good people to speak up. With conviction and generosity. Both , conviction of what truth is , and generosity, giving “peace” between man and woman a chance. I think we can do it and we will. Question is when and with how much pain and suffering. I would think as little as possible, no sacrificed generations if we can , thank you very much. But ... we need to work together Good people Regardless of what we are , men or women We need to respect the truth and say it And I think we will All the best !!
A false equivalance that has arisen of late (perhaps it has always been) is that of leader and commander. A leader has a vision and forges their own path towards that vision, inspiring other to follow them along the way. A commander is obeyed by virtue of status e.g. you do what your boss tells you in work because that is what you are paid to do. You don't do what your boss tells you outside of work. This false equivalance has, in my opinion, degraded the notion of leadership in the comtempory context, mocking individual risk and enterprise. It places saftey in the herd above individual risk, and the status of command as superior to that of the leaders path as status in the herd is collective. ' How do we teach our sons that working hard for themselves is exactly what they are supposed to do ..? '. In my view, the repetition of Rich's line 'Women don't care about your struggles...'. A lot of a boy's/young man's mental energy is spent on women, and this line sets one free from this wasteful expenditure (as it has helped free me at 37 years old). Knowing that noone really cares is liberating, and in my opinion would help boys/young men forge their own paths, as if they know noone cares then they need not humble themselves to those that care not. And would help to free them from the idea that a commander is a leader.
Female here totally agree with the segments about women otherwise I wouldn't be offended, but hey truth hurts for a reason. That reason being maybe we could all learn a little something thru a different perspective. My dead beat dad left me when i was born just because i wasn't born a boy. Rejection now that's something i can totally relate to. Good advice. Theres some useful information here i can use to make my own .
Absolutely awsome. I am in my 50's and have lived my life in many of the ways that were mentioned and have passed them on to my son and when they get a little older, my three grandsons. I was able to retire by 48, own my own house and am self sufficient. The only things that weren't issues in my early years was social media, cellphones and selfies but that needs to be passed on especially to younger generations.
Very Respectfully With All Due Respect Good Gods Day, This is for those who are waiting for marriage or already married or in between marriages, or desires to teach their children what God says about marriage, While you are waiting, here is Scripture To Keep you on track, 1st Scripturally you both must be each other's first spouse ever, If you happen to be a 2nd, 3rd spouse Scripturally God does not even see the marriage because no divorced person is Scripturally they "CAN NOT" re-marry no one new, they Scripturally "MUST" go back to their very first spouse, Separation is "THE ONLY" authorized resolve that God The Heavenly Father Scripturally allows for marital problems that exist within a marriage that Scripturally consist of the marriage being the "VERY FIRST" marriage for both parties, Scripturally God "DOES NOT" authorize divorce "NOT AT ALL" but Sctipturally God The Heavenly Father Authorizes A separation "BUT!!!!" Scripturally the separation has to be for the purpose of "RECONCILLING THE MARRIAGE", while you both are seperated you both are Scripturally Commanded to be "WORKING ON RESOLVING YOUR MARITAL PROBLEMS TO THEN EVENTUALLY YOU BOTH COMING BACK TOGETHER, THE LORD KNOWS THAT SOME THINGS DO TAKE TIME BUT GOD COMMANDS RECONVILIATION OF THE MARRIAGE, BOTTOM-LINE!! May Gods Holy Scriptures In Gods Love Enlighten all, ●●●●●●●●●●●●● Since God Is The Authority* *Over All Scripturual Marriages* *Let's us see what The* *Authority God Himself says* *about Marriage* ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●● DIVORCE IS SCRIPTURALLY NEVER EVER APPROVED BY GOD, NEVER! ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●● *MATTHEW 5:31-32 NKJV* “Furthermore it has been said, ‘Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.’ But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery. *LUKE 16:18 NKJV* 18 “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery. ■■■■■■■■■■■■■■■ *1 CORINTHIANS 7:10-16 NKJV* 10 Now to the married I command, yet not I but the Lord: A wife is not to depart from her husband. 11 But even if she does depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband. And a husband is not to divorce his wife. 12 But to the rest I, not the Lord, say: If any brother has a wife who does not believe, and she is willing to live with him, let him not divorce her. 13 And a woman who has a husband who does not believe, if he is willing to live with her, let her not divorce him. 14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband; otherwise your children would be unclean, but now they are holy. 15 But if the unbeliever departs, let him depart; a brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases. But God has called us to peace. 16 For how do you know, O wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, O husband, whether you will save your wife? *1 CORINTHIANS 7:39 NKJV* 39 A wife is bound by law as long as her husband lives; but if her husband dies, she is at liberty to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord. *MALACHI **2:16** NKJV* 16 "For the Lord God of Israel says That He hates divorce, For it covers one's garment with violence," Says the Lord of hosts. "Therefore take heed to your spirit, That you do not deal treacherously. *MATTHEW 19:1-9 NKJV* Jesus' Teaching on Divorce 19 1 Now it came to pass, when Jesus had finished these sayings, that He departed from Galilee and came to the region of Judea beyond the Jordan. 2 And great multitudes followed Him, and He healed them there. 3 The Pharisees also came to Him, testing Him, and saying to Him, "Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for just any reason?" 4 And He answered and said to them, "Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning 'made them male and female,' 5 and said, 'For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh'? 6 So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate." 7 They said to Him, "Why then did Moses command to give a certificate of divorce, and to put her away?" 8 He said to them, "Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts, permitted you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so. 9 And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery." ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●● These Scriptures apply to 1. a male and female marriage only 2. those who are married to their very first spouse ☆Only a spouse that is deceased from the one living spouse is Scripturally allowed to remarry, no one else is allowed to be remarried according to Scripture ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●● God does not Scripturally authorize nor does God even acknowledge 2nd-second 3rd-third and 4th-fourth spouses V/R
I use to listen to Rich. Most of what he speaks is truth-ish but nothing amazing. Where he fails is speaking to men in a pretentious downturn. 9% of Americans earn 6 figures and he basically shames you as if you are failing as a man if you don't accomplish this. I've earned well above that but would never talk down to a man who doesn't. Many studies have shown that a single male that earns $70,000 isn't going to have a better quality of life earning more. His mindset on FU money is misplaced. I can see where it stems. He has the same personality. When you speak Rich your words should come from a place of reality that can be applied to the majority of men. Not just your lived reality. The one thing I find throughout his videos and mindset is applying to the angry, hurt, and jaded men. This will get views and subscribers but will not lead these men of all ages to a place of balance.
Truer words have never been spoke.... THIS, THIS is exactly what I was thinking when I watched this video. Thanks a ton for saying this, god bless you. And yes, you are 100% right, his anger towards women and his arrogance from making a lot of money is just too personal and not necessary for everyone.
@@HouseofGausss his last convention speech he had written "stretched out floppy vaginas". I have absolutely no respect for this man. What adult male talks this way and expects to be taken seriously. Hopefully these men he's fooled for the moment will find better.
@@HouseofGausss the other thing he spoke of was TRT testosterone replacement therapy. He was misleading again. This will not make you look fabulous and solve depression amd other issues unless it is a direct result of that. It definitely helps. But it's not a magic potion. You have to put in the work. It's not steroids. With steroids you can get results literally doing nothing. And the spray vs the pill. I take the injection and do it myself. Injections are the best. Side effects, increased blood pressure, sleep issues, high red blood cell count, bloating, etc... you have to be monitored and either donate blood or have it drawn from your doctor. He makes it sound like what I call unicorn theory. I really feel he likes the sound of his own voice regardless of the misinformation, lack of information, and toxic language.
It's all about "niche-ing." Any content creator worth his salt finds the demographic that's their background and they identify with and run with it. He was that angry, hurt, jaded guy. He says so. Maybe he still is, who knows. In the online world you can't be all things to all people, in this case, all men. There would be no way to differentiate yourself and it would be bland, very basic stuff. As a result, he would lose money, or at least not make as much. It's all about marketing. Yes, he sometimes comes across as smug, condescending, etc. However, he does add value with what he has said here, and God knows it's needed by thousands of men.
Most of what he says is good advice, especially for 2020. I would also add, have serious conversation when you’re dating. Saying “I want to be married soon” can mean 2-3 years for a male and 6 months for a female. There’s also a ton of “independent” women out here who believe they deserve the world and man with a big piece, 6 pack Abs, lots of money, a great job but has tons of time to hang home, has women lining up for him but only has eyes for here and come to the table offering 20lbs overweight, a work in progress, emotionally immature or independent, not making much money and surrounded by friends who tell them “they fees every better” when in all reality they’re 28-35, pass their prime and don’t seem to realize a man can have all that she offers plus 6 years younger and not having to feel the pressure of the women biological clock murking up The relationship I find these women are usually unfulfilled and the happy because everything they were told about not needing a man growing up isn’t true (having a family and a community gives you purpose in the world, (especially motherhood and fatherhood) it makes life bigger then yourself. Just sad when a women who is like 5 overall when you add in age and job and everything else thinks she’s deserves a 10 because they people around her keep saying it
Being married with children whilst having a full-time career, is one of the biggest challenges to a man in my opinion. Takes balls to raise a family and at the same time be successful in your endeavours.
@Blake R I have to add to it, that is why I probably don't listen that much to "motivational speakers" talking about being a man, when they have no children, or when they are not involved in raising their own children. Being a father is on a whole other level in my opinion.
@@didiash again, respect. The context for this was for men, which was why I was referring to fathers. But yes, women who do the same also need and deserve respect. In the modern West, good parents, are generally not given the respect they deserve. Well, in my view at least.
I've always felt I was smart about certain things but this guy has changed my outlook and motivation towards life I'm 45 I see where I've been blinded I'm very hard headed so this isn't a fake or plaid this guy is remarkable I just hope I've not wated to late....
As a woman who married a man who didn't take control of his life and still hasn't, I raised my children mostly on my own (their father was involved, no "crazy" stuff). and I agree with a lot of what is discussed here. It makes me a bit uncomfortable as a single mom to listen to some of these discussions but I do see the sense in it all. Men have been downtrodden too much and women literally get away with A LOT these days. I don't want this reality for my sons when it comes to relationships especially. I sent it to my son's and a couple of my male friends who struggle with this stuff. Thank you for the work you do and this video.
"You are THE prize [in a relationship]" - I think neither side should say this. Instead, each person should be A prize for the other, but THE prize is love & happiness.
Until you actually find that relationship you are really content with, no... but raegardless, women these days are looking out for themselves only, so no reason why you shouldn't.
